James Winder Laird

James Winder Laird obituary, Fort Lauderdale, FL

James Winder Laird

James Laird Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Apr. 19 to Apr. 20, 2020.
James Winder Laird of Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, died April 3, 2020. He was 74.

Mr. Laird graduated from the University of Delaware and took a year at the Restaurant School in Philadelphia. He moved to West Chester, Pennsylvania, and put his coach-and-four on a scheduled run from West Chester to the Marshalton Inn. For some years he hosted coaching evenings, taking guests cross-country on his carriages and returning them for dinner to his own restaurant. He was a regular participant in the coaching classes at the Devon Horse Show and at other equine events and was a member of the Vicmead Coaching Club and one of its presidents.

In the 1980s he moved to Gloucester, Virginia, and began raising Hackney horses, an endangered breed. In order to increase their numbers and bloodlines, he imported old bloodlines from Argentina.

After he moved to Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, he continued his philanthropy, supporting local musical, theatrical, and social organizations. He also pursued his love of travel, a passion developed during his childhood. He was a memorable host, and his parties and holiday dinners brought joy to his family and friends.

He is predeceased by his parents, William Winder Laird and Winnifred Moreton Laird of Wilmington, Delaware, and siblings Mary Laird Silvia of Kennett Square, Pennsylvania, and George W. Laird of Wilmington, Delaware. He is survived by his three nieces, Margaret Lindale Laird, Alletta Laird Tate, and Irene Laird Jennings and their families; his sister's husband, Peter Alfred Silvia; and his brother's wife, Ann Laird Wick. Funeral arrangements are private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to SunServe, 2312 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, Florida, 33305 (https://www.sunserve.org/donate/).

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April 26, 2020

Rudy Davison posted to the memorial.

April 21, 2020

George Jr posted to the memorial.

April 21, 2020

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Rudy Davison

April 26, 2020

Jim and I were classmates at Fountain Valley School in Colorado Springs. I really got to know Jim when we were the only two students in a Russian History class. And we have been in touch ever since. I visited Jim in Delaware when he drove his coach and matched team of horses and served a cordon bleu dinner afterwards. Quite a feat. On another occasion, I took my sister to his home in Delaware so she could go fox hunting. She was used to thoroughbreds, so straddling a coaching horse was a unique experience. The last time I saw Jim was with my wife Andie when he visited us at our home in Durango, CO, He came to ride the Durango Silverton Narrow Gauge RR as part of a rail tour. We had a great visit. Usually, I'd get a Christmas card every year from Jim, but not in 2019. I guess he was not to it. I'll miss him. He was a good friend. Rudy & Andie Davison, Durango, Colorado

George Jr

April 21, 2020

On behalf of the Class of 1965 Fountain Valley School, Im passing on my condolence to his family and the good thoughts and memories of a kind and gentle man. All of us remember Jim with fondness. May he rest in heaven.

Bob School

April 21, 2020

I was a friend of Jims since our high school days at Millbrook. I visited him three times in the past year. I would appreciate it if one of his nieces would call me at 914-456-2827. Thank you.

Clayt Oshea

April 19, 2020

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You certainly knew how to put on a lavish holiday dinner party.

Bobby Oliver

April 19, 2020

Jim was my very first friend at Prime Timers. We both lived on the Peninsula and enjoying meeting up for dinner. May you rest in peace, Jim. My condolences to his friends and family.

JW/JKH

April 17, 2020

My deepest sympathy to the Laird Family for the loss of your loved one, James Winder, and pray God gives you comfort, peace and strength.

Frances (Fifi) Johnson

April 17, 2020

I love this picture of Jimmy. That smile is how I always saw him... Enjoying some gleeful moment. Love to all the family, Fifi

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