Joseph "Butch" Marvel II

1943 - 2017

Joseph "Butch" Marvel II obituary, 1943-2017, Georgetown, DE

Joseph "Butch" Marvel II

1943 - 2017

BORN

1943

DIED

2017

Joseph Marvel Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 1, 2017.
Joseph 'Butch' Marvel II

Georgetown - Joseph Burton "Butch" Marvel II passed away on Monday, Nov. 27, 2017, following a short stay at Delaware Hospice in Milford.

Butch was first diagnosed with neuroendocrine carcinoma in 2012 and was later found to have Merkel cell cancer. Doctors called him a "medical Marvel" because he so far exceeded his life expectancy. Butch was very grateful for the excellent care and unending compassion he received from Drs. Peri, Thomas and Pisc and the entire staff at Tunnell Cancer Center, as well as from his primary care physician Dr. Beshara Helou.

Butch was born on Nov. 14, 1943, at Beebe Hospital in Lewes, to Joseph Lewis "Joe B" Marvel and Myrtle Parker Marvel. He was later joined in life by his younger sister, Sue.

Butch was a lifelong athlete and sports fan. He played baseball, football and basketball at Georgetown High School, where he graduated in 1961. Butch attended the University of Delaware before transferring to Bridgewater College in Virginia, where he earned a degree in elementary education, played baseball and was the starting quarterback for the football team for all four years. He then returned to Bridgewater and coached basketball and football while he earned credits to teach secondary education.

Butch served in the U.S. Army Reserve from 1966-1972. He then went on to teach English for over 30 years at Sussex Central High School and later at Delaware Technical and Community College.

Many in the community knew Butch as a coach at Georgetown and then Sussex Central High Schools, as well as briefly at Cape Henlopen High School, for the Georgetown Little League and later for his children's sports teams. He coached baseball, basketball and football for many years, including the State Champion 1969 Georgetown senior little league all-star team. He was also proud of his time as assistant coach to Ray Barkauski at SCHS, where they shared a number of successful seasons. He also served as a Rehoboth Beach lifeguard in the sixties and seventies, a time during which he made many friends and memories.

Butch married Holly Skidmore Marvel on Feb. 23, 1980. They were married for 37 years and had three children: Shannon, Kelsey and Michael. All three married (to Corey McNaught, Cody White and Allison Vari Marvel, respectively) in the past year, and Kelsey welcomed Butch's first grandson, Rowan Joseph White, on Nov. 16, 2017. He is also survived by his granddaughter, Reagan Mackenzie White, and four nephews: Eric and Joey Pepper (sons of sister Sue Pepper-Whapham) and Mark and Matthew Skidmore (sons of Mark and Renee Skidmore).

After his retirement, Butch continued to exercise avidly, first at Quest Fitness in Lewes and then at Flex World Fitness in Georgetown, where he made many friends and gained many admirers. He loved spin classes and bicycling outdoors with his wife. He continued exercising long after his diagnosis, sometimes going to the gym just after receiving chemotherapy.

Above all, Butch was a family man. He loved to brag on his wife, children and relatives whenever given the chance. In retirement, he relished in performing various tasks and errands for his wife and children, British mystery television series, Jon Stewart's Daily Show, Harlan Coben books and fantasy sports leagues with his ragtag bunch of Sussex County friends. He read multiple newspapers and completed multiple crosswords daily.

Visitation will be held on Sunday, Dec. 3, from 12 p.m. to 2 p.m. at Short Funeral Services, 609 E. Market St., Georgetown, followed by a brief service and a private burial. At 3:30 p.m., all are welcome and encouraged to join family and friends at the Georgetown Fire Hall for a celebration of Butch's life.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Bridgewater College at bridgewateralumni.com, Tunnell Cancer Center at beebemedicalfoundation.org or Delaware Hospice at delawarehospice.org.

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November 26, 2020

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Grier White

November 26, 2020

Three years later - hard to believe - and we still miss our dear friend. Those he left behind in fantasy sports world have made sure we now keep in much better touch. Butch was our COMMISH! We won't forget this special friend!

February 1, 2019

I am very sorry to read of your families' loss. Please accept my regrets. I hope the passage at James 1:13 will be a comfort to you all.
Maureen

January 23, 2019

With the passing of time, the acute pain of grief diminishes, Although the heartache of your loss continues, I hope that you can continue to find comfort in your cherished memories of Butch, and in the God of tender mercies who feels the pain of your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Emilie Howard

Karl Haller

December 3, 2017

My sympathies to the Mavel family. About 1970 was my first recollection of Butch - I was playing in a pickup basketball game at DT&CC. I had previously played in north New Jersey where I grew up. Most Sussex players were so much faster than I, that it seemed I was playing in slow motion. Butch was playing point guard, and unlike me, he was faster and more adept at his basketball skills so that he excelled. He really was good with a basketball!

Wlliam Mears

December 3, 2017

Butch was always a mentor to me and others, always going beyond was expected of him being a friend of the family and playing football and other sports in high School. With my brothers then being a coach to my brother and I later on at Central, When I heard of his passing all I could think of was Butch doing sprints on the old high school football field like he did so many times Godspeed to my friend!

George Booth

December 2, 2017

Sue,Holly, and family,
Butch was something special to me at that age when a boy wants to participate in sports and wants to figure out what it takes. One of the very best coaches and mentors for that time was Butch. He was always upbeat and encouraging. You didn't do anything wrong you just had to do it better and he would show and explain. Grier was funny with his ragtag comment. What I always remember is years ago there were a bunch of us ragtag kids hanging around Georgetown on Saturdays and we were many. Guess who produced the key to the gym so we could play multiple basketball games for hours week after week. Butch...I hope you had permission? You will be missed by many.

The smile
The laugh
Will not be forgotten,
George Booth

Diane Ellingsworth

December 2, 2017

May you Rest In Peace

Wayne and Diane Ellingsworth

December 2, 2017

Sue, Holly and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. May your memories be of comfort to you in the days ahead. Prayers for peace and comfort.

Butch-1961 yearbook

Sally Sapp

December 1, 2017

Butch was REAL, and that's what I loved about him.

Betsy Lecates

December 1, 2017

The Marvel's were always my neighbors and remember when Holly watched me when I would walk home with Shannon. I always enjoyed playing as a kid and my dad and Butch would pull us kids around on the sled during snow days. When I would go over I always remembered Butch doing his crosswords and wouldn't stop working on until he finished it. I will also remember him when he was my teacher at SCHS. Butch was a good athletic person who will be missed by many and I know it won't be the same from my family or I to not see him riding around town on his bike or at the gym. Rest in peace Mr. Marvel you are a true good hearted individual who is now free of pain. I still get chocked up when I look over knowing I have spend my childhood around the family so glad he was my neighbor!

Carol Lingo

December 1, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. Ken & Carol Lingo

Robert&Barbara Oliver

December 1, 2017

My wife and I moved next door to Butch a little over a year ago. Butch welcomed us with open arms. We talked often about family.
May God bless you as you enter His kingdom.
Robert&Barbara Oliver

Harry Houston

December 1, 2017

Thank you butch all your concern for me at SCSH during 4 seasons of basketball that helped me make it thru college with a mental edge! Rest in peace

Grier White

November 30, 2017

Butch was such a great friend long after having established himself as a great role model for me. I already miss him so much, as one of his ragtag friends.

Sue

November 30, 2017

Your spirit always shined brightly. Miss and love you so.

Linda Dave Robinson

November 30, 2017

Knew Butch from Georgetown and the "sports"world and teaching center. Dave knew him from sports, Army Reserves, and a man doing the right thing for kids.
Our prayers and thoughts with all his family and he is with our Heavenly Father.
Linda and Dave Robinson

olin vanaman

November 30, 2017

As a kid growing up in G-town when sports was a bonding for so many young boys you idolized certain athletes for their talent and character and you rooted for their success. When you mentioned just a sir name everyone knew who they were. Costen (Shockley), Chris (Short), Billy(LeGates),
Johnny (Morris), Butch (Marvel). All these
guys obtained that moniker of respect not only for their athletic prowess but as well as their character and sense of community. Another one of my childhood idols has left us for a far greater playing field. Thank you Butch for enriching the lives of everyone one you touched. Indeed you were champion

Penny Todd Shockley

November 29, 2017

So sorry to hear about Butch. I remember him fondly from both Georgetown and my years at Bridgewater. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

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