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Patricia Bayer
1943 - 2019
Patricia Bayer
1943 - 2019
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Patricia Bayer Obituary
Patricia Bayer of Hollywood, Florida, and New Milford, Connecticut, passed away March 12, 2019. Pat, as she was known, was born May 31, 1943 in Poughkeepsie, New York. She was raised in Peekskill, New York and attended Peekskill High School graduating in the Class of 1961 and Elizabeth Seton College with an Associate's Degree in Applied Sciences in 1964.
Pat married her loving husband, Robert L. Bayer Sr., on August 22, 1964. Pat and Bob had 54 inseparable years together. While she spent several years working in a doctor's office, her true love was in raising and caring for her family. She was happiest whenever she was together with her husband, her children and their families. Pat (or Mom/Mama as she was known to her family) truly loved hosting family gatherings. There was rarely a holiday or a family event that didn't include a wonderful meal that she lovingly prepared. One of her fondest memories was a family trip to Lake Placid in 2014 to celebrate her 50th wedding anniversary with all her immediate family.
Pat is survived by her husband Robert L. Bayer Sr. and her four children and their families: Robert Jr. and Jane with Evan, Lauren; Peter and Ruth with Mollie, Tommy; William and Krisanne with Caroline, Hudson; and Rebecca and Damian with David, Emily. She is also survived by her brother Owen Peterson, sister-in-law Judy, and 16 nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, Emil and Margaret Peterson of Peekskill, New York as well as her brother, Emil William Peterson of Putnam Valley, New York.
Calling hours will be at the Lillis Funeral Home, 58 Bridge Street, New Milford, Connecticut on Sunday, March 24 from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. A funeral service at Our Lady of the Lakes Catholic Church in New Milford, Connecticut is scheduled for Monday, March 25 at 10:00 a.m. Interment will follow at the Center Cemetery, New Milford, Connecticut.
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Monica
April 1, 2019
You are not alone during this time of sorrow and pain. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this loss. As you remember your beloved one, may the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way. May you find strength from the love and care that surrounds you and comfort in the memories that you shared. Theres hope in seeing your dear loved again. Read 1 Thessalonians 4:14.
Please accept my sincere condolences.
March 24, 2019
Bob, We found out about Pat's passing from the couple,who are also from Connecticut,who sit by us at mass at Saint David's. Bea & I are so very sorry for your loss & will pray for you & your family. Bea & Geri
March 23, 2019
Bob, Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Pat will always be remembered fondly. May all of your wonderful memories, help to carry you through this very difficult time.
Barbara & Mike Turturro
Delray Bch., Fl.
Cathy and Don Guzi
March 21, 2019
Dear family,
We were heartbroken to hear that my dear cousin had passed away. Last time we were together last October we had so much fun laughing and remembering growing up in each other's homes. It was always so much fun getting together. Pat was so wonderful...inside and out.
Our love and deepest sympathy and many prayers for you all.
Love, Cathy
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March 20, 2019
My sincere condolences to the family for your loss. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure in your heart and it lives forever. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. 1 Thessalonians 4:14
March 20, 2019
I would like to offer my deepest sympathy to the family. It's in times like these when the loving promises of our Heavenly Father, like that of seeing your dear loved ones again, can bring you comfort and can even soften some of the pain that you are feeling deep in your hearts.-1st Thessalonians 4:13,14
March 20, 2019
You are not alone during this time of sorrow and pain. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this loss. As you remember your beloved one, the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way. May you find Strength from the love and care that surrounds you and comfort in the memories that you shared. Please accept my sincere condolences. 2 Thessalonians 2 15,16
Pamela Williams
March 20, 2019
So sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please gain comfort from the words of Psalm 51: 17.
Lisa
March 20, 2019
My deepest condolences to your family during this most difficult time. There are no words that can ease the pain of losing someone so beloved. May you find comfort and peace in knowing that your loved one is in God's memory, because those who pass on are precious in his eyes. - Psalms 116:15.
March 20, 2019
Im so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences go out to the family. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn," strengthen you during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1, 2. And May the beautiful hope of everlasting life give you comfort. -1 John 17:30
March 20, 2019
To the family of Ms. Patricia Bayer,
I would like to express my sincere condolences for the loss of Ms. Bayer.
May the Most High God strengthen your family during this difficult time of sorrow. Please find comfort in Psalms 145:18, 19 promise that "he is near to all those calling on him."
Sincerely,
Sandy
March 20, 2019
I am so Sorry for the loss of your loved one. May the God of all comfort be with your family during this difficult time.
March 20, 2019
My heartfelt condolences for your loss. May you be comforted by your cherished memories, as you await the fulfillment of Gods promise to one day be reunited with your loved one again (John 6:40)
March 20, 2019
We are very sorry for your loss. Pat was a wonderful person who will be deeply missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Pat & Joe
Lindsay
March 20, 2019
I'm very sorry for the loss of your dear one. May the power of prayer send you comfort during this difficult time. 1Peter 5:6,7
March 20, 2019
You are not alone during this time of sorrow and pain. May God give your family strength and comfort to help you endure this loss. As you remember your beloved one, the God of peace give you comfort and peace in every way. May you find Strength from the love and care that surrounds you and comfort in the memories that you shared. Please accept my sincere condolences. 2 Thessalonians 2 15,16
March 20, 2019
I am so sorry for the loss of your dear loved one . May you find the comfort you need to sustain you during this very difficult time .
JF-JW
March 20, 2019
My sincere condolences to the family for the loss of your loved one. May prayers strengthen you and memories comfort you, and may our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father, who loves us, comfort your hearts and "make you firm". (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17)
March 20, 2019
Please accept my condolences. Please know that the God of comfort feels your pain and sorrow. He actually provides something better to look forward to. Jeremiah 29:11 specifically tells us God wants to give us a peaceful "future and hope." He promises in the near future all the pain and sorrow you are experiencing about your loss will be gone and we will be able to enjoy perfect life with all our loved ones.
March 20, 2019
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Hosea 13:14
G. A.
March 20, 2019
My the God of all comfort strengthen the family during this difficult time of the sorrow. Those who pass on God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. Psalms 116:15. My sincerest condolences for your family and friends.
C V
March 20, 2019
My deepest condolences to you family and friends May you be conforted by the God of all confort Mathew 5:4
Eboni Martinez
March 19, 2019
It is never easy to lose a loved one. I pray you find comfort in God's promise found at John 6:40 which says that soon we will see all our loved ones again. My deepest condolences to the family.
March 19, 2019
My condolences to your family for your loss. May you continue to feel comforted by the loving support of your family and friends and also from God Almighty who will give you the strength to get through these hard times. Psalms 9 : 9 - 10
SAS
March 19, 2019
Sincere condolences to the family of Patricia. May Gods loving kindness comfort the family and give them peace.(1Cor.1:3)
RK
March 19, 2019
Please accept my dearest and heartfelt sympathy; I am so sorry for your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1,2
March 19, 2019
Im so sorry for your loss. My sincere condolences go out with your family. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn," strengthen you during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1, 2. And May the beautiful hope of everlasting life give you comfort. -1 John 17:30
March 19, 2019
My condolences for the loss of your love one take comfort in knowing that our heavenly father cares about and is able to comfort us 1Peter 5;,6,7
March 19, 2019
May you all have the strength you need at this time of sorrow, Phillipians 4:13.- Philadelphia.
Your
March 19, 2019
Will like to send my sincere condolences to you and your family. God knows your pain, Hope you find the comfort and peace in John 6:40
Bd
March 19, 2019
With heartfelt sympathy to the family. May fond memories of your loved one comfort you at this time. Please consider Psalm 145:18, 19. May those words bring you some consolation and a small measure of peace.
March 19, 2019
Please accept my sincerest condolence. Know that the God of comfort feels your pain and sorrow Isaiah 61:1,2
March 19, 2019
I'm so sorry for your loss. May prayer comfort you in this time of grief. 1 Thessalonians 5: 17 "pray constantly"
March 19, 2019
My deepest sympathies. May the "God of all comfort," help to ease the pain of your grief during this time.(1 Cor 1:3,4)
March 19, 2019
Please accept my heart felt sympathy for the loss of your loved one. May the God of all comfort strengthen you at this time of sadness. May Gods promise for the future bring you peace. Hosea 13:14
March 19, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort be with you during this difficult time. 1 Peter 5:6,7
G B
March 19, 2019
My heartfelt condolences for your loss. May the love and support of friends and family carry you through your grief as you await the fulfillment of Gods promise to one day be reunited with your loved one again. John 6 : 40
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