Patrick Gerard Schafer M.D.

Patrick Gerard Schafer M.D.

Patrick Schafer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 10 to Mar. 12, 2006.
Patrick Gerard Schafer, M.D. 1959 ~ 2006 "The Best Man We Know" Our loving husband, father, and friend, Patrick G. Schafer, MD, died tragically at the age of 46, on Wednesday March 8, 2006. Pat had an immense spirit and terrific sense of humor. He touched everyone he met with his incredible generosity and genuine caring. His desire to help others and be a positive example of faith was reflected in the sincere way he approached everyone and everything in life. All those who knew him understood that Pat would do anything for someone in need. Above all else, Pat loved his family and relished time spent with his wife and children. He was a proud father and his happiest times were spent with his family sharing adventures in southern Utah, Hawaii, New York, and Lake Tahoe, among others. Pat led an active lifestyle, participating in cycling, golf, and skiing. Pat was born on November 4, 1959 in Reno, Nevada to George and Dolores Schafer. He graduated from South Tahoe High School and the University of California, Davis. He attended Medical School at the University of Nevada, Reno graduating in 1987. He completed his Anesthesiology residency at the University of Utah and a Pediatric Anesthesiology Fellowship at National Children's Hospital in Washington, DC. He worked at the University of Utah Medical Center for seven years before transferring to the Shriner's Hospital for Children in 1998 to follow his passion of providing care for children. He became co-director of the Department of Anesthesia where he worked tirelessly to provide the highest level of care to his young patients. Pat is survived by the love of his life, wife, Peggy Mair, MD; his precious children: Willis, Sydney, and Chloe; his mother, Dolores Schafer of Reno; and siblings: Bernadette (David) Santana, Brian (Therese) Schafer, John Schafer, and D'Anne (Theodore Paul) Kruper and numerous nieces, nephews, extended family, friends, and medical colleagues. Preceded in death by his father, George Francis Schafer and father-in-law, David Lewis Ion. Words will never express the pain and sorrow we feel at the loss of our Patrick, however we are all better people because of the time that we spent with him. Thank you Pat, for giving us your infinite love and support. Patrick and his family would want you to think of him the next time you are carving turns or finishing a great round on a beautiful day. Funeral Services will be held at St. Ambrose Catholic Church, 1975 South, 2300 East, Salt Lake City at 1:30 pm on March 11, 2006. Immediately following the service, a reception celebrating Pat's life will be held at the Shriners Hospital for children, Fairfax Road at Virginia St. SLC. (directions are avail. at the services). In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting you celebrate Pat's life with gifts to the Shriners Hospitals for Children, c/o Shriner's Hospital for Children, Intermountain Unit, Fairfax Road at Virginia St., SLC, UT 84103

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March 17, 2006

Susan M. Conner posted to the memorial.

March 16, 2006

Kris Arroyo posted to the memorial.

March 16, 2006

Brian Dunkin posted to the memorial.

Susan M. Conner

March 17, 2006

Dear Pat,



On this day, the feast of Saint Patrick, I pray for that great patron's intercession for the eternal repose of your soul in the Light of Christ. Tonight I'll raise a glass to your memory, dear colleague, to your complete devotion to the safety and well-being of all your patients. May we always strive to do likewise. God Bless us Everyone, especially Peggy and the children.

Kris Arroyo

March 16, 2006

Dear Schafer family,



My daughter Alexcis was given care at Shriners Hospital by your husband and father.He always had a kind word and a watchful eye.

My family and I express our deepest

sympathy for your loss,our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.



Wayne,Kris,and Alexcis Arroyo

Brian Dunkin

March 16, 2006

Dear Peggy,



Annie and I are so saddened to hear of the loss of Patrick. Everyone who had the pleasure of seeing you two together understood what true love looked like. We hope you find the strength to celebrate the time you had with Pat and take comfort in your family.



Love, Annie and Brian Dunkin

Steve @ Diane LaClare

March 15, 2006

my prayers go out the all off the Schafer family. Patrick was such a fine young man when I first meet him, some 25 year ago, working with his brother Brian at the the firehouse in SLT. I was very saddened to here of your loss. Our prayers are with the family at this tragic time. Steve LaClare

Kit Montgomery

March 15, 2006

I had the pleasure of working briefly alongside Pat at the Shriner's Hospital in Hawaii. He was not only an outstanding clinician but a caring person who always had a smile. He will be deeply missed by the patients he cared for and the people he touched through words or deeds on a daily basis. My prayers of comfort go out to his family.

Ken and Di Reiff

March 15, 2006

Dear Peggy,Willis,Sydney & Chloe,

We were so saddened to hear about Pat. What I remember most was the smile that was always on his face. He was a person who would light up a room when he entered. I know that his family meant everything to him, and our hearts go out to you. With all our love, Ken and Di

Bert Lehane

March 15, 2006

To the family of Dr Schafer,



We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Dr Schafer made our daughter laugh when she was scared to go into surgery. We were so touched by the extra care and concern he showed to us at Shriners. We will be praying for you all.

Bridget Woodrow and Family

Lisa Marath

March 14, 2006

We were very sad to hear of the loss of Dr. Shafer. He was a wonderful Dr. to our son every time he had surgeries at Shriners. He was always very caring and always made sure to say hi to my son and see how he was doing each time we were there for a clinic visit. He will be missed by all. The Marath family (Tristan, Riley, Lexie, Jason & Lisa)

Steve Tuoto

March 14, 2006

Pat and I grew-up in Tahoe together.

We skied, hungout and did all the great things kids do in a beautiful area.



He was always a happy and caring guy.



I'm shocked to hear of his passing.



My prayers are with him and his family...I'll never forget Pat.



Sincerely,



Steve Tuoto

Patti Batus

March 14, 2006

My deepest sympathies are with Pat's family at this time of sorrow. May God bless you.

Ernie & Teri Pacioni

March 14, 2006

Dear Peggy and family:



We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your family are in our hearts and prayers. We attended Davis with you both and will keep our fond memories close for comfort. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to ease your pain. In time, we pray that your memories will comfort you and your children.



Fondly, Teri and Ernie Pacioni

Mike Holmstrom

March 14, 2006

My thoughts are with Pat's family. He has a compasionate man and a good teacher in the years I spent up at Shriner's. God bless.

Kevin Logel

March 13, 2006

Dear Schafers,

I had the honor of working with Pat during my time as an Orthopedic resident and will always remember his unbending dedication to his patients. I truly enjoyed Pat and feel blessed to have known him. I am so sorry for your loss.

The Anesthesia Residents at the University of Utah

March 13, 2006

To the Schafer family,

We want you to know how much Pat meant to all of us. Pat was both a mentor and friend. In regards to his patient care, there could never be a better example of compassion, enthusiasm, and selfless dedication to his work. He was truly an inspiration and a great role model to us of what an anesthesiologist should be. As a friend, he was kind, funny, and engaging. He always had time to talk and listen, and he always treated you as an equal - even if you were just his student. We are truly saddened and will miss him so much.

Clara Sigüenza

March 13, 2006

I am so sorry for your loss. Dr. Schaefer was a wonderful man. I know first hand how much he cared for his family and know that he will be missed. I wish you the very best in these hard times. I am so thankful to have been able to know him thru Shriners it made me life a better one. He is the example of the kind of Dr. I will want to be.

Joe and Thana Schafer

March 13, 2006

We are so very sorry for your loss. Though we are not close please know that our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. We were quite saddened to hear of Patrick's death.

Jean Stauffer

March 13, 2006

I worked with Dr. Schafer at Shriners. My main interaction with him was at committees he attended. He had such a brillant mind. He could see all the aspects of a problem and was committed to solutions. He cared so much. I was so comforted to have him has the medical respresentative during our recent JCAHO survey. He always did the right thing. He had such a great ethic. What a great man.

Penny Baird

March 13, 2006

Mrs. Schafer and family,

I have such respect and fond memories of Dr. Schafer. He was a patient teacher and so kind to me as a new nurse in the recovery room at the University of Utah Hospital. His patients always did so well, he was especially good with children. My condolences and prayers are with you for your loss.

Tammy Trottier

March 13, 2006

Dear Schafer Family,

I realize there are no words to lesson your pain and loss--but I needed to express my sincere sympathy. I also worked with Dr. Shafer at Intermountain hospital. I currently work at Shriners Headquarters. I like countless others are blessed to have worked, played and learned from this great man. His brilliance, friendliness and energy drew you towards him. I am a better individual for knowing him. His life is a testament to his love for family and his profession. He is truly missed and my prayer is that you find comfort in your memories of this remarkable man.

Linda Buchman

March 13, 2006

Peggy, Willis, Sydney, and Chloe,

I want to express my love to all of you and let you know how sad I am for your loss. Your husband and dad was such a wonderful person. I wish I could do something to help you. Please call on me if there is anything I can ever do to be of help. You have been a wonderful friend Peggy and have helped me in many ways. Most recently with my mom. My whole family extends their love to you at this time.

Jon & Madeline Morgan

March 12, 2006

Dear Peggy and Children,

We are friends with Mike and Lori Maggioncalda and had the pleasure of meeting all of you in Hawaii about 6 years ago. Jon played golf with Pat. We are so sad to hear of his death. God bless you all. Our hearts are soooo with you. You are not alone.

Love, The Morgans (Sonoma)

PS-We had Mike over for dinner while Lori is in Salt Lake so that he wouldn't starve...XO

Mark and Crista Yorba

March 12, 2006

Dear Peggy and Children,

We are so saddened to hear the tragic news of your beloved husband and father. Pat was our son Nicholas's Dr. many times and I always felt our son was in the safest hands under Pat's care. Our hearts are so heavy for your loss. He was a wonderful man and you are all in our prayers.

Ellie Leydsman McGinty

March 11, 2006

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of such a wonderful person who gave and shared his life with so many people. I enjoyed working with Pat for over 5 years at Shriners Hospital.

Adam MacPherson

March 11, 2006

Hello Peggy and family,

My name is Adam MacPherson. I worked at the Shriners for almost seven years and since moved in Dec. 2004. I can't even begin to put into words your loss. Peggy you may remember me from the christmas parties. I was one of the orthotists at the Shriners and participated in some of the videos. I am so very sorry. Pat was always very good to me. He would always answere all my questions about anesthesia in terms I could understand. I loved his dedication to all the little people that we treated. Pat stood for excellence and quality care in his work, not only from others but also in himself. Everyone is better for having interacted with Pat. I know I am. WhenI heard the news I cried and my heart sank. I hope you all are doing the best you can in this time. I wish I could put into words a bit better what my heart feels but I think you understand. I am sending all my positive energy to you and the family. Pat was a great man. One I admired and definitely enjoyed being around. Take care Adam

Lindsay Barua

March 11, 2006

Peggy, Will, Syd, & Chloe:



I was so sad when I heard about Pat. Having known him and the rest of your family has been a blessing to me. Pat was always such a great example of a hard-working, yet fun-loving guy. I would be hard pressed to find a more devoted husband and father than Pat. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.



Lindsay Barua



Suman and Eden also send their love.

trudy curtis

March 11, 2006

To the dear Schafer family, I've worked at Shriners for the past 16 years with the last 8 years with Pat. What a knowledgeable physician he was. He was always willing to teach us all, and did so without making anyone feel less of a person. He was always highly motivated, energized, and passionate about what he was doing. He took pride in us nurses and we certainly took pride in knowing him. He made us want to be better. He taught me what true friendship is - and that caring is more than just a word. It's a constant behavior. Thanks Pat for the person you were - and for the legacy your family and we have at your passing. We're better off having known you.

Love to all. May God always be with you and your family, giving comfort and solace. Trudy Curtis, R.N. Shriners Hospital

Shalee Snow

March 11, 2006

"What we have once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us."

- Helen Keller

Pat is forever a part of us at Shriners. What a fine example of a selfless, compassionate, caring person and friend. Thank you Pat for your service to others. Peggy and children, our prayers are with you through this tremendous loss.

Phil Fischer

March 11, 2006

Peggy,

It was a pleasure to have known Pat and to have worked with him. His love for you and the kids was obvious, and his passion for serving people was outstanding. One of my sorrows in moving away from Utah eight years ago was that I wouldn't be able to spend more time with Pat.

I am praying for you.

Anna Marie Schafer

March 11, 2006

I am so very sorry to here of your loss. The incredible loss to his entire family. Patrick was truly a special person. It has been extremely heartwarming to read such kind words about him. I know that through his lifes work he has touched many. Know that you and your children are in my thoughs and prayers.

Victoria Santana

March 11, 2006

Aunt Peggy, Willis, Sydney and Chloe,



I am so sorry for our loss of Uncle Pat and can not imagine the anguish and sorrow you must be experiencing at this time. I wish I could be there to sustain and support you and to share in your grief and to reflect on the countless joys Uncle Pat brought to our lives. I am so grateful for the times we spent together as a family throughout the years. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anyway I can help.



Love,

Victoria

Jan Gordon

March 11, 2006

I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I first met Pat at Shriner’s Hospital, as a medical student. Pat was an excellent teacher and mentor; he was kind, sincere, compassionate, and meticulous in his work. It didn’t take long to see how well he was liked and admired by every child he cared for, and by everyone he worked with. He will be greatly missed.

Joanna Warr

March 11, 2006

I am relatively new to Shriners having been there just a year and a half. It took no time at all to know Pat to be an amazing doctor, teacher and friend. I always knew he was the one to go to with questions--Pat would sit down, draw me pictures, and offer to get photographs or textbook materials to explain things more fully. He was dedicated to improving the entire profession and not just his own practice. He will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sandra Santana (Schafer)

March 11, 2006

We are grieving with you all and you are very much on our hearts. Pat was indeed precious.

David Edwards

March 11, 2006

Pat always had a helping hand to offer, a smile, a good heart. Your loss is ours.

Cassie McFarland

March 11, 2006

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Deborah Kim

March 11, 2006

Dear Peggy and Family:

Time has flown since you were finishing up your residency at the U, and Pat was at the U as well, leading the charge on the Trauma Committee.I remember the birth of "Uncle Fester"! He was a compassionate healer and teacher. Peace and grace be with you and your family during this difficult time.

Debbie Kim and children

Linda Gault

March 11, 2006

Pat, my dear friend and mentor, what a tragedy! As a young nurse in the old Shriner's Recovery Room he helped me through many firsts; an infant code, an MH crisis, my first medication error, writing policies, the loss of friends and other staff members. Always the quintessential professional, yet ready friend, he set the benchmark in my life for how a physician should behave, and never stopped being a real person. I watched as he trained countless Anesthesia Residents, and even though we may have shaken our heads in disbelief when they started, when they finished training with Pat, we knew they would be good doctors. I moved on and away, and didn’t keep in touch, but never forgot Pat’s great work ethic and unfailing commitment to his patients and co-workers. I just wish I had bothered to write this to him last week. My prayers are with you, his family, friends and the staff at Shriner’s.

Pin Chen-Hansen

March 11, 2006

Dr. Schafer

Thanks for the memories.

Scott Salisbury

March 10, 2006

Dear Peggy,

Words can never express how sorry we are for the terrible loss you and your children must be feeling. We are praying for you.

Love, Scott and Kari Salisbury

Carolyn Bergquist

March 10, 2006

Dear Peggy,Willis,Chloe&Sidney,

I had the privelege to have worked with this wonderful caring man. Pat was passionate about his work but had a gentlness with each patient and family he took care of at Shriners. He will truly be missed. May God's love be your strength and comfort and may his tender mercy's sustain you and your family through this time of deepest sorrow. Thoughts and prayers are with you. With love.

Lynn Kinman-Falkenberg

March 10, 2006

Peggy, Willis, Chloe, & Sidney,

We are so saddened by the loss of Pat, a great husband, terrific father and truly loved and respected Anesthesiologist. Rick remembers that Pat taught the MCAT review course he took way back when which apparently helped him get into medical school. I don't think there are very many of us that weren't touch in a truly positive way by our interactions with Pat. He will be deeply missed. We love you all and you are in our prayers

Love, Lynn & Rick Falkenberg, MDs

Liz Collins

March 10, 2006

Dear Peggy and children,

I am deeply sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband and father. I worked with Pat for the last 5 1/2 years at Shriners and admire, love and respect him as much as anyone I know. I have continually been in awe at his intelligence, kindness, compassion, love and respect for human life. His thorough, meticulous way allowed him to care for every patient with perfection. I am saddened for his loss and will miss his wonderful personality, dear friendship, and witty sense of humor but know that his legacy will live on forever. He is an inspiration to us all. You and your family are in my prayers.

With love,

Dan & Cynthia Rutherford

March 10, 2006

Dear Peggy and kids,

No words could ever express the loss of such a great man. His devotion & compassion to every single thing in his life is an example of how to live. We pray & believe that God will somehow comfort you in this time of sorrow. My time with him in the OR at Shriners, having your family at Kahana, Maui and Cynthia's help with your needs were an honor.

With Love

Bonnie Wozencroft

March 10, 2006

To the Schafer Family and Shriners Staff,

We are deeply saddened by the news of the loss Dr. Schafer. Not only will we remember him being a very caring and concerned doctor but like a good friend to our family during difficult times. We will miss having him take care of our daughter Izzie when we return to Shriners for care. We send our family prayers to you across the ocean from here in Hong Kong. Love, Stephen, Bonnie, Izzie and Maddy Wozencroft

Christel Fox

March 10, 2006

Peggy,

My prayers are with you and your family.

Derek Sakata

March 10, 2006

I am a better anesthesiologist because I was trained by Pat. His extreme enthusiasm and his dedication are what I remember most. Pat was one of the influential persons who kept me in academics. I will miss Pat as will many others. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Allison Givens

March 10, 2006

Wow what a wonderful man Dr Schafer is. He took care of 2 of my children at Shriners and we loved him a great deal for caring so much. He will never be forgotten by the many childrens lives he touched at Shriners. God bless Peggy and all of your children, may God be with you through all of this. Just remember he is an Angel in Heaven now and as I always tell my children when they miss Grandma to look up and talk to him.

Jorjet Nielson

March 10, 2006

I was blessed to have the opportunity to work with Pat in the OR at Shriners for the past four years. He was an amazing person and a wonderful doctor who put a lot of love and care into his work. He taught me many things and was not only a great boss, but also a great friend and I will never forget him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family for their loss.

Jackie Clayton

March 10, 2006

Peggy, Willis, Sydney and Chloe,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time in all your lives. Pat was such a warm, wonderfully caring man. Cherish those memories and allow these memories and the legacy Pat has left to guide you through your lives. Feel free to call upon us for any help you might need. As a result of a previous engagement we will not be able to join you at the services or reception celebrating Pat's life however we will be thinking of you.

John, Jackie, Cassie & Ali Clayton

Dee Pracht

March 10, 2006

To Pat's Family....

As a volunteer at Shriners I often saw him as he hurried around the hospital. Although we only exchanged a quick hello, I know how much he will be missed. God Bless all of you.

Sandra Farish

March 10, 2006

My Dear Friend, Peggy,

My heart hurts for you and your wonderful children. We are all so sad to hear of Pat's death and the loss of such a wonderful, accomplished and selfless man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Much Love,

The Farish Family



I am here to babysit, dust, cook, whatever...you let me know how I can help.

Alma Higgs

March 10, 2006

Dear Peg, Willis, Chloe & Sidney: Words can not express our sorrow for your loss and ours at the Shriners Hospital. I had the privelege to have worked with this great friend and man for 5 yrs. I found him to be one of the most gentle and caring men, I have ever known. He is a true example of a Christian. He was always generous with his time and concern for all his patients & their families. We may fill the position, but we can not replace our dear Pat. May the Lord comfort and hold you and your families in his bosom and watch over you as you endure. You're in our prayers. With love.

The Scotts

March 10, 2006

My family had the pleasure of knowing Dr Schafer. He was very concerned for my son each time he had surgery at Shriners. Each time we were at Shriners for a follow-up, Dr Schafer would come over and ask our son how he was doing. We will greatly miss him.

Mitzi Tischner

March 10, 2006

You are in my prayers

Brooke Norton (CW ED)

March 10, 2006

Peggy, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Ryan VanderWerff

March 10, 2006

Peggy, Willis, Sydney, & Chloe,

I work with Pat, in fact I saw you, Peggy, Sydney, & Chloe at Costco a couple of weeks ago with my brother. My Dad died at a young age a few months ago and Pat was there for me through it all, always there to talk to me, counsel me. I look up to him a great deal, especially for his faith and compassion. May his legacy of compassion live on through all of us.

Brooke & Doug Moench

March 10, 2006

Peggy, Willis, Sydney, & Chloe,

We are so sorry for your loss. Pat was a wonderful husband, father, and man. We have so much love and respect for your family. Everyone that knows Pat, knows how much he loved his family. Please call us any time, day or night. We are here for you.

M Medcalf

March 10, 2006

Dear Peggy, Willis, Sydney and Chloe, We are so sorry for your loss. Patrick was such a kind person. We've been truly honored to get to know him and your entire family during these past few years. May God bless your family and guide you through this difficult time.

Karen Edwards

March 10, 2006

My sincerest love to you Peggy and family. Pat is the most loving, generous and kind man I know. We shall miss him a great deal here at the Hospital and pray that you can find comfort and peace. Bless You.

Robert Ycmat

March 10, 2006

Peggy,



April and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. We remember so well the fun times when we would visit with you and Patrick when we lived upstairs from you in that rickety old house on 10th East. You both had just graduated from medical school and were beginning your residencies. That was such a wonderful time in your lives and ours.



We were later delighted to have Patrick serve as our son McLayne's anesthesiologist years later when we returned to Salt Lake from Chicago. McLayne was having surgery to repair his severely burned hands. We were so frightened of so many unknowns and Patrick comforted us and reassured us with his competence, caring and compassion.



Your loss is so tragic but you have Patrick's legacy of kindness and compassion that touched so many lives. May God bless you, comfort you and sustain you and your family today and in the years ahead.



Love,

Bob & April Ycmat

Jan Raymond

March 10, 2006

Peggy,



So, so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.

Spencer Blanton

March 10, 2006

My deepest sympathies are extended to Pat's family. You are in my prayers and thoughts through these difficult times. Pat's compassionate and enthusiastic spirit will live on.

Jim Streisand

March 10, 2006

Dear Peggy,Willis,Sydney and Chloe,

My deepest and heart felt condolences to you all. I have such fond memories of Pat as a crackerjack, highly energetic and dedicated resident, the times he helped me out with tough pediatric cases, his inventions of novel airway devices, and most of all his comradery both in and out of work. May you draw courage from all the wonderful memories of Pat. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

John Eisenbarth

March 10, 2006

Our last visist (surgery) in June , 2004, Pat was scheduled to be going home but found out it was my son D.J. that was going into surgery, turned around, and stayed to be there for D.J.'s surgery.

That in itself tells of the character of Pat. Thank you for all you have given. You will be missed.

John and D.J. Eisenbarth

Tara Barnwell

March 10, 2006

My thoughts are with you at this most difficult time in your life. I worked with Dr Schafer at Shriners Hospital and I was so saddened to hear of his accident. He had a great impact on many lives and will be deeply missed by all who had the fortunate opportunity to know him. May God Bless and comfort you and your family.



Sincerely,

Tara Barnwell

Jean Hindley

March 10, 2006

Peggy,



You and the kids and Pat have consumed our thoughs--we feel such love for you and unspeakable sadness for your loss. So many, many people will miss Pat.



I believe in karma, and that all the good of the life you and Pat have led together will come back to you in some way.



Our entire family is HERE for your family--babysitting, lawnmowing, running partners, financial advice, coffee dates, food deliveries...



With love, Jean and Alan

Pattie Woods

March 10, 2006

My memories of growing up with your family in Tahoe will be with me always. I know you are with your Dad, George (and my Dad, Norm) and are having a wonderful time in heaven. You will remain in my prayers. And please keep me in yours.

Vicky Larsen

March 10, 2006

I cannot begin to tell you the deep sorrow I feel for the loss of Pat. I have known him for over 17 yrs through his anesthesiology residency at the UofU and his career at the University and Shriners. His Type A, hyper, energetic personaltiy kept everyone on their toes. He touched so many lives and will be deeply missed by everyone that knew him. I feel very fortunate that he touched my life.

Anne Streisand

March 10, 2006

Dear Peggy,Willis,Sydney and Chloe,

Our loving thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Wishing you strength.

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