Patricia Brennan Besser

Patricia Brennan Besser

Patricia Besser Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Nov. 12 to Nov. 13, 2005.
Patricia Brennan Besser, passed away on Oct. 26, 2005, after a long illness. Patricia was a fifth generation Chicagoan born on Sept. 11, 1920. She was the eldest daughter of the seven (7) children of the late Charles and Ethel Brennan. Patricia attended St. Scholastica High School and DePaul University. She was accomplished in both drama and debate. A member of the Society of Mayflower Descendants, Patricia was a direct descendant of Mayflower voyagers John Howland and Elizabeth Tilly. Her late husband, John M. Besser Jr., was part of the senior leadership of the Kimberly Clark Corporation as executive vice president. With that role, Patricia and her husband lived throughout the United States and spent four (4) years in Tokyo, Japan, where she developed an expertise in Japanese culture, language and art. She was a member of the Tokyo American Club. Patricia was well known for her sparkling wit, dynamic intelligence and passion for learning. Most importantly, Patricia was the devoted mother of four (4) children and grandmother of eleven (11). She was preceded in death by her husband, John M. Besser Jr.; and is survived by three sons, John M. (Jan) Besser III, Charles N. (Rebecca) Besser and Peter B. (Patty) Besser, all of Chicago; one daughter, Mary Besser (Ken) May of Greenwich, CT; one sister, Rosemary Nichols of Texas; and 11 grandchildren. A private Memorial Mass was held Friday, Nov. 4, at Old Saint Patrick's Church, Chicago, followed by burial in All Saints Cemetery in Des Plaines, IL. Memorial contributions may be made to either The Keshet School c/o Ken Cooper, 425 Huehl Road, #13B, Northbrook, IL, 60062 or St. Scholastica, c/o Jack Sigel, 7416 North Ridge, Chicago, IL, 60645.

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November 20, 2005

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Donna Bailey

November 20, 2005

It was with sorrow that we read of Pat's recent passing and so I am writing to extend my deepest sympathies to all the family, Mary, Charlie, John and Peter. Pat was a good friend and always a most interesting person to be with. I have often thought of our times together on Alcan Dr. when she was at one end and Henry and I were at the other. We often visited and talked about her time in Japan with Jack. We both loved the Orient and Oriental art and porcelains. Now I am back at the Heritage across the street from Alcan and so I often am reminded of her.

Also I would like to extend the condolences of the members of the Over The Teacups Club that Pat belonged to here in Appleton, Wi.

Pat always contributed both with her programs and as a hostess with her usual graciousness. We have all missed her since she moved to Chicago.

I too send my condolences to all the family. Donna Bailey

Fran Marguerite

November 19, 2005

Frances Blim Marguerite (Scholastica Class of 1938) and her husband Bob Marguerite wish to offer our deepest sympathy to all of the family. We remember great times we shared together with Pat before we were all married.

mike brennan

November 19, 2005

All,



It was great to see you all at the memorial mass. The mass was a beautiful one that Pat surely would have liked. You were all fortunate to have Pat and Jack as your parents and you and the rest of us will retain fond memories of them. They were both larger than life.



I really enjoyed meeting and hearing about all of the grandchildren. You have a great crew there and I am sure they will give you a lot of joy in the years to come.



All the best to you all.



Mike & Margaret Brennan

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