NANCY JUDITH HESS

1953 - 2017

NANCY JUDITH HESS obituary, 1953-2017, Wakefield, MA

NANCY JUDITH HESS

1953 - 2017

BORN

1953

DIED

2017

NANCY HESS Obituary

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HESS, Nancy Judith Age 64, of Wakefield, MA died on June 27, 2017 after a long battle with cancer.

Born on February 4, 1953 in Wilmington, DE, Nancy was the daughter of the late Leah Heist Hess and Charles Frederick Hess, Jr.

Nancy was a graduate of Ramapo High School in Franklin Lakes, NJ and earned a Bachelor's Degree in French and Liberal Arts from the University of Hartford. During her college career, Nancy spent a year studying at the University of Paris and this experience led to a lifelong love of the "City of Lights" and of French culture, language and cuisine.

Nancy worked at Delta Airlines for 28 years in various capacities, the last of which was as a Learning Specialist in the Training Department.

Nancy enjoyed extensive traveling and visited many places including Vietnam, Myanmar, Costa Rica, Britain, and most of the European countries, especially France. She spent every significant birthday in Paris and had dinner at her favorite restaurant there. She was a gourmet cook, an avid knitter, a gardener and a volunteer caseworker for the American Red Cross.

Nancy is survived by her brother Charles Frederick Hess, III and his wife Joan of Blaine, WA and by her sister Susan Maliot, her husband Jerry and their daughter Jenna of University Park, FL.

A Memorial Service followed by a reception will be held at St. Patrick Parish, 71 Central St. Stoneham, MA on Friday, August 18 at 11 a.m.

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Nancy captaining our boat in the Bahamas 1981

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Our Wedding Day, 23 June 1979, Concord, MA

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Nancy and her flamingo friends in Key West 1980

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Nancy and me with Nicky and Wendy at her Dad's house 1976

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Our Wedding Day, 23 June 1979, Concord, MA

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Our Wedding Day, 23 June 1979, Concord, MA

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June 23, 1979

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Nancy and I met at the University of Hartford in 1975 in a Comparative History course during our senior year. I was smitten the first time I laid eyes on her, and finally had the courage asked her out that June. Our first date was June 21, 1975, and we fell so hard in love that we moved into an apartment in West Hartford with my dogs Nicky and Wendy and my cat Percy. We moved up to Melrose, Massachusetts in 1977 and were married on June 23, 1979 in Ralph Waldo Emerson's church in Concord, Mass. Nancy went to work for Delta and I was attending graduate school at Harvard, getting my Ph.D. After our dogs passed away in spring 1984, our marriage began to crumble as we drifted apart. We bought a house in Wakefield that summer, but in the fall we separated. It was a painful time for both of us, as we still loved each other very much but just couldn't live together. I left Massachusetts in 1991 to become a professor of English at Purdue, and we didn't stay in touch, but I've never stopped loving her. We were very young when we moved in together and married, and in your early twenties you can grow in different directions and find yourself, a decade later, no longer really together. But she was the only woman I ever truly loved, and she has been in my thoughts and heart since that day when I first saw her. Nancy was incredibly kind and decent. She cared about people and always did whatever she could to help others. Everything about her was beautiful, inside and out. I pray we'll meet again on the other side. Rest in Peace, my beautiful, sweet angel.

August 5, 2017

Sorry for your loss may you draw comfort from Hosea 13:14. L Ohio

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