Julie Anna Curfman

Julie Anna Curfman

Julie Curfman Obituary

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Curfman, Julie Anna, beloved daughter of John & Joanie Curfman and beloved sister of Jennifer and David Curfman died July 15, 2005. Julie was born March 15, 1986. She attended Wichita Montessori School, The Independent School, Wichita East High School, and graduated from the Southard School in Topeka. Julie completed her freshman year at Wichita State University. She had been working at Willson Kennel in Augusta learning to be a dog trainer, and she was a volunteer at the Kansas Humane Society. Julie had been active in music theater at Independent, East High, and MTYP. She was a talented singer, actress, and artist who could make anyone laugh. She endeared herself to the hearts of many with her sweet personality, her compassion, her sense of humor, and her intelligence. She will be remembered for the many lives she has touched and will live on in the hearts of all who knew her. She was preceded in death by her grandparents Lawrence Jr. and Margaret Curfman of Wichita, and her grandfather Leonard Kaplan of New York, and her grandfather Herman Brickner of New York and uncle Lawrence Curfman III of California. In addition to her immediate family, she is survived by her grandmother Doris Brickner, her uncle Rob and aunt Sarra Kaplan, her aunt Ann Koch, her aunt Betty Curfman, and many cousins. Services will be 10:00 A.M. Tuesday, July 19, 2005, at Downing & Lahey Mortuary East. In lieu of flowers, a memorial has been established in Julie's name with Music Theatre for Young People, P.O. Box 8030, Wichita, KS 67208. Tributes may be sent to the family via www.downingandlahey.com.

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February 19, 2024

Sarra Kaplan posted to the memorial.

June 16, 2006

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September 24, 2005

Andrea Floyd posted to the memorial.

Sarra Kaplan

February 19, 2024

Think of you often.

June 16, 2006

Just want you to know that there are still people remembering and caring about your family. The hurt will always be part of you but I hope that as the months continue to pass, the good memories come up just as much or at least right along with the sad ones and that you are able to embrace them both. Take care and just know that there are many that are still thinking about you all...

Andrea Floyd

September 24, 2005

Jennifer and family:

I am so sorry for your loss. my prayers are with you.

Andrea

Michael Wilborn

August 23, 2005

Dear Curfman family,

I am truly sorry for your lose. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Kathryn Meyer

August 11, 2005

I did not personally know Julie, however, I did attend East High while she was there. I am so sorry for your loss and you will continue to be remembered in my prayers. God bless.

Danny Feekes

August 5, 2005

I was involved in MTYP with Julie, she was a truly talented and amazing young woman. She touched my life and she will be missed. With much love.

Dani Young

August 1, 2005

I could never be more thankful for a best friend like Julie. Thank you John and Joanie for bringing this light into my life. She will never, ever be forgotton.

Allison Graham

July 29, 2005

Dear Curfman Family;

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter, sister and friend. I went to middle school with Julie @ TIS and I always looked up to her as a singer. She was my role model for a very long time. Even though we weren't close, she greatly impacted my life. I appreciate her very much. I'm so sorry for your loss of an amazing girl.

Sincerely,

Bob,Bobby, Mary Lou, Greg, and Molly Dunton

July 26, 2005

Dear John,Joanie,Jen,and David,

We were so saddened to hear of Julie's passing. Independent was such a wonderful community within itself. To loose one of its own truely affects us all. Our thoughts are with you. Very Sincerely, The Duntons

Zaynah Porbandarwala

July 25, 2005

Dear Curfman Family,



I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.



Always,

Zaynah

Lisa Fuller

July 23, 2005

Curfman Family,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I took care of Lawerence at Larksfield place and remember the children coming to visit and brining the dogs. Julie will be missed by all who knew her.

Matthew Gluck

July 22, 2005

Dear Curfman Family,



Though I did not have the honor of getting to know Julie very well, I am none-the-less saddened by your loss. Please know that Lindsay and I have your family(my new extended family) in our hearts and our prayers.



Matthew E. Gluck

Kathleen Georgens

July 21, 2005

John, Joanie, Jennifer and David,

I just found out about this devastating loss. I remember vividly the various productions at TIS we were all in together. I will always remember the awe I experienced when I first heard Julie sing. We were at TIS for only 4 years -- but felt like it was family. I am so sorry for this pain which you have right now. Please know that our prayers are with you and your family.

With love, Kathleen

Julie Allen

July 21, 2005

Dear Curfman Family,

We are deeply saddened by your loss. We have fond memories of Julie's visit to our home in Tulsa. Samantha and the other girls at High Trails miss her presence there dearly. Our thoughts are with you.

Julie, Phil and Sam Allen

Matt Schock

July 21, 2005

All my love.



Matt

Abbey Hollembeak

July 20, 2005

Dear Curfman Family,

I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I did several shows with Julie at MTYP and WCT- she was always there to brighten the room and make everyone laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

tierre sanders

July 20, 2005

To the Curfman family and friends,



Hi. I am a student at Wichita State who shared an English class with Julie. Although I knew her no more than a classmate, I could always sense her bright and beautiful spirit just through the brief conversations we had in class. My condolences go out to the entire famliy and friends.

David & Janet Bond

July 20, 2005

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Joan Snyder

July 20, 2005

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Chuck Koeber

July 19, 2005

Dear Curfman family,
Julie was my student in a sociology course I taught last summer at WSU. I want you to know that Julie was a very special student. She asked wonderful questions and made that class one of the most rewarding I have ever taught. I was so shocked and saddened to hear about her passing. Guess I had just taken for granted that she would grow up and do great things. It's so sad and not at all fair that she had to go so soon. Please know that she was a great student and I will miss her.

Jennifer (Frey) McMahon

July 19, 2005

Dear Curfman family,

My deepest sympathy goes out to the whole family. May her spirit live on in your hearts forever...

Becca Fleming

July 19, 2005

Dear Curfman Family,

I am so deeply sorry for what happened. Julie was an AMAZING person and it is such a loss to this world that she was taken out of it. I will always remember how many smiles and laughes she spread... never any tears. Keep that in mind while trying to cope with this incredibly difficult situation. My heart goes out to all of you. I pray you find peace and understanding. With deepest sympathy,

Becca Fleming

Jan Strunk

July 19, 2005

Curfman Family,



We are so sorry for your loss. Know that your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.



Dan and Jan Strunk

Beth Harrell

July 19, 2005

Dear David:



My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



Your friends at Hutton & Hutton are thinking of you.

Mary Siracuse

July 18, 2005

I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Barba

July 18, 2005

Dear Curfman Family,



What we remember most are Julie's bright eyes....and, like us, her love of pets!

May the beautiful memories of Julie, as well as the comfort of all your wonderful family and friends, bring you some peace and strength.

Praying for you,

Tony, Liz, Cathy, Genny, Joyce, Sandy, and Audrey (and the kitties, too.)

Carla Zimmerman

July 18, 2005

Dear Curfman family,

I'm so very sorry to hear about Julie. I'll always remember spending time with her in middle school french class, her beautiful voice singing in musicals, and playing soccer with her. Julie was such an amazing girl and it is just a terrible thing someone that was so beautiful inside and out had to pass on at this time. I'm deeply saddened by your loss and you are all in my family's thoughts and prayers.

Mac & Nickie Blattert

July 18, 2005

Our hearts are breaking for you right now. You are in our thoughts and prayers, dearest friends.

L.J. Furst

July 18, 2005

Mr. and Mrs. Curfman,

I am deeply and sincerely sorry for the loss of Julie. I lived on the same floor as her in the dorms at WSU. She was a great friend and I am deeply saddend by this news. Please know that your daughter touched many lives including mine with her warm smile and sense of humor. I will greatly miss her and sorry I cannot be there with you to greive with you because im in Alabama. My prayers will be with you and your family. If you need anything to hesitate to write me.

Ann and Mac Blattert

July 18, 2005

Our hearts ache............

Miaken Christensen

July 18, 2005

John, Joanie and fam,



I'm so sorry to hear about Julie. She was such a beautiful girl and it's such a tragedy that someone so wonderful had to pass on at this time. I will always remember fondly her fun personality and all the times out on the lake with her running around and making us all laugh. I can't imagine how hard this is for you right now, and I want you to know that if you need anything at all I (and my family) are here for you. You are wonderful people and I'm so sorry you have to suffer this loss. you are in my thoughts and prayers.



Love,

Miaken

Chelsey Hudgins

July 18, 2005

Joanie, John, Jenn, and David



You all are in my Thoughts and prayers.

-Chels

Patrick, Douglas, Amanda, Connie Roark

July 18, 2005

John, Joanie, Jennifer, David



We were greatly sadden to hear about the loss of Julie. I will always remember her with a microphone in her hand singing at middle school functions

Harold and Julie Schoeffler

July 18, 2005

We are deeply saddened by your loss.



Harold, Julie and Bri

Jeff Konen

July 18, 2005

Dear Julie,

You are such a bright spirit with more compassion than anyone I had ever met! You inspired me to be open and to accept the beauty we each hold within ourselves. I learned so much from you in such a short amount of time, but I just wanted you to know that you, yourself brought my heart and mind to another level. Whenever I would see you, you had this power to force people out of their shell and your smile and laugh I will never forget! Keep smiling for it brought so much peace to my life and many others! I love you girl! My prayers are with you and your family!

Jessica Heusinkveld

July 18, 2005

Dear Curfman Family

I love you so much and my thoughts and prayers will be with you and Julie. She was always so good to me and left me with some of the best memories I've ever expirenced in my life. She brought me out of my shell and made me laugh every time I was near her, and for that I'll always be grateful. She'll always be my best friend.

Madison Aronis

July 18, 2005

To family,

Julie was one of the sweetist girls I have ever met. She welcomed me into school with open arms. I was new and didn't really get along with many people. Julie was so out going and her smile just warmed up a room when she walked into it. I can't imagine the pain your family is going through right now, but my thoughts are with you. Every time I watch Dawsons Creek I'll think about julie and the times we spent together talking about that show, just like it was our own lives :) Please be strong like Julie would have wanted...

Love ~Madison Aronis~

Joe and Jaime Hutchinson

July 18, 2005

We are deeply saddend to hear of your loss. Julie was such a fun person to be around and will be missed.

Dax Spencer

July 18, 2005

Dear Curfman family,



I am deeply saddened by your loss. I'll always remember Julie as Jennifer and David's cute, spunky, little sister. I am very sorry.

Connie Brush

July 18, 2005

Dear Joanie and family: I just read about Julie in the paper, and I can't tell you how sorry I am to hear of your loss. Please accept my condolences, and know that many thoughts and prayers are with you. Connie Brush (I worked at the counseling center in El Dorado for a couple of years, and remember how proud you were/are of your family.)

Marsha Flummerfelt

July 18, 2005

My heart and thoughts have been with you since Fri evening. I am Jordan's Aunt Marsha, Robyn's sister. I will continue to keep you in my heart.

Steve & Paula Weatherford

July 18, 2005

John, Joanie, Jennifer and David

I wish there was something we could do or say to ease your suffering. Julie was a joy to all who knew her and we will miss her.

Please know that we are thinking of you and you are in our prayers.

We love you

Olga Holman

July 18, 2005

I am so sad for your loss. I can't imagine your pain, so there does not seem to be any words that are appropriate. Know that you will be in our prayers.

Susan Abbott

July 18, 2005

Dear Joanie, John, Jennifer, and David,



I am so profoundly sorry and saddened to hear of the loss of your most beautiful daughter and sister respectively.



When I knew Julie she was a beautiful baby girl and she obviously grew into a even more beautiful vibrant girl who I wish I had known. I am sure you shall miss her presence very much.



May her spirit live on in you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of deep sorrow. Although we are separated by distance your beautiful family has always remained in my heart.



With fondest love to all,

Susan Abbott

Eric and Krista Smith

July 18, 2005

Dear John, Joanie and family,



We can never know the pain you are going thru at this time.



Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers, and that you have many friends whom you can lean on.



Krista Smith

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