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Susan Goldstein
August 30, 2020
Your dedication to detail—so needed in your work—did not prevent you from paying attention to people and seeing the big picture. Thanks for all the ways you made the world a better place and reminded us to notice its beauty.
The Rev. Dr. Kenneth King
August 24, 2020
John never met anyone that did not succumb to his generosity and one on what their stories what he was able to gleam from them. He supported so much with his ideas and compassion. He encouraged this person in his generosity and inspiration. He took this right brain pharmacist and vigorously supported him through his adaptation being a left brain priest. The times I returned to Berkeley John offered the use of his suv—-with no questions asked. John and Sharon offered a safe haven entertaining my late wife Oonagh with delicious meals and wine as.we conquered the problems of this world. Abbott conquered the vocation of this world and I led the memorial service to him. He made a memorial to every person he met—a lesson from his father. The world is a different place due to John and his son.... their personality brought many a chuckle to everyone. I house sat for Sharon and John while they were in China. Abbott called the house to check on his ‘carbon’ based parental units’ and we belly laughed at his whit and humor. On several trips back to the East Bay we always tried to make sure we visited John and Sharon. A mentor, friend, encourager, friend, conquer of problems, John always supported me and my disenchanted change of lifestyles were instrumental in seeking my new vocation. Join and Sharon attended my ordination at Grace Cathedral in 2005. Like Sharon, I will miss him for the rest of my journey through this existence. There are really no words that can express my feelings for John—and Sharon you will stay in my prayers and John &. Sharon. I regret not having gone on the trip to Death Valley that he loved so much. Know that you are loved and cared for in this time of grief. Call on me anytime day or night if you wish to talk. It is the least thing I can do in returning the lessons that John has passed on to me, as a down to earth presence.
Dick Seibert
August 24, 2020
My condolences to Sharon, I took morning saunas with John at World Gym in the late 90s, ironically at a time shortly after I had gone through prostate cancer treatment, John brought me my prescriptions and we discussed prostate cancer a lot, after learning of Abbott's tragic passing I was able to see John again.
Ruth and Lynn Dyche
August 24, 2020
My husband and I met John through Sierra Club activities over thirty years ago and became close friends with he and his wife, Sharon. We would often meet in Pleasanton for long meandering lunches together because that was the halfway point between our homes.
One year we vacationed together in Cabo San Lucas, Baja where each couple purchased a timeshare. Of course, afterwards, we all had qualms and doubts but it turned out to be a wonderful thing. For the next twenty years
we went to Cabo together for a most enjoyable week. We treasure the memories of those times.
We love you, dear friend, and will always keep you in our hearts.
Lynn and Ruth Dyche
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Art Bartee
August 23, 2020
I went to high school with John. In more recent years, we saw each other at high school reunions. John was a truly nice, decent man. My sympathies to his family.
Melanie and Terry O’Hare
August 23, 2020
We met John and Sharon on a trip across Central Asia. We struck up a friendship then and we continued it on our return to California. We were drawn together by a love of travel, but we found that our life paths had a similar trajectory. On another adventure last year, we managed to meet up in Saint Petersburg, Russia for breakfast. Although we, unfortunately, didn’t know John for very long, we felt as if we had known him forever. He made one feel that comfortable because of his quiet, warm manner of relating and his kindness and generosity.
He immediately volunteered to help prune our lemon tree when he saw that it needed it. On another occasion when we needed to have a device repaired, he arranged for a friend to look at it. He was very caring. He has left Sharon his beautifully developed garden, which is a living legacy. John will be greatly missed.
Linda & Harvard Candage
August 17, 2020
How we will miss John. Our relationship (brother by marriage) over the years was one of friendship and love. Many cross country visits included many of our mutual significant life events as well as times to treasure as we review memories of 'lives well lived'. He shared his time energy and caring nature with our young family during their growing years and opened a bigger world for us all. A loss we grieve but a truly beloved part of our family.
Jacqueline Jacobson
August 15, 2020
A true gentleman and friend - vaya con dios John.
Carol Maiocco
August 14, 2020
John was a dear friend who used to study at our home for his pharmacy school exams. We were all young then and we continued to be good friends until old age. Then death took my husband, Hugh, and then took John. As a young man John was pleasant, bright, kind, considerate and a pleasure to be around. He aged well with those same qualities. Ruth and Robert and I will miss him, but we will always remember him.
Carol Maiocco
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