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Hary Paul Puente-Duany
1944-2017
In 1939, Hary's parents came from Cuba to the District of Columbia on a diplomatic visa. When his brother Rafael was 6 (1944), Hary was born at the Columbia Hospital for Women in D.C. In 1945, the family returned to Cuba. From elementary school through high school, Hary attended el Colegio de Belen, a Jesuit school in Havana. In his senior year, as the government was about to take over the school, he left the island and went to live with his aunt and uncle in Livingston, New Jersey. There he learned English and finished high school at Livingston High. He then completed three years at Newark College of Engineering while working as a photographer.
In 1965, Hary volunteered to serve in the US Army. As a Specialist Five, he spent three years in Vietnam where he earned the Bronze Star Medal. His parents arrived in the U.S. while he was serving in Vietnam.
In 1972, Hary moved to D.C. and while pursuing a degree at George Washington University, he began working at the U.S. Civil Service Commission (now Office of Personal Management). During the Nixon administration, he worked at the Cabinet Committee, moving on to the Department of Agriculture, the Health Resources Administration, the Veterans’ Administration, and finally to the Department of Labor Veterans’ Employment and Training Office (VETS). He retired in 2005 as Director of VETS Office of Information and Management.
In 1978, he married the woman he saw from across the room, Noelia. He was a devoted husband and father to his three children, Veronica, Hary, and Andres.
In his retirement, Hary continued to be the household chef, making daily runs to various grocery stores in the area looking for the best prices. When he was not cooking, he was on the computer staying informed about world news, national and local politics, nutrition, the latest gadgets, etc. He also volunteered at the Langley Park Spanish Catholic Center and the St. Camillus Church Food Program. Until recently, he was very actively involved with Posts 28 and 217 of the American Legion.
The one thing Hary enjoyed the most was preparing delicious meals for Noelia, Veronica and Josh and his three granddaughters, Hary Jr., Andres and Angie, and for our friends, many of whom have been part of our family for many years.
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Pat & John Young
May 26, 2017
Noelia,
We were so sad to learn of Hary's death from the SJB bulletin. We always enjoyed seeing you on your way into Mass. He was always such a happy person. Sending our love and prayers.
Pat and John Young
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Norma Rossi
May 23, 2017
My husband and I met Hary at Livingston High, which we all attended. We met again at the 50th reunion and became Facebook friends from our home in FL. Hary is a gentle man of faith who we enjoyed "talking to" frequently. We really appreciated his political knowledge, always spoken with intelligence and consideration for those who didn't agree. We agreed!! RIP Hary, you've accomplished God's will on earth; time to rest with the angels. In love and sympathy to Noelia and the family. Norma and Victor Rossi
May 23, 2017
I met Hary at the St. Camillus Church Food Pantry. He was such a selfless human being, serving not only those coming to the pantry but also a wonderful colleague to his fellow volunteers, always willing to sub for us when needed. It was an honor and a blessing having met him. May his spirit and example remain with his beautiful family
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