John P. Nelson

1946 - 2017

John P. Nelson obituary, 1946-2017, Appleton, WI

John P. Nelson

1946 - 2017

BORN

1946

DIED

2017

John Nelson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 23, 2017.
Nelson, John P.

John P. Nelson, age 70, died on Wednesday, May 17 of injuries sustained in a motorcycle accident in Ashwaubenon. John was born on November 21, 1946 in Oshkosh WI son of the late Jane (Procknow) and Paul R. Nelson. He graduated from Oshkosh West in 1964. After serving in the US Army National Guard for 6 years, he was hired by the Appleton Police Department on May 4, 1968. John was a proud member of the APD for 32 years He began his career as a Beat Walker, moved on to Cruiser Driver, and the Call Command Center. He was promoted to Lieutenant in charge of Investigative Services. In 2000 he retired from the APD Community Resource Unit.

During his law enforcement career, he was a member of the SWAT Team and the Honor Guard. John belonged to the Appleton Police Benevolent Association, the Appleton Police Professional Association, and the Wisconsin Police Professional Association. He was honored with the Meritorious Service Award in 1996. In addition, he was an adjunct instructor at Fox Valley Technical College teaching both Motorcycle Rider Safety, and Traffic Safety School.

In 2004, John began his second career at Kobussen Bus Company. During his 14 years as a coach driver, he travelled locally, nationally and internationally. His favorite trip was the 2008 Winter Olympics in Vancouver, Canada. To the delight of his family and friends, these trips provided John with many experiences that brought his embellished storytelling to a whole new level. Among his favorite things to do were riding his slingshot with Barb, sailing with Eric and Saralyn, spending time with his grandchildren, watching Packer and Brewer games, travelling and cooking. His grandchildren especially loved his homemade doughnuts.

John is survived by his wife of 46 years, Barbara (Baeten) Nelson, his children, Eric (Kelly), and their children, Gabrielle, Silas, and Titus, Tucson, AZ; and daughter, Saralyn (Santos) Paredes and their children Ryann, Paitynn and Santos (Jr.), Union Grove, WI. He is further survived by three sisters, Dr. Christine Nelson (Susan Pescar), Visalia, CA, Mary Wing (Brad), Hartford, WI and Paula Hayes, Corona, CA; brothers-in-law, Wayne (Joyce) Malcore, Tomahawk, WI; Peter (Linda) Baeten, Green Bay, WI; sisters-in-law, Donna Theroux (Richard), Plover, WI and Paula Theroux (Robert), Lakewood, WI. He is survived by many nieces and nephews, including special nephew, Jeffry Malcore (Tami) Neenah, WI and niece, Lisa Malcore (Bill), Germantown, WI as well as many friends. John was further preceded in death by his mother and father-in-law; aunts and uncles; and sister-in-law, Ann Malcore; and nephew, Joel Theroux.

Memorial Service for John will be 11:00 AM on Friday, May 26, 2017 at VALLEY FUNERAL HOME, with Fr. Dean Dombroski officiating. Visitation will be held at the funeral home on Friday morning beginning at 9:00 until the 11:00 AM service. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund is established to support the APD K9 Program. To make a gift in honor of John, go to https://donor.cffoxvalley.org/Make-A-Gift and select Appleton Police K9 Program Fund from the Designation drop-down menu.

John's family wishes to acknowledge the support of the Hobart/Lawrence Police Department, Ashwaubenon Department of Public Safety, and the Trauma Team and ICU staff at St Vincent Hospital, Green Bay, especially Sherriee, RN. We would like to express our gratitude to the Appleton Police Department and Kobussen Bus Company for their assistance during this difficult time.

John, you will be dearly missed by your family. Ride on!



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May 27, 2017

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December 26, 2019

I was 14 when I met John shortly after he started the force in '68. We'd hang downtown in groups of 5-15 kids and he would always stop and talk with us. Never tried to play hard guy to impress us kids, as others have, we all just grew to like this guy. Most of the olders didnt get a chance to meet and talk with him passing by with their own schedules. After he was a patrol cruiser he would stop by the parks, to make sure we weren't getting into mischief. Maybe I've only been with him 20-25 times and talked 15-20 minutes at a time, but always seemed as if we were friends forever, and called me by my first name. You could sense "niceness" around him and serious sincerity when speaking with him about anything. I envy his family, not for the loss, but to be able to share their lives with his. Unlike those people on the avenue when i was a kid. John's family in support of the K-9 program for the Appleton police is selling t-shirts. If all I have to do to promote John's memory is buy a t-shirt... sign me up. Good man, Good cop. John, the next time I see you on patrol, pull me over and we'll talk again.

Nancy Smith - Former FVTC employee

May 31, 2017

Barb and family - I recently heard of the passing of your husband and father. I was so sorry to hear this. Barb, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your kids. Take care of yourself until you meet John once again.

Tom/Mary Witczak

May 27, 2017

Our sympathy to the Nelson family. When I first met John and saw him in his police uniform, I thought he was the toughest cop I had ever met. When we were on the street and John had to raise his voice, people took a step back. But as we worked together and became friends, I found that John had a heart of gold.
We will miss John. Until we meet again my friend.
And we will.

May 26, 2017

It was always a pleasure when John and his partner Steve stopped in at the Paper Valley Hotel near the end of their shift. They'd always regal us with "Tales from the Avenue" of the crazy people getting into trouble downtown. Or the fun in the early days when APD had BMW motorcycles.
Have fun up in Heaven LT. where the ride is smooth and the weather is nice all day!

Scott Parkinson

One of my favorites

Eric Nelson

May 23, 2017

One of my favorites with my daughter

Eric Nelson

May 23, 2017

Always including the kids in his work.

Eric Nelson

May 23, 2017

Him and his 1st wife, the boat was his second, hehe

Eric Nelson

May 23, 2017

He loves to carry the kids on his shoulders

Eric Nelson

May 23, 2017

The kids love that BUS! So does Dad

Eric Nelson

May 23, 2017

Dad loved to let them feed him

Eric Nelson

May 23, 2017

On the Boston trip

Lyn Rolain

May 23, 2017

John was our bus driver on many Senior trips from Negaunee,Michigan.He always got us from point A to point B and back home safely. John was amazing how he could turn that bus on a dime,I swear.Very friendly and professional, my last trip with him was to Boston. Prayers and my heart felt deepest sympathy to all the family. Believe me,John will be Missed ! RIP,John !

Mark Kohl

May 23, 2017

RIP John. Thoughts and prayers to the family and friends. Words can't express the loss.

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