Kevin Dildy

Kevin Dildy obituary

Kevin Dildy

Kevin Dildy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 3, 2012.
Dildy, Kevin Age 51, of Chicago, IL. Went Home to be with the Lord May 30, 2012. Graduate & star athlete of Western KY University. Renowned educator/youth worker. Preceded in death by mother, Vernita Dildy. Survived by wife, Eleanor; children, Larry Shawn (Molly) Dunigan; Nolana (Todd) Holloway, Tim (Agneta) Erickson-Oberg; grandchildren, Quincy, Ella, Malakai, Niamya, Todd II, Caleb, Maleah, Jordan, Ananda; brother, Tracy; sisters, Nedra, Julia, Makia; aunt, Betty; a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, friends & students. Celebration of Life Wed., June 6, 2012 at 11:00 AM at Macedonia Baptist Church, 3801 First Ave S, Minneapolis. Visitation at 10:30 AM. Repass at PPL, Inc., 2539 Pleasant Ave S, Mpls at 1:00 PM. Affected many, loved by all. Cremation Society of MN 612-825-2435

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May 28, 2025

Ellie posted to the memorial.

September 23, 2023

Peter P posted to the memorial.

March 24, 2021

Eleanor Dildy posted to the memorial.

Ellie

May 28, 2025

I miss you still. I love you as much today as I did then.

Peter P

September 23, 2023

Kevin great memories at south shore, great ball player sorry for the dildy family loss, not surprise by all the things i read about his work with people etc in minneapolis Rest in peace my brother

Eleanor Dildy

March 24, 2021

Booca, our baby turned 21 yesterday.

Ellie D.

March 23, 2021

Today, my heart still aches Booca.

Molly Dunigan

December 19, 2020

Still missing you MORE than words can say!

fr nelson belizario

May 28, 2020

Memories of the young Kevin playing basketball in the gym of St Cyril School in Woodlawn, Chicago

Matt Portwood

May 28, 2019

Miss you Big Kev!

Alex Mosley

January 2, 2013

Just learned of Kevin's passing, wow, great jump shot and team mate, loved to work out with him. God Bless

Tim Riley

September 13, 2012

Kevin was a student athlete at Western Kentucky university while I was a student there. I loved the way he played basketball, but mostly appreciated the way he treated me, a student and fan of his. Kevin wore #41 and played basketball the right way. RIP Kevin Dildy

Kristin Kelley

August 21, 2012

I just heard of Kevin's passing. I met Kevin last spring in a Charter School Administrator's seminar at UST. Although I knew him only a short time, I learned quickly how special he was. My condolences to the family. Rest in peace, Kevin.

Christine

June 18, 2012

My condolences, sympathy, and prayers to everyone.

Steve Geertsen

June 16, 2012

Just learned this morning. We had a date for lunch last week. He's never missed before. Terribly sad. My deep sympathy to Eleanor and the family.

June 15, 2012

From the Lewis family Verleen and Yolander, My condolence to the family. I am so heartbroken. The word of God says..."But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus."
1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 Amen, Amen. See you in Heaven. Because I truly have my crown.

Green Girlz

June 11, 2012

Sending you big huggs and lots of love during this time, Auntie!

Your nieces ReeC, KeyC, NeaC, SeaC and Raynah

June 11, 2012

The Dildy family was a mainstay in the Woodlawn area of Chicago. So sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. My sympathy to all of his family. May he rest in peace.
Fr Nelson

Matt Portwood

June 10, 2012

My condolences to Kevin's Family. Kevin was true a mentor for me. The lessons and knowledge he shared still guide me. I'll always remember his big heart and comedy. He taught us all so much, and we were laughing the whole time. Rest in Peace Kevin Dildy!

Molly Dunigan

June 10, 2012

It's not the number of years you live.... It's how you live those years. And Kevin Dildy lived every single day like it could have been his last, touching the hearts of so many along the way! He lives on every single day in our hearts and in our memories.... Loving and missing him so very much!

Brenda Bruce

June 8, 2012

MY PRAYER'S AND THOUGHT'S REMAIN'S WITH THE DIDLY FAMILY DURING THERE TIME OF GRIEF … MAY GOD BLESS U ALL

MAY KEVIN REST IN PEACE !

Jefferey Byrd

June 8, 2012

My condolences goes to Kevin's Family. I' ve known Kevin for many year. Woking with the LNB crew, seeing him last at our church picnic. So long my friend, you Rest In Peace...

Bob King

June 8, 2012

My condolences to Kevin's family. I knew Kevin many, mnay years ago in connection with the Blaisdell YMCA. He impressed me as a good man on a good mission.

Mary Maguire Lerman

June 8, 2012

To Kevin's Family-
I had the pleasure of working with Kevin and his crews in the Minneapolis Parks. His memory will be a blessing.

eleanor Dildy

June 7, 2012

Booca, you were my heart, love, protector, covering, teacher and so much more. I will always be thankful for the time God allowed us to be together. You did short me 41 years of honeymoon. Love you more. P.S you are right where you enjoyed being. (Inside joke).

June 7, 2012

Eleanor; my sympathies to you and Kevin's family. You are in my prayers.
Dave Lundahl

Kim Jackson

June 6, 2012

Kevin will truely be missed.

Marc Brooks

June 6, 2012

To the Dildy Family, I pray for you guys everyday! I miss Kevin already, he's been one of the best friends I could have. We spoke frequently over the past year, through facebook and on the phone, I will miss our talks and I pray that this void be filled with the wonderful memories we've shared from my early times coming to the South Shore area from Englewood to the loving place on Eastend... I will miss this, God speed Kevin, I will see you in paradise... Be Blessed Kevin IceDil Dildy... That's what he told me to call him! Marc A. Brooks Sr.

Karen H

June 6, 2012

I love you Papa Bear.

Warren Olson

June 6, 2012

It was years ago, but a great person leaves good memories.

Mickey & Cindi Green

June 6, 2012

Our condolence's to the Dildy Family. Kevin will be missed by all who knew him. Take comfort in knowing that he is in a better place and we will be with him again someday. R.I.P. Kevin.

Laurence Bradley

June 6, 2012

My condolence to the Dildy family Kevin will be missed. R.I.P myfellow Tar brother much love....

Michelle Taylor Ford

June 5, 2012

Rest In Peace-you are in GOD's good hands. Chucky can show you the ropes up there!! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Karen Lewis

June 5, 2012

Rest In Paradise!!!! My fellowTar Brother!!! My condolence go out to the Dildy Family!!

Richard Chandler

June 5, 2012

Prayers and condolences to the Dildy Family.....Kevin you will be truly missed....

Tammy Mayberry

June 5, 2012

My condolences to the entire Dildy family during this moment of sorrow. R.I.P. KEVIN
MUCH LOVE FROM C/O 79

Kenneth Rivers

June 5, 2012

Kevin was a true friend he helped me alot working with him at the Blaisdell Y and taught me how to deal with certain situations that helped with my time working at the Y. he was a mentor and friend he will truly be missed.

Tom Morgan

June 5, 2012

A remarkable man--sweet and caring, disciplined and strong. He helped so many, was a friend to all. Deepest sympathy to Kevin's family.

Barbara Lewis-Freeman

June 5, 2012

Ellie
God Bless you and your family during this difficult time.
you will all ways be in my prayers!
Barbara Lewis-Freeman (MN)

Carla Jackson

June 5, 2012

To the Dildy Family, May it comfort you to know that, Your loved one is safe in God's care now. And that friends are praying for you in your time of sorrow.

June 5, 2012

Kevin was a "true friend"! He will be missed by all of us who were lucky enough to be blessed to have him in our lives! His spirit lives on! Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family, coworkers, friends and other people whose lives he influenced in such a positive and supportive manner!
Gary Szumylo and Bonnie Schoenfelder

mother of a student

June 5, 2012

My son and I got the pleasure of meeting Kevin a short time ago. My son was sent to Kevin because of school attendence issues and Kevin was eager to take on the challenge. Although my son only spent a small amount of time with Kevin at the school it was a significant impact on my son's life. Thank you Kevin. R.I.P.

Jeff Mitchell

June 5, 2012

Kevin was a tower of grace who changed many lives. People should live like he did. He is missed

Lydia Williams

June 5, 2012

My prayers go out to the Dildy family. God has added another angel to his staff. RIP Kevin.

Christine Sanguinet

June 5, 2012

Never a kinder, gentler, sweeter mentor to walk this earth, than Mr. Kevin.

Miss Ellie, some of my favorite memories of Kevin are those talking about you, his children and grandchildren. He was never afraid to express his love and adoration of you all in front of others.

My heart goes out to you and your family during this time of great loss.

June 5, 2012

OUR CONDOLENCES TO THE DILDY FAMILY TO BE ABSENT FROM THE BODY IS TO BE PRESENT WITH THE LORD...KEVIN WILL BE FOREVER MISSED THE KENNEDY FAMILY

Kathy Griebel

June 4, 2012

Harambee School offers our sincere condolences to Kevin's family. He was a beloved father and grandfather who will be deeply missed. His legacy lives on in those he loved and the lives he touched.

Suzy

June 4, 2012

Kevin always made time for a smile, a warm "Hey, how you doing?" and some solid coaching advice for my fantasy football teams over the years. I enjoyed working with you. My condolences to your family. R.I.P.

Donna Reese

June 4, 2012

My prayers go out to the Dildy family! Donna Reese (SSHS classmate).

LaTanya White

June 4, 2012

My condolences to the family of Kevin Dildy! God has other plans for Kevin!

The Cunigan Family

June 4, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Cunigan Family.

Craig Brittnum

June 4, 2012

My condolences to the Dildy's and the Chicago Southeast Basketball Family on the loss of an ambitious and inspirational warrior who excelled as a player and coach. You will be missed by many!

Mark Marsh

June 4, 2012

RIP Kevin, Rest In Peace...PARKSIDE FOREVER!

Sandy Reichert

June 4, 2012

We worked together many years and I will carry those memories with me forever. You were the best Kevin and a great friend. I know you will watch over us all.

Linda Kemp

June 4, 2012

Ms Ellie and Family Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I don't have words to express the pain in my heart for the hole is so large right now.

But my children and I send our prayers to you all.

Ms. Linda (forever your pastor friend)

Laura Bohen

June 4, 2012

I was so lucky to have known Kevin, who's commitment to youth and community was an inspiration and motivation to all of us at PPL. My sincere condolences to his wife and family.

June 4, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Cunigan Family.

Deb Foster

June 4, 2012

It goes without saying that Kevin will be missed by so many. Kevin was a bright light at the Blaisdell YMCA for not only the youth he worked with, but for those of us who worked with him. Even after our Y days, his smile and humor always lightened our day...a dear friend who will be missed greatly. May the many fond memories help the Dildy family heal...

Pam and Clay Rogers

June 4, 2012

A mentor a close family friend and one of the most loving giving people I have ever known. He touched everyone he came into contact with and we miss him very much.

Debra Lewis

June 4, 2012

My prayers and condolences are with Kevin's family. He was a HUGE contributor to the success our communities youth. I considered him a friend, he will be missed.

Genevieve W-Murph

June 4, 2012

Kevin let his light shine to all those who he came in contact with - especially the youth he helped. He was a wonderful co-worker here at PPL whose smile, kind words and "words of wisdom" will greatly be missed. To his wife and family....you are in my prayers a God gives you strength to continue on without your loved one here on earth. Be Blessed!

Sarah Fryberger Madison

June 4, 2012

PPL and the entire community lost a kind, generous, loving, inspirational, and beautiful person. I will miss seeing his bright smile and positive energy. My most sincere condolences to his beautiful wife, Eleanor.

Sarah Fryberger Madison

June 4, 2012

PPL and the entire community lost a kind, generous, loving, inspirational, and beautiful person. I will miss seeing his bright smile and positive energy. My most sincere condolences to his beautiful wife, Eleanor.

Seth Jones

June 4, 2012

What can I say about this man? He was a great man, the awesome big brother that I never had. He really taught me how to work with young people. He was a hell of a Dad to his son. Many of us have benefited from having Kevin in our lives. He pulled no punches and told no lies, he was just real. He will be sorely missed by everyone he touched. To my big brother, as we use to say “rackum” and “OUT”

Timijanel Boyd Odom

June 4, 2012

R.I.P. you will be missed!

Christine Thompson

June 4, 2012

I knew Kevin through professional collaborations, and even though I didn't know him well, he has truly made a strong impact on me and the work I do. Knowing how much he has touched my life, I can only imagine the magnitude of his impact to others and the youth he served. He will be greatly missed, but his caring and gentle spirit will be passed through all those he has encountered.

Emily Sims

June 4, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Tresa Abraham

June 4, 2012

Sending my sincere condolences to the family of Kevin Dildy.

Wanda Clark-Pearson

June 4, 2012

My Condolences to the Dildy family. R.I.P. Kevin Dildy. Class of 1978

Sylvia Jackson

June 4, 2012

A wonderful light has left this world, he will be greatly missed.May GOD wrap his arms of comfort and peace around you Eleanor and family as you grieve.

Veronica Huggins-Simmons

June 4, 2012

May God grant Kevin his everlasting peace and may God continue to bless the family and friends with strength .

Sharon W Gullette

June 3, 2012

I grew up on 72nd Eastend, the Dildy's boys was older then me but I always heard good things about them they was so into sports, God has called on another Angel to continue his work in Heaven God bless the Family and Friends.

scott davis

June 3, 2012

I knew this man to be a frindly gentle giant sort of person who would always go out of his way to say hello.

We are all at a loss

Cabirii Johnson

June 3, 2012

our Family would like to send our condolence to the Dildy family. We knew Kevin growing up from childhood on the southside of chicago.They lived on Eastend and we lived on Cregier.It's been years but he still have that wonderful and kind smile. He will be missed and our Family sends our Peace love and sympathy. Cabirii, Herb jr., Severa, Yvette, Rickey and Chico and all the Johnson and Tolbert family. Love Ya !!! GOD Bless !!!

Eric Oines

June 3, 2012

Kevin was a great boss, a good friend and a kind and gentle mentor. I will miss him greatly.

Augustine and Forest Green

June 3, 2012

A wonderful person has left a void in this earth, but his loving spirit will live on forever. Kevin brought a lot of joy to our family

Tracy Dildy

June 3, 2012

Rib,You wear my father figure, my strength, my protector, my hero, my mentor, my role model, my example, my friend, what I guess I'm saying is I was bless to have the best BIG BROTHER IN THE WORLD! LOVE AND MISS YOU SO HARD!!!

Your lil brother
Tracy

Cassandra Ivory

June 3, 2012

I will miss my big brother in the Lord. That gentle giant who cared and loved many. He was a husband, brother, mentor, and friend to all he came in contact with. Our deepest, heartfelt prayers for his loving wife and family. Miss you brother Bear (Sylvester and Cassandra Ivory)

Grant Rallis

June 3, 2012

I only knew Kevin briefly as an intern at the preschool but I was drawn to his kind and gentle manner. I immediately admired this wonderful and influential man. I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers.

Bobby Jones

June 3, 2012

Kevin was a gentleman, wonderful classmate and teammate @ WKU. Our deepest thoughts and prayers go out this his family.

Bobby, GretChen & Maya Jones

E Cavitt

June 3, 2012

Kevin was a decent person who cared about young people. He was very positive in all his interactions.

June 3, 2012

Kevin helped countless young people who
needed a break in life. For those youth,
meeting Kevin was that break. He was kind
and supportive while insisting that they
take the steps required to improve their lives.
He will indeed be missed by all of us who loved him.
Brad Englund

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