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MAC
February 16, 2024
I just came across this googling my dad, his brother Michael. John was the best ever and I still can picture big warm smile, arms open in excitement :) -- Just the BEST.
June 7, 2016
Today is Johnny B's birthday! He would be 58. Miss him a ton, but he gave me a lifetime of great memories, and whenever I think of him I smile before I cry! Rest well John. We love you and miss you. - Mark Marotta
Bill Boylan
January 4, 2009
I wish to sincerely thank everyone who took the time to make an entry here or to read the comments. I find it extremely difficult myself.
For too brief a moment we had a wonderful human being who lit up everyone's life, created joy and made our experiences a little bit better.
Johnny's love, caring, and pure enthusiasm for life make it so hard to be without him.
I loved also his competitive nature and his laughter at my jokes- he was my best audience!
Last week I was a bit down in the dumps, feeling sorry for myself when suddenly a thought came to me- What would Johnny give to be here right now , in this situation, if only for a day?
Of course my attitude changed instantly! Thanks Johnny- he did that a lot.
Perhaps someday I'll accept and understand our loss.....but not today.
God bless you all and thank you and when my time comes Johnny, let's tee off early and get in 36 holes!
Love,
Bill Boylan.
Mark Palios
January 2, 2009
Dear Lauren, Caroline and Julia,
Today marks a year. It was an extremely difficult year for me, I can’t imagine how tough it has been for you. I love John and his spirit is all around.
I told Lauren this story shortly after it happened. I visited John the other day. On my way out of Huntington, I passed a shopping center and what do I see … A green truck with flashing green lights and a Winters Bros. logo!!! I had heard Lauren talk about seeing this reminder of John but this was actually the first time I had seen (or at least noticed) a Winters Bros. truck and I immediately called Mike Boylan to confirm that this was indeed the company Lauren talked about. He was quick to confirm.
He told me to stop bye SVCC and see the plaque if I had not seen it. I hadn’t, so I did. On my way, my GPS told me to make a left into what I thought was the parking lot of the Americana shopping mall. I was quick to dismiss the instructions and travel to my next left. The GPS in the past has jumped the gun. However, there was another Winters Bros. truck in that parking lot. John, as you know, was always good with directions. It was as if John were in the car screaming “What are you doing you hockey puck? Make the left!” So I made the left and found my way with some help from the GPS and John.
John had such a profound impact on me, as I am sure on so many people. For the rest of my life, I will try to be a little more patient, a little more understanding, and a little more enthusiastic. I will see the movies that I really want to see at noon on a Wednesday, alone if I can’t find somebody to join me. I will live more in the moment and I will try to laugh at least once a day like he did, like it was the funniest thing you ever heard - that’s got to be one of the reasons he was so funny. I will keep the jokes about the one legged pig and the old bull and the young bull in my wallet so I never forget them. I will do all this to honor my friend and maybe have an impact on somebody like John had on me. I am blessed to have spent as much time as I did with him.
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Ellen Ribeiro
January 2, 2009
Dear Lauren and girls, it was so wonderful to meet you a few months ago, after hearing so much about all of you from John over the years. I can't tell you how often John crosses my mind, whether I'm driving from my parents' in Yonkers and think of walking around with John back in the 70's or, as happened the other night, I'm watching Animal House and John Belushi is stacking his tray in the cafeteria while Wonderful World is playing in the background. One of my first memories of your John in the 7th grade was him singing, "Don't know much about history, don't know much biology..." I thought it was really cute that a super-popular basketball player would be singing a song about such things, and doing a little shuffle dance as he sang (with a hat on!). He was like the brother I never had and, like his nephew wrote last week, I told him things I couldn't and wouldn't tell to other people. I miss him terribly, and I can only imagine how you must miss him. Please know that you're all in my thoughts, especially this week, and that I've told many people about meeting you at last. It's no surprise to me that John chose you, Lauren, you're an amazing, lovely, gracious, warm, courageous woman. Bless you all. Much love, Ellen Ribeiro (Girigliano)
Louise Devlin
January 1, 2009
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
I love you all so much and wish that this New Year be filled with love, joy and all good things! I know John is always, all-ways, with you. Thank you for inspiring me so much in showing the love and support you have for each other!
Love you always, all-ways,
Aunt Louise
:)
Ann Devlin
January 1, 2009
Dearest Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
You fill our hearts with joy as we look forward to this new year with a fresh approach to living life to its fullest. We know that John is with you and helping through the snags as we go on.
Dad (Granddad) and I are so proud of you and your strength in dealing with all of the issues that have come up. We know that John is proud, also.
Please know that we are always with you ..loving you..loving the memories and looking forward to a future.. one day at a time.
God Bless You and take care of you,
Mom and Dad
xoxoxoxox
Kristine Devlin
December 30, 2008
Lauren - It seems unbelievable that a year has passed without John. I still find it so unreal and think for a split second that he is going to walk past my kitchen window and wonder what I could possibly be cooking !! .. Watching you and the girls this past year has been a true inspiration . You are my hero !!.. John created a very special place in each of our lives and will NEVER be forgotten .. Simply put it was a privilege to know John Boylan .
Uncle Bob and I love you and the girls so much and will be here for you forever . XOXO Love, Kris
Luke Boylan
December 29, 2008
Uncle John was one of the most fun and loving people I have ever met. His mannerisms reminded me of my father so much that I looked to him as a second father. I find myself lucky to have spent so much time with he and his loving family and I give my all my love to Lauren, Julia and Caroline.
Anthony Alessi
December 29, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline. I just want to let you know that we think of you often. May the new year bring you peace and happiness.
donna napoletano
December 29, 2008
dearest lauren and family........on january 2nd will be john's one year anniversary upon leaving this place i am sure he would have never departed upon his own will......on this day.........and each day......we who have got the great pleasure of experiencing his life whether it was years ago or everday will be thinking of him and his family.......we know it must have been tough......all the firsts........birthdays........anniversaries........holidays.........and i am sure just the passing of places that were all too familiar to you and the girls........and your home......not prepared for his quick and unrealistic departure.........but reading all of these entries brings such comfort to read stories and feelings of the people closest to him......whether we had seen him recent or years ago; we all share that common thread...........we were all gifted to feel the same way about him.......my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family this first anniversary of john's passing........january 2nd .........and always......much love and prayers ..... donna
MIchael Boylan
December 28, 2008
John wasn’t only my brother. He was my best friend. After his passing, our lives together, going back to when we were children, became vivid. I recalled walking the mile to grade school and church together, trying to scare him in the dark when we went to bed at night, swimming at Candlewood Lake on family vacations, building forts with the neighborhood kids, sleigh riding behind our home, playing one on one basketball against him (until he got too good), watching his high school basketball games when home from college. We were close as children, maybe closer as adults. I can’t think of anyone I’d rather speak to on a variety of subjects: business, golf, movies, politics… When I see a good movie, read or see something of interest, I still reach for the phone to call John. To me, John was thoughtful, analytical, curious, engaging, fun, and compassionate. He was also competitive, in a good way. Whether in sports or in business, he believed if you did the work and preparation, you should have confidence in yourself to get the job done. He was a great partner in golf, an unnerving opponent, especially when putting.
In the year since John’s death, I’ve become more aware how many lives he touched. About three month’s before John’s passing he wrote a letter asking me to take over his business should something happen to him. He read it to me over the phone, and I paid it no heed. Little did I know he’d soon be gone. I’ve learned he treated his clients in the same manner as he would his family and friends. One client recounted how he invited John to a golf member guest outing and John won three prizes; another how John had taken 4 hours on a Saturday to go to the client’s bank to sign municipal bonds over to John’s firm for safekeeping, after the bank instituted fees; another about how John had carried her terminally ill husband up and down the stairs in the family home when he could no longer walk; another how John would play and assist in an annual golf outing for physically handicapped golfers, happy to participate.
He was a special person to me and many people. I think he was most special to and most proud of his beautiful family, his wife, Lauren and their two children, Julia and Caroline. In our daily conversations over the last ten years, he always spoke of them.
Like many of his friends and family, not a day goes by when I don’t think of him. I miss you, John.
Michael Boylan
Mac Boylan
December 28, 2008
Uncle John was a lot like my Dad but he could tell me things that my Dad couldn't. I loved his humor and his zest for life so much. He was always ready to take on my brother and me in basketball....and I'm sure he would have continued this tradition if had lived to be 90. He talked business like it was a sport, not an occupation. When trying to dissuade my cynicism I often consider how Unc John would have looked at it. I love you Aunt Lauren, Julia, and Caroline. You are very, very important to me. I better always see you at Thanksgiving for the rest of my life!!! We shall forever reminisce around the Taboo table thinking of John's hearty laugh, gaming enthusiasm, and his look of joy being around family. I can only hope to love my wife and kids as much as he loved you.
Margaret Boylan
December 28, 2008
He was warm, bigger than life itself, and knew how to give love easily. I loved the way he walked up to you upon first seeing him-arms wide open, and then that enormous hug. He gave great hugs. Nearly five decades of his love and the joy he spread is now over, but I'm sure he is lighting up the stars in the afterlife the same way he lit up our lives each and every time we were together. Now we have all of John's funny and touching stories that we never get tired of hearing to keep us going and Jesus has met John with his arms wide open to welcome this sweetheart of a man to Heaven.
For Lauren, Julia, and Caroline it has been a tough year, and you remain my heroes in the incredible way you have handled such sadness with style and grace. Lauren, as you well know, your parents,as well as Chris, Bob, Ryan, Steve, Rhonda, and all your generous friends in the most wonderful community I have ever seen, have been nothing short of magnificent, holding you all in the palms of their hands as you go forward. We are so grateful you have them. Love you forever and ever, Margaret
DONNA NAPOLETANO
November 25, 2008
DEAR LAUREN AND GIRLS: AS ALL THE HUSTLE AND BUSTLE TAKES PLACE THIS TIME OF THE YEAR...........IF IS SO EMPHASIZED ON FAMILY GATHERINGS.........MERRY THIS AND THAT..........AND JOYOUS HAPPY TIMES.............EVERYWHERE U TURN.......STORES.......COMMERCIALS............TV SPECIALS........ETC.......BUT IN OUR HEARTS WE KNOW U ARE HURTING AND LONGING FOR JOHN EVEN MORE AT THIS TIME OF THE YEAR.........MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH U AND THE FAMILY..........TO FIND STRENGTH.......COMFORT ...... AND PEACE THIS HOLIDAY SEASON........AND I AM SURE YOU WILL KNOW THAT AT EVERY GATHERING JOHN IS SITTING RIGHT BESIDE U AT THAT TABLE.........THAT IS THE WAY HE WOULD HAVE WANTED IT I AM SURE.........GOD BLESS........WE ALL PRAY FOR U AND YOURS...... HUGS DONNA
Maria Schupler Reilly
September 6, 2008
Lauren - As we buckle down tonight in Cold Spring Harbor for Hurricane Hanna, Chris and I we were discussing what we could hold onto if a tornado hit. My reply, "the dresser he brought home from Bali that John moved into our bedroom". Once again I shared with Chris the story of that winter day in Dec. 2005 when you and your Mom called John and his coworker to our home. There he was in full business suit looking at us like we were crazy because the piece was so incredibly heavy. But like only John could, he honored your request with the biggest smile and up the stairs they went. Every night before we rest our heads on our pillows and every morning when we wake, we look at that piece of furniture and say prayers. We pray for strength for you and the girls and we pray for John. Thinking of you always. May the turning of the seasons, bring new beginnings, new strength, new smiles and hope for you and the girls. With love, Maria, Chris and all the boys.
Anthony Alessi
July 28, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
Today as I was driving home from the office I thought of you, John's family. I wondered how your summer was going and whether you and the girls took a vacation away. Upon getting home and checking my emails I see from a recent entry in this guest book that you have. I hope it was a good one for all of you. I know things are still hard but just as I often realize that I am still guided by John in some way every day...I am sure that the three of you must feel that way as well. You are always in our thoughts.
Kathy and Anthony Alessi
Theresa Mullaly
July 27, 2008
Dear Lauren,
My condolences and prayers are with you. Living life now, with your husband as the hand on your shoulder, will help to guide you through each day without him.
Ann and Ed Devlin
July 25, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
Welcome home from rainy Vermont. We missed you. We know this vacation was poignant--but you DID it! John would have had many funny stories inre no golf on vacation!!!!
We love you,
Mom and Dad xoxoxo
Tina Young
July 19, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
Months have gone by since that fateful day and I still think John is going to be in his recliner when I come over, or up at SVCC, either on the b-ball court or on one of the chairs with that big smile on his face. We miss him terribly. John always made you feel like you were the most interesting or funniest person alive. We know he is in a better place watching over all of us. Just know that he is missed by many, as he touched so many of our lives in a positive way.
You all will always be in our thoughts and prayers. We love you Johnny B!
XXOO Tina, Bobby, Kayla & John Young
DONNA NAPOLETANO
June 9, 2008
JUST WANTED TO SAY HAPPY 50TH BIRTHDAY TO JOHN ON SATURDAY, JUNE 7TH 2008.........I NEVER FORGOT MY CLASSMATES B DAYS ALL THESE YEARS..............LOUIE ROME AND JOHN VALLIS ON JUNE12TH........CHRIS "ROCK" ON JUNE 16TH..........AND ME ON THE 19TH..........HAPPY B DAY TO ALL OF US GEMINI'S.........AND ESPECIALLY TO YOU JOHN......I KNOW IT MUST BE HARD FOR THE FAMILY......MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH U THIS WEEKEND AND ALWAYS. CLASS OF 76' WILL NEVER FORGET U!!!! GOD BLESS ON THIS SPECIAL B DAY AND ALWAYS!!! WE SHALL KEEP PRAYING FOR YOUR FAMILY AND HOPING THAT GOD WILL KEEP GIVING THEM THEIR STRENGTH AND COURAGE ON A DAILY BASIS.........GOD BLESS!!!!!
Marcia D'Angelo
March 3, 2008
Der Lauren, Julia and Caroline, We hope that you did get away to
Florida and that you enjoyed yourselves. You missed some snow here but I'm sure we will have some more coming.
Just wanted you to know that we are thinking about all of you nd send our love.
Marcia and Joe D'Angelo
declan and laura meagher
February 24, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
We have tried several times to write something consoling and meaningful to you about John.Every time we try , we think about you and the tragedy that took John from you so prematurely.
We thought with time, that it would be easier to verbalize our feelings. It does not but what does occur is the memory of the man, his large love for life and especially you and his bigger smile. We also see the loving husband and father who was always there for you and your extended families.
Though it is hard not to have one's heart turn negative about his taking, our collective faith leads us in another direction, possibly toward that field of green he so loved.
He played the front nine with great energy, dignity and love for the game, inspired by his love for you. He was called off the course, we do not know why. We know we will all finish the game with him someday and join him to recount the joy and love he has for each of you.
John & Liz Roletter
February 20, 2008
Dear Lauren and Girls:
We have know John since his freshamn year at Marist thorugh our sone Kevon Roletter. Please accept our sincere condolences. John will always be in our hearts. What a gentlemen he was.
Lisa Boukas
February 9, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia, and Caroline,
A month has gone by, and I am so proud of how you are coming along during this very difficult time. Your strength inspires me. You are very blessed to have had such love in your lives that you will hold dear forever. You know how much your friends and family love and will support you always. Your eulogy was so heartfelt and uplifting. All were amazed at your strength. You continue to be my hero and always know that I 'm there for you.
Love,
Lisa, Spiro, Gregory, Christopher and Philip Boukas
Manhasset, New York
Carol and Scott Goldfond
February 8, 2008
Dear Lauren,
We only just met you and John at Lisa’s house a few months ago, but our impression of John was that he was a warm, kind, and fun-loving man, and a dedicated dad. We are so sorry for your loss, and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dee Goldstein
February 4, 2008
Dear Lauren, I was so sorry to hear about John. We were away for an extended trip. He was always such a happy person. I will miss his jovial personality at the pool. He was always so nice to everyone. We are blessed to live in such a caring community. I hope that you will find comfort in your many friends that loved John and continue to love you, Julia, and Caroline. Love, Dee
Brendan Kelly
January 31, 2008
Lauren,
Donna and I were very sad to hear about John's passing. Our deepest condolences to you and your girls.
Ed and Ann Devlin
January 29, 2008
Dearest Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
We think of John many times each day and frequently smile while reflecting on all his "Johnisms". Then we start to laugh and realize how fortunate we were to have known John. We shared so many great vacations, dinners, boat trips, golf games, holidays, etc. together. His laughter, his desire to share knowledge on "anything and everything", his big smile when he saw his family, and his all around terrific personality were a treasure! We always felt so safe when we traveled with John because he was the best direction giver in the "entire Northeast"! He leaves much for us to think and smile about but above all he leaves a memory of devotion, love and patience. Lauren, Julia and Caroline-you were his shining lights and we know he'll be your guiding light forever. John will be with us always, all-ways. We love you so much!
George Connelly
January 26, 2008
Dear Lauren & Family,
I was saddened to hear of John's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your girls, and family at this time.
I will always remember John's infectious laugh and spirit. As evident by all the touching entries here, he will be saddly missed, but never forgotten.
Mike Lanza
January 24, 2008
Words alone can not express my feelings toward Johhny B.... .
Met JB at Marist our freshman year and we quickly became friends, roomates....brothers. Blockhead, as I lovingly called him, always the voice of reason, making sense of this crazy world. Heard Neil Young on the radio..."The King is gone, but not forgotten" And it made me think of my boy Johnny B. He will never be forgotten.
"Walk Away Johnny...Walk away..
Tim Devlin
January 22, 2008
Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
Amy, Robert and I wish to share our condolences. We respect John very much as a husband, father and all around good guy. He will be missed by all his friends and family.
We are most thankful for the support you have of your Parents, sister and other family and friends to assist you through this tough time.
Your cousin,
Tim
Larry & Tracy Schnitzer
January 22, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia, and Caroline,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss.
May the Angels guide you to feel peace today and all-ways!
Louise Devlin
January 21, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
SAFELY HOME
I am home in heaven, dear ones;
Oh so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in heaven at last.
Did you wonder how I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh, but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.
And he came himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's will.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remains,
You shall rest in Jesus' land.
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!
LOVE ALWAYS, ALL-WAYS!!!!
Aunt Louise
michael ragusa
January 20, 2008
Lauren,
While we are all deeply saddened with the passing of John, we are thankful for the great times and fond memories we shared throughout the years. John's passion for life was infectious and we'll miss him dearly. Love, Mike and Leslie
Sue Spivey
January 19, 2008
Lauren
I was so sorry to hear about the sudden passing of John. On the few occasions I have spent time with him, he always was smiling. Of course my biggest appreciate of John was how he always was a great audience and would laugh at my jokes no matter how corny.
My deepest sympathy to you and the girls.
Anne Marie Kelly
January 19, 2008
Dear Lauren & Family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. I remember when you came to see my husband when he died two years ago and the comfort it gave me. Know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Anne Marie Kelly (Colette Stack's Mom) Northport, NY
Pam Linsky
January 18, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
May the Lord bless you and keep you strong in the days ahead as you cope with your tremendous loss. What a shining light the world has lost. There are so many people praying for you and here to help you in any way we can.You are in our thoughts and daily prayers.
With love,
The Linsky Family
Annette & Joe Losquadro
January 18, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline:
Even though we met John a few times, he left us with a feeling of a wonderful guy- always ready to have fun and had an uplifting personality. We've never seen so many people at a wake and funeral. Just a testament to John. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Colette Stack
January 18, 2008
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Marijo Marino
January 18, 2008
Please know that our family was shocked and saddened when we heard about your loss. Also never forget that you and the children are in our continued prayers.
With much love,
Marijo Marino and family
Mark & Andrea Palios
January 18, 2008
Lauren, Caroline and Julia,
You are in our prayers and constantly in our thoughts. I offer some words to comfort you.
I worked with John for 10 years. We spent a lot of time together, whether it was in his office or mine, on the golf course or at Abel's. We spoke about everything, the topics of our conversations revolved around family, politics, love, religion, children, hopes, fears, aches and pains, business, tv shows and of course, golf. He took me under his wing and mentored me. He was like an older brother to me and taught me many things. My family, my friends and my clients all benefit from his advice.
We had many conversations about you. He loved you all. He beamed when he spoke about the girls. He was proud of the athletic and academic accomplishments and what wonderful young ladies you both were raising.
Lauren you amazed me with your strength (and your delivery for that matter). I have never heard anything more uplifting than your eulogy of John.
"He who pleased God was loved", John is loved by God. John left us too early but I take some comfort, and I hope that you do, that he is in Heaven and watches over us.
We are here for you, please let us know what we can do.
Mark & Andrea Palios
Pat, Meg, Patrick, Chris & Haleigh Kelleher
January 17, 2008
We are very saddened to hear of John’s passing. Our memory will always be of a man who truly adored his wife and daughters and loved being with them. He was blessed with a wonderful family. We will miss his smile, humor and style. Our prayers are with you--Lauren, Julia and Caroline.
Maureen Lavin
January 17, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia, and Caroline,
John was a man of integrity and honor. He was kind, generous, and full of life. His smile cheered up all of those around him. His three women put the smile on his face that he shared with the rest of the world. The world is a sadder place without John Boylan.
Ann Marie Fruhauf
January 17, 2008
Lauren:
I was blown away when Barbara told me about your husband. I am so very very sorry for your loss. I didn't have an opportunity to meet John but I am sure he was a warm and loving husband and father because you are such a wonderful caring and loving person yourself. If there is anything at all that I can help you with, please, please call...anytime, day or night. I will always keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy, Ann Marie
Ann Grenci
January 17, 2008
Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
We can still picture John all comfy cozy in his big leather recliner just so happy to be at home with all of you. I know that he is still with you and will watch over you always. We have so many wonderful memories of him that bring a smile to our face every day and he will not ever be forgotten. We are so blessed to have had him in our life even though that time was way too short. You are a part of our family and we are here for you forever. We are only a short plane trip away. We love you.
Love,
Ann, Frank
Christopher, Rebecca & Eliza
GAIL AND KELLY MCLAUGHLIN
January 17, 2008
DEAR LAUREN, JULIA AND CAROLINE,
WE HEARD FROM OUR FAMILY HOW STRONG YOU ALL WERE DURING SUCH TRYING TIMES. ALWAYS REMEMBER THE WONDERFUL TIMES YOU SHARED.WE JOIN YOUR MANY FRIENDS IN SENDING OUR PRAYERS, LOVE AND THOUGHTS.
WITH LOVE,
GAIL AND KELLY MCLAUGHLIN
Sue Brown
January 17, 2008
Lauren, My last memory of John was when he came to pick up Caroline from a sleepover. The girls said goodbye to each other, Kelsey ran to the computer, Caroline ran to the car. John and I had a 20 minute conversation about the craziness of Christmas and having two teenaged girls. We couldnt stop yapping. I remember closing the front door and saying "what a great guy". Hang in there Lauren, you have a wonderful group of friends and boy do the Browns love the Devlin family! That saying is so true "only the good die young" Love always, Dan and Sue Brown
Sondra Shaye
January 16, 2008
Dear Lauren,
It was with great sadness that I heard of John's passing, although he is even closer with God now than before. How welcomed he and your whole family made me feel the years I was blessed to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas with you all. You are all such warm, loving souls, John's presence and energy will live on through you all. Know that my love is with you, and if I can ever be of any help in any way, please don't hesitate to let me know. I send you my love always.
LoveLoveLove,
Sondra
Maria Schupler Reilly
January 16, 2008
Lauren- Chris and I will cherish the night we shared with you and John at Piccolo in Huntington a year ago+. The laughs, the smiles, the conversation was wonderful! Our faces hurt from smiling that night and it shows that John lived that way every day. We'll cherish the memories. I chuckle when I recall that cold day in Dec. at our new home when you called John and a few coworkers to help you and your Mom move the heaviest piece of furniture to decorate "just so" - we all chuckled. John thought we were all crazy! Every morning when we look at the piece we think of him and pray for you and the girls. Cherish the memories - they are yours forever! Love and prayers, Maria Schupler Reilly
Laurence, Kathy, Jacob and Charlotte Morris
January 16, 2008
Lauren, Julia and Caroline:
I will never forget being a passenger on a golf cart with John driving at speeds you would not believe such a cart could do, and making turns (and jumps) it really shouldn't do, because the group in front of us was holding us up, and we needed to find an empty hole to play. Rarely was a round of golf with John limited to just 18 holes. His enthusiasm and passion was just so infectious. I loved the fact that even though he was SO much better at golf than I will ever be, I never felt for one second that he was enduring my game.
But more than that, we will never forget how much he loved you guys, and how proud he was of the girls. He wore it all over his face, the way he would just beam when he talked about you. Such love is truly immortal.
We feel blessed to have known John, and so fortunate to have met the Boylan/Devlin family. You're in our thoughts and prayers. All our love.
Janice Pecorino
January 16, 2008
Dear Lauren, We've done a lot of reminiscing during the last two weeks--and shed many tears as well. When I think of John, which is often, automatically and uncontrollably a smile appears on my face; what a gift!!! I have so many "remember when" stories--remember when you, me and the girls drove to Florida. I don't think Mike and John ever believed we'd really do it. I remember calling the guys as we got closer to New York. Sure enough, as we approached Onderdonk, who was standing on the corner of George Street with that big grin on his face. No one other than JohnnyB. When he eagerly jumped in the front seat of your van, spying all of us with a huge smile on his face, the first thing he said was "this car smells like humans!" Hysterical!!! Memories like that will keep John's spirit alive in all of us. Like so many others, the Pecorinos loved John and there's a piece of him left in Me, Mike, Kat and Nat that will last forever. We love you, Julia and Caroline and truly will be there for all of you forever.
Love, Janice xoxo
Rob Schupler
January 16, 2008
Lauren,
May the Good Lord provide you and your children peace and comfort during this trying time.
Although I only met John on a few occassions I am envious of how he lived his life - seemingly enjoying each day to its fullest and creating powerful everlasting memories along the way.
God Bless
Sheila Gallagher
January 16, 2008
Dear Lauren and girls:
We think of you often and remember John warmly. Just recently we were recalling the time we saw you and John and the girls skating at Riley Rink in Manchester, Vermont. John was smiling from ear to ear with his rosey cheeks - joyfully skating with the girls. I will always have that picture of him - enjoying life to the fullest. We were lucky to have known him.
Sheila and Kevin Gallagher and girls
Anne Dickinson Cohen
January 16, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia & Caroline,
You were all so fortunate to have had such a wonderful husband and father. Lauren, I will never forget the letters you wrote me from college describing the cute basketball hero who came to your rescue in the elevator. I know he would be so proud of your beautiful eulogy, it showed how much you loved him. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Michael Montalbano
January 16, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
There are no words that can express the shock I felt when hearing about John. I am so sorry and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Although John and I will never have that golf trip down to Hilton Head, as we discussed in August, I know that next time I am there he will be looking down with that big smile, trying to help my game, best he can...I love you all Cousin Michael (Monte)
marcia d'angelo
January 16, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
What a wonderful example you have been for all of us! Your strength and courage has inspired us. Thank you Lauren, for your tribute to John. You wrapped your arms around all who were present at St. Mary's to comfort us in the sadness we all shared. I'm sure Julia and Caroline are so very proud of both you and John.
Please remember we are ready, willing and eager to help. Your hearts are aching but with time the hurt will lessen and the joy and memories of John's life will remain forever.
Love and Prayers, Marcia and Joe D'Angelo
Nina Glaser
January 16, 2008
Dear Lauren,
I had the good fortune of growing up with John, who was affectionately known as Winters. He always had a heart of gold and a sense of humor to match. I ran into him a few years ago and was happy to see he was the same old Winters. He spoke so highly of both you and his daughters.
I am thinking of you at this time and will remember your family in our prayers. He will be missed by all who were lucky enogh to know him.
Always,
Nina Luria Glaser
Eugenia (Genie) Kelly-Viner
January 15, 2008
Dear Lauren,
Kathy gave me the news and I am so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. Although I only met John once or twice years ago, I remember how upbeat and friendly he was, and of course how much he adored you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. It was so nice to run into you last year at St. Mary's and meet your lovely daughters. Our sincere condolences to all of you.
Josephone and Tony Raymond
January 15, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline:
Tony and I continue our daily prayers to honor and remember your very special husband and father, John. He kindled a very powerful light in our lives and heart that will glow forever.... The many tributes contained in this guest book are a measure of the man, and the mark he has made in our world. He truly will be missed by the Raymonds and all of his many friends. He created a very special place in our world which we treasure..John is looking down with pleasure on his very special family that earned the respect of all by their courage, strength and grace. All of our love and prayers.
Jo and Tony Raymond (Manhasset, Roslyn Heights)
Lyne and Ben Montalbano
January 15, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline
We are deeply sorry for your loss. We were very blessed to know John and will always remember his big smile and laughter.
We will miss him very much and are prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Cecilia Tenenbaum Jaffe
January 14, 2008
I will always remember John and his blue eyes and his great basketball ability. I can still see him in his school jacket leaning against a locker with his great smile. As I read this I am sad yet happy that he grew up to be a good man for he was a very nice young boy. I am sorry that I never got to go to any reunions so I could say I saw him again.
Gail Hindman
January 14, 2008
Dear Lauren,
You have always been a very, very special person (niece) to me, as John was to you. Every time I saw him, he always had a wonderful smile. A smile that goes to your heart and makes you feel good. You have the same smile. It is a great gift.
Lauren, I have learned over the years, when you keep him in your heart, he will never, never be forgotten. He will be a part of you and the girls. I have a speical spot for him in mine. I know he will get alone with my Dad, sister and Mom. It is amazing how big your heart can be.
Carolyn and I went to the movies the other night. If you want, we can make it a girls night out. I would love it.
As I say to all of my children and grandchildren, I love you the whole wide world.
Aunt Gail
Ali and Joe Schupler
January 14, 2008
Dear Lauren: As John would say, "wasn't she the best"...and you are..never have we been to a funeral where the person giving the eulogy received a standing ovation..how proud John must have been of you..enjoy the wonderful memories you all shared..and remember the love, thoughts and prayers of all of us are with you.
Elizabeth Procacccino
January 14, 2008
Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
Not a hour goes by that I don't think about the three of you. I am certain that everything you do, does not feel the same. The world is now different. It is for all of us. I just want you to know that we are all better people for having known John. He was a man of commitment and values. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of your lives together, allowing us to grieve with you and share in your sorrow. Lauren, you are an inspiration to us all. The Eulogy you gave in honor of John was so uplifting, your grace and John's spirit shone through. We love you and hope your pain is soon replaced with peace and the emptiness you feel, becomes filled with His love.
With our love and sympathy,
Liz
Christine Nichols
January 14, 2008
Dear Lauren Julia and Caroline:
We only met your precious prince one time but felt we knew him well through your parents. WE are so sorry for your loss and pray that God will enfold you all into His loving arms during this difficult time.
With love and thoughts of peace and courage.
Chris and Herb Nichols
Carol Wessel
January 14, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia & Caroline, Ken and I continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. I am sure there will be hard days ahead but know that you have a strong and loving family and so many friends who love you and want to offer support. I have so enjoyed reading about the many warm relationships John had with people and understand why everyone loved him so much. He will truely be missed. Love to you all, Carol & Ken Wessel
Al & Jeanne Devlin
January 14, 2008
To John, On a golf outing some years ago, I lost my diamond ring in a bedroom of a house used for the outing. John, the thinker used a flashlight to go over the carpet in the closet and found the ring.
Thanks John and the best in Heaven, Al Devlin
DONNA NAPOLETANO
January 13, 2008
I AM SURE I AM ONLY ONE OF THE MANY CLASS MEMBERS FROM WALT WHITMAN JR. HIGH AND THE CLASS OF 76' FROM ROOSEVELT HIGH SCHOOL IN YONKERS THAT JOHN'S BEAUTIFUL SMILE.....SPARKLING EYES.... AND CONTAGIOUS SENSE OF HUMOR HAS TOUCHED!!! WE LAST SAW HIM AT OUR 25TH REUNION AND SAW THAT NOTHING HAD CHANGED. HE WAS ALWAYS TRUE TO HIS FRIENDS AND HIMSELF....WE WILL NEVER FORGET HIS PASSION ON THE BASKETBALL COURT....AND HIS FACE A GLOW STORMING TO MAKE THAT BASKET!!! WE WILL KEEP LAUREN AND HIS GIRLS IN OUR MOST PRECIOUS THOUGHTS AND DAILY PRAYERS!! WE WERE MOST PRIVELEGED AND HONORED TO HAVE SUCH GREAT MEMORIES OF JOHN IN OUR GREATEST YEARS AT SCHOOL........WE WILL KEEP THEM TUCKED AWAY TO REMINISCE UPON AT OUR WILL.....BLESS YOUR FAMILY TODAY AND ALWAYS.....#44 WILL LIVE ON IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER!!!!
david hilpl
January 12, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Lauren and John's daughters. Reading the many Guest Book entries about John reflects so well on him and the kind of Dad and Husband he was.
David Hilpl
Ellen Ribeiro
January 12, 2008
My heart is aching, we have lost a special, special guy. John affected so many, with his special laugh, the twinkle in his eye, his good heart and his incredible wit, I will never know another one like him. We were friends for nearly forty years and I'm in shock to hear that he is gone. I will pray for his family. I'll miss you John and I will never forget you.
Dianne Wenk
January 11, 2008
Dear Lauren,Julia and Caoline,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through out this difficult time.
Fondly,
Dianne and Jim Wenk
Jimmy,Ryan and Tommy
FRANK SIGNORELLI
January 11, 2008
DEAR lAUREN,GIRLS AND FAMILY, I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF YOUR HUSBAND, FATHER AND THE MAN I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER AS 'JB'. I HAD THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING JOHN AS HIS FRIEND AT AG EDWARDS. I HEARD OF HIS UNTIMELY PASSING LAST EVENING FROM 'JONATHAN' THE GARDNER AT THE AG EDWARDS OFFICE. THE JOHN I KNEW HAD BEEN THE FIRST TO EXTEND HIS HAND TO JONATHAN WHEN HE TOOK THE JOB," HI NAME IS JOHN BOYLAN, GREAT TO MEET YOU" AS HIS HANDS WERE COVERED IN DIRT, JOHN DIDN'T HESITATE TO GRAB IT". I WILL REMBER HIS TEACHING ME THE SWING HE SO PROUDLY PRACTICED IN THE MIDDLE OF THE OFFICE. I WILL REMEMBER HIS TELLING OF HIS FIRST MEETING LAUREN, AND THE COUNTLESS STORIES OF HIS GIRLS. ALONG WITH THE COACHING OF BASKETBALL AND TEACHING THE NUANCE OF THE GAME, TO HIS GIRLS. THE JOHN I HAD COME TO KNOW APPROACHED EVERYTHING IN LIFE WITH ENTHUSIASM AND LOVE. HE SPARKLED AND CARRIED THE FLAG OF HUSBAND FATHER AND FRIEND SO WELL. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU LAUREN, THE GIRLS AND THE ENTIRE FAMILY. I KNOW YOU ARE THE BEST TESTAMENT TO THE MAN WE ALL KNEW AS "JOHNNY B". JOHN MAY, THE WIND BE ALWAYS AT YOUR BACK, AND MAY GOD HOLD YOU ALL IN THE VERY HOLLOW OF HIS HAND. FRANK J, SIGNORELLI
Donna Matusiak
January 10, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline, Please accept my deepest sympathies. John's presence will be sadly missed at Strathmore. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all. If I can help in any way know I will be there for you.
Deepest sympathies,
Love, Donna Matusiak
January 9, 2008
Dear Lauren,
My heart goes out to you and your daughters at this sad time.You have agreat family that loves you. Stay strong and don"t lose hope. My best to you. Lloyd Fields
Peter and Marykate Rowan
January 9, 2008
Our heart-felt sympathy to all of The Boylans. We had the pleasure of meeting "Johnny" in Vermont, and heard countless wonderful stories about "Johnny and Lauren and the girls" from Mike and Margaret. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Nancy Garofolo
January 8, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline -- Please accept our deepest sympathies on John's passing. While we did not know him well he seemed like a friendly, warm and loving man. We can only imagine your grief. Please know that our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Warmest regards
Nancy and Ed Garofolo
Susyn & Denis Dees
January 8, 2008
Michael & Margaret always raved about 'Uncle Johnny'. He was so special to them and obviously many others. May good memories and dear friends and family be some consolation at this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.
Joseph Fox
January 8, 2008
Boylan Family
So sorry to hear about the passing of John. Fond memories of John from our time at Marist. A true gentleman and great upper-class influence. John had good ear and would listen intently. I recall several times where he gave me sage advice. I revisit these conversations often. Last time I saw John was at Mike Lanza's 40th Birthday Party on Staten Island.....what a great time!
Charlotte Hambley
January 8, 2008
Dear Caroline and Julia,
I'm so sorry about your dad. I can't believe he's gone. I barely knew him, but I thought he was a great guy. You'll see him again in Heaven one day. You're in my prayers. I'm so sorry.
Love,
Charlotte Hambley
Pamela Hambley
January 8, 2008
We are still deeply shocked and saddened at the news of John's death. What a warm man he was. Lauren, I still remember how John sported a smile and twinkle in his eye despite spending hours shopping with you in the Basin Harbor Pro Shop. I thought to myself, "He must really love her!!"
Our hearts go out to you, the girls, and your family. John will not be forgotten, and we will be remembering all of you in our prayers.
Love,
Pam, Marc, Charlotte & Eric Hambley
Gerry Mayerhofer
January 8, 2008
To Lauren and the Boylan Family,
I am terribly saddened for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family today and always.
Don Parker
January 8, 2008
I will always admire John for his grace and warmth as my daughter Delaney’s 4th grade intramural basketball coach. As you can imagine, that 4th grade crew was more than a handful, but John was never fazed and was always encouraging. With that twinkle in his eye and that genuine smile, John's patience, wisdom, and goodwill always shone on that court. My daughter was new to the sport that year and was not the star, but John always had a positive word for her and made her feel as one of the team. I’ll always be thankful for that. Laura, Julia, and Caroline: we are so sorry for your loss, but may God continue to bless with you with John’s wonderful spirit forever.
Connie Wysota
January 8, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
We are so sorry for your loss. Strathmore will not be the same without John's friendly smile (and those white shorts!). I know that John is so proud of you. You are an amazing family and that is the most wonderful tribute you can give John. Please know we are here for you, praying for and thinking of you.
Love,
Connie & Scott Wysota
Elaine Lotruglio
January 8, 2008
Dear Lauren and Girls:
Unfortunately, I only met John/your Dad this past summer. I wish I had known him. It is obvious that he was a TRULY amazing person. May God help you with your pain and sadness.
Much Love Elaine Lotruglio
Elliot Fleishhacker
January 8, 2008
John was a unique guy. I was so fortunate to run into him again after high school and become friends with him all these years. I am sure he is still making fun of my back swing.
Lillian and Dennis Sears
January 8, 2008
Dear Lauren, Julia and Caroline,
What was said on the death of a relative of ours also describes John. "He was a man's man, he was a gentleman. I never heard him say an unkind word about anyone."
Rally Robinson
January 8, 2008
I don't think I've ever seen John without a smile on his face. That's a wonderful testament to how happy his family made him and how much he loved all of you and clearly was loved by all.
Please know that you are in your thoughts and prayers.
Sharon, Arnold, and Allison Neimanis
January 8, 2008
May the strength of John's love empower you to continue to be the the strong family that you are. We will always be there for you!
Bob, Elizabeth, Robert & Brinton Hoover
January 8, 2008
What a shock to hear of the sudden loss of John. We will miss his laugh, madras shorts and Marist golf bag for the Basin Harbor adventures. He was loved by all and will be remembered with happy, fond memories from his extended BHC family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Lauren, Julia and Caroline. And yes, the "ugliest sport coat" contest that he proposed for BHC in 2008 will go on for week 29 in his honor. All our love.
Kathy Simmons
January 7, 2008
Lauren and family, our hearts are heavy but we will treasure our memories of John forever. One favorite is the night Louise and I encountered a young hooligan harrassing us on Plandome Road. Later as we drove home, we spotted the boy's car, parked at Chiao's house on Old Estate Rd, where a house party was in full swing. We immediately ran to get John. No questions asked, he grabbed his jacket and followed us in pursuit of the offending teen. I will always remember the once cocky boy's face turn ashen when he looked up at John towering over him, demanding an apology in our honor. Our hero.
cathleen devlin
January 7, 2008
i am sorry for your loss.If there is anything I can do let me know. love Cathy Devlin
Ryan Devlin
January 7, 2008
Johnny B,
Hey buddy....Im gonna miss seeing you in "our house" on George St. As well as your kindness, jokes, and big smile. Lauren, Julia, and Caroline, I love you all and know that im always right next door and a phone call away.
Scott & Nancy Armstrong
January 7, 2008
Our heartfelt condolences to your family. May your sadness lighten with every day. John touched many lives with his wit and warmth, and will be remembered with a smile by all that knew him forever.
Jack McHale
January 7, 2008
Johnny B, there is not enough room to mention all that you have done for others.A famous song writer once stated," To forget about yourself is to see everything else." That was how you lived.
Lauren, our prayers will be with you always.
Jack and Trish McHale
Sandra Catlin Bonom
January 7, 2008
Lauren, Julia & Caroline,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of John's death.
I know you must be devastated and my only comfort for you is to let you know that John was a great man in my eyes and will be missed very much.
John and Annette ONeill
January 7, 2008
Lauren,Julia,Caroline and the Boylan Family, Will never forget the smile,the great sense of humor or the wink he would give you when he got hot on the basketball court, great guy will be missed by all.
PETER DEVLIN
January 7, 2008
WE ARE SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, MAY THE LORD BE WITH AT THIS TIME AND
KNOW THAT JOHN WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU. iF THERE IS ANY THING WE CAN DO
PLEASE LET KNOW. PETER, HOLLY, JOSH, CASEY DEVLIN
Anthony Alessi
January 6, 2008
It is difficult to fathom not being able to walk into John's office for my daily dose of enthusiasm...or for a clearer perspective on something that seemed complex to me but clear as a bell to him. The beaming smile of this bigger than life guy will be etched in fond memories of him always.
Brian Laux
January 6, 2008
To John's Family,
John Boylan is a very special man. He has touched many lives with his warmth and his incredible spirit. I had the pleasure of meeting him through "business" but spent time with him on the basketball court and at the tavern as well. His life was echoed by his hoops game...unselfish, straight shooter, total team player. As for business I think of him as one of the finest men I have ever met. Honest, caring, thoughtful, smart...the total package. Though I haven't seen John in a while I think of him often. I will miss him. You are all in my prayers.
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