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Michael Moore
May 25, 2014
Brenda, and the rest of the Paulk family- I am sadden to hear of Joel's passing. Joel and I have too many memories together and I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Patty Elsner
May 8, 2014
To Brenda, Alisa and Glenn, My heart goes out to all of you. Brenda, your children have been in my heart and family since Glenn was three. I am praying for all of you.
Gary Baker
May 3, 2014
This note goes to Joey, as I am certain that we will all meet again.
My earliest memories of you and Jon date back to the 60's at Black Jr. High. Through mutual friends we all became friends together and we had a common thread...our Dads were both Houston Cops! We had a different upbring than anyone else as you know. We had plenty of great times over all of our school years. You raised an admirable family and that is something to be proud of in this world. My best memory of you was when you came to visit me 15 years ago after I had cancer removed. I will never forget that, it meant a lot to me. My last memory of you was at this years '73 reuion golf tournament. I had not seen you for many years, but it was like we hadn't missed a "lick". You treat people as if there was no lost time. So, till we meet again and pick up where we left off, God Bless You, Joel,. Keep 'em laughing till I get there.
Paula Floyd Lawson
May 2, 2014
Brenda, I'm so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Dajah Williams
May 2, 2014
I wish and pray the Paulk family lots straight and support!! I'm sorry for your loss... And ours as well. He was loved & and such a great man!!! We should all celebrate the time that we had with him and know that he is safe.
May 1, 2014
Our prayers to the Paulk family during this difficult time. Gods blessings to all of you. The Pfeffer Family, Richmond , Tx.
Steve Rundell
May 1, 2014
Joel played accompaniment on his 12string guitar for my daughter Lauren and I as we sang the "old rugged cross "at a church service several years ago. His playing made that song sound so sweet . I wish I could hear it just once more.
John Ferguson
May 1, 2014
My Condolences and God Bless you and your family.
Toby Martin
May 1, 2014
Our prayers go out for Gods blessings and comfort upon the Paulks and Hensley's. So many great memories that I have of Joel.The "grilled cheeses","The Boat"(his Pontiac Bonneville),the first time I heard him play "Classical Gas"...Great times...God Bless You Joey, My Friend
From Toby/Sandra and our children
James and Lily Register
April 30, 2014
Our condolences and may God bless you and your family in this difficult time.
Nancy Lawshae
April 30, 2014
Sweet blessings to Brenda and the family. While we all know Joel is happily with Jesus, our hearts ache and miss him. Brenda, may you and the family experience the closeness of Christ as scripture says He is ever near the broken hearted. Love to you all.
Collin Cox
April 30, 2014
Joel was man of conviction and leadership. He was strong in his beliefs and dedicated to his responsibilities. He was officially our "Team Lead" here at Shell, but we all called him nicknames like "Trainer", "Boss Man", and my personal favorite "Chieeeeeeeef", which we all used to yell across the lab. We miss you already, Chief. I feel blessed to have known you.
Mischael Webster
April 29, 2014
Brenda, please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. Please know you and your family are in my prayers.
Corinne Pieper
April 29, 2014
Brenda and family,
My heart hurts for you! May God give you peace that Surpasses all understanding! Love, The Pieper's Dale, Corinne, Ashlyn and Lacey
Jeanette Adleman
April 29, 2014
I just heard about Joel's passing from Barbara. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Please let me know if there's anything I can do for you all.
Hefty
April 29, 2014
Ditto to everything Michael said. Where Joel Man? How I'll miss the happy feeling every time I saw you and the countless funny things we shared. Great memories all.
JFT
April 29, 2014
Brenda, the Hensley and Paulk families, our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. We know that your faith will carry you through. Jim and Anne Farrell Conroe, Texas.
Todd Baker
April 29, 2014
Let us praise this gentleman, as Joel was a hard working and just plain down to earth guy as it gets! I worked next to Joel everyday, and he will be truely missed by our Shell family! God Bless him and all the wonderful family, yall are in our prayers and Thanks for sharing him with us, great guy! God Bless this man of God...
Annie Koopmann
April 29, 2014
Praying for all of you during this time of sorrow. God's blessings to all of you.
Judy Larkin
April 29, 2014
Brenda & family / Jon & family,
May you find comfort in the knowledge that one more Star shines a little brighter, that the Angels songs are a little sweeter, and may you find Peace when the hand of your loved one was embraced by the warmth of God's. I remember the good times we had in our younger years attending VBS and Luther League with Joel at Advent Lutheran. He was an amazing guy! Loved by ALL.
I am praying for comfort and peace for all of you during this difficult time. Lean on God for he will be your anchor in the days ahead. Blessings and Love.
Stephen Miranda
April 29, 2014
Certain people leave a big impact on your life without even meaning to. I wouldn't be the person I am today without the four years I spent playing the piano under Joel Paulk's wing. Some of my fondest memories have been on that St. Stephen's altar playing with Joey, and celebrating the songs that we nailed head on……and laughing about the ones that clearly needed a bit more practice. Even though I was 14 years old when I joined the group and green as could be in the way of public performance, Joel made me feel significant and needed, all the while teaching me how to be a better musician and, through his actions and the example he set, a better man. I am blessed to have had him as a mentor and a friend, and I will most certainly miss him. Rest in peace Joel. My prayers go out to the Paulk/Hensley family. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to ask. God bless.
April 29, 2014
Brenda, Jon & family - The Bruhn family & April Elsenbrook were so sorry to hear of this tremendous loss. Joel (Joey) has been a part of our family for most of our lives, and a part of April's for the past few years as (Joel Man). His loving heart, friendship, his gift to make everyone laugh, smile and feel special will live on forever. May God give the family and friends comfort and strength during this time of need.
Debbie & April Elsenbrook and the entire Bruhn Family.
Brenda Richardson
April 29, 2014
Brenda and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Clarence "Bubba" Champ
April 29, 2014
Joey was a good man and a good friend throughout the years. My prayers are with his family during this time. He will be missed.
Toni Carter
April 29, 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss. Joel was a man of God who was dedicated to his loving family and many friends. I have the fondest of memories of all of the times we spent together as friends throughout the years. He was a good friend and will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are for you during this difficult time.
Picture at sunrise during Walk 74, I will miss working with you brother Joel.
Jim Garland
April 29, 2014
Chloe & David DeLong
April 28, 2014
Jeanne & Family
Saddened to hear of your loss. Your brother was a wonderful musician and Christian He will be missed here but in time good memories will overcome the sorrows and you will laugh again and rejoice about the time you had with Joel here on earth.
David & Vicki Stevens
April 28, 2014
Brenda & Family, We were so, so saddened to hear of the sudden loss of Joel. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Linda Eshelman
April 28, 2014
Alisa my prayers are with you and your family
Darlene Monkres
April 28, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Waltrip Class of '74
April 28, 2014
In memory of Joel from the Waltrip Class of '74.
Marilyn Barnes-Clay
April 28, 2014
To the family of Joel: Please know that you are in my sincere prayers that God's grace will sustain you and that His love will comfort you at this difficult time. Love and Prayers, Marilyn Barnes -Clay c/o '74
Denise Cansler
April 28, 2014
My condolences go out to the family and all who knew or worked with Joel. His sudden departure is a very sad shock. So sorry for your loss.
Shunta Land
April 28, 2014
Just saw Joel last week after 3 years. He welcomed me with a big ole smile and hug! God rest his soul. May your family have peace and strength.
Rodney Crosby
April 28, 2014
Our thought and Prayers go out to you and your family during this sorrow time.
Monica Martinez
April 28, 2014
My heartfelt condolences go out to your family. I knew Joel from working with him at Shell and he was one of the nicest people. He will be missed. May his cherished memories bring you comfort and may God bless you with strength in this most difficult time.
April 28, 2014
You left us way too early, Joel. Your kindness and great sense of humor will be missed but never forgotten.
April 28, 2014
My best man, my old wonderful good hearted friend the Lord must have needed a special angel for an important job. You and Jon were a part of my family for so many years. We grew up together had so many great times. Your wit your friendship will never be forgotton. May the Lord hold your family especially close in their time of need.
Bruce Bruhn
John
April 28, 2014
To Joel's family, I am deeply saddened to hear of your sudden loss and please accept my heartfelt condolences. Joel was a great person to work with. He was a professional who knew how to get the job done right while at the same time have fun doing it! I grieve from his passing, but will cherish my fond memories of him. May the Lord give comfort to Joel's family in their time of loss.
Kellen Sims
April 28, 2014
I am sorry for your loss. May the God who grants all comfort be with you during this time. (Psalms 36:5)
Denise Lloyd
April 28, 2014
Peace be with you and your family at this time and in days ahead. I have been truly blessed by Joel and you in music ministry in Houston Emmaus community.
Casey & Mary Chadwick
April 28, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. We are so very sorry for this tremendous loss. Joel was a wonderful man. He will be missed. All our love, Casey & Mary Chadwick
Harting Automotive
April 28, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Bonnie Moore
April 28, 2014
Joel's faith, love of family, caring of friends and love of life is a tribute to how he made such a difference for all who knew him. We are so blessed to have had him in our lives. His memory will be a testament for all of us.
April 28, 2014
Joel's faith, love of family, caring of friends, and love of life will be missed. His memory will live with us forever and we are so blessed to have had him as a part of each of our lives.
Liz Hill
April 28, 2014
My heart goes out to your family, Brenda. I have so enjoyed the many times we cruised together and the early morning cups of coffee I had with Joey. He was a special guy and loved his family with his whole heart. He will be missed in so many ways. Love to you, Alisa and her family and Glenn, as well as all of your extended families.
Aunt Sugar (Liz)
Aunt Sugar (Liz) Hill
April 28, 2014
Brenda, you will never know how much the past years, especially the ones in which we traveled together, meant to me. Joey was so special, and I cherished the times we spent on deck in the early mornings. That is when I really got to know him, and those specials times were truly precious to me. I love you and your family and my heart breaks for you, but I know where Joey is and he will be waiting to welcome you to his new home when the time is right.
Dana & Louis Werner
April 28, 2014
Remembering you and Joel in our thoughts and prayers.......
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
May you celebrate Joel and a life well-lived.
Daniel Bert Hensley Jr.
April 28, 2014
Brother-In-Law, Brother-In-Christ, or just the only Brother I've ever had. Knowing you and seeing your impact on my family has been a pleasure to behold. You'll never know all the lives you've touched and left your impression on. I'll see you again someday brother.
April 28, 2014
My brother Ken and I grew up having way too much fun with Joel and Jon in the 70's...As with many childhood friendships, we lost track to some degree and went about life...I'm so happy to have reconnected with Joey and Jon for a reunion golf tournament last year and then a live music event a few months back...Joel was the same good man, the same fun loving guy that I will always remember from our youth...God Bless you Joel, and thanks for the laughs...You will be missed by many.
April 28, 2014
I will miss my best friend for over 50 years but I rejoice that he is in the arms of the Lord. It's so special to have been friends with someone that was always there for you. Brenda, Alisa, and Glenn please know you are in our thoughts and prayers!
LeeAnn Hickman
April 28, 2014
I'm at a loss for words. My heart breaks for the Paulk family's loss. But as I know the family knows, you will be reunited with him again. My thoughts and prayers are with the family as they come to terms with Joel's loss. God Bless.
Cynthia Wallet
April 28, 2014
You will be missed at Shell. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dirk Ray
April 27, 2014
Some are family by birth, some are family by choice, some are family by God. When your gift is music, you have the ability to leave a song on someone's mind and in their heart. Joel had that gift. He life was neither flat nor sharp, but in tune. I celebrate his passing in the faith that he is in the loving arms of our savior Jesus Christ and when the roll is called up yonder his Family and I will be there. Peace and Comfort to the Paulk and Hensley families ~ I send my love.
Carla Shadle Swain
April 27, 2014
My heart goes out to the Paulk and Hensley families. Sometimes it's very hard for we who are left behind to understand the loss of someone so young and vibrant. My prayers are with you, his family and loved ones, in the coming weeks as you grieve and also celebrate Joel. May God give you peace.
Sherri Taylor
April 27, 2014
You are all in our prayers. I know there will be a big empty space in the St. Stephens family...but Heaven's Praise band has a new guitarist. We will see you, Joey, by and by.
Sherri and Dan Taylor
Michael Moore
April 27, 2014
Joel-Man!
I think of countless "Golf House" remarks I might make right about now, but none seem funny anymore.
Your memory will be a busy one my friend. We have been friends for almost 2 decades. You had such balance; scouts, choir, dad, grand-dad, husband, brother, party buddy at the Golf House, real golf, you could drink the "cold and flu" and buy them too, you could drive in a flood, set new records in the "Dot" machine", laugh at a good joke, deliver a good joke, make sounds that sounded like sentences, offer a pat on the back at the right time, and leave without a sound, country and western dance a bit and made each friend think they where your best friend.
You will never be forgotten, you will be missed is an understatement, so... See you in eternity my friend. I expect a Golden Tee in heaven. The Colonel.
Elizabeth Hensley
April 27, 2014
Joel was the best outlaw a girl could have. He was always had a hug for me and my boys. They love their Uncle Joey! Bert and I are still in shock over the loss of a great man. His spirit will live on in the many lives he has touched.
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