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Melanie's presence was a radiant beacon that could light up any room she entered. With her quick wit, playful sarcasm, and boundless love, she brought joy into the lives of all who were fortunate to know her. When asked about her proudest achievement, she would invariably reply, "Being a mom." Her heart overflowed with love and pride for her three remarkable children, who were the center of her world.
Born on June 9, 1976, in the warmth of Salt Lake City, Utah, Melanie was the precious daughter of Betty and Richard James. Her roots were deep in Utah, where she spent much of her life until 2012, when she embarked on a new chapter in Austin, Texas, alongside her beloved family.
She was married to Jeremy William Palmer on November 20, 1999, and divorced in 2020. Melanie leaves behind a legacy of love carried on by her cherished children: Landon James Palmer (22) (Hallie), Emma Grace Palmer (20), and Olivia Faith Palmer (16). She is also survived by her loving parents, Betty and Richard James; her devoted brothers, Robert (Susan), Mike (Stacy), Gary, Jason (Ilene), and Ryan; as well as numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews. She also held the Garamore family close to her heart.
Melanie's educational journey began in West Jordan, Utah, where she nurtured her passion for learning and continually expanded her knowledge. In the days leading up to her passing, Melanie dedicated her time as an Executive Assistant at Mobile Loaves & Fishes, a local nonprofit based in Austin, Texas. This organization extends assistance to those in need through acts of ministry, nourishment, and shelter. Within this role, Melanie's heart overflowed with compassion, touching the lives of her colleagues and the individuals supported by the organization. Her commitment radiated warmth and care, embodying the very essence of unconditional love and kindness. Notably, Melanie's tender spirituality was a cornerstone of her being, beautifully reflected in her deep connection with her faith and her embrace of her savior's love.
A true friend to all she encountered, Melanie had an inner circle of friends, her "tribe," who adored and cherished her. Her ability to see the best in people was like a gentle embrace that nurtured their spirits. Her giving nature and compassion knew no bounds.
Beyond her radiant personality, Melanie possessed a melodic gift - her beautiful singing voice. She graced family gatherings with her music, and the joy of karaoke nights with friends and family held a special place in her heart. Her playlist included the melodies of Jewel, P!nk, Kelly Clarkson, and more. A loyal fan of the show "Friends," she found comfort in its timeless humor. Melanie's love for vibrant colors like yellow and teal mirrored her vibrant spirit. Sunflowers and orchids, her favorite blooms, echoed her passion for life's beauty.
Interment will be located at Larkin Sunset Gardens in Sandy, Utah at a later date. In honor of Melanie's effervescent spirit, her family invites attendees to wear cheerful and bright colors that mirror her zest for life. Let us remember Melanie's love, laughter, and legacy with hearts full of gratitude and joy.
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Christine Day
August 21, 2023
I will remember your kindness, compassion, intelligence, hilarious sense of humor, and for the immense love you have for your children. You made our girls cruises and get togethers so much more fun. I´ll always remember our "Sisterwives" cruise - you had the best time explaining our t-shirts and weaving the silly stories to tell our fellow travellers. When you last visited Utah, we talked about our next girls cruise - I hope you will be with us in spirit and know how loved you are.
You have touched our lives and will stay in our hearts forever.
Fred Vander Werff
August 18, 2023
Melanie, I love you and miss you, but I also know this is just a short period before I can see you again. Some of my happiest memories growing up were the times I got to spend with my James cousins. Claude is right - you always lit up the room even in those "growing up" years of ours. My prayers are with your kids and all of the James family. Fred Vander Werff, Utah
Janice Record
August 18, 2023
I remember the first time I met you Melanie. I was drawn to your fun, radiant personality. Rest in peace my friend. You will be missed.
Ryan Richards
August 18, 2023
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August 18, 2023
I could never get enough of your sense of humor, and a witty banter that slayed me and endered you. And no matter how many times you'd re-tell my favorite story (I asked to hear it a lot) of you explaining your kids while one licked a chalkboard made me laugh every single time. Our conversations were always enjoyable. I will always have a special love for you! farewell, my wonderful, beautiful, impishly sarcastic, and forever funny friend.
heather
August 18, 2023
Melanie, you were "my sister from another mister" and I will forever cherish our friendship. Rest well.
Jenny wilson
August 18, 2023
To love and be loved: that´s why we are here and you did just that. Miss you, sweet friend.
Claude Wells
August 18, 2023
Melanie was always very positive and did light up the room any place she was present. I had the opportunity to see Melanie and Gary sing their karoke comedy routine. Both talented, funny, and in sync with one another. When I was in Austion earlier this year I was able to spend some quality time with her seeing her work with the previously homeless. She was very proud to work with Alan and the other staff at Mobile Loaves and Fishes. I was proud of her that she found satisfying work with a great organization helping people. She was a great mom and loved and was proud of her three children. We will miss your quick wit, your beaming personality and your caring of all people. Love you Cousin! Claude Wells, Utah.
Layne Virgin
August 17, 2023
Oh how we will miss you. You were an amazing cousin. You were Beautiful inside and out. Thank you for blessing us with your life, albeit too short. Our heart goes out to your family, especially your dear children. We love you. Until we meet again.
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