Kevin Scott Bender

Kevin Scott Bender obituary, Bethlehem, PA

Kevin Scott Bender

Kevin Bender Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 26, 2010.
Kevin Scott Bender, 34 of Bethlehem, Pa. died on Tuesday Jan. 26th, after a brief battle with acute leukemia, at Hospital of University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia. Kevin and his wife Joelle (Hudak) of Bethlehem celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary on June 26th. Born in Nazareth he is the son of Stanley "Butch" Bender, Jr. and Julianne (Schwartz) Bender of Bushkill Township. Kevin attended Holy Family Grade School in Nazareth, Pa. He is a 1992 graduate of Notre Dame High School, Green Pond where he excelled in football, basketball and baseball. In 1997 he graduated from Penn State University with a BA in Elementary Education. He later earned his Masters Degree of Education in 2002 from Wilkes University and while teaching and raising a family he graduated magna cum-laude from Lehigh University earning his Master of Education in Administration in 2009. Kevin truly enjoyed teaching at Alburtis Elementary School for eleven years and for the past two years teaching at Eyer Middle school of the East Penn School District. He was the union representative for Alburtis Elementary School. He also treasured the nine summers teaching, working with all the children and serving as the Arts and Recreation Director at Hillside School in Emmaus. He also was a coach for Lehigh Little League. Kevin and his family are members of Notre Dame of Bethlehem Catholic Church. Kevin will be dearly missed by all his family and friends. He is survived by his wife Joelle (Hudak), their two beautiful children Logan and Leah, both at home, his parents, his brothers; Nicholas and his wife, Danielle, of Whitehall, Pa., Russell and his wife, Kyla, of Saylorsburg, Pa. and Douglas of Bethlehem, in addition to his paternal grandfather Stanley R. Bender, Sr. of Nazareth, PA and his maternal grandmother Mrs. Helen Schwartz of Bethlehem. He is also survived my many aunts, uncles and cousins. He will also be missed by Joelle's parents Ed and Sharon Hudak and her brother, Ed Hudak, III and his wife, Kristine, and sisters, Monica Reinke and her husband, Jason, and Bethany Socrates. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday Jan.30th at 11:00 a.m. in Notre Dame of Bethlehem Catholic Church, 1861 Catasauqua Road Bethlehem, Pa. Visitation will be on Friday 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. at the Connell Funeral Home, Inc. 245 East Broad St. Bethlehem, Pa. Memorials may be made to a Trust Fund for the benefit of Logan and Leah Bender Payable to CGMI c/o Morgan Stanley Smith Barney, 74 West Broad Street, Suite 200, Bethlehem, PA 18018-5738.

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Harriet McGuiness

January 29, 2010

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Elek Family

January 29, 2010

Somehow, Joelle, God will make a way for you, your children and your entire family through this tragic time. The beauty, grace and goodness that was Kevin's life will live forever. We carry each of you in our hearts and will continue to lift you in love and prayer. God's abundant blessings.

Elizabeth Reina

January 29, 2010

To The Bender Family, My deepest and heartfelt sympathy goes out to your entire family. Kevin was such a wonderful husband,father and son who will be missed by all. His kindness, warm demeanor was impressive and I feel fortunate to have met such a man. (A GREAT SMILE) Kevin will be one of the Lord's guardian angels and will be watching and protecting his family forever. All my love and sympathy for your entire family will be in my prayers. Liz

Nancy & Rich Schmidt

January 29, 2010

We offer our deepest condolences and sympathy at this time. All of you are in our prayers and thoughts. May God's love help you in this time of sorrow. Nancy & Rich Schmidt and family.

The Nicholls Family

January 29, 2010

Mrs. Bender and Family, It is with our heartfelt sympathy that this is sent. Mr. Bender was a wonderful teacher, and a champion to my son. Liam misses him every day. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sincerely, Chris, Kama, and Liam Nicholls

Patrice Arnold

January 28, 2010

Kevin touched so many people with his kind spirt, sense of humor, and warm smile. He was a well respected and loved colleague, teacher, and friend whom inspired so many lives. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the Bender family. Kevin will always remain in our hearts and thoughts.

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