Jeffrey Paul Herrin

Jeffrey Paul Herrin obituary, Rocky Mount, NC

Jeffrey Paul Herrin

Jeffrey Herrin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 7 to Mar. 8, 2019.
Jeffrey Paul Herrin

ROCKY MOUNT - Jeffrey Paul Herrin, 60, passed away March 4, 2019, at his home, surrounded by his loving family. After Jeff defeated cancer many years ago, the illness returned last year and took Jeff way too soon.

Jeff was born March 13, 1958, in Albemarle, N.C., the oldest of three boys. After brief moves to New York and Durham, the Herrin family settled in High Point, where Jeff's parents, John and Alice, still live today. In addition to his parents, Jeff is survived by his wife, the love of his life, Susan Perdue Herrin, of Rocky Mount; children, Jake Herrin, of Rocky Mount, and Lindsay Herrin, of Cleveland; brothers and sister-in-law, Eric and Diane Herrin, of High Point, and Greg Herrin, of Charlotte; nieces and nephews, Mark, Kelli, Kimi, Lauren and Brooke; and host of beloved friends and family.

Jeff Herrin was the editor at the Rocky Mount Telegram for 25 years before retiring last year to spend more time with his family. He started his newspaper career in the late 1970s as a sports stringer at the High Point Enterprise, while attending Appalachian State in Boone, N.C.

That's where he met Susan - at a bar called the Library Club. They were walking toward each in the crowded bar, when fate stepped in and caused Jeff to accidentally knock Susan to the ground. Without thinking of the consequences, he helped her up and asked her to dance. By the third dance, Jeff was smitten. "I've never met a girl who can talk trash as well as a guy," Jeff blurted out. That's how it started. After five years of dating and 36 years of marriage, Jeff still was smitten by his Susie to the end.

After two years in Boone, Jeff transferred to the University of South Carolina, where he earned his journalism degree. He started full time at the High Point Enterprise after graduation, starting as a beat reporter and moving up to the editor's post. He spent nearly a decade there, starting his family, before leaving for the managing editor's position at the Opelika Auburn News in Opelika, Ala. In his first year there, the paper won 17 press association awards. Two years later, in 1993, Jeff packed up the Herrins and moved to Rocky Mount, where he spent the next 25 years molding young reporters and copy editors into award-winning journalists.

Jeff was best known in the public at the Telegram for his columns. Focusing on relatable issues, Jeff pieced together stories in which his passion on the subject was apparent to all who read it. Whether it was about his mother-in-law's devotion to her mother or Susan's battle with breast cancer, Jeff's columns resonated with the readers in the Twin Counties.

Jeff was loving, fair, generous and intelligent. He had a good heart, and he left his mark on so many people he met - particularly former employees who still talk about how Jeff took a chance on a rookie reporter looking for their first journalism job. But it was his love of music for which he is remembered by many people. Music was Jeff's life. He used it to express many of his feelings. He used the lyrics of his favorite musician, Bruce Springsteen, to first tell Susie how he felt about her. Too shy to say it himself, he played "Thunder Road" for her, telling her that the song said things that he couldn't.

"And I know you're lonely for words that I ain't spoken. But tonight, we'll be free, all the promises' will be broken."

Jeff passed down his love for music not only to his children, but many young reporters he mentored over his career. And he turned his passion for music into a way of meeting new people through an online music community. Sharing their passion for all music, Jeff participated in a Saturday Night Listening party in which people across the country gathered via text or online to share their passion for music. The group met over the years at various sites, including Cleveland and Asheville.

That's when Jeff was most happy, making memories with his family and friends. He made sure that the people in his life knew how important they were - not just to him, but important in general.

A Celebration of Jeff's Life will be held on Saturday, March 9, 2019 at 2:00 PM in the Chapel of Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services with Chaplain Mike Crenshaw officiating. Visitation with the family will follow the service in the Atrium of Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home until 4:00 PM.

The Herrin family would like to thank Donisa Smith with Kindred at Heart home health and Kim O'Neal and Jackie Howell with Hospice of Rocky Mount for making his final days comfortable and meaningful.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Go Fund Me Account re Jeff Herrin https://www.gofundme.com/a-beautiful-river-in-the-valley-ahead.

Arrangements entrusted to Wheeler & Woodlief Funeral Home & Cremation Services, 1130 N. Winstead Avenue, Rocky Mount, NC 27804. You may share memories and condolences with the family by visiting www.wheelerwoodlief.com.

As published in the Rocky Mount Telegram

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March 9, 2019

Dave Roe posted to the memorial.

March 8, 2019

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March 7, 2019

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Dave Roe

March 9, 2019

I know that I drove Jeff a little crazy when we worked together at the RMT. He was fair and a professional in every way. Left this earth way too early. My best to the family.

J.D. Hayworth

March 8, 2019

Jeff:
You loved music, so I hope you'll forgive this paraphrase of some Joni Mitchell lyrics: "Don't it always seem to go/That you don't know who you've got/Till He's gone?
Your friend and mine, John Railey, wrote a touching tribute in your memory on Facebook, and the news of your passing "gobsmacked" me right between the eyes.
Undoubtedly we encountered each other at sporting events when we were both covering those contests for our respective media employers, but my lasting memories of you come from our initial meeting at Northwood Elementary when you moved to High Point from Durham, and our greatest "joint endeavor," laboring together on the offensive line for HP Central.
My recollection is that you were the type of guy who typified High School Football: a hard worker who didn't complain, and who competed as much for the sense of mastering a challenge as for "the thrill of victory." You indeed mastered that challenge, starting at center during our successful senior season.
Life's subsequent seasons brought only brief "snapshots," filed away in the scrapbook of our minds. The most notable of those in our "collegiate/career years" was meeting the Love of Your Life, to whom I attached the nickname of "Superdoo."
Susan Perdue Herrin, Jeff literally "knocked you off your feet" when you two met...and that was a better play for you both than any of his exploits on the prep gridiron!! To you, Jake, Lindsay, and the entire family, my family sends heartfelt condolences.
Time and distance affect us in this realm, but Jeff, you've gone to a place where time and distance no longer exist...and to conclude, let me alter some additional lyrics from the aforementioned Ms. Mitchell: "Paradise ain't paved/ It isn't a Parking Lot/ It's the place where you are/ And for now, we miss you...lots."

Andrew Palka

March 7, 2019

The only regret that I have ever had about meeting and becoming friends with Jeff was that he did not live three houses away. Our friendship was based on our mutual love of music and was mostly courtesy of the Internet. But that did not make it any less of a rewarding friendship. I will miss him always and my thoughts and prayers are with Susie and his other family members at this very difficult time. God bless you all.

Scott & Shelley Foley

March 7, 2019

I wish we had more time, Jeff. You were always lighting the way ahead, with your brilliant lifeforce. Thanks for always building me up and your words of advice.

Love you buddy, see you again.

Kemp Philips

March 7, 2019

Over the years I spoke to Jeff often and indeed, his passing is a great loss to all of us and we all will miss him.

Adam Holt

March 6, 2019

The world is filled with many wonders under the passing sun. And sometimes something comes along, and you know it's for sure the only one. The Mona Lisa, the David, the Sistine Chapel, Jesus, Mary, and Joe....

And when they built you, brother, they broke the mold.

Mark & Linda Kisciras

March 5, 2019

Never had the chance to meet Jeff, but just knowing you through our music forum you were a good friend - generous and with a great sense of humor. Godspeed, Jeff, as you head for that land of hope and dreams. Prayers and condolences to his family.

Jeff & Julie Cusick

March 5, 2019

You were a great friend and s great guy, Jeff. We will miss you very much. Many condolences to the family.

Todd & Lisa Tanner

March 5, 2019

We are going to miss you Jeff. You were the best friend anyone could hope for. We love you.

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