John F. Burns Jr.

John F. Burns Jr.

John Burns Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 15, 2009.

AMESBURY — John F. Burns Jr. left this world unexpectedly on Monday, Jan. 12, 2009.

Born on March 5, 1958, he grew to be a man of exceptional character, charisma and kindness. He already is missed. John graduated from Amesbury High School in 1976. He expounded his academic studies at Northern Essex Community College, Essex Aggie and Gordon College. While John did well in the academic atmosphere, where he truly and easily excelled was in the realm of life. Where some of us only see the mundane in a moment of reality, John saw opportunities to improve someone's day, someone's life, increase the comfort of whomever seemed to be the societal outsider, or the incredible but simple chance to stir a smile.

John sought to inspire people, and succeeded with his superhuman feats. At the tender age of 18 he was told he would never walk again, assisted or not. Within a year, with the aid of braces, he was an usher in his sister Andrea's wedding. Three years later, he climbed Mt. Washington in New Hampshire. In 1990, he climbed Pike's Peak in Colorado. His hopes in meeting these physical challenges were not for personal glory, but to raise awareness for the spinal cord injured. It were these goals that motivated John to keep progressing. John had a gift with children as well as adults. In his lifetime, he emboldened countless young people to overcome barriers that seemed insurmountable. He volunteered his time with the emotionally and physically struggling youth of Nantucket Island. He also worked with and mentored the youth of Amesbury, both in the school system and on the rink. One of his loves was hockey, and his number is worn today by an Amesbury varsity player, Jacob Burns - his brother Christopher's son.

John left this world to go on to another place, where he is free and runs in the sun beside his father, John F. Burns Sr. He is sadly missed by his mother, Blanche P. Burns, his siblings Thomas, Andrea, Christopher, Paula, Lisa, Melinda, Seanda, Rebecca, Melissa and their spouses, David Smith, Beth Burns, Jimmy Palmieri, Michael Cook, Trevor Smith, Daniel Bartlett and Jeremy Leffert-Burns. The nieces and nephews he left behind will keep his memory alive; Johnna and Chris Holland; Michaela Smith, Nicholas Smith, Dacey Burns, John Burns, Jacob Burns, James and Lisa Palmieri, Caitlynne Palmieri, Christopher Palmieri, Elizabeth Palmieri, Mackenzie Cook, Spencer Cook, Keegan Bartlett, Callaghan Bartlett, Cameron Bartlett, Alexandra Smith, Emma Smith. Maddisen Lauren Palmieri, born just recently, is John's great-niece who, along with baby Holland, will be told many, many stories of their Great Uncle's adventures.

ARRANGEMENTS: John's family invites you to join them at 10 a.m. in St. Joseph's Church in Amesbury this Saturday, Jan. 17, for his memorial Mass. Following the Mass, a reception will be held by his mother Mrs. Blanche P. Burns at St. Joseph's Parish Hall. In lieu of flowers, John's family has requested donations be made in memory of John to St. Jude's Children's Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-1942. Arrangements are by the E.V. Jutras & Sons Funeral Home in Amesbury.

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February 3, 2009

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January 31, 2009

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January 28, 2009

Kathy (Bean) Stanley posted to the memorial.

Lynda Colby

February 3, 2009

John, my friend, my inspiration, I will always cherish the memories of the time I spent with you. I am grateful for having known you...your courage,your strength, your kindness, undoubtedly he most
handsome angel in heaven.
Some people come in to our lives and quickly go, they leave footprints on our hearts and we are never the same. With deepest sympathy to your family.

bob harriman

January 31, 2009

How do i put into words on the kind of person john was my heart and prayers go out to his family. I went to school with john and when i saw him he was allways upbeat and happy to see me and would allways ask how my family was doing as he knew all of them. We have all lost a special soul and he will be greatly missed

Kathy (Bean) Stanley

January 28, 2009

Mrs. Burns & Family,
It is with a heavy heart that I send my thoughts and prayers to you all. Your brother John is such a beautiful soul, my memories of him are happy, kind , and humorous. He will be missed sorely by all who knew him. My most sincere sympathies are with you all.

Vicky Barbati-Haak

January 23, 2009

Andrea,Chris,Paula and Lisa,
I was deeply saddened when I heard of John's passing. I had a chance to talk with John about a year ago. I knew at that very moment I was in the presence of someone truly special. I know God used him in many ways. John showed the world the incredible strength of the human spirit, unconditional love of oneself and of all mankind and what unshakeable faith is. John never had to say he believed in God. You could see it in his eyes, his smile and his actions. His light will never darken. It will shine through all he touched, as we live our lives with deeper purpose, meaning and love in all we do.

Kelliann Moriarty-Paknik

January 19, 2009

Rebecca,
With deepest sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Kelliann Moriarty-Paknik

Sara Rowe

January 19, 2009

My prayers for the entire family to find the strength needed to get through this difficult time. John was and always be a part of Amesbury. He truly touched the lives of so many people and will be remembered always. He defined the words making a difference. Again I am so sorry.

DawnMarie Lamphier

January 18, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies. I will miss running into him when Im visiting Amesbury. Always at Vermette's with that happy smile of his.

jill phillips ratte

January 18, 2009

To Chris and all of your family,
So sorry for your loss...I hope you find comfort in all the people who will remember John.

Stephanie Gottwald

January 17, 2009

John was a loved and important member of the neighborhood. His smile and greeting could light up any day. He will be sorely missed.

Karen Jenkins

January 16, 2009

Aunt Dolly and Cousins,
While our hearts are heavy at this time, may we find solace in knowing that John is at peace. John was an extraordinary person who touched many lives. He embodies the human spirit and was an inspiration to many. I will always be grateful for his love and kindness.
Love, Karen, Tad, and Josh

Doug Dowie

January 16, 2009

John,
a good friend to me and all he was at my wedding and the best man at my sisters
Love ya man

Holly (Clark) Moughan

January 16, 2009

My deepest condolences to the entire Burns family at this very sad time. I will always remember the rides to Torey & JB's hockey games with him. I hope your memories of John will help you get through this very difficult time in your lives. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Maureen (Calnan) Dusseault

January 16, 2009

My deepest condolences to your family. I am deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. He was a friend and an inspiration to all. Though I have not lived in the area for many years, John and his family are among my warm memories of growing up in Amesbury. I hope your memories of John bring comfort to you all in the difficult times ahead.

Linda Clark

January 16, 2009

Aunt Dolly and Family

It is so difficult to put into words how deeply sorry I am about John's passing. He was such a remarkable individual whose smile always lit up a room. I am blessed to have him as my cousin as I am the whole family and I will always hold him dear to my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family during this difficult time.

Love to all

Linda

Pam Holt

January 16, 2009

May the strength of your wonderful family help guide each of you through such a sad time in your lives. Remember the good times, and how many people John touched in his short life.
Love to all,
Brian and Pam (Gleason)Holt

Lars Lemstrom

January 15, 2009

Deep Condolences to the entire Burns' Clan. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
I have the benefit of some very good memories thanks to JB and Brother Chris. They'll not fade soon. I'm very grateful for the pleasure of knowing him & family.

Judi Fowler-Cogswell

January 15, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to the Burns family for their loss. John was a great guy who over came such challenges and was an inspiration to us all. I fondly remember him coming up Whittier Ave and seeing one of us out side and he would be sure to stop to say hello always with a big smile on his face.

God Bless

The Fowler family

Tina (Baldinelli) Wallace

January 15, 2009

I graduated in 1978 with Paula and I remember hearing of the terrible accident that John went through - it has been haunting and and yet an educational part of life in teaching my children.... I have never forgot the situation - but more recently I can remember meeting up with John at Vermettes - ALWAYS with a smile on his face and a kind word with everyone - I always admired his attitude and his accomplishments. Hearing of his death tonight made me sad ... I will always remember his being a gentleman to the end.

Cindy Baumann-Retalic

January 15, 2009

Aunt Dolly - and all -

John was charming, funny, flirty, handsome, so silly at times. He was courage and then some. He was your son, your brother, my cousin. I want to tell each of you, how special you are, and to always know in your hearts that John simply loved, so many people, add that quick smile, the confidence, the words of encouragement and how he made a difference in so many lives, surely, and deeply he will be missed.



My love to all -

Maureen Murphy-Baird

January 15, 2009

John was one of the most remarkable and influential people to touch my life. He was also one of the most handsome and upbeat men I have ever had the pleasure to know. We taught together at Amesbury Middle School and the days, many blustery, cold wintry days, when John's big suede glove could be heard knocking on the downstairs door at the end of the corrider, the kids in our special class would explode with "Is John here? Is that John? Can I work with John" He was a hero to them and taught them a lot about perseverence and character in the face of adversity. He was so well known around town, it was impossible to walk five feet without someone yelling out "Hey John" from a passing car or stopping on the sidewalk to see what was new. He always left them with a smile...a wonderful broad smile that warmed one's heart.
I know his incredible family will surround and support each other in their loss. My heart is with them and a piece of it will always belong to John.

Sue Schwechheimer

January 15, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the the entire family in this time of deepest sorrow. John made me smile many times,and when I think of him I still do.

Mike Gleason

January 15, 2009

He will be sadly missed

Brian & Gail Hamel

January 15, 2009

We were saddened to learn that John had passed away and we are holding him and his entire family in our hearts and prayers. I remember like it was yesterday when we were growing up and how much we enjoyed spending time with John. I also recall with fondness and with many positive lessons learned when John conquered Pike's Peak and the example he set for so many. Two years ago when Brian's Dad passed away, John took the time to attend his funeral and shared with Brian his fond memories of Brian's Dad that meant so much to Brian. This was an example of what a fine person John was. Although John may no longer be with us physically, our memories of him will never fade.

Cathy Barbati-DeBlois

January 15, 2009

Dear Mrs. Burns and Family:
It was with sincere sadness I read about John today online from Florida where I live. Although I haven't seen John in many years, I am deeply saddened at his loss. Our families shared a closeness during my childhood years that I cherish and won't ever forget. I wish you all peace and strength at this time.

Bertina Lawliss

January 15, 2009

My heart is heavy this morning when I learned of John's passing . He was such a gentleman and gentle man. Every time I saw him, most often at town hall when he came to vote, he would seek me out and we would have a wonderful conversation. I well remember when my husband went to the hospital to present John his diploma. I would like to extend my heartfelt sympathy to the whole family for John, a life well lived.Bertina Lawliss

Patti (Osborn) Nelson

January 15, 2009

John will be greatly missed. May remembering happy times with John, help you through the sad times. The Osborn Family.

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