John (Jack) Mallek

John (Jack) Mallek obituary, Ithaca, NY

John (Jack) Mallek

John (Jack) Mallek Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 2, 2025.
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of John "Jack" Ryan Mallek. Jack, age 22, passed away peacefully in his sleep on February 4, 2025, in Ithaca, New York, due to complications from Type 1 diabetes.

Jack was completing his final semester at Cornell University in Ithaca, where he was set to receive his Bachelor of Arts degree in May with a double major in Mathematics and Computer Science from the College of Arts and Sciences.

Born and raised in McLean, Virginia, Jack attended The Langley School and Longfellow Middle School before graduating from Thomas Jefferson High School for Science and Technology (TJ). At TJ, he was co-president of the Linguistics Club and an active member of the Drama Club, participating in productions such as *Mary Poppins*, *Monty Python's Spamalot*, and *Newsies*.

Jack had a deep passion for learning and a remarkable intellect. Fluent in Mandarin, he began studying Chinese in third grade and spent the summer of 2019 in Beijing. His dedication to mastering the language continued through weekly tutoring sessions until the week before he passed. He was also deeply interested in history, particularly historical revolutions, and was preparing to launch a podcast on the Spanish Civil War.

Beyond academics, Jack was committed to social justice and activism. He was an active member of the Young Democratic Socialists of America and volunteered with Stomp Out Slumlords in Washington, D.C., working to support tenants' rights. His compassion for others extended into every aspect of his life, as he sought to bring attention to injustices and ensure all people were recognized and valued. His favorite Bible verses were James 2:14-17: "...faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead."

Jack had many talents and interests. He played the piano, loved to sing, and cherished time spent with family. He especially looked forward to visiting Canada to be with his cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents. Above all else, Jack shared an unbreakable bond with his younger brother, James-they were best friends.

Jack's future plans included working for a year or two before pursuing a Ph.D. in Mathematics. His ultimate goal was to teach while continuing his advocacy work and helping those most in need.

Jack is survived by his beloved brother James Mallek (TJ class of '22), his parents James and Joy Mallek, his girlfriend Sievalee Wijayawardhana, his grandparents Harold and Norma Barker, as well as his extended family in Canada.

A Celebration of Life service will be held at McLean Community Center on Sunday, March 16, from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m., at 1234 Ingleside Ave., McLean, VA 22101.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Diabetes National Institute (https://www.diabetesni.org/how-you-can-help/), which funds research conducted by Jack's pediatric endocrinologist Dr. Douglas Sobel at Georgetown University; or to the Democratic Socialists of America/Metro DC Chapter (https://mdcdsa.org/join-donate/?dis=yes), which sponsors Stomp Out Slumlords.

For those who wish to share messages, photos, or videos of Jack, please send them to [email protected].

Jack's kindness, intellect, and unwavering dedication to justice will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

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July 12, 2025

Zayed Bin Saif Al Nahyan posted to the memorial.

March 18, 2025

Tara Maragas Hill planted trees.

March 17, 2025

Joan Guilfoyle posted to the memorial.

Zayed Bin Saif Al Nahyan

July 12, 2025

Rest In Peace.
May Allah keep you in His gardens.

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Tara Maragas Hill

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Joan Guilfoyle

March 17, 2025

Dear Joy, Jay and James,

Again, I am so sorry about Jack´s death. You did such a beautiful job honoring him yesterday between all of the pictures and your heartfelt tributes. I know it must have been so hard. You could tell how much he was loved and the positive impact he made on so many lives.

Joan

Jacqueline Csmplisson

March 16, 2025

Joy, my deepest condolence to you and your family. My hearts breaks for you. You all are in my prayers.

Sheila Malcolm

March 11, 2025

The news of Jack's death left me heartbroken. My memories of him from The Langley School remain vivid and cherished. As a student in my music class, he was a delightful and engaging child. My thoughts are with his loved ones, particularly James, during this difficult time. Jack's remarkable life, though tragically brief, touched many hearts, and he will be deeply remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Sandra Villar

March 11, 2025

My deepest condolences to the dear Mallek family. RIP lovely Jack!

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Hakan Ilhan

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Jennifer Seavey

March 10, 2025

Jack was one of my favorite students. His far-ranging mind, creative energy, and sense of humor enlivened my HUM I class. I´m sure he´s entertaining the angels.

Kai Foti

March 9, 2025

We will miss you Jack! You were a sweet and amazing friend! May you rest in peace

Ishini Gammanpila

March 9, 2025

Jack "Danger" Mallek, my favorite resident by a long shot, thank you for being a rare example of consistent goodness. I will always cherish the memories we shared until the end. Steal a dining hall poster tripod for me, wherever you are, I´ll be your lookout this time.

Quin Hess

March 9, 2025

Unfathomable loss of a beloved son, brother, grandson, friend. Taken too soon, we´re left to only imagine the life he would have had, the impact he would have made on individuals and collectively. My heart goes out to all who knew and loved him.

Wen Sang

March 8, 2025

There are no words to express our sadness. Jack's kindness, intellect will be deeply missed by all who knew him. He loved learning Chinese language, culture, history and he even could speak Chinese as well as a native speaker. He had a deep passion for learning and a remarkable intellect. We will miss Jack so, so much!

Sylvia Bennett

March 8, 2025

Fond memories with Jack and the Mallek family. Missing you! From, Sylvia

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Yujia Julia Liang

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Ted Johnson

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Danielle Dotson

March 4, 2025

Dear Jack, we will all miss you. Thank you for being my piano student and for having such a broad range of interests as well as great concentration and motivation. There are many memories of you and your family that bring a smile to my face.

To Jack's family and all who knew him: I'm so sorry.

There are many motivational learning stories that I have been sharing with my students for years from Jack's piano lessons. All of them are good stories for various reasons (!). In case the family remembers, some of the pieces are Allegretto 1, A Short Story, Beethoven Sonatina in G, Bonetrousle, Prelude in C.

I'm so happy the Mallek family started piano lessons way back when, and that I got to be the teacher for Jack and James for all those years. I think Jack was around 4, and James was in diapers. My calendar has the last lesson as June 20, 2016, just before going on tour. We would have worked on the accompaniments and solos for the tour, trying to get Jack and James prepared for everything the violins might do wrong. They were both great.

We covered a range of non-piano topics in lessons as well over the years. I remember Jack bringing up Newtonian fluid flow, telling me about learning Mandarin and lots of other interests, going to Langley, Longfellow and then TJ, doing his own Bonetrousle arrangements, neither Jack nor James enjoying learning music theory, interspersed with time off the piano for hospital stays when Jack was younger. Every teacher has student families they look forward to seeing each week, and Jack and James and parents were definitely one of my favorite families.

Jack's family, friends, and everyone who knows him all around the world will miss him so, so much. We'll also miss all the wonderful things he would have gone on to do. I'm so sorry.

No doubt I'll tell the stories of Jack's piano trials and tribulations in lessons again, when the new students need to hear them. Suitably exaggerated, for motivational purposes, of course. The students always smile and ask questions, many of them unrelated to piano. I hope Jack can hear them.

Danielle Dotson

March 4, 2025

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