Mary Jane Reeder

Mary Jane Reeder obituary, Mount Pleasant, SC

Mary Jane Reeder

Mary Jane Reeder Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 26, 2010.
REEDER, MARY JANE - age 88, died on January 16, 2010 in Mount Pleasant, SC. Mary Jane was born December 6, 1921 in Knoxville, the only child of Charles and Helen Donaghy. An alumna of old Knoxville High School, she graduated from the University of Tennessee with a major in child development. At UT, she was an active member of Alpha Delta Pi sorority, serving as Vice President. After her marriage to William H. Reeder, Jr. and the completion of his medical training, the couple returned to Knoxville in 1952, where he started a practice in internal medicine. Mary Jane held several positions in child welfare, before becoming a full-time mother and later a professional artisan. She started her own business, "Serendipity," designing and hand-crafting custom apparel, jewelry, soft sculpture, and one-of-a-kind old world St. Nicholases. In addition to her craft work, Mary Jane donated her time to local charities, including the Florence Crittenton Agency and Knoxville Habitat for Humanity. She had a leadership role in the planning and building of the original Pan-Hellenic Building at UT. She was an active member of Sequoyah Hills Presbyterian Church and served on the Board of Directors of Sequoyah Square Homeowners Association. Mary Jane moved to a retirement community near Charleston, South Carolina, in 2007 to be closer to her daughter. "Mimi" is survived by her two daughters, Becky Van Wie of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina and Linda Reeder of Leesburg, Virginia; grandsons Nic Van Wie of Austin, Texas; Greg Van Wie of Washington, DC; Doug Van Wie of Birmingham, Alabama; and Britton Reeder-Thompson and Ian Reeder-Thompson of Leesburg, Virginia. In accordance with her wishes, Mary Jane's remains were donated to the Medical University of South Carolina. A memorial service will be held in the Rodenburg Chapel at Franke at Seaside in Mount Pleasant on Saturday, January 30 at 10:30 AM. The family would like to thank the staff of Franke at Seaside for their attentive and compassionate care. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Knoxville Habitat for Humanity, 1501 Washington Avenue, Knoxville, Tennessee 37917; Second Harvest Food Bank of East Tennessee, 922 Delaware Avenue, Knoxville, Tennessee 37921; or Lutheran Homes Foundation (to support the subsidized resident care program at Franke at Seaside), 1885 Rifle Range Road, Mount Pleasant, SC 29464. Mary Jane will be remembered for her compassionate concern for others and generous, loving spirit, as well as her gracious and positive attitude.

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February 10, 2010

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February 1, 2010

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January 31, 2010

Mary Ayres Gardner posted to the memorial.

February 10, 2010

"Aunt" mary Jane was my mother's first cousin and trusted friend, as well as a treasured member of our family. Years would go by, but whenever I saw her or spoke with her it was as though no time at all had passed. She was a caring, gentle, and kind soul. Although she has passed, she will live on in the hearts and minds of those of us who knew and loved her. Dwayne and I send our sympathy to Becky and Linda and the entire family.

Jane Keeling Toler

Sherry Black Walsh

February 1, 2010

As a child I remember many sleepovers at the Reeder home and how much fun we always had. Mrs. Reeder was always so gracious and welcoming. Best wishes and sincere sympathy to Becky, Linda and family.

Mary Ayres Gardner

January 31, 2010

I know all of you in her family will miss Mary Jane's sweet, gentle presence in your lives. She was a wonderful godmother to me during my childhood, and I remember my times with Mary Jane, and with Mr. and Mrs. Donaghy, with great affection.

Mary Ayres Gardner

Mary Helen, Tim, Sam and Lucy Blue

January 30, 2010

Mimi was such a gracious lady. She always made my children and I feel so special. I know God has a special place in heaven for her because she was so full of grace and kindness. We loved her very much. My sincere sympathies to Linda, Britton, Ian and the rest of the family. She will be missed greatly by all.

Rebecca Keeling Broyles

January 28, 2010

"Aunt" Mary Jane was one of the warmest, most charming women I have ever known. I'm especially glad for her lovely picture here because it shows her just the way I remember her.
Mother (Nancy Haston Keeling) simply adored her. She talked about her all the time and said that more than being her cousin, Aunt Mary Jane was practically a sister to her. At UT, Mother pledged ADPi because it was Aunt Mary Jane's sorority.
She made the world a warm and welcoming place, and we cherish memories of her.
Paul and I send our love and sympathy to Becky, Linda, and all the family.
Rebecca Keeling Broyles

Carolyn Snyder

January 27, 2010

I meant to type my sincere sympathies to her grandsons ....

Stephanie Thompson

January 26, 2010

MiMi always made me feel welcome and like one of the family. She is one of the most gracious and graceful Southern Women I've known. I will miss her great smile and kindness.

Carolyn Snyder

January 26, 2010

A true Southern Belle and amazing woman. Mimi volunteered to stay with me after back surgery at Georgetown. I will never forget her kindness. Her annual visit to Virginia marked the Christmas holidays for me. She had the strength to visit for the last time in Dec. which I consider a "present" to us. I am also grateful for her daughter Linda who has been a wonderful friend for over 30 yrs. I will miss her creativity, sense of humor and presence in our lives. My sincere sympathies to Linda, Becky, Mimi's nephews and friends.

mark woodruff

January 26, 2010

One of the kindest and strong-spirited women I have ever met.
I will remember her with affection and respect for her kindness to me and my children.
Mark, Leigh and Ben Woodruff

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