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Claire
August 27, 2022
I´m still thinking of Neil most days. We dated for a very brief time but I am constantly reminded of his kindness and spark.
Class of 2002, A Co, Class reunion, Charleston, SC. 2005.
brendan cooney
May 5, 2019
Our first class reunion in Charleston, S.C. (Citadel, class of 2002).
A co, class of 2002, The Citadel, getting our senior rings.
Brendan cooney
May 5, 2019
I found this the other day. I remember us all very well, including Neil. Gone but not forgotten.
Sarah Headley
June 9, 2013
I am thinking of you and your family at this sad time. Be strong in your faith. Neil will be your angel in Heaven.
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Amy Headley
June 8, 2013
I'm so very sorry for your family's loss. I hope you feel the love coming from the many many who hold you all dear. Please know my love and comfort are right there too.
much love,
Amy and Josh Headley
Keesler AFB Airfield Ops Officer training class
Hrvoje Filipovic
June 8, 2013
Neil made a strong impression on us. This planet will not be the same without him. Plesa, accept our condolences. Hrvoje i Ivana Filipovic from Croatia
Robert and Anne Headley
June 8, 2013
We are thinking of your beautiful family and grieving for the loss of this fine young man. God be with you all.
John Tokar
June 4, 2013
To Neil's family and friends. I just heard this news and wanted to let you know how very very sorry I am for your loss. I had the pleasure and opportunity to volunteer with Neil on several occasions with Habitat for Humanity of Frederick Maryland.
I remember Neil's very first time he came out to volunteer out of the blue with us. He was shy but soon fit right in with the rest of the group. I spent several weekends working side by side with Neil and was very impressed at his dedication and compassion. Qualities you do not find very often in young people today.
I am truly saddened to hear of Neil's passing and want to offer my deepest sympathy. He was a very special person and will be sorely missed
Trisha and Jim Bethel
June 2, 2013
We cannot go a day without thinking and praying for your family!! We love you and will not stop praying for strength and healing. Neil was a delightful young man! Much love!
June 2, 2013
Bruce and Jan,
We do not know each other but I got to know your son when he volunteered for us at Habitat for Humanity Frederick County. Neil was dedicated in helping others and he came to Habitat for Humanity volunteering to do just that. At the time Neil was with us I was Managing our ReStore. He would come to the ReStore everyday just to help where he could. I came to know and love Neil, a true gentleman, sometimes very quite, but always enjoyed a laugh and some fun.
When I learned of Neil's passing in the paper I could hardly believe what I was seeing. I was crushed, I was hoping our paths would cross again someday and I know they will in a much better place. I send you my sincere sympathy on the lost of your son, he was a wonderful young man. I am dedicating this weeks newsletter for Habitat Frederick to Neil, his service to our country and to us at Habitat for Humanity will never be forgotten.
Ron Cramer, Executive Director
Habitat for Humanity of Frederick County MD.
Martin Robinson
June 1, 2013
Dear Jan and Bruce please accept my heart felt condolences at this time.although I did not know your son I too am a farther I will remember Neil in my prayers.
Bill & Karen Schneweis
June 1, 2013
"All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here. Death ends a life, not a relationship". You were a sweet, goofy kid, and a strong, gentle giant of a man. Rest in peace, Neil. Bruce & Jan, so sorry we won't be there Sunday.
Jay Tuthill
May 28, 2013
Dear Bruce:
Reading the entries of those who've preceded me in this beautiful guest book, two things are quickly apparent:
- Neil was a special person who touched many and
- You & Jan have wonderful friends out there hoping to soften your blow.
May these days pass swiftly while the love and grace of those around you keep you warm.
Patrick Rizzi
May 28, 2013
Bruce and Jan,
You both and Neil will be in my prayers always. Neil was a great American and a great teammate who will be forever missed. His contributions to the security of our Nation demonstrated the credo of selfless service he lived by. It was a true honor to have worked with him and I am proud to say that I knew him as a teammate. God bless you Neil.
Bennett Reid
May 25, 2013
I knew Neil from my time at the Citadel and through my brother Jacob. I've always enjoyed the stories Jacob shared about Neil, and usually it would make us laugh. As a fellow Air Force member he was someone I always looked up to. Thanks for being an inspiration to all. RIP buddy.
May 24, 2013
Dear Jan and Bruce,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this most difficult time. We all love Neil so much.
Love
Maria Lively
May 22, 2013
The Shearer family sends our heartfelt condolences to the Landsberg family. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. - Zack, Tiffany, and Payton
Donna Koons
May 21, 2013
Bruce and Jan.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends
Dn Adams
May 20, 2013
LG,
You have been one of the most influential people in my life...I remember being deployed from another unit and you being the only one in country to make sure I had what I needed. You were a inspirational leader and caring individual. My condolences to the Landsberg family, your son was a great man!
-AS
Bart Wiggins
May 20, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Landsberg family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Not only have you lost a loved one, but our nation has lost an honored veteran. The world will be a less colorful place without Neil. The world's loss is Heaven's gain. Rest in Peace Neil.
Bart Wiggins, Tampa Florida.
Ed Thompson
May 20, 2013
Bruce, Jan and family, you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Your son is a hero who through his service and friendship undoubtedly touched the lives of many people in ways that they'll remember forever. May God bless him and your entire family.
Neil and students pondering the next step
Keith Hewes
May 20, 2013
Neil was a fantastic communicator and operator, I worked with him daily for at our training facility in TN. He was a very charismatic individual and extremely fun to be around. He always had a smile and was willing to help with any matter. The program will forever miss his enthusiasm and care. Rest in peace my CCT/TTL brother.
S Schmidt
May 20, 2013
To the Landsberg family and friends of Neil go my deepest sympathy. He was an incredible man that will be missed by everyone.
RIP My Brother
Ron
May 18, 2013
Neil, I have only great memories of you. Professional, bright, funny. More than just friendly, you CARED for those around you. Always willing to shoulder more than your share. Rest in Peace Brother. My prayers to all your family and friends.
June Ericsson
May 17, 2013
Dear Jan and Bruce, and all the family,
Please know you are being held close in thoughts and prayers by so many of us. Words are inadequate to express the sorrow of losing such a fine young man. We weep with you.I'm one of Sherri's "Old Bag" friends, and all of us are praying for you all.
Kevin Whiteaker
May 16, 2013
I am sorry about the loss in your family. I never had the chance to meet Neil, but I too am a graduate of both Valley Forge Military College (11C) and a recent graduate of The Citadel (13). As a man of both institutions it is sad to hear of this news, his story hits home for me and I offer my deepest condolences.
Ginny Dowski
May 16, 2013
My deepest sympathy to all of you during this difficult time. Neil was such a bright spot in the lives of so many...for my family it was during those high school years.
Thoughts and prayers are and will continue for all... my heart aches for your loss...
Jeff Shackleford
May 16, 2013
Though I didn't know you as I retired long before you served we share a brotherhood. I was sad to hear of your passing.
Bruce Bigelow
May 16, 2013
Dear Bruce
We were saddened to hear about Neil and wanted to send our deepest condolences to you and your family. Neil sounds like a wonderful person; we wish we had known him. We find that the relationships we develop in the course of our work extend far beyond the technical nature of the subject matter and embrace a care and connection with the people as well. That is certainly true with you and your colleagues at AOPA. There are few words that can express what I am sure you must be feeling this week, but please know that we send our heartfelt prayers and support. Bruce and Carol
May 16, 2013
I knew Neil as a young kid. We lived across the street from eachother in Wichita and my brother coaxed him into more trouble than I could discourage. But Neil was such a good boy, he stood up to my brother when he knew something was wrong. I knew, even as a young girl, he had such a pure heart. I just found Matt on Facebook about a month ago and eagerly sought out connection with Neil through Matt. My heart hearts to learn of his passing, but God must have missed his angel and now he has returned.
I hope to know you again someday, Neil.
Kari
Tim Meekins
May 16, 2013
I used to play lacrosse with Neil in high school. He was a great friend and will be sorely missed. Thank you for your service to this great nation. My condolences to the Landsberg family.
Britney Munn
May 16, 2013
My Neil, My Hero, My Guardian Angel... A week ago today we were on the phone confirming plans to see one another for later that afternoon... Our time never came. You were such an amazing man with a beautiful soul and a heart of gold. I will cherish our unforgettable moments and I can not thank you enough for the positive impact you put on my life. You will forever have a special place in my heart. I will always love and miss you.. Rest in Peace my love.. Until we meet again. - Your Baby Girl
May 15, 2013
Neil,
You'll be greatly missed. We hadn't spoken since we entered the Air Force together over a decade ago. Over time, I've met many people who had the opportunity to meet you. You were an inspiration to everyone even those that only shared a moment with you. You're memory and legacy will live on through all of us. Rest in peace dear friend. --Talmadge Bravo '03, Air Force brother
Marilyn Thompson
May 15, 2013
Bruce and Jan, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
With all my love,
Jan McCarty-Nobles
May 15, 2013
I knew Neil from his days at the Citadel. His honor and integrity were of the highest caliber. He was a wonderful person and great friend! We will miss him and are very sorry for your loss.
Bill Craig
May 15, 2013
My prayers are with the Landsberg family and friends.
Bill
Citadel Class of 82
Jared Kohl
May 15, 2013
I did not have the pleasure and honor of knowing Neil personally but as a fellow member of the long grey line, we wear the ring and that made him a brother. Thoughts and prayers for the family and friends of this fallen hero.
-Jared Kohl
Class of 2004
November Company
Jon Pope
May 15, 2013
I did not know him but he was my brother as he wore the band of gold. My prayers to his family.
May 15, 2013
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family.
CPT Brendan Cooney
May 15, 2013
I had the pleasure of knowing Neil throughout the Citadel. A Co, C/O 2002. I just heard the sad news. My heart goes out to everyone! He will be missed!
Cee & Jim Koenig
May 15, 2013
Dearest Jan, Bruce, and Matt,
Please know that our thoughts and deepest prayers are with you at this time. Neil was such a wonderful person, son, and soldier. One day you will be able to smile when you think of him and be thankful for all the time that you had him in your lives. He was such a blessing.
Karen Shuler
May 15, 2013
To the Landsberg family: the wide ripples of goodness Neil created in this world will continue to honor him; rest assured of that. To Neil: I am sorry you escaped my 'net' when you were at The Citadel but many of my lambs knew you, love you, and respect you. Your legacy will continue to bring goodness into this world, as I hope you know it will. Rest in the love and peace of God.
Nancy Clark
May 15, 2013
Dear Jan and Bruce, There are no words that can touch your grief at this time. I wish there were. You and all your family are in my prayers.
Friend of Sherri and finder of Lady/Marley
Ruth Moser
May 15, 2013
Jan and Bruce, Very sad to hear of your loss. Your son contributed so much to our country - he made you and so many Americans very proud. Remember the good times. Take care of each other, Ruth Moser
JACOB REID
May 15, 2013
MY FAMILY AND I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED NEIL. I HAVE ONLY GREAT MROMRYS WITH HIM AT THE CITADEL. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE . YOU WILL ALWAYS BE A GREAT FRIEND OF MINE. FIRST NAME A MET NEIL WE SAID..... GO SKINS
Tom and Brenda Haines
May 14, 2013
Bruce and Jan,
We can't begin to imagine your grief, but know that you are in our prayers and that we are here for you whenever you need us.
Louise Cox
May 14, 2013
Jan and Bruce, my heart and prayers are with you during this unfathomably difficult time. I pray that God touch you with His healing, comfort and peace. (Sherri's friend)
Gary Martin
May 14, 2013
We have lost a patriot and a fine young man. Our hearts are broken and our thoughts go out to Bruce, Jan, and Neil's extended family and many friends.
May 14, 2013
Insurmountable loss. My deepest sympathy to your family.
Dave Hirschman
May 14, 2013
My sincere condolences for your family's unfathomable loss. Donating now to Team Rubicon, and hoping to stop other families from such heartbreak.
Shelley Tapia
May 14, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to the family during this difficult time. Neil was a great co-worker and will be greatly missed each day.
May 14, 2013
Bruce, Our sincerest condolences for your loss. Our hearts and prayers go out to your family during this difficult time.
Betsy and Jim Gram
May 14, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to you Bruce, Jan & Matthew. You are in our prayers.
Virginia & Kenton Grubbs & family
Thomas Turner
May 14, 2013
I'm shocked and saddened by your loss. I cannot imagine what you're going through.
PDC
May 14, 2013
I am a coworker of Neil's. He was a wonderful person and I will miss him greatly. May God comfort his family during their time of need.
Wolf
May 14, 2013
Brightest Blessings for your family in their time of grief. My your life's work be a shining beacon for their eternal love
May 14, 2013
Bruce & Jan,
My sincerest condolences for your lost. God's blessings to your entire family.
Vincent Mickens
NBAA
Ted Chartier
May 14, 2013
Bruce, Jan & Matt,
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Neil's time on this Earth was too short but he accomplished so much to be proud off. I will always see Neil as a brother. I'm going to miss him dearly just knowing he's gone from this world. However I know that he is with our Heavenly Father now. I love you guys and I'm going to keep you in my prayers.
Afshin Olamai
May 13, 2013
I will miss and remember him.
Timothy Peaks
May 13, 2013
Neil you are missed! R.I.P.
Jan, Tim, Kendall, and Connor Klosky
May 13, 2013
Jan and Bruce, so sorry to hear of Neil's passing. May God's grace be with you all. We're all here for you whatever may be the need.
Alexander Morgan
May 13, 2013
I never knew of Neil until my parents told me of his obituary, but as an Alumni of the both Thomas Johnson High School and The Citadel, I feel an allegiance to man whose experiences closely reflect mine. I pray that his family finds peace and I pray that he had the opportunity to find peace with the Lord.
Melissa Kirkner
May 13, 2013
I knew Neil when we were teenagers. We lost touch but had once run into each other and discovered we were both then a part of the Air Force family. We hadn't realized that all these years we had been crossing paths - the Carolina's, DC, Florida. Life takes us so many places. I'm glad to have known Neil, and I'm deeply saddened that the world has lost a giver, a patriot, and a friend. I hope that everyone who knew Neil will be comforted by their fond memories of him.
Cindy Carter
May 13, 2013
Dear Bruce,
I can only imagine the pain that you are going through, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy and Bob Carter
SF
May 13, 2013
LG - It was an honor to serve with you brother. You will never be forgotten. Thanks for the memories.
Laura Yeates
May 13, 2013
I did not know you but my heart breaks for your family. It sounds as if you were a great solider, wonderful son, trusting friend and generous and caring at heart. Thank you Neil C. Landsberg for your service to our country. May The Lord hold in his arms and give peace and rest.
Tim Anderson
May 13, 2013
I feel deeply honored to have known Neil while at The Citadel. He was just an all-around perfect guy, and every moment I got to spend with him was an enriching experience that I will always treasure. It has been years since I last spoke to Neil, but knowing he's gone makes me feel a void in the world that will be difficult to come to terms with. You will be dearly missed by many Neil.
May 13, 2013
I did not know Captain Landsberg, but would like to take to this opportunity to send my condolences and respect to his family, colleagues and classmates. The Citadel and America has again lost one of our best.
Ira Stern
The Citadel, Class of 1969
Captain,USMC 1969-75
Gaithersburg,Maryland
Brian & Toni Loudon
May 13, 2013
Jan,
Toni & I are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark Grady
May 13, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Ryan Blakeley
May 13, 2013
Neil, It was an honor to have known you and an even greater honor to have been your friend! You will always be remembered and forever missed by everyone that bares the ring of gold! "I call you brother, friend of mine. A finer man you can not find. Friendships forged in days long past, like tempered steel, through years will last! Rest in Peace my MD Brother!!
May 13, 2013
I did not know Neil long or well, but the short time I did know him I was always impressed with his knowledge, expertise and fantastic personality. He was a true professional in his field of expertise and a great guy to have a beer with. We have lost an amazing young man and a national asset.
USMC LtCol (select) Eli Smith
Semper Fi
May 13, 2013
Bruce,
Don and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time,
Amy Koranda
Patty Miller
May 13, 2013
Bruce and family, I can only imagine there is no pain deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you at this most difficult time.
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Art & Jane Flior
May 13, 2013
Bruce and Jan, we were so sad to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please call on us if we may be of any help.
May 13, 2013
Dearest Jan and Bruce,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of unimaginable sadness.
With our deepest sympathy,
Mary Hiatt and Jeff Leonard
Andy Miller
May 13, 2013
Bruce and Family -- my deepest sympathy for your loss. It is clear from the messages here that Neil was a very special man
Pamela H
May 13, 2013
I've had the privilege of knowing the Landsberg family for many years. This family is the example of what it is to be a true friend, a kind neighbor, and a valued citizen of what makes this the United States of America. I thank Neil for the bravery and honor he has shown his country and his fellow man and that he rest in peace. Further, I pray that the Landsberg's would come to peace with Neil moving on to his next assignment, an angel to protect us all.
Jonathan Pereira
May 13, 2013
I knew Neil at The Citadel and he provided an example for leadership that I maintain to this day. He was a good man and my thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Susan Parson
May 13, 2013
Bruce, Jan, and family - I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all very much in my thoughts and prayers at this time of unbearable loss. May you find comfort in the time you had with Neil and with knowing what an impact he made on everyone who knew him.
Shirlie Hansbrough
May 13, 2013
May the memories you hold in your hearts bring healing and peace to your souls.
May 13, 2013
LG-You were a true leader and a great friend that will be missed by all. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.
CN
Dave Mckenna
May 13, 2013
Neil, it was my honor to serve under you on Blue Team, it was an even greater honor to call you my friend..Rest in Peace.
Kristen Shelhorse
May 12, 2013
I'm sorry to have learned the news of Neil passing. He was an all around great guy, full of life and determination. After reading what others said, he obviously touched many lives where ever he was. He will be missed.
John Gardner
May 12, 2013
Rest in Peace Neil. We will celebrate your life through memories. You will be sorely missed by all that have known you.
Kelly Greenberg
May 12, 2013
Reading what others have shared about Neil makes me feel truly blessed and thankful for the time I was able to spend with him. He touched so many lives and I am proud to have known him. One thing I am sure of: We all aspire to be more like Neil. I miss him so much!
Tom Haas
May 12, 2013
Bruce, Jan and Matthew, again, my deepest condolences and heart felt sympathy.
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Ryan Sultan
May 12, 2013
Rest in peace Neil, I will always remember the memories and laughs from the good ol TJ days. Than you for serving our country.
Anthony Alo
May 12, 2013
May this candle be a light to shine on in Neil's memory. My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of need. He will truly be missed!
PE
May 12, 2013
Neil, a true friend and a professional with everyone he encountered. You will be truely missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you and a loss to the ones who never had the chance.
Andrew Q
May 12, 2013
My deepest condolences and sympathies for your loss. Neil was my cadre sergeant at The Citadel, and he was someone I looked up to and respected immensely. He will be so very deeply missed.
Neil with my husband, Ron Walker, Chris McLaughlin and Chris Coleman
Christine Walker
May 12, 2013
Neil~ you will be truly missed by many! Rest in peace friend.
Stacy Attinger
May 12, 2013
Sending many prayers to the Landsberg family. My husband got to know Neil while he was stationed with him at Hurlburt field, he will be greatly and deeply missed always. -The Attinger Family
May 12, 2013
Tami Pellas
May 12, 2013
Bruce and family, my deepest sympathy for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
RW
May 12, 2013
RIP Neil. A true professional and helper of all of those in need. You always had a hand out to anyone that needed it. Deepest sympathies and prayers to the family and friends left here.
Mike Smith
May 12, 2013
I'm sorry I won't get to know you. Team Rubicon misses you.
R. Bostwick
May 11, 2013
LG, it was an honor to deploy and serve with you brother! I've missed ya man. I know we'll meet again.
BK
Brittney Day
May 11, 2013
Bruce, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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