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Marla Ruzicka Obituary
She attended Lakeport schools, graduating from Clear Lake High School in 1995. In high school, Marla created the Environmental Club, was Student Body President, and a member of the basketball and soccer teams. She graduated from Long Island University’s (NY) Friends World Program in 1999.
Marla was active in humanitarian issues from a young age. In high school, she worked with Global Exchange. After Global Exchange sponsored a trip to Afghanistan, she founded the non-profit organization CIVIC (Campaign for Innocent Victims in Conflict).
Marla is survived by her parents, Clifford and Nancy Ruzicka, and twin brother, Mark, all of Lakeport; sister, Joy Ruzicka and husband, Chris Pacheco and daughters, Allegria and Avalon Pacheco of Sacramento; brothers, Jon Ruzicka of Verdigre, Neb. and Jim Ruzicka of Lakeport; sister, Jill (Ruzicka) Leighton and husband, Eric and sons, Oliver and Philip Leighton of Pasadena; godmother, Eileen McGuire Pyzer and daughter, Julie Pyzer of Lakeport. She also leaves behind many special friends throughout the world including Phillip Machingura of Berkeley; Catherine Philip of New Delhi, India; and Tim Reiser of Washington, D.C.
A funeral Mass will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, April 23 at St. Mary’s Catholic Church, 801 N. Main St., Lakeport. All are welcome to attend. Please sign the guestbook at www.record-bee.com, click on obituaries. (Published in the Lake County Record-Bee on Thursday, April 21, 2005.)
225 Entries
Alan
July 18, 2017
I wrote you a while ago and you wrote me back with a warm note. If you will recall, my son was also an activist who died in 2003. It has been a long time, but I still think of him EVERY day, as you do about Marla. I am writing to ask how you are doing? We both know this is not something that goes away over time...but I hope you have found some peace in your life...I am enclosing my email address should you wish to respond.
Marla Ann Ruzicka
April 17, 2013
April 20, 2011
You are in my thoughts everyday, Marla. <3
How you can show support
ashley mawk
January 19, 2011
I did not know Marla but i know what she did. She was a hero and didi so much to help people who were hurt, she gives me inspiration to help others and not just in the USA but everywhere i can possibly go. Your daughter was a very very amazing person. When i read about her courage and strength my eyes fill with tears im going to spread her story everywhere.
Amanda Lindeblad
February 17, 2006
Marla, my mentor, my inspiration... Your passion for everyone and everything; from myself and my woes as a kid growing up to those in Iraq- I have no doubt they felt the same immense love and care that I did. The absolute biggest heart I think possible...
The Boykin's family
November 29, 2005
Sorry,to hear about the lost of your daughter.
October 25, 2005
There is rarely a day that goes by I don't think of Marla. I knew Marla in High school, she always had a kind word and helped me see how wonderful someone could be. I am so sorry the world lost Marla so soon.
Stephanie Steber (Rothans)
October 21, 2005
I have so many memories growing up with Marala. My favorite was getting in trouble for a walk out in 8th grade over Desert Storm. I know from first hand how much it hurts to lose a sibling. I feel so much for your family. Know that you are loved and in the thoughts and prayers of many.
Randall Gosling
September 28, 2005
Today (Sept. 28, 2005) is the first time that I read about your wonderful work you have done. It was a wrong way to go to heaven that young. It not right. Your life will live on. RIP. Randy
Christina Asquith
September 22, 2005
I knew Marla in Baghdad in the last 18 months of her life. She was loved by everyone there- the military, journalists and Iraqis-- and she took care of us all. I think of her always, and miss her very much.
Leia Eckert
September 16, 2005
I HAVE TWO PICTURES ON THE DASH OF MY CAR; A PICTURE OF MARLA AND A PICTURE OF MY LITTLE GIRL. BOTH OF THESE PICTURES INSPIRE ME EVERYDAY. I HAVE A PICTURE OF MY DAUGHTER TO MOTIVATE ME EACH DAY TO WORK HARD SO THAT I CAN PROVIDE HER WITH THE BEST LIFE AND EDUCATION POSSIBLE AND A PICTURE OF MARLA TO INSPIRE ME TO DO RIGHT BY OTHERS. I CAN'T EVEN EXPRESS WHAT AN INSPIRATION HER MEMORY IS TO ME. I WILL NEVER TAKE THAT PICTURE DOWN.
Jackie Lechtenberg
September 13, 2005
Marla was my first cousin, but I really didn't know her, because of an age differnet and the distance that we lived. I wish I did. I'm thinking of you Uncle Cliff and Nancy and the family.
Tasha L.
September 12, 2005
My mom and marla r cuzins her father, CLiff, is my grandpa, Glen Ruzicka's brothers!!! Im doin a skool project on marla for history day. Im proud to be related to her for all the good things she has done
Dean Faris
July 30, 2005
Marla and my daughter Jamie were good friends and shared many of the same ideals. Two head strong girls with a definete direction that they would follow as the years passed. It seems that the almighty needed both of them to do his work in an other area and sent for Jamie first. Marla and Jamie, good friends and school shums are again together and somewhere they will look down and help us become better people. Love and kisses to two wonderful angels. Dean & Jeanne Faris
Rachel (Green) Kitchens
July 28, 2005
What a great way to spend you life, doing what you loved. If only it could have been longer. I'm sorry for all the lives that were never touched by your great work. You will be missed, but never forgotten.
Adair Richards
July 27, 2005
Although I have only heard about Marla after her death, her life has been an inspiration to me these last few months on how much one person can achieve in adverse circumstances. She has had a positive impact on me and many in my community.
My sincere condolences to all of her family, friends and coleagues.
Luisa Acosta
July 10, 2005
Uvo un angel en nuestra comunidad que muy pocos conocimos de su labor, sin embargo su caridad, nobleza, y amor a los demas un dia la hizo brillar. Marla, por tu caridad a toda la humanidad sin descriminar Nacionalidades, la comunidad te rinde un tributo y agradese todo tu esfuerzo por querer lograr cambiar el mundo, nos diste una gran leccion. Pedimos que dios nuestro senor, te tenga en su gloria tu te lo mereces porque tu legado, siempre continuara. Los que no te conocimos, solo nos basta con saber de lo que fuistes capas de hacer en tu corta edad. A tus padre y familia des digo que el dia en que tu naciste, nacio un angel, un angel de la humanidad. Tu legado seguira!
el macho
July 7, 2005
Won't forget you! Please pray for us!
An angel has gone; your loss cannot be replaced.
God bless you and help us.
Rest in peace.
from romania
Selina Albitre
July 6, 2005
At the doctor's office yesterday I came across an issue of "Rolling Stone" magazine with a very thought-provoking article about the life of Marla Ruzicka. I was absolutely touched and inspired by her passion and courage. It is extremely encouraging to know that there are still people in this troubled world, who have that much compassion and love. If we all acted on such compassion, what a wonderfull world we would live in.
Rosemarie Norcio
June 22, 2005
I decided to see if there were any new additions to Marla's guest book, I was SHOCKED to see how many people from all over the world have stopped to pay respects!
If you have ever wondered what the meaning of life is, it is what Marla did and is continuing to do after her passing! She truly was and IS a saint! I didn't know her, but my husband informed me he had a HUGE crush on her throughout school. I know her mother, such a sweet lady! I have never seen anyone take the loss of a child as well as Mr. and Mrs. Ruzicka! They are strong people, it is no wonder their daughter was such a wonderful person, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree!
I took it upon myself to do something for Marla! She did so much for us, all of humanity, I wrote to the new Pope and told him all about Marla and her "Miracles" she performed daily! Even if there is no response to my letter I am pleased to know that it got to him and he read it!
I was very happy to hear that there will be a movie and a book about Marla's life and all the money the family got for selling the rights they are donating to CIVIC! I donate as much as I can to it, but it is overwhelming to know that her dream will be well taken care of!
If you have ever thought "But I am only one person, what difference can I make?" Remember Marla and remember that you too can do it!!!
On behalf of the entire Norcio Family here in Lakeport, "We miss you!"
renee
June 20, 2005
you are a beautiful person and i am sorry you are gone.
ANONYMOUS
June 17, 2005
Marla Ruzicka was a very courageous woman.She is an inspiration.
Mike Lieb
June 11, 2005
Hi Marla, I did underground construction years ago and at one time, your relatives were our engineers. We've had eye contact at Mendocino College, I believe, but we've never spoken. I've since read about you and become an admirer. Thanks for all the great work you've done. Mike Lieb
Hugo Schauer
May 27, 2005
Marla did what she believed in, never thought twice, and never stopped. She knew what was right and that others mattered. For all of us who know it too, let us do all we can and then our lives will matter also.
Greg Williams
May 21, 2005
"Each time you stand up for an ideal or act to improve the lot of others or strike out against injustice you send forth a tiny ripple of hope and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring those ripples build a current that can knock down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance." I could never have walked the road that Marla walked....She is a challenge to my 55 years.... I am sorry I never knew her, but I will not forget her witness, and will share her story with the youth I work with. They will hear about King,Romero, Stang, And Marla
JOSEPH SZUPELLO
May 20, 2005
MARLA,
YOU AND YOUR BROTHER WERE ALWAYS SO FUN TO SEE AND BE AROUND. ALWAYS, ALWAYS BIG SMILES!!! YOUR ONE IN A BILLION MARLA AND YOU HELPED MANY. THAY WON'T FORGET!
isabel sanchez
May 17, 2005
I'm so sorry about your loss. I did not know her, but I hear that she was a wonderful person. She did so much for every body. It's our turn Now!
G.
May 17, 2005
"You are the angel we need in our lifes"
much love,
Allen Louise Erickson
May 16, 2005
To all of Marla Ruzicka's family and friends,
My deepest sympathies for you loss. We all lost a great light, and now our job is to do what we can to make up for her loss...maybe all of us working together can accomplish what she did in her all too short lifetime.
Kim Reading-Lettini
May 15, 2005
I will never forget Marla. She was a grade higher then me so I really didn't get to talk with her much but...she made everyone her friend.
To do the work she does, I would have not expected anything less. She is truely an angel.
I am very sorry to her family and friends for their loss.
Richard Cramer
May 10, 2005
To the Family of Marla Ruzica;
I was so shocked and Horrified that one of our People from our own area was killed in Iraq!! My Condolences go to you as you Grieve for your beautiful, caring Daughter. She will always be remembered as a Kind, Loving Person who cared for others. God bless you all.
Sincerley Yours, Richard H.G. Cramer, Kelseyville,Ca.
Gary Del Carlo
May 10, 2005
I didn't know Marla, but living in Lake County makes me proud to know that such a wonderful person was raised amongst us. So many times we don't hear about the life and works of a person like Marla until after their passing. There are other "Marla's" out there that are quietly making a difference in this world like Marla did. I'm sure that another "Marla" will be inspired by the life and works of Marla Ruzicka. God Bless her, and her family.
Melody & Scott De Leon
May 9, 2005
Marla is proof that when you think you're helpless to make a difference in the life of someone less fortunate, you really can. And in her case, she didn't stop at just one person... Thank you, Marla, for all that you've done for our fellow human beings, and for the inspiration you've brought to us in your home town, as well as around the world. You'll always have a special place in our hearts. To Cliff & Nancy, how lucky you are, and how proud you must be to have suceeded in raising such a beautifully unique, and incredibly giving child. You've always been special friends to us and you know our thoughts are with you. Melody & Scott De Leon
Cindy Malm Perkins
May 9, 2005
Mol an oige agus tiocfaidh siad.
(Praise the young and they will flourish.)
Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam.
(May she rest in peace.)
Sandy Jensen
May 6, 2005
Dear Cliff and Nancy,
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. What a treasure Marla has been to all of us that knew her and for those who didn't. Her life experiences have touched so many. Marla will always be missed and never forgotten. Her life has been an inspiration to us all.
May 5, 2005
Dear Cliff, Nancy, and family,
Although we never had the pleasure of knowing Marla, it is obvious that her caring for others is an inspiration for all of us. Your family must be so proud to have raised such a wonderful daughter.
God be with you.
Ann and George McSherry
Dan and Marijane Hansford
Kate Johnson
May 5, 2005
I thank God for people like Maria spreading peace.
I am sorry for your loss.
Ally Fields
May 5, 2005
I just graduated on Friday with my nursing degree. I promise that I will use this degree to make a difference in this world. I never met Marla but I feel that her spirit is everywhere and can inspire people, now more than ever.
I am sorry for your loss. By helping people, I promise I will work to make sure her death was not in vain.
Compassion is contagious....
Thank you for your unending compassion, Marla.
Leisha Ver Linden- Romo
May 5, 2005
Marla was the most genuine person I've ever known. With her love she made everyone feel special, everyone was important to her. I'm honored to have known an angel.
dennis cimino
May 5, 2005
This woman made me proud to be someone who supports the kind of world she tried to create with her selflessness and her caring. This world will mourn the loss of this exemplary human being for generations yet born. It would be a wonderful thing if the rest of the world sought the same path she walked in her short but incredibly meaningful life. God bless you, Marla, wherever you are.
Karma Tenzing Wangchuk
May 3, 2005
I'm not sure I've grieved more over someone's death than I have over Marla Ruzicka's. What a loss!
At the same time, I've seldom if ever rejoiced so much in someone's life--Marla's heart and her selfless activities make her a candidate for sainthood in my book.
Her work will continue through CIVIC, through Global Exchange, and through us--and in a very real way, her life will too.
cold rain ~
in the stone buddha's hands,
a wind-blown flower
For Marla Ruzicka
Robert Redford
April 30, 2005
Your life is an inspiratin to us all.
Tom Engstrom
April 29, 2005
Cliff & Nancy,
It was an honor for all of us in law enforcement to assist with Marla's memorial service. As one of the visiting guests was leaving the church, she asked me if our community realized what a treasure we had in Marla. I was proud to proclaim, that indeed we did.
Within weeks of my arrival in Lakeport, I was invited to speak to a class at Clear Lake High School. Because I was too new to know any of the students, I would ask their names as they would raise their hand to ask a question. I called on the cutiest little blonde girl I've ever seen and asked her name. She replied, "Marla Ruzicka". I paused and commented, Ruzicka? Ruzicka? Why is that name familiar to me? Marla, without hesitating, replied, "Oh, you know my brother".
Thank you for being such wonderful parents and for teaching your children that they truly can make a difference in the world. May God grant you peace in the knowledge that Marla is with Him. If anyone deserved a direct pass to heaven, it was Marla. My love to your family, especially my good friend Mark.
Tom Engstrom
Lakeport Police Chief
Abdul Malik Mujahid
April 29, 2005
May God grant her eternal peace for her unwavering commitment to the plight of humanity. What a beautiful and unselfish person she was, she will be missed.
Abdul Malik Mujahid
Chairman,
Council of Islamic Organizations of Greater Chicago
Bill & Dana Kearney
April 29, 2005
Cliff, Nancy & Family,
Although I didn't know Marla that well personally, through you I got to know many things about her. What I do know,is she left a tremendous legacey in her memory. Although our politics differed our hearts did not. Marla may be physicially gone, but her soul lives on to continue giving to others as she did so many times in her short life on this earth.
Our thoghts and prayers are with you all in the loss of this extremely exceptional young lady.
Janel Chapman
April 28, 2005
I remember Marla as a small child. Even then, she was tenacious. She always fought for what was right and fair. As I watched her grow into a young adult, I admired her and her ability to bring a feeling of peace and love to all around her. To Cliff and Nancy...you raised a beautiful, remarkable young lady. She will be missed.
Mr. & Mrs. William Djernes
April 28, 2005
Our family is deeply moved by what Marla accomloshied with her life. May her spirit live on.
Julie Pyzer
April 28, 2005
I have known Marla my entire life. I grew up with her, she was "La La" to me, and I fondly think of her as the closest thing I had to a sister. My mom,Eileen, is the godmother of the twins, and all my life Marla referred to me as her "godsister". We were family. When I think back, one of my favorite memories of her, was when she decided she was a vegetarian…. Oh except for Frostee Corral hamburgers, of course. I remember how green her hair got every summer from swimming so much. And how she would always try to pump people up for everything. I remember driving over Hopland on our way to Windsor Waterworks, I was feeling sick, and Marla started standing up making paddling motions with her arms and yelling whoosh whoosh (if you knew her you can picture her can’t you) “we’re almost there Julie, do it with me..” she’d say and continue. Then she’d laugh and laugh. We all remember her laugh….. I will miss that most.
Marla always had a cause, and she always fought for it. I have always looked up to Marla and truly admire her strength, her compassion, her will, and her drive to take a stand and make a difference. She genuinely cared about people. I cannot imagine not ever seeing Marla again, I always thought there would be so much time to catch up with her.I feel her loss so deeply I can't even describe it, but I know she is in a better place now where there is peace (and I'm sure she's got everyone up there roller blading and salsa dancing). She will live on in all of us, her work, and in all of the people she’s helped. Marla was an inspiration, a sister, and a friend to me and I am so thankful that I knew her. Marla I love you, I miss you and I will think of you often..
Kathy (Farr) Peters
April 28, 2005
To Nancy, Cliff, Mark, and Marla's extended family,
I want to convey my deepest sympathy to you on the passing of your wonderful daughter, Marla. She is truly an inspiration to us all. Our family became acquainted with Marla when she worked in my office while in high school and then babysat my three rambunctious daughters, Megan, Allison & Jennifer. She became like a 4th daughter to me and was always so much fun to be around. We lost contact with her somewhat when she went off to college and were only able to see her when she would come home usually during summer vacation. When Marla wasn't babysitting my girls, sometimes she would just show up and sweep them away for a fun day on the lake in her family's boat.
Marla's tenacity and resistance to allowing anything to stand in her way of what she felt was just was so admirable. What we loved the most about her, though, was her ability to make you feel as though you were the most important person in her world at that particular moment.
I am still grappling with the reality that I won't ever get to get my usual exuberant hug from her or hear about the latest events in her exciting life.
I will never forget Marla and will cherish the times me and my girls were able to spend with her. Thank you for your gift of Marla to the rest of the world. Her legacy will never be forgotten.
Kathy Peters
Peter Alexander
April 27, 2005
Thank you Marla. In your sacrifice I know your work will be strengthened. All of us from Lakeport love and miss you. What an honor it is to have known you. Peter
Becky Grant
April 27, 2005
Marla~
Truly a beautiful spirit that has inspired & touched so many! Your kindess, tenacity, unselfishness, and magnitude of your relentless humanitarian efforts leaves me in awe. You will remain in our hearts, and never be forgotten. We will support your efforts with CIVIC and Global Exchange.
My deepest condolences to Nancy, Cliff, Mark & family. You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Rest Little Angel....for you have worked so hard.
Becky Grant
Glenda Marsh
April 27, 2005
When I traveled to Kabul, Afghanistan in Sept. 2001, our Global Exchange delegation was removed by FBI and US Customs agents from our flight in Newark NJ. (We were held incommunicado in the airport basement for 8 hours.)Marla, on her way to Kabul to document civilian casualties with Global Exchange, was on the plane and was able to sneak a prohibited cell phone call to Global Exchange to tell them that something had happened to us. Later, in Kabul, I saw her preparing for her work and saw her walking confidently and comfortably down a busy market street there. I was so amazed by her boldness, her sense of just placing herself just where she wanted to be. I'll remember that and how important that is to success and reaching the goals you set for yourself. - Glenda Marsh
Marleen Kaatz
April 27, 2005
Marla was an extraordinary, loving person who will be missed deeply. My condolences to her family on their terrible loss. Thank you to Marla for everything she accomplished. Bless you one and all.
Deanna Desselle
April 27, 2005
With all the loving efforts Marla put forward in her shortlife, her memory will live on forever. With all my love, Deanna
Beverly Winchell
April 27, 2005
How truely blessed your family is to have had Gods blessing to Raise Marla. For such a young woman to have accomplished so much she was a special child of Gods. When I learn more and more about Marla she makes me feel in my heart as I do when I think of Mother Thersa. May God Bless you all at this time in your life.
LEIA ECKERT
April 26, 2005
I am deeply touched by Marla's dedication and drive to make this world a more peaceful place. What a beautiful person inside and out Marla was; what an inspiration;A remarkable women. My heart truly aches for the Ruzicka family. Cliff, Mark and Nancy, may God bless and be with you and your family.
Beverly Owen
April 26, 2005
Our lives are filled with moments that can make a positive difference in other's lives if we allow. Marla Ruzicka made that difference with her life by caring for others. God blessed those whose lives she touched and God blessed her with those opportunities. I admire her work.
Daniel Winborne
April 26, 2005
I was deeply moved by the article in the Record-Bee by John Jensen. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. To lose a child is devastating. Please take some solace in the fact that she accomplished so much in so little time.
Mark Chapman
April 26, 2005
We have lost an outstanding person, but we should all be so incredibly thankful for the limited amount of time Marla spent on earth. Her work will hopefully continue with all of us being inspired by Marla's efforts.
Anita McKee
April 26, 2005
Marla was an extraordinary, courageous young woman whose humanitarian efforts have stirred the world. She lived her passions and succeeded in awakening the U.S. Govt. and all of us to the realities of war and its effects on innocent civilians.
Bobby and I attended the Memorial Service on Saturday. It was an amazing experience ... so sad, so inspirational, and so many wonderful tributes to Marla.
Nancy and Cliff, you did a wonderful job raising Marla. You had the insight and courage to allow Marla the freedom to be Marla and to support her in her efforts.
Heart felt condolences to you both, to Mark, and to all the family.
Lee Tilson
April 26, 2005
Marla knew what mattered. Her life reminds me of the Socratic maxim: “know thyself.” Such knowledge is a treasure. I excuse my lack of accomplishments in fighting for social justice by noting my relative lack of resources. Marla showed how to change the world: with determination, a pure heart, and a clear vision. Her life elegantly refutes my excuses for not doing more. I need to learn more about this remarkable woman.
The stories about Marla are compelling: selling rocks to buy flowers for her mother, emptying her pockets to buy gum in Tijuana, making phone calls to arrange medical treatment for injured children in Iraq, talking to government officials after they testified, etc. The stories are told by Iraqis and Afghans, reporters and teachers, classmates and soldiers. They remind me how much we all have in common: we shared Marla. By sharing stories about her, we celebrate a wonderful soul. The stories prove how we can change the world. More importantly, those stories bring us together around the goodness in her heart.
I hope the stories about Marla will be preserved and collected. Reading them inspires me to be a better person and to make the world a better place. I hope her friends and teachers will share the stories, the raw facts, about what Marla did.
Maybe in that way the rest of the world can come to know this angel we have lost.
I would love to learn more about Marla Ruzicka.
Kristen Soderquist (Foley)
April 26, 2005
I want to express my deepest sympathy to the Ruzicka family. You are all such special people to me. Marla was such a great friend to me and I will miss that sweet smile that she always had. She always knew how to cheer someone up and put a smile on their face. She has had such an impact on so many people and will continue to do so. I love you Marla and miss you deeply.
Love,
Kristen
Reema K.
April 26, 2005
My condolences and prayers go out to Mr. and Mrs. Ruzicka, family, and friends. May time ease your pain. Her accomplishments on her own accord demonstrate Marla's pure heart.
Corey Bradshaw
April 26, 2005
I am so moved by the women Marla had become. Her life experiences have touched my heart and inspire me to be a better women. God Bless the Ruzika family in this time of sorrow. I believe life was born the day God took her home.
Sam/Craig Stankiewicz
April 26, 2005
God Bless
pat vanhorn
April 25, 2005
May we all learn from Marla to be as compassionate and giving as she was. May our young children have such great hearts and inspiration and our world will be a greater place. God bless Marla's family and friends to help them through this most difficult time.
Pat
Clearlake, CA
Lee & Mary Langley
April 24, 2005
May The Blessing Of God always Comfort your Souls. I only wish we had a million more like your daughter. Our world would be a much better place. I'll always keep you in my prayers.
Stanley Krute
April 24, 2005
Every now and then God's love burns especially brightly in a human soul.
The planet will miss the remarkable
Marla.
Up in heaven, amidst the dancing, she's bending God's ear, asking that a bit more be done for the suffering children.
We are all challenged to live up to the memory.
Lee C. Warnock
April 24, 2005
Clifford
You and I worked together when I was with Boyle Engineering Corp, on the Lower Lake Water District water line repair program. My deepest condolences.
Judith McCarrick
April 24, 2005
I have asked myself this week why I have been so deeply affected by all of the articles written about Marla when I never had the privilege of knowing her. Perhaps because my youngest daughter is close to Marla's age, perhaps because of Marla's wonderful smile and her incredible courage. I'm not sure. What I know is that Marla touched the hearts of countless people, and now that she is no longer with us, we must keep her work alive through CIVIC. She accomplished what governments and large organizations have failed to do - she walked her talk, and I am so grateful to her for this. My love and sympathy to her family. Please know I am one of the ordinary people who will not let her work be forgotten.
Doreen McGuire-Grigg
April 24, 2005
My Dear Marla, (aka Beadsley),
I'll never forget all the fun times we had while you were growing up! You were soooo cute! You got a bead stuck up your nose so your mom had to take you to the emergency room to have it removed...two years later you did it again.How could we resist but call you "Beadsley"! We used to bake cookies and ornaments at Christmas. You, Mark, Sean and I hid under the covers during a thunder and lightening storm telling scary stories. We would swim all summer and "play-toys" all winter. How you loved the soap opera "All My Children"! If one of us missed an episode we'd make sure to catch each other up with all the important details happening in "Pine Valley".
You and Mark would yell at me for being "tight" when I wouldn't let you dive off the piling into the lake...at that time of year the water was only three feet deep! I remember how you LOVED Joe's Frostee Corral Hamburgers and french fries. I remember watching the hostages come home with you right next to me. I remember what fast friends you and Colby became...lifelong friends. I'll miss you tremendously. Your laugh, your smile, your tears, your anger, but most of all I'll miss your warm hugs and "I Love You"'s. You were more than just a family friend to Sean, Garry and I. You were a cousin and a niece. I love you dearly. Say hello and give one of your world famous hugs to Mom when you see her.
I Love You,
Auntie Doreen
Mike Matherly
April 24, 2005
Cliff, Nancy, Mark and Family.
It is with heavy hearts we write this note. It was always a great pleasure to be around Marla, she had a wonderful talent to make one feel good. I am sorry to say I had no idea she had made such an impact on the WORLD, how ever not suprised.
one refreshing thought; When they opened the gates to heaven I am sure they found a smiling Pope John-Paul II in deep conversation with on fisty blond.
our thoughts are with you.
Marla the world is missing you.
Mike Matherly/Robin Cooley/Nancy Matherly
Thomas Heikkala
April 24, 2005
To often we lose the best of our lot in tragic ways. I wish I could have met her. However, she now serves us as a example of courage and dedication to our duty here on Planet Earth.
Valerie Lee
April 24, 2005
Marla, through her work, demonstrated for all of us how it's not enough to complain about our government; one has to do something to promote positive change. Having a daughter the same age as Marla, I recognize how this stage of her life should be a beginning and not an end. Marla's parents can take comfort in knowing their sacrifice was great, but Marla will always be remembered for her courage and selflessness.
Chuck Beighlea
April 24, 2005
My sympathies to the family of Marla Ruzicka.At a time so close to your loss it is difficult to find comfort for your loss, but you have given a great gift to the world,this angel to the downtrodden and war victims of world.What an inspirition her life is to many people.It surely is a tribute to you ,her family,that she was the person she became.God bless you and thank you for her life that was a comfort to many.
James Starowicz
April 24, 2005
Though most of us never personally met Marla we All share in the Grief of her Loss as a Tireless Personality of Humanitarian Concern and Peaceful CoExistance of Humankind!
She will fast become friends with another Young Soul, and now Peace Angel, Rachel Corrie, as Marla donns her Peace Angel Wings, Both Watching Over Us All!
Her Spirit Is Alive And Her Work Will Go Forward While Inspiring Other Young People [As Well As Us Oldsters] To Help Bring About A Peaceful, Tolerant, Understanding World!
Member: Veterans For Peace, and other Pro-Peace Groups.
USN '67-'71 GMG3 Vietnam In-Country '70-'71
Paula and Gary Kiaski
April 24, 2005
Nancy and Cliff,
Although we never met Marla, the news of her death has reached us. Our hearts go out to you. We hope that you can find comfort in your memories. Her life has touched the lives of so many. She is truly an inspiration to us all.
April 24, 2005
We were very saddened to hear the death of such a young women who was out to make a difference in this world. To her family, just remember, Marla will have angel wings and will be looking out for you, she will never be forgotten by anyone who knew her and anyone who has just learned what a wonderful person she was. I knew Marla just from talking to her once in a while, what a wonderful spirit. Peace be with you and your family
Steve & Toni Vickers
April 24, 2005
We remember Marla best as an energetic high schooler who always acted in response to her strong held beliefs. Full of life and a friend to all; everyone knew Marla. Marla we are so proud of you and are confident that the important work you began will continue in your memory.
Janet Rogers
April 24, 2005
Marla, my heart dropped when I heard the sad news today. I still remember playing basketball with you in Jerusalem-we beat all the boys. I remember your smile and your never ending energy-God bless you and your family. The whole world will miss you.
Sally Rogers
April 24, 2005
I am in awe of this beautiful and compassionate young woman. How ironic that it has taken her death to bring so much public awareness to her organization, CIVIC. But the silver-lining is that many, many people will now donate in her memory, to the cause she championed. Few, very very few, accomplish so much in such a short life. What a beautiful soul! My heart goes out to her family and friends at the magnitude of their loss.
Joe & Kamy Maxwell
April 23, 2005
Our heart goes out to you all.
We will keep you in our prayers and even though we never met Marla, this hits all of us in our community especially-and also the whole World for that matter.
You should be forever proud of what she accomplished in her short life, and her Spirit is eternal-and I know the she will live on in Eternity.
God Bless the Ruzicka family and all of the lives Marla touched-out of love.
Bill Wolfe
April 23, 2005
Cliff,Nancy and family -
I attended today, the finest tribute I have ever participated in.
My heart goes out to you- With out you,the world would never been enriched by the mighty gift you gave to us all !!!
Bill
Ellen O'Donohue
April 23, 2005
Marla represented us as the American who cared. She is all that is good about the world.
Her family is grieving as are we and they must be proud to know how she dedicated her life to the world's disadvantaged peoples.
We have lost a saint in Marla, a Mother Teresa, a Gandhi...
Jaime Ortega
April 23, 2005
Marla's courage will inspire many many people. Her kindness will be remembered by those who had the luck to meet her. She'll be missed. Peace.
TERRI SPARHAWK
April 23, 2005
I TRUELY KNOW THE SORROW YOUR FAMILY IS FEELING AT THIS TIME, AND MY HEART FEELS FOR YOU ALL. MY MOTHER ALWAYS TOLD US THAT WHEN GOD TAKES AWAY FROM US SOMEONE SO YOUNG, THAT HE HAS BIGGER AND BETTER PLANS IN STORE FOR THEM. TAKE COMFORT IN THE KNOWLEDGE THAT MARLA WAS CALLED HOME TO PREPARE FOR WHAT GOD NEEDS HER TO DO NEXT. WHAT SHE STARTED WILL CONTINUE.
Tom & Virginia Jordan
April 23, 2005
All we can do as parents is to assure that our children can contribute to society and not become a burden. Thank you for your courage in allowing Marla to bloom into such a generous and giving person. Her well-lived life has given us inspiration, faith and hope for a better future. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
-- The Tom Jordan Family
James and Janet Hagan
April 23, 2005
Our very deepest sympathy goes out to Nancy,Cliff, Mark and family.
Thank you Marla, for the great magnitude of your efforts in this trying world. We know your legacy will live on through CIVIC.
The Hagan family
Campbell-DeBolt Family
April 23, 2005
Nancy and Cliff - usually there would be no words at a time like this, but in Marla's case there are many, many words to commend her vitality and conviction to live life to the fullest and share that enthusiasm with others...attending her memorial today is a testament to that fact..I hope that the compassion and power that she brought together today gives pause for all of us to try to do more through action, individually or united, to support CIVIC through whatever resources we can spare. That would be the tribute Marla would most appreciate, I think. May you both gather strength from her undying memory and peace from your faith.
John Payne
April 23, 2005
I never met your daughter and I am sad that I only heard of her by the news of her death. What she did with her life is what we all should be doing, actions that help others in need. Marla has taught us all that one person can make a big difference. The best tribute we can do in remembering her life is to take up the work where she left off. I know you are proud of her and please take care in the comfort of knowing that all she has helped in her short time on this earth would form a line impossible to see the end. God bless you and your daughter Marla.
John
Debbie Allen
April 23, 2005
What a remarkable life, and an inspiring example of true courage and compassion. My heartfelt condolences to the Ruzicka family.
Debra Heidary
April 23, 2005
A true ambassador of humanity and kindness! May the history books be rewritten to include the story of Marla Ruzicka, and her impact on all the lives she touched. My deepest sympathy goes out to her family.
Bill Gilliland
April 23, 2005
You have done more in your 28 year's then most people in a life time. God bless your family, and thank you for showing the world not all American's are bad.
marilyn johnson
April 23, 2005
with deepest sympathy to Cliff and Nancy and extended families...much love to Mark, Sean, and Julie Dawn...Petie, Gram and the Johnson Brothers
Rev. Michael Bausch
April 23, 2005
Marla's contribution is enormous and her loving work sends a bright ray of hope into our world. On Sunday, April 24, I will lift her life and example before our congregation and to the twelve teens who will be confirmed into their faith. Marla embodied what it means to work for justice and peace. I extend my sympathies to you, her family and friends.
Matthew Clowry
April 23, 2005
What an amazing young person was Marla. Please accept my condolences on the loss of a truly caring citzen of the world.
Bernard Gibbes
April 23, 2005
The love you shared with all who's lives and hearts you touched will never go away and never be forgotten.
Through all the sorrow and the many tears there still springs hope.
Marci Horton
April 22, 2005
Growing up in Lakeport I was lucky enough to of grown up with Marla from a very early age. She was a very bright and strong person who never failed to stand up for what she believed in. Her smile was a ray of sunshine that spoke volumes in this sometimes bleak world of coldness and discrimination. Her ability to stand tall no matter the situation is a truly inspiring thing. If half the world was half of what Marla was this world would be a more beautiful place. I pray to God that through this hard time we see the seed that Marla has worked so hard to plant and continue to water it and watch it grow. To the Ruzicka family, thank you so much for raising such a shining star and allowing her to grow into the wonderful person that she was. Mark, please know that we love you very much and we are here if you need anything,You are an angel in my life and I thank God for your wonderful friendship, I love you, buddy. PEACE!
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