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Paul Damon Obituary
Paul is survived by his 2 children, Amber Ham of Hampton, VA and Max Nyqvist of Gloversville, NY, and their respective families. He is also survived by his siblings: Pete Damon of Boise, ID, Ruth Spencer of Walden, NY, Martha Risitano of Akron, NY, and Joanna Vanderkooi of Lancaster, NY and their families. Paul is also survived by many close friends whom he dearly loved, too many to list here, because there were many! He was predeceased in death by his parents, Rev. Albert and Mrs. Patricia Damon.
A funeral service of remembrance will be held for Paul at Covenant
United Methodist Church, 1124 Culver Road, Rochester, NY 14609 on Saturday April 20, 2024 at 2:30PM, the Rev. David Wickens (Paul's longtime friend) presiding. Following the service, a reception will be hosted by Paul's landlords at their restaurant (Mr. Goody's Restaurant, 1470 North Clinton Avenue, Rochester, NY 14621) behind which Paul resided, and with whom, along with the owners' daughter Sofie, he was great friends.
Those of us who knew Paul will miss him for the rest of our days, will keep his memory alive, and will forever treasure in our hearts the times that we were blessed to spend with him before he was taken from us (in our opinion) way too soon. Rest in Peace, Paul Damon. We love you!
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Emily Payton
May 11, 2024
It was always a treat talking with Paul (aka Fancy Sprinkles) at the co-op. He always went out of his way to interact genuinely with people, and I will miss his sense of humor. Abundance feels like a dimmer place without his bright smile. Thank you Paul for everything. I'm actually gonna try that Jack Abbey you recommended today...rest easy friend.
alex k
April 24, 2024
I always enjoyed my interactions with Paul at abundance food co-op. He was a funny, witty, outgoing guy. While I only knew Paul through the abundance food co-op I am really saddened to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his friends and family.
Paul Sohn
April 24, 2024
Paul was always a bright spot at Abundance. He will be missed. My sincere condolences to everyone whose life he impacted.
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Jo Cummings
April 24, 2024
I felt shock and such sadness when I heard that Paul had died. I consider him to be "Mr. Abundance" since he seemed to always be at the store. He was always kind and helpful and would ask how I was. He definitely was a presence and will be missed by so many. My condolences to his family and all who knew him.
Emily Pumm
April 23, 2024
I am so shocked and saddened by this. He was such a warm and helpful presence at Abundance. Gone way too soon! Rest in peace sir.
Norman Welch
April 19, 2024
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Paul always had a smile and a joke for me at work. We were twins occasionally when we had the same shirt on at the store.
Norman Welch
April 19, 2024
Melissa Marquez
April 13, 2024
Paul was always interested and welcoming when I would come in to Abundance. My 14 year old granddaughter knew him through the years he worked at the coop and when I told her about Paul, she and I both cried in sorrow for a kind and funny person who had shown so much care for us. Paul was quirky and quick-witted. He made all kinds of connections while moving us along and getting us checked out. I´m so very sorry for his close friends and family. May he rest in eternal light.
Tanya Bertram
April 11, 2024
I was deeply affected when I received the news of Paul´s passing. His light was bright & he genuinely cared for people without bias, always having a smile, wink or wave every time I visited Abundance. May he Rest In Peace.
Cindy Rogers
April 10, 2024
I am sad to hear of Paul´s sudden passing. He was such a friendly and engaging presence at Abundance, always taking time to engage in conversation, asking about my day, sharing a little about his. Condolences to those near and dear to him.
Meredith
April 10, 2024
My deepest condolences to Paul's nearest and dearest family and friends. My heart is breaking for you. I met Paul at Abundance and I cherished our interactions. He was always kind, attentive, funny, and caring. He was the kind of person who could always bring a smile to anyone's face and I truly cherished my interactions with him. He brightened my life and the lives of so many members of our community. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
Rachel Stummer
April 10, 2024
Paul was always such a kind and bright presence at the co-op. Every time I came in he asked me how I was and remembered details of my life and our conversations. He will be missed dearly.
Jason K
April 10, 2024
Every single time I went to Abundance and Paul was there, he would always chat, crack a joke, interact in some way. Every single time. He was a bright spot in my day on those days. He truly cared for people, on an individual human level, with no judgment or negative assumptions. That´s so rare. He will be missed.
Francois Bessing
April 10, 2024
He was very nice to me when I first went into Abundance for the first time over a year ago. He got me signed up with the Flower program and I've used it ever since. I've had it renewed. Truly sincere condolence.
Ashley
April 10, 2024
I met Paul several years ago when he was working at Lilac Coin Laundry, we became friends almost right away he was always encouraging always kind, Paul you are a great friend!
Tim Wood
April 10, 2024
Paul was always good to me whenever I went to abundance. I will miss him
Henry I Padrón-Morales
April 10, 2024
Paul and I would chat, nod, or wink, everytime I entered the co-op. He will be missed. Condolences to his family. ¡Que descance en Paz!
Edith Jaffe
April 10, 2024
May his memory be a blessing. I knew Paul from Abundance. The two strongest memories are his smile itself and his sharing stories about his mother who held in such high esteem and love. May the face of kindness he turned to the world linger in memory. Heartfelt condolences to family and friends.
Emma Madden
April 10, 2024
This is sad news to receive. He was such a friendly, warm with a touch of light hearted humor human to encounter at the co-op, truly enjoyed his presence and he will be missed dearly!
Terry Grissing
April 10, 2024
Paul was most kind, and supportive of all whom he came in contact with at Abundance. His smile and positive attitude will always be remember. God's blessings for Pauls soul, a true servant, will be missed and remember by all that knew him.....peace be with Paul's family and friends.... the Grissing's
J Ayer
April 9, 2024
Paul made me laugh. We always enjoyed our conversations we had together. We had met at the lilac laundromat where he was employed at the time and around the area I lived. We would chat about everything and anything he always followed it with a brief laugh. I was happy for him when he left the lilac to work at abundance. At both places he always seemed to be joyful and genuine. I was glad to know him.
Anaar Iris Desai-Stephens
April 9, 2024
Paul was always there when we entered Abundance, ready with a smile and greeting, joking with my kids, generous with his spirit and effusive good humor as we checked out. I will miss him.
brittney
April 9, 2024
I will always remember how Paul always recognized and greeted me at the Abundance Coop. I'm a regular customer there for several years. We always talked about the weather, and shared what we had going on in our week. I'm going to truly miss him! He was gracious, compassionate, and treated everyone with respect.
Judy Bennett
April 9, 2024
I always looked forward to seeing Paul during my frequent trips to Abundance. He was one of the kindest and friendliest of souls, and I'll miss him.
Margie Campaigne
April 9, 2024
I'm in disbelief that Paul is gone. He was a fun and friendly guy I knew through Abundance Coop. He was concerned about people yet could be a tease also.
Isabella
April 9, 2024
He would always make a point of trying to remember my name at Abundance.
Luke Hellwig
April 9, 2024
Thank you Paul for making me feel like part of the Abundance family! I always enjoyed your humor and catching you up on my life.
Hana Sanders
April 9, 2024
Paul, I will always remember your smile and the kindness and attentiveness you showed to those around you. I noticed you weren't at the Co-op the last few times I went there, and now the world misses you. You remembered my son and gave me a pumpkin to give him, and you always remembered my name. I was just a casual customer passing through, yet you left your mark. Rest easy, Paul.
Gwyn
April 9, 2024
My partner and I only knew Paul at Abundance co-op, but we were so lucky to know him. When I first moved to Rochester a couple of years ago, Paul made me feel so welcome and always made time for chit chat. He was quick to give a local tip, make a spot on recommendation (in my case, Opal apples), or tell a funny story. In the event my partner and I walked to the co-op together, and Paul checked us out (usually for apples and chocolate), one of us would turn to the other on the way back and say "Paul is so great. We are so lucky to live in neighborhood where we can walk to buy apples and be with such kind people." The world is a better place because of Paul, and he will very much be missed.
C. Raksha Elmer
April 9, 2024
Heartfelt condolences to all who knew and loved Paul. I met him at the Abundance Coop. Paul was always welcoming, caring, helpful, kind and playful. He quickly remembered my name and acknowledged me with it. He´s energy is already missed. Rest in peace Paul.
Julie-Anna Kobrin
April 9, 2024
I met Paul (AKA Fancy Sprinkles--made me laugh every time) at Abundance. He was always up for a chat, no matter how he was feeling. He went out of his way to learn my name and how to spell it because I told him once in passing that people rarely got it right. I hadn't realized what an impact he had on me until I saw this news and started crying. Paul, you're leaving a void, and if I feel it this closely, and I barely knew you, I can only imagine what your dear friends and family are feeling right now. I'm going to miss seeing you.
Cathy Simonelli
April 9, 2024
Sending my deepest condolences, especially to Paul´s family. I´m still in shock and can´t stand thinking about all he´s missing here with us... of course I´m heartbroken for so many of us who won´t be interacting with him anymore (he truly knew how to make someone´s day) and those of us who didn´t get to say goodbye. I met Paul at Abundance Co-Op and he ALWAYS went out of his way to be extra helpful.. always a smile for EVERYONE! We would talk about how he was doing since losing his mother last year... he knew (and was a comfort after) I´d lost all my belongings and 2 of my 3 cats in an apt fire last summer. He cheered with me when I was able to eventually find an apartment in my neighborhood again. We spoke of items we really enjoyed at the store and shared ideas for cooking. He had a great sense of humor. I can honestly say I no longer want to go into the store (though I do) knowing he´s not there and I´m just so sad, which must be pretty obvious.
Take care everyone, and may Paul know how special he was to SO MANY people
Paula Benetti
April 3, 2024
I met Paul at the laundramat and truly loved our many talks. I saw his compassion towards everyone and his sense of humor always made me smile. We talked about God and faith and I saw his true love of God and his family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Paula Benetti
Barbara Kolk
April 3, 2024
Thoughts and prayers are with the entire family at this time. May you find comfort from our Heavenly Father.
Fran Anderson
April 3, 2024
Deepest Condolences Ruth and family in the loss of your dear brother..father..friend..may he RIP in the loving arms of our heavenly Father..
Sofie Nikopolidis
April 3, 2024
I met Paulie 15yrs ago he was such a good person funny and his jokes oh man we became close friends he would come into my restaurant all the time sit with me till we closed and then he was like you ready for a smoke ohh how I truly miss you I use to go home change and go back to his house sit in the yard with him and talk a lot we became best friends I truly love you and miss you I hope you are watching over us you were my true BESTFRIEND I SO MISS YOU I LOVE YOU now you relax and keep watching over us My Dear Paulie
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