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Ian R. Tahtinen
1997 - 2020
Ian R. Tahtinen
1997 - 2020
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BORN
1997
DIED
2020
Ian Tahtinen Obituary
Ian started his life in Marquette, Michigan where we are originally from. We moved to Maryland when Ian was 6; just turning seven that fall. It was a tough transition, but we made it. We moved to the Waldorf area when Ian was entering 4th grade and have stayed in that area only having moved 3 times all within a mile radius. His most recent job of nearly two years at Burchmart gave him more confidence than all his years combined. Ian was a soft, gentle kind-hearted man; he was always told he had an old soul. I believe that's what made him special.
His life-long friends, Desmond McDowell, Stephen Lyonnais and Thomas Farmer have always been by his side. When with his friends, they would always just be at one another's house. Thankfully, Ian wasn't the type of son that gave any serious problems. Ian was our Angel on earth; taken to soon.
His favorite team was Green Bay Packers and he loved gaming and anime.
Ian leaves behind Cherie Banks (mother), Derrick Banks (step-father), brothers, Isaiah king and Ivan Somerville, Linda Tahtinen (grandmother), Michelle Sanford (aunt), Michael Sanford (uncle,) Michah Sanford (cousin,) Jim Tahtinen (uncle), Sandy Tahtinen (aunt), Tonya Washington (G-Ma) and Janice Goldring (Nana) and numerous cousins.
On Tuesday, January 12, 2021, a Memorial Service will be held from 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Briscoe-Tonic Funeral Home, 2294 Old Washington Rd., Waldorf, MD.
Because of COVID restrictions, the family requests signing the online obit below. Live streaming starts at 3:00 pm https://youtu.be/R26Ck5tum2g
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Debonette
December 26, 2024
Ian.... I came across your photo with Brianna at her baby shower not to long ago. I have to find it again. Love you and miss you . I can still see you sitting on the floor at our meeting lean over and let it happen. lol
Monique Robinson Poole
December 26, 2024
Still missing you. Grateful that I knew you well.
Debonette Wyatt
January 12, 2021
Ian
I miss you! This hurts but your an Angel I know . I know you can see us and your looking down on us! Take care of your mom , dad , brothers , grandma and auntie! So grateful for the time we spent!
Jen Dane
January 12, 2021
Rest with the angels sweet Ian You were loved and adored by so many people! You will forever be missed May your soul rest in eternal peace
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Patrice Mayo
January 12, 2021
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Jennifer Westman
January 12, 2021
Sending all of our love ❤
Roberta King
January 12, 2021
It was our pleasure to meet Ian a few summers ago on a family visit, he was such a funny, kind and totally memorable human being and we're heartbroken that our relationship won't be able to grow further. Our love goes out to Cherie, Derrick, Isaiah and Ivan as well as our other "yooper" family members. Rest in peace, dear one.
Dae'Trice Cole
January 12, 2021
Sending my Prayers And love Out to your Family During this time, Ian You were LOVED by all those who encountered you. Everytime i was around you all i did was laugh you were so Witty lol. It was always a good time when you were around and i want to say thank you for being the Best person you could be.. Please continue to protect your loved ones and watch over our Brother Tom
Ty'ron Cabbell
January 12, 2021
My condolences to Ian's family and friends. Ian was always a laid back kind hearted person . He cared for everyone no matter who you were . He was a gamer , he was a clown ( in a good sense ) in the sense that he liked to laugh and make others laugh as well , and most importantly he was always a friend . Ian may not have had the most friends but he never worried about that he always made the best of the friends he did have and the time he spent with them . He always looked out for his friends .
Leslie Barnes
January 11, 2021
Ian was like a son to me. He was family. His is a person that was fun to be around. He would call my son, Steven, to see if he could come over and then call me to see I could pick him up on my way home from work. I am going to miss those phone calls. I am gonna miss hearing him and Steven laughing in his room about whatever it was they were discussing. I am gonna miss his laugh. I am going to miss seeing him with Thimas and Desmond as well. The 4 of them we always together. Never getting in trouble just hanging out having "brother time". You could not help but smile when you saw him. There was a light about him. We often had conversations about what he wanted to with his life. His plans for the future. Ian was taken from us way to early. I know that he is going to be watching over all of us. He is a very loved young man. Momma Leslie lives and misses you. You will be thought of every single day.
Mamie Small
January 9, 2021
Ian, I light this candle for you today so that your spirit will continue to shine in the hearts of those that love you so dearly. You will never be forgotten and all the good times will remain with your family and friends forever. I know that God have already receive you with loving arms. R.I.P.
Monique Poole
January 9, 2021
The easiest thing to do is to write about Ian. The hardest thing I ever had to do is to accept Ian has left us, although his spirit very much remains. I met Ian as a Freshman at McDonough High School, co-teaching in one of his classes. The reserved and polite young man quickly formed a bond with me, and worked hard on each assignment. This was no easy thing since it was LSN and all kids for the most part found it boring and long. But Ian plowed through and we made it happen. Ian was very protective of me, as I recall the anniversary of my Mothers passing I will never forget him demanding that I sit with him at his desk to make sure I was "ok." Although I had other students, sitting alongside Ian was became a daily occurrence! He SAVED a seat everyday, which made the students declare that I "only liked Ian." Ian didn't back down, and always remarked to his peers that I was his favorite because he worked hard and listened. One thing I will I will never forget how considerate Ian was to both of his teachers in LSN class. What a beautiful, beautiful soul.
Ian you will never be forgotten, you made sure of that even with your short time with us. I promise to fight for justice and always stay near your Mom and siblings. I am sad to let you go, but I am honored to know you and grateful to God he allowed that time. Rest in the arms of our Lord. You will always be loved......
Mrs. Poole
January 8, 2021
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Antawona Travis
January 8, 2021
We gain an angel.. Our dear Ian Tahtinen.. Although None was ready to see you leave so soon.. We know that you are shining down on all of us.. You are missed and loved by many..
Tonya Washington (G-Ma)
January 7, 2021
Ian G-Ma going to miss our times when we all got together n celebrate a birthdays or holidays. I feel so honor to be your step grandmother bka G-Ma. Rest easy our angel n keep watching over your mom,brothers,grandma-Linda,step dad Derrick, auntie Michelle,uncle Jim,your 3 best friends, numerous cousins-friends n co-workers. Justice will be served R.I.P IAN
Michele Bettencourt
January 7, 2021
Ian was such a wonderful person! Never had anything but good to say about everyone he worked with and dealt with daily. He is missed tremendously. As the days and weeks pass, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. God bless you Ian and your family
Carol Pyle
January 4, 2021
My son was a co worker of Ian's. May God hold you close during this time.
Michelle Sanford
January 2, 2021
Ian was an amazing guy. He always had a natural smile on his face since the day he was born. Ian had a curious nature and a witty sense of humor. He brought so much joy and happiness to our family. Ian will be deeply missed. But, I will celebrate his life and I am so proud to be his auntie and friend. We love and miss you Ian ❤
Lashanda Ware
January 1, 2021
Rest in Heaven Ian. You are now an angel watching over us. You will be missed. Love you Shanda and Mrs. Watson
Linda-Grandma T
January 1, 2021
love you
Linda T
January 1, 2021
Ian was a loving and fun Grandson.He was always there for me. When ever I asked him to do something or called to talk to him he would always listen. He was a very caring and Beautiful person. He was my first Grandson. I enjoyed trying to spoil him. He always said Love you Grandma and I said Love you Ian. He is still around all of us Love Grandma Linda
Michelle Sanford
January 1, 2021
Love you Ian ❤
Michelle Sanford
January 1, 2021
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
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