Kevin Sheets

1949 - 2020

Kevin Sheets obituary, 1949-2020, Ann Arbor, MI

Kevin Sheets

1949 - 2020

BORN

1949

DIED

2020

Kevin Sheets Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 13 to Aug. 14, 2020.
Sheets, Kevin 5/6/1949 - 8/10/2020 Naples, FL Kevin Andrew Sheets of Naples, FL and formerly of Ann Arbor, MI and Goshen, IN died peacefully in his home early in the morning of August 10, 2020 at the age of 71. Kevin had been struggling physically in recent years due to lung disease caused by Alpha-1 antitrypsin deficiency, an inherited disorder. He was receiving medical support at home and his passing was neither sudden nor surprising for him or his family. Kevin was born in 1949 in Elkhart, IN to Donald and Mary Jane Jones Sheets. He was preceded by siblings born to Donald and Florence Wiser Sheets and followed by a younger sister. He grew up in Goshen, IN, where his parents owned a business, Specialized Mill Supply. Growing up, Kevin loved his friends, family, and time outdoors on both land and water. He hunted, fished, sailed, and water-skied. One friend remembers him skiing barefoot. In high school he played golf and football, though he always loved Indiana basketball, which he both watched and played recreationally. Kevin was as mentally active as he was physically, skipping a grade in elementary school and graduating with the Goshen High School class of 1966 at the age of 17. At this time he moved to Bloomington, IN, where he studied comparative literature at Indiana University and met his wife, Cathy Schafer Sheets. Kevin and Cathy married in 1968 and had four children before divorcing in 1986. During their time in Bloomington, Kevin wrote for The Spectator, an independent newspaper, and as a lover of a broad range of music, played guitar. He was asked to go on tour as the guitarist for the band Soft White Underbelly (later Blue Oyster Cult), but declined due to having a young and growing family. In 1974 Kevin took a job in Chicago, IL with Pickwick, a division of CBS, and moved his family to the suburb of Evanston. In 1975 they moved again, to Ann Arbor, MI, where Kevin was transferred by Pickwick to manage a record store: Discount Records on the corner of State and Liberty. In 1978, Kevin and Cathy started their own business, State Street Bookshop, when they purchased Charing Cross Books from the Borders family. This rare and antiquarian bookstore, which was at 316 South State across from the campus "diag," Kevin ran until he sold the business in 1992. The bookstore had an extensive collection of angling literature, art, maps, and ephemera. Kevin was an avid angler and transitioned from rod and reel fishing to fly fishing, publishing a book about angling literature in 1993. He also published a book about American maps in 1994. After leaving the book business, Kevin joined Bay Design in Ann Arbor where he served as chief financial officer and vice president, a position he still held at the time of his death. He was beloved among Bay Design employees. In 1996, Kevin and Susan Bay began traveling to Naples, FL and soon bought property as well as opened an initial Naples location of Bay Design in 2003. In 2012, both the business and the people became full time Florida residents and Kevin devoted free time to exploring the flora and fauna of the area. He began saltwater fly fishing and learned to navigate the chain of islands and mangrove-covered shell mounds of the Everglades known as The Ten Thousand Islands. He eventually traded his fly rods for cameras and became a self-taught photographer who spent his free time capturing on film the wildlife around Naples. In addition to The Ten Thousand Islands, he loved Keewaydin and Marco Island, Lostman's River, and Fakahatchee Strand. He completed a book of photography about Fakahatchee shortly before he died. Kevin was preceded in death by his father, Donald Wesley Sheets; Brother, Roger Lee Sheets; Mother, Mary Jane Sheets; and Sister, Kathleen Sheets Harmon. He is survived by his brother William Sheets and sister Myrna Sheets Rarick. He is also survived by his ex-wife, Cathy Schafer Sheets and four children: Christopher Sheets, Deirdre Sheets (Joey Tartell), Sarah Sheets, and Jane Sheets. He is also survived by his longtime companion, friend, and business associate, Susan Bay. Finally, Kevin, a loving and active grandfather who shared his love of photography with his grandchildren, is survived by five grandchildren. Cremation is being handled by Naples Funeral Home. Given the health precautions necessary due to COVID-19, no ceremony or gathering is planned at this time. Remembrances may be made in the form of a donation to Friends of the Fakahatchee: Support the Strand at https://orchidswamp.org/support/.

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October 3, 2023

"Thank you, whatever comes......" Ezra Pound

Michael King

October 15, 2020

"I'm doing well. Much better than one might expect. Watching Amarcord."
That was my last note from Kevin (a phone text), and briefly catches his voice and his longtime interest in film. It was Saturday, June 13, and I foolishly accepted its upbeat tone at face value and didn't think to stay steadily in touch over the summer. When he didn't respond to an email and text in September, I was concerned -- looked him up online and found this obituary. It was heartbreaking for me and for my wife, Mimi.
We were close friends with Kevin many years ago in Bloomington at IU, when we all worked on The Spectator (he was our brilliant film writer). We had lost touch over the years, but renewed our friendship in recent years after a chance connection on Facebook. We corresponded and called, and even enjoyed a couple of memorable visits in Naples when we were in Florida visiting family. Kevin was a gracious and generous host, a revelatory coastal tour guide, and always a memorable raconteur.
I was naive enough to believe my friend and I would spend another decade catching up and visiting (after this mad pandemic and worse regime), and I greatly regret not staying in touch in the last couple of months. I will miss him and his lively mind, and his loving kindness, for a long, long time. Farewell, old and good friend.
Earlier this year, I send him an Edward Hirsch poem (“The Secret”) because (as I told him) it reminded me of him. It recalls two friends watching flamenco dancers, one with “a mixture of curiosity and contentment, a happiness free of desire.” Hirsch wrote, “I’ve carried that secret with me ever since.”
Remember to keep your friends close, and stay in touch -- there's a big hole in my heart and soul, where Kevin had returned to live. Rest in Peace, old friend.

Andrew Tyler

August 18, 2020

Although none of us on the Board of the Friends of Fakahatchee were close to Kevin in his lifetime, he clearly touched a lot of people over the years. We are honored to be the designated recipient of gifts in his memory. At the Friends, we all feel a deep attachment to the Park, which is full of natural wonders. We are delighted that Kevin had as much as much joy from the Park during his life as we continue to experience today. Thank you Mr. Sheets, our prayers are with your family, and God bless.

Andrew Tyler, Vice-President, The Friends of Fakahatchee.

Meredith Maker

August 16, 2020

So many of us here in Naples will miss Kevin and his humorous stories, amazing photography, keen wit and innate wisdom. He was one of a kind, and one of the true good guys. RIP, dear Kevin ❤

Barbara Lake

August 16, 2020

My heart is broken. Kevin was very special to me, and we spent a lot of time together in the early ’60’s at the lake in Syracuse Indiana. After losing contact for 50+ years, we reconnected about three years ago. I visited Kevin several times in Naples and am so grateful to have had the chance to get to know the man that young boy became. The memories, old and new, of time spent with Kevin will remain dear to my heart. I will miss you, old friend.

Ivy White

August 15, 2020

I loved you dearly. Summer of '66.
Sleep sweet prince in the tower of music.
Ivy

Ivy White

August 15, 2020

My first love he was 17 I was 18 and our moments together dancing listening to music I'm traveling are etched in my mind.
The beautiful young boy with a thick head of hair, big brown eyes that would be envied by anyone. He introduced me to music that I never knew existed, blues, jazz, bluegrass. My first love that I will never forget. A quiet shy man an intellectual with eclectic tastes. I will miss you dearly and have shed tears for you with regrets of not seeing you and talking to you more.

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David Pepple

August 15, 2020

Kevin was one of 6 who successfully did a 2 ski jump out and footed with rainbows in our spray at sunset on Lake Awewaski behind a Cris Craft Cavalier.

Kevin Lynch

August 14, 2020

I knew Kevin and his young family well when he and I worked together at Discount Records. Later on I did some handy work for the Bookshop. I have wonderful memories of fishing Michigan lakes together. I was also working as a musician, and Kevin always adjusted the work schedule so I could leave early to make a gig or come in late after one - encouragement that I deeply appreciated. Kevin had a fine mind and an astute and slightly eccentric sense of humor. We fell out of touch for a few years but reconnected a couple of years ago. I learned a great deal from him about books, maps, fishing, and the ups and downs of life. I treasure the memories of special meals, songs, and the companionship shared with Kevin and his family during those years. Rest in blissful peace, my friend, and wishing great comfort to the friends and family who are part of those cherished times.

Jon nelson

August 14, 2020

I thought Kevin was a personal person with a high intelligent set of goals. I wasn’t a close friend but always thought he was a great guy and appreciated him in many classes. I believe that he had spiritual beliefs and respected him. May God bless his family and always remember the good.

Debra Glendening

August 14, 2020

Kevin was one of those people who came into my life for a reason. He became one of my best friends. I am glad he is no longer suffering. I imagine he is taking photos and smiling down on us. That gives me a smile. My sincere sympathy to you all. He was a good man.

He’ll always be in my heart.
Debra

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