John Michael Tonjes

John Michael Tonjes obituary, Buffalo, NY

John Michael Tonjes

John Tonjes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 15, 2024.
John Michael Tonjes, 57, formerly of Burnt Hills and Buffalo, NY passed away peacefully into eternal life on 8 May 2024 at Erie County Medical Centre, Buffalo, NY.

John lived life large and felt love deeply. He was a lifelong fan of the New York Yankees and New York Giants. John was a giver and enjoyed sharing his love of baseball with young people by coaching girls' softball and umpiring, a passion he picked up from his dad. John was also a motorcycle enthusiast. Getting his first dirt bike when he was young, he was hooked and became an avid rider. His motorcycle trips took him all across the eastern United States but he had a special place in his heart for the Blue Ridge Mountains and its eponymous Blue Ridge Parkway.

He graduated from Burnt Hills Ballston Lake High School where he excelled in athletics and developed a passion for motorcycles. John obtained his CASAC had a career in addiction treatment that spanned several decades. John worked at many treatment facilities in his life time such as the Hospitality House, Bridge Centre, ACT Team. Hope House and most recently at Clearview Treatment Facility in Buffalo NY.

John was the father of John Tonjes Jr., Megan Tonjes, and Quinn Tonjes, the brother and brother-in law of Catherine and Tim Williams, Tiffany and Rodney Lewis, and Christopher Tonjes. He was the uncle of Claire Williams-Sauer and Jess Sauer, Nicholas Williams, and Ashley and Scott Salmon.

He was reunited with his birth-mother Annette (Nan) Roth, sisters and brother-in-laws as well as nieces and nephews, Kim and Tony Dobiesz and their children Matthew and Olivia Dobiesz, Jesse and Phil Ostrowski and their children, Reid, Lola, and Emmet Ostrowski, and Kristen and Rob Wood. John is preceded by his father and mother, Arthur and Rosemary Tonjes, and his birth-father Bruce Feathers whom John was the spitting image of, and his son Jake Tonjes.

Click here to watch the Celebration of Life service for John https://vimeo.com/935889667.There were two Celebration of Life services offered for the friends and family who loved John in Albany and Buffalo on:

Saturday, June 1, 2024 at 10 o'clock at Shenendehowa United Methodist Church, 971 NY Route 146, Clifton Park, N.Y. 12065. All are welcome.

Please join us for a light lunch offered immediately following the service. We would love to share the stories of how John touched our lives.

Tuesday June 4th from 4-8 pm at New Comer Funeral Home 5090 Transit Road, Depew, NY 14043. All are welcome.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in John's name to the Healing Springs Recovery and Outreach Center in Saratoga Springs NY, Hearts for Homeless in Buffalo NY, or a charity of your choice.

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June 3, 2024

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John Reith Jr

June 3, 2024

To John´s Family and Friends, I am saddened to hear of John´s passing. I knew John through mutual friends and he was a great guy and I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers and sympathies go out to his family. John R

Samantha Cramer

June 1, 2024

I worked with John at the Recovery Center of Niagara where he was an inspiration to so many. John was an amazing mentor and an amazing friend. He was able to reach so many people and touched so many lives. He will forever be missed. Rest easy my friend

Mary Spadola

May 31, 2024

John was a close member of our family for years. He loved my sister Michelle and she loved(s) him. During those years John was influential in my niece Rachel and nephew Graham's lives. John traveled to Italy with Michelle, her siblings and in-laws and is part of some very special memories. John was a good man. Rest in peace John.

Linda Fretto

May 28, 2024

Dear Nan and family. I´m so sorry for your loss. John was a very sweet guy and always had a smile on his face. I met John through my daughter Lisa. He helped me move and with the way he joked... there was a lot of laughs. Rest In Peace, John

Paul Yingling

May 27, 2024

good neighbor man!

Dean Hale

May 23, 2024

Working at Hope House talking about music and listening to Toby Mac https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LWLZ_MrPplk RIP and ride on

Michelle Monast

May 23, 2024

He was a good man who was and still is loved so much. He will never be forgotten.

Megan Tonjes

May 15, 2024

He coached my soccer team when I was young.

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