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1964
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2023
Kathy Toler Obituary
Kathy “Nanny” Toler, 58, of Wilmington, NC, died February 19, 2023 at New Hanover Regional Medical Center.
She was born in Durham, NC, on July 3, 1964, the daughter of the late, Joseph Frank Pulley, Sr. and Bobbie Jean Smith. Also remembered is her husband, Terry W. Toler and a son, James Eddie Pulley, both of who preceded her in death.
Surviving is her daughter, Tonya Pulley (Joseph) of Lynchburg, VA; Seven Granddaughters, Azaiah Delira of Wilmington, Mekiah Reyes (Edward) of Georgia, Leeiah Guillory (Justin) of Boone, NC, Elissa Beavers (Andrew) of Castle Hayne, NC, Yaniah King of Calabash, NC, Jayliah Adams of Durham, NC and Lillyanna Delira of Wilmington, NC; two grandsons, Joseph English of North Carolina and Juan Luis Delira “Jr” of Lynchburg, VA; three great-granddaughters, Emeily, Yasmine and Kynleigh; two brothers, Terry Pulley and Joe Pulley, both of Roxboro, NC; one niece, Amanda Pulley of Durham, NC and one nephew, Allen Pulley of Hillsborough, NC.
Kathy was a wonderful homemaker and was loved by her family. “To know her was to love her”.
A Celebration of Life Service will be held from 4:00 pm to 6:00 pm on Saturday, March 4, 2023 at Andrews Mortuary - Valley Chapel, 4108 S. College Road, Wilmington, 28412. Flowers can be delivered to Andrews Valley Chapel.
Please sign the online Guestbook at www.andrewsmortuary.com
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