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Ron Vinick
September 6, 2019
Many fond memories of my old friend! One very hot summer day, knowing we had no air conditioning at my house, Jules invited me to spend the night in his air conditioned bedroom! That was his nature , to be kind! Gone, too soon! The bonus that sleepover was having breakfast with his beautiful, twin sisters!
September 19, 2011
Sincere condolences to the family of Julio.
Dwight & Jeanne Bragdon
Hank & Lynda Schneeweiss
September 19, 2011
Joan, Julio, & Francie. What a wonderful service and tribute to Julio on Wednesday. It was 2+ hrs. of prayer, laughter, and tears. He was a cherished friend and will be truly missed. Hank's friendship goes back to high school and college; and YES, there are millions of stories. God bless and give you strength. Julio is watching over you and most likely conducting court in heaven. Love from your old Vineland friends,
Grace Bartlett
September 16, 2011
Joan, I'm so sorry to hear about Julio's death. Clearly, his passion for the underdog and for justice impacted this area and many, many lives in the court system as well as in the church. God bless you and grant you peace and comfort to you and your family.
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September 16, 2011
To Joan and Family,
If it wasn't for the relationship that my father Lou Piccone had with the Desanctis Family, I would probably never accomplished the daunting task of "making it in the National Football League. I believe that Julio had seen me play and offered a suggestion to my father that "hey, Lou I believe that your son Louis could play for West Liberty, Jules Alma Mater. I've always owed a debt of gratitude to Julio for his recommendation; without his knowledge and insight who know what would have happened to a wayward young man!
If there is anything that I can assist with please don't hesitate to contact me. I know that my brother Steve and Julio were good friends and made people laugh all the time!
My deepest sympathies on your loss because I am certain that the space that he left will be felt in the Hearts and Spirits of the people that had the good fortune to know him!
God's Speed!
Lou Piccone
716-631-9275
Karen Moraisey
September 16, 2011
I was so sorry to hear of Julio's passing. I really enjoyed seeing him when he came to Calais for court. He will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Suzanne Heyman-Piccone
September 16, 2011
I send my sympathy to you Joan, as a
former VHS & TSC classmate of long ago.
Of course, I recall Julio and am absolutely in awe of all his accomplishments. Julio helped my husband's brother, Lou, long ago with entering WEstLiberty. I never forgot you JOan as a kind person to know, you lived on Mayfair st. when I first knew you! Take care & God Bless
you and your family
Martha Harris
September 15, 2011
Joan,
I am so sorry that I couldn't come to the calling hours or funeral. I love Julio. He was so special. I believe he would understand that I was in the County for the State Board of Ed., advocating for all the children in Maine. He was such a wonderful advocate for people (all the downtrodden including children), and such an inspiration when we wondered if the constitution meant anything.
More than that, you two had such a wonderful partnership with each other. I always told him that you were a saint to put up with him. But you were his strength and he was yours. And I believe he took my chiding as I took his.
If we can help in any way, please call.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love to you, Julio, and Francesca.
Martha & Chico
Bonnie Clark (Jackson)
September 15, 2011
Dearest Joan and family, I am saddened to hear of Julio's passing but know that his life was rich and full. What a blessing to have shared years in Orrington and FUMCO and to have watched your sweet family grow. Julio loved our Lord and his family. We shall all hold memories of Julio as an amazing individual. May your many memories and God's comfort sustain you all at this time of loss.
LuAnn Coleman
September 15, 2011
To the family of Julio,
My deepest sympathy to all.It was such a pleasure being in his circle of friends. May his memories stay forever in all of our hearts.
Artie Rubin
September 14, 2011
Joan, Francie & Julio,
Julio touched the lives of so many people and was such an inspiration all you need is to read just a few of these messages or some of the blogs written about him to see what Julio ment to us. I feel richer to have known him and honored to have been his friend! He may be gone but he'll always be remembered and those memories I will always cherish. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Glenn Becker
September 14, 2011
I should have said "is inspiring."
Glenn Becker
September 14, 2011
It has been a privilege to be a friend of Julio and Joan for more than four decades. The term "sui generis" lacked sufficient definition until Julio came along. He married courage to generosity in a manner only Joan matched. A good example can be humbling or even oppressive, but in their case it was inspiring.
September 14, 2011
Joan, Francie and Jules,
Julio was truly one of a kind! With a heart of gold, a love of life and a passion for justice, he will be remembered fondly by all who knew him. The obituary and the many kind remarks in this guest book are a testament to his comittment to others. We will never forget him. May fond memories remain with you always.
Fondly, Debbie and Tom Michaels
(Vineland & San Francisco)
Bill Simpkins
September 14, 2011
Marjorie, so sorry for your loss. I prey he is in a better place, and I will prey for you and him.
Bill Simpkins
Kyle
September 14, 2011
I'm sorry to say that I have never had the opportunity to really know Julio, but the work he did for Camp Mechuwana will never be forgotten and I'm thankful that he was able to bring so much passion, humor, and love to camp. Love to the family.
Shelly Umphrey Solomon
September 14, 2011
Dear Joan & family,
Our sincerest sympathy to you & your loved ones. As a child, I remember Julio and his huge persona. As an adult, that did not change. I can see him in my mind's eye at my wedding, dancing up a storm with a ribbon from the napkin tied around his ponytail! I have fond memories of him and am grateful to him for all he did for my family through the years. May God give you strength during this most difficult time.
Sincerely,
Shelly Umphrey Solomon
Stacy Graffam
September 14, 2011
Joan, Francine and Julio IV, I'll always hold memories of Julio III in my heart. He was a giant of a man, and has truly made every day he had with us here count. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Stacy Graffam, formerly of Orrington, ME.
Dale Longfellow
September 14, 2011
The Longfellow Family.
Julio helped our family through many trials and tribulations. He went above and beyond his duty as a lawyer to make sure the injustices put upon our family were made right. He was amazing to watch in court. It was like the court belonged to him and him only. Our family will surely miss him and will forever hold a piece of him in our hearts for what he has done for us. So sorry for your loss.
September 14, 2011
My heart is a little heavier today as I read this announcement...Jules introduced me to the world of air conditioning as we had sleepovers in his air conditioned room...Our best to all family,,
Ronnie & Joanne Vinick
September 14, 2011
May God comfort you during this difficult time.
George Keppel
September 13, 2011
Julio...I will miss you. I know that if you could read all that is now being written about you that you would laugh and be content. Sleep well old friend.
Michael Rair
September 13, 2011
Joan....I don't know if you remember me but I am one of those attorneys who...on occasion....extracted some of my own hair over my dealings with your late husband. That said, I can tell you he was for wont of a better word a true "character"...we worked at it endlessly and had no particular inhibition in telling you so. The world is a better place when inhabited by "characters" and your husband contributed greatly in that regard. I will always remember him...with a smile...and I know that means more to him...and perhaps you...than anything. God Bless!!
September 13, 2011
Joan, our thoughts and sympathy are with you and your family. We are glad we got to spend time with you and Julio at Kim's wedding. Ken and Joyce Adams
September 13, 2011
Julio has always been one of my favorite attorneys. When he showed up in the attorney's room at the courthouse I knew I could look forward to being entertained endlessly, even if we were waiting for hours! I'll never forget the time he suddenly burst into song while we were waiting for a case to come up--it was close to Christmas and we harmonized the first verse through to the end! After he became ill he never lost his sense of humor for a moment. He will be sorely missed.
May the source of peace bring peace to all who mourn.
Sharon Silberman-Hummels, Esq.
September 13, 2011
Joan and family,
Julio was bigger than life. He was always present at the CDS activities, not just for his children but for ALL the children. His presence on earth will be missed by an entire generation. God will have his hands full!
Carol Card Green Valley, AZ.
Christine Smith
September 12, 2011
In 1998, my father asked me if a friend of his could come to my house to "study" my then 4-yr-old son for some sort of project or report for a class he was taking. I couldn't believe I agreed to this, but in came Julio who was a friend of the Day family for many years and we had a very wonderful couple of hours watching, analyzing and laughing at my 4 yr-old. Julio was a kind man with a wonderful heart. God bless Julio and the entire DeSanctis family....-Christine Smith (Brewer)
Kathy Marshall
September 12, 2011
Dear Joan, Julio, and Francesca,
Greg forwarded to me the Bangor obituary. Despite not having seen Julio for over 30 years, I would have recognized him. He was a man of strong conviction and a wonderful personality. My thoughts are with the three of you.
Greg Marshall
September 12, 2011
Julio and Joan so enthusiastically and lovingly welcomed us to Bangor in 1974 where they were themselves newcomers. They were wonderful friends! Although we lost contact over the years it is clear that they have remained passionate about justice, love and faith.Blessed are you who mourn the loss and celebrate the life of Julio!
Gary, Denise and Family
September 12, 2011
Dearest Joan and family, Our thoughts and prayers have been with you and Julio over the past few weeks. Our hearts are heavy but our memories of Julio keep us smiling as I am sure they do, all of you. Love and prayers,
Lois-Ann Holmes
September 12, 2011
When I returned to college to further my Associate Degree, Julio was one of the first professors I met when he was teaching Business Law at Husson. He was wonderful and the impression he made has never been forgotten!
Our paths crossed many more times over the years in many other venues. Each time was a genuine and pleasurable experience. My husband knew Julio professionally through two careers. Again, always interesting and thought provoking. Never a dull moment and he was always challenging, making people do better, set higher goals, work smarter, do your job to a T. Always with the Julio humor which would just twinkle from his eye - but yet with stearness when it should be there.
We had heard of Julio's illness and as always pray daily for friends and acquaintences who are ill. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers reach out to his family and closest friends. A man lost far to young!
Maine is fortunate to have had Julio and his family come to and adopt this state as their true home. He fought the good fight with faith, honor and I am sure dignity. RIP Julio - both Ralph and I are honored to have had our lives paths cross!
Skip Wright
September 12, 2011
Joan and family I am sorry to hear of Julio's passing. We were classmates and friends in High School and attended the First Baptist Church in Vineland, New Jersey. He will be sorely missed by those who knew him.
HENRY AND DEBI WEST
September 12, 2011
DEAR JOAN,JULIO AND FRANCIE,WE CANNOT BEGIN TO IMAGINE THE LOSS THAT YOU ARE FEELING.PAPA JULIO WAS A GIANT OF A MAN IN MANY AREAS AND A LEGEND !HE WAS A UNIQUE CHARACTER WITH A DETERMINED SPIRIT AND A HEART AS LARGE.OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHIES ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AT THIS MOST DIFFICULT TIME.
Roxanne Carlson
September 12, 2011
Joan and family, may our loving God continue to embrace and comfort you in this time of sorrow. My prayers are with you. God Bless.
Phillip Rea
September 12, 2011
Joan and family - I was so sorry to hear the bad news today. We were hoping for another WL reunion at Homecoming...an event Jules always encouraged us to attend. You didn't have to know Julio for long to know what he was all about....standing up for those that could not stand for themselves.... Can anyone do better than that?
The obituary was perfect. Phil and Karen Rea
Dottie Boynton
September 12, 2011
What a legacy, life, influence a single man can have on so many! Did he not live his life just being Julio! Who could ask for more? Julio had given to all he met. Even during his last weeks of life, he was still trying to give me more real estate business! I so appreciated all he had done for me and many. Thank you, Thank you.......I will always smile when I think of you :-) My condolences to Joan, Julio, Francie.
Tammy Foss Farrell
September 12, 2011
Joan, Julio and Francie, I am so sorry for your loss. Julio was a great man, I always had fun with him as a youth and then as a counselor at Mechuwana and rallies. I also always learned something from him or about myself every time we spoke! Heaven has gotten a great angel, and next time it thunders, it will bring a smile to my face because I know it's Julio taking a nap and snoring. Prayers and Love to you all.
Dawn Zarecki-Reidy
September 12, 2011
Joan, Fran and Jules...our love and thoughts are with you all. Big Julio was a great man; a person that I will never forget. With you there is spirit, our love to you all! -Dawn Zarecki-Reidy, Kianni, Naissa and Jayden Reidy
Rebekah (messer ) Ellsworth
September 12, 2011
To Joan And Family ,
This is from Rebekah (messer )Ellsworth.I am very sorry to hear about Julios passing.I remember all the fun times we had at camp Mechuwana.He was a very dear friend to me for several years.im sorry we cannot make it there but he is in our hearts and prayers.
All my Love Rebekah (Messer ) Ellsworth
Julie Nowell
September 12, 2011
He help me out 14 years ago and made it so my sentence was lessoned so my kids would not have to be without a mother. Thank you Julio, RIP..you were a great lawyer and funny...And dedicated....You will be missed.
Laurie Wilson-McNerney
September 12, 2011
I worked as a receptionist/legal secretary for Julio when he had an office on the 2nd floor of a State Street office building, along with Dick Hall and Gene Ford, back in the 70s. I will never forget him. He was quite a character and despite his rebellous nature, he had a heart as big as the sun. No matter what the circumstance, you couldn't be in his company without smiling. You will be missed Julio. My sincere condolences to your family.
Bryce Boynton
September 12, 2011
Joan and Family,
I am sorry to hear about Julio. He always kept my brother and I entertained with his stories and his quick wit. Nothing but the fondest of memories. He was the reason I was still going to Sunday school when I was in College!
Dale Mitchell
September 12, 2011
He was the best damn Attorney ever!! God is in for it with Julio in the heavenly courtroom!! I 'll miss ya my friend and attorney!!
Tammi Pearson
September 12, 2011
Julio, I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
September 12, 2011
I am sad to hear of Julio's passing but so GRATEFUL to have not just known him professionally - but personally as well. He was bigger than life and shall remain in my heart and memory as such! I so wish I could be there at this time. Thinking of your you and yours. ~Bobbi Lynn Peters (Arlington, VA)
Loring Kydd
September 12, 2011
I shall always admire Julio as a fighter for the underdog and enjoyed his keen sense of humor. My sincere condolences to family and friends.
Glenn Daigle
September 12, 2011
So sorry to hear of your loss. I know he will be greatly missed, When the competion respects and honors him you know that he was quite a man. He represented me in court for something that college kids do and it is something that I will never forget and have recounted the story many times. I was't even in his class at Husson but just because I was a student there he helped me out and never charged me. I am very sorry for your loss, I know from experience with cancer that his suffering is over and that is our only consolation and we know that he is in heaven giving them a run for their money!
Jeremiah Rancourt
September 12, 2011
It was a pleasure working with him and against him in the courtroom. He certainly lived up to the legend he established and he will be missed in the legal community.
Tony Joaquin
September 12, 2011
I am so sad to hear of Julio's passing. I have fond memories of his helping me coach the Cubs baseball team our sons were on in Orrington. RIP Julio
Stephanie Hastings Gervais
September 12, 2011
Julio was an amazing force. He will live in infamy. Through the lives he touched thru Mechuwana the church and through his activism
Charlie Taylor
September 12, 2011
I enjoyed the Man, my sympathy to his family.
September 12, 2011
Joan & family,
We were so saddened to hear of Julio's passing, but know he goes to a better place. We will fondly remember your time in Woodstown & our visits in Maine. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all. Love Ruth Peters, Joseph Conn & Jim Rhodes
September 12, 2011
Joan, Julio and Francesca, I am so sorry to hear about Julio. Even tho I only just met him, I could see what a very special person he was and that he was truly loved by his family. Thoughts and prayers are with you all. Sincerely, Kathy Pushor, RN EMMC
Lynette Gillissen
September 12, 2011
So very sorry to hear of Julio's passing. our condolences to all of his family and friends. his spirit is surely looking down and smiling on you....
September 12, 2011
This is heartbreaking news. I knew Julio when I did clerical work at the DA's Office; and I've got to tell you, seeing him come into the office was one of the highlights of my day. He always had a friendly smile and a few laughs to share. I feel blessed to have known the man. My sincerest sympathies to his family.
Stephanie Cotsirilos
September 12, 2011
Our community has clearly lost a giant of a man with a giant heart. Joan, I know you accompanied Julio on his journey with a spirit as great as his own. Please accept my heartfelt support and admiration for you and your family at this very difficult time. Your friends wish you peace and healing.
September 12, 2011
Joan, Julio & Francesca my deepest sympathy. He will be sadly missed. My thoughts are with your family. Christine Chambrello
September 12, 2011
Julio was a great person and will be missed. My heart felt sympathy goes out to his family
September 12, 2011
So sorry for your loss, Joan. You and all the family are in my prayers. Sincerely, Edie Wallace and Beau Dionne
Dodie Sheffield
September 12, 2011
You and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. God give you strength and comfort, peace and sweet memories.
Go With God,
April Cottle
September 12, 2011
I will NEVER forget Julio from Youth Group at FUMC. I had never met an adult who was so full of trouble! HAHA! He was the funniest, loudest, most larger than life personality I may have ever met! The man may have moved on to watch over us all but the legend still remains. Julio will never be forgotten, as I am sure ANYONE he has ever met has a funny memory to keep them smiling until we meet again.
With much peace and love,
April (Cormier) Cottle & Family
Jessica Beckwith-Creedon
September 12, 2011
Joan, Jules and Francesca, my love and sympathy to all of you at this very difficult time! Julio was an amazing person! I will remember the great times with him at the youth rallies and Camp Mechuwana! It was an honor to have known him! Much Love, Jessica
Diane Muir
September 12, 2011
Dearest Joan, our deepest sympathies. Julio made such an impression on Mark. Mark was visibly upset at church yesterday. We know he's in a better place and his suffering is over. He will be missed. Sincerely, Diane, Ed, and Mark Muir.
Beth Dimond
September 12, 2011
Joan, Jules, and Francesca - you know how I feel about Big Julio and how much I loved him...and how much I love all of you. Julio will live on in the hearts and minds of the thousands of people he met. I admired his love for all of you, his strong faith, his honesty, and his humor. May you find strength and comfort in the coming days knowing that he is at peace. All my love, Beth
Brianna Miller
September 12, 2011
My family has many memories of Julio from camp, he will always be remembered with great love.
September 12, 2011
To the DeSanctis Family,I am very sorry for your loss ,please accept my deepest sympathy. Sue Leathers
Pastor Tom Chandler
September 12, 2011
Joan, 'Little'Julio and Franci,
My heart is saddened at the passing of this wonderful friend and true Christian. I will fondly remember all the wonderful times spent with him at the many youth events. I have yet to find someone who can 'hold a candle' to his ability to snore. May God hold all of you in his loving arms and comfort you.
September 12, 2011
Joan, Julio, & Francesca, you have our deepest sympathy. Julio was a good man. I have known him since we wrestled together in high school. He and Betsey sang in the Baptist church choir as kids. As long as any of his old friends are still around Julio stories will always keep him with us.
With all our love, Betsey & George Rossi
September 12, 2011
Joan, we were saddened to learn of Julio's passing. He will be remembered for his wit and tenacity. Our sympathies to you and the family. Mary-Ellen Maybury Randall and David Randall
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