James Robert Paternoster

1928 - 2016

James Robert Paternoster obituary, 1928-2016, El Paso, TX

James Robert Paternoster

1928 - 2016

BORN

1928

DIED

2016

James Paternoster Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 5, 2016.
James R. (Pat) Paternoster, one of El Paso's finest softball hurlers, pitched his last inning on Dec. 3, 2016. He was 88.

Pat was the first El Pasoan to be named to a National Softball Congress World Tournament All-American team, in 1954. He was inducted into the El Paso Softball Hall of Fame in 1971. Joining the Rugel Motors team in 1948, he led it to City and Regional tournaments for three seasons. Pat pitched in seven World Tournaments with Rugel, Deal Motors, Bill Fields' Fabens Texaco, El Paso All-Stars and Kimmel-Mena Realtors. He played right field for Kimmel-Mena in his last NSC World Tournament and had eight hits in 16 times at bat for a .500 average. An injury in 1959 restricted him to other positions, but he played another 19 years as a significant hitter. His career total surpassed 1,200 strikeouts and 31 no-hit games.

Pat attended Texas Western College, played Miner basketball, and graduated in 1953 with a bachelor's degree in business administration. He also played for Sammy Klink's International Petroleum Oilers, the top independent hoops team in the region, and took on the Harlem Globetrotters.

Pat worked for Deal Motors, housed in the same Downtown building that 70 years later became El Paso's first children's museum founded by his daughter, Laurie, and son in law Michael. He later traded cars for real estate, using his distinctive baseball-themed signs as a licensed Realtor, working well into his 80s. He was a member of the American Legion, and served as Board of Directors of the Horizon Communities' Improvement Association.

Pat was born to Albert and Teresa Paternoster on May 20, 1928, in Kingsford, Michigan, where he and his brother were local athletic sensations in baseball and basketball. He attended the University of Michigan on a baseball scholarship, becoming an "ace screwball and knuckle ball wizard" for the Wolverines. He joined the U.S. Army in 1945, landing at Fort Bliss, where he served two years as a clerk typist because he typed faster than anyone else in his company. During his service, he played baseball, basketball and football, leading teams to several championships. Pat was discharged as a Sergeant in 1947, with World War II Victory and M-1 Rifle Sharpshooter medals. He was honored for his service this year by the Fort Bliss Sergeant Major's Academy.

Pat was predeceased by his granddaughter Haley Paternoster, his parents, and brother Tom. He is survived by wife Margie, sons James Jr. of El Paso and Steve (Jane Fertig), of Albuquerque, NM., and daughter Laurie (Michael Churchman) of El Paso. He was a proud grandpa to Megan Churchman Ed (Robert Ed) of Waco, TX, Justin Churchman of El Paso, Jackson and Jameson Paternoster and Rodrick Rubio of Albuquerque, NM, and Madison McCarty of Vancouver, Washington. He is survived also by sisters Lauretta Ann Christensen of Oak Park, Ill, and Mary Rose Lowman of Liberty, Mo., and dozens of nieces and nephews.

A celebration of life is planned for 10 a.m., Friday, Dec. 16, 2016, at St. Mark's United Methodist Church, 5005 Love Road El Paso, TX.79922 Burial follows at Fort Bliss National Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, please make memorial contributions to the James R. Paternoster, Sr. Basketball Athletic Scholarship Fund at UTEP. Make checks payable to UTEP and note the scholarship name. Mail to UTEP Office of Institutional Advancement, 500 W. University, Kelly Hall, 7th Floor, El Paso, 79968.

Blessed by good humor most of his life, Pat was known for his "Grandpa jokes." "Why did the bicycle lean against the wall?" he'd ask. "Because it was two-tired!" In recent years he told doctors that he and they were like a hat and tie – "You go on a-head and I'll just hang around." Pat also liked to have the last word. "Mexican chair!" he'd say. "Silla, Dad," we'd answer. So silla, Pops. Save us a chair.


Arrangements under the direction of Martin Funeral Home, El Paso, TX.

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March 10, 2018

Edward Mahoney posted to the memorial.

January 3, 2017

Sheila Slifka posted to the memorial.

December 17, 2016

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Edward Mahoney

March 10, 2018

I knew Jim from the early 1960's when I was an Army officer at Ft. Bliss. He was very nice and kind to me. Even though I was a 1st Lt at the time he always called me Colonel. It was kind of funny at the time. And someone would always buy me a beer or two. They had a lot of fun with my Boston accent.

In Sept. of 64, I was discharged and got on with my life back in Boston. Whenever I came back to El Paso I would always visit the PI where Jim was headquartered. . When he would see me he would yell out--The Colonel in in the house.

It was with great sadness that I read about his passing.

My condolences go out to his entire family

Sheila Slifka

January 3, 2017

To the Family of James Paternoster,

I am a friend of Lauretta Christensen. I teach second grade students in Cresco, IA. I wanted you to know that I plan to select books related to softball and place those books in my classroom library in James' memory.

My sympathy to all of you.

Sheila Slifka

Karen O'Leary

December 17, 2016

May Peace and comfort find you during this difficult time,
Keeping you all in our prayers,

Margaret Finley- Vasquez

December 15, 2016

Laurie may your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Mark Leibson

December 15, 2016

My condolences to Laurie and family over your loss. What a great life James experienced!
Love,
Mark Leibson

Henry Guereque

December 12, 2016

It was with great sadness when we learned that Pat had passed away. Robyn a I only met him twice. Once when he came to Australia with Margie in 2000. They thoroughly enjoyed themselves and especially loved the fresh seafood. We met him again in 2006 when Robyn and I went to see them in El Paso in 2006. They made sure that we got to see Juarez, UTEP and beautiful Ruidoso. It was Robyn's first trip overseas and she really enjoyed it. During one of our conversations he expressed his deep appreciation for his family and friends. He said he loved them, the Dallas Cowboys, UTEP and my sister Margie. Good Man. Rest in Peace Amigo.

Charlie Crocker

December 12, 2016

Deepest sympathy for your loss.

Susan Bullard

December 11, 2016

May you rest in peace and I know that you will still be there for your loved ones. Prayers for your family and friends. You led an amazing life and am sure that you were so proud of your children and grandchildren.

Rick and Trish Hone

December 11, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow. Death is hard on the ones left behind , but the wonderful memories hopefully will fill your hearts with joy and happiness knowing he is at peace. Sounds like he hit a home run in life and now is playing on Gods team , May he rest in peace and watch over all his loved ones

KELLEY

December 11, 2016

MAY THE THOUGHT OF KNOWING THAT FRIENDS AND FAMILY SHARE IN YOUR GRIEF BE OF COMFORT TO YOUR FAMILY.PLEASE READ PROV 17:17

Kenny Cohea

December 11, 2016

Laurie and Jimmy,
Your father lived a remarkable life and I know you will miss him.
I believe he will watch over all of you and yours.
Rest in Peace Pat!
A job well done on this earth, you left love and great people to carry on! God Bless!

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