Richard W. Murray

Richard W. Murray

Richard Murray Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 7, 2009.
MURRAY, RICHARD W. Escondido - Richard Willis Murray, 75, was born in Chicago, IL on April 5, 1934. He grew up in Chicago and spent his high school years in Peoria, IL. A graduate of Bradley University, he resided in Carlsbad, CA, and Sahuarita (Tucson), AZ, returning to San Diego (Escondido) in 2008. He was called home by our Lord, suddenly, on Sunday, May 24, 2009 with his wife, Patty, by his side. Richard was a veteran of the U.S. Army's 82nd Airborne Division in the 1950's. Richard's passions included woodworking, fishing at his cabin in Bridgeport, CA, reading and family gatherings. Richard is survived by his loving wife of 25 years, Patty; sons, Richard (Vicki) Peoria, and Bradley, Portland, OR; daughters, Cindy, Escondido, Michelle, Oceanside, and Yvette (Mark), Portland, OR. He is also survived by his brother, Douglas, Sahuarita, Arizona, and sisters, Janice Gabriel, Sacramento, CA, Kathy (Justin) McClure, Escondido, Joyce (Steve) Stepanek, Manhattan Beach, CA, and Bonnie Jean (Michael) Mosiman, Fort Collins, CO. Richard was preceded in death by his brother James, and his mother and his father. In addition, he is survived by 13 grandchildren, two great-grand-children and extended Chicago family of the Walter Dempsey's and Norman Nelson's, among others. A private family Viewing was held at the Alhiser-Comer Mortuary, 225 So. Broadway, Escon-dido, CA. Phone 760 745-2162. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him and loved him.

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July 6, 2009

yvette kelley posted to the memorial.

June 27, 2009

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June 24, 2009

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yvette kelley

July 6, 2009

Dear Dad ,
On my Birthday , I look back at your passing , and how I am going to miss you , but know in your Heart you loved Me , and were not a Hateful person . I know you are with your Mom , and Mine .
I will always love you Dad .

yvette kelley

June 27, 2009

Thank you Too Legacy .com For keeping my Fathers memory alive .

Patty , Dad , with Danielle

yvette kelley

June 24, 2009

Patty Murray was My Fathers Immediate Family as well , theis is a picture of dad and Patty with my oldest daughter , Danielle , at 4yrs old in Ft.Ord , Ca.
if you open the picture up , you can see Grandma with Jesse , and Yvette on the Wharf , in Monterey .

Michelle , Cindy , Rick , Brad and Yvette .

yvette kelley

June 24, 2009

Richard Murray's , " IMMEDIATE " Family , whom he Cherrished . Dad Loved us all , Equally .
REST IN PEACE .
the Murray Children .

Dad and Yvette at wedding in Monterey

yvette kelley

June 17, 2009

My Father Loved Monterey , Ca, . I was at Ft. Ord at the Time . Dad and Grandma would visit us often , and we would go to the Wharf , He loved This . He said the last time I spoke , before he moved from Arizona , He was proud I had 12 yrs sober , and he himself was drinking Non alcohiolic drinks . His Favorite was a " Mint Juliep "

Richard and Yvette at Grandmas for X-mas

yvette Kelley

June 17, 2009

This is a Great Picture of "Richard Murray " and Daughter "Yvette " at Grandmas. He was a G.M.at Ford in Escondido, ca. at the time , and I sold Chevrolets in Ramona , Ca. Imiss you , and wish I had one last Fathers Day with you Dad , love , Yvette

Danielle Micke

June 13, 2009

Dear Grandpa ,
I can't believe your gone . The Day I heard of you passing , i refinnished the book shelf you made me and tahnk-you so much for giving me it, so now i will pass it down too Callum .
I loved you and we will all miss you so much . I remember every day I spent with you and my Great Grandma . I will pray every night that you will be happy and Ok with leaving so early , God wants the Good ones , I love you Grandpa , Danielle Micke , Spirit Lake , Idaho

Trinity Micke

June 13, 2009

Dear Great Grandpa ,
I love you very much . I am 3 years old . You can fly with wings with Angels in Heaven .
Grandma told me you were a nice Grandpa.
Love , Trinity Faith Micke

Callum Micke

June 13, 2009

Dear Great Grandpa,
I love you . I am 4 yrs old . Jesus is a nice Man , i hope you like him , Heaven is a good place Grandpa. I play Baseball like you did .
Callum Micke

June 13, 2009

Richard, my sweet brother--we expected you to be here so much longer! Life does not end, it just changes, which leads me to believe that your enjoyment of life, and your love of your wife and family will linger here on earth in our hearts and minds forever.

I will never look at a pastoral scene of lake and mountain without thinking of you; never look at a photo of your smiling face and forget the joy you found in telling a great story; never forget your love of your grandchildren; never forget how much loved I felt by my big brothers who watched over me as I grew to womanhood and to whom much credit is due for my appreciation of the male species; never forget how you lived each day to the fullest and left this dimension happy. Much love from your sister, Janice (We'll meet again, I know.)

Mark Kelley

June 11, 2009

Dear Rich ,
From , your son-n-law Mark, I always enjoyed the time I spent with you because you reminded me of my Father and his Brothers with your Chicagean accent and Carisma . I remember you wearing the Scottish Kelt " MURRAY " that Yvette gave you and how proud you were. I always said , You looked like a Proud Lion . There was something about you that drew people to you. I know you would be very proud of Yvette and her accomplisments. She is great cook and wonderful Wife and mother. She still talks about your O'Briens on Sundays and how good the house smelled. I know you are in a good place, you are probably at your favorite fishing hole as we speak. Jesse , Our 21 yr old Looks just like you , he is a Actor and still in his 3rd yr of College . Danielle is a Beautiful Young Mother , She believes , as we do , you are in Heaven with Grandma and Mary . Tawny , our Daughter , did not get a chance to know you , but you would be amazed at her talent , the way she plays Violin. Rest in Peace Rich , I'LL take Good care of my Irish Soul Mate , your Daughter, my wife , Yvette Suzanne .
Did I get a chance to Thank you for having that Baby ?
Until we meet in Heaven Rich . That is if St. Peter lets me in ! With love Always , Mark Kelley

Jesse Bellis

June 11, 2009

Dear Grandpa ,
I appreciate every day I had with you , I did not know you too well , but I have Pictures of when you and Cookie Grandma walked me down the Monterey Wharf . I am a Scholar Like you , and am proud to be a Murray . I Love You , Jesse Allen Bellis . You would be proud Of Yvette " MOM " She Has many photo's of you , God Bless You .

Tawny Kelley

June 11, 2009

Dear Grandpa ,
I never got to know you , but I remember talking on the phone to you . Thank you for my radio you sent me .
God will give you a home , and maybe he will let you Build it . He will Love you and keep you in Heaven .
Goodbye Grand pa , I love you .
LOVE ALWAYS ,
Tawny Marie Kelley

Brad Murray

June 11, 2009

Dear Dad ,
I want you to know how much I love and will always love you . This is Brad Murray , your son. I still can't believe you are gone . I had no chance to say goodbye to you , if i could have one more day of Fishing or checking trout lines . You gave me so many memories in Peoria , on the River . I loved to catfish , and go boating , it was my favorite thing to do . Life changes , people change , i know ...you know , I love you . I never stopped . God rest In Peace Dad , I never got to see your cabin you finnised , but i know if you built it , it must be well done .
I remember you teaching me to build projects in California .
Thank you for letting me be your proud Son ,
the youngest Murray , Brad Willis Murray

Yvette Kelley

June 10, 2009

Dear My Loving Father In Heaven ,
I , Yvette , your youngest Daughter , will always remember the first time you taught me how to catch a Fish , I remember your O'Brians in the Early Am . I remember the homes you built and how creative you were , the Octagon Home , I know that my Brother Rick is a Success today because he followed your Footprints . My Dad created a system that monitors the moisture in the Atmosphere , because California's a drought State , so , when it rained ..No sprinklers would go on. I will never forget" Wrigley Field " and seeing The Cubs Beat St. Louis . I can only try and teach my children the way you taught me , always correcting my English at the dinner table !

I will Love you In my Heart This Lifetime and Thereafter Dad . Rest in peace knowing so many , Rick , Brad , Yvette , Cindy , Michelle , and Patty , all your Sister's and Brother , Uncle Doug , Loved you along the many Grand children . I Hope Heaven keeps you warm Dad ,
With a Eternity of Love to you Dad ,
Your Daughter , Yvette Suzanne Murray Kelley , my Husband Mark Kelley of 12 yrs. My Children , Danielle , Jesse , and Tawny , who plays the Violin so you can rest in Heaven .

June 7, 2009

Dear Patty,
We were so fortunate to have known our neighbor Rich and his wonderful wife, Patty. We missed you guys when you moved, but were so happy you had found a happy life in California. His sudden passing was a shock to many of us here in Rancho Resort. Bob & I will remember him for his sense of humor and his love of family. God bless you.
Bob & Jean Burright

Douglas Murray

June 7, 2009

Dear Patty, Cindy, Richard, Michelle, Yvette and Bradley and families, What an untimely passing of our beloved Richard, who expected to be with us for many years to come. We expected that too, but now he will be in our minds with fond memories and in our heart with the love we all expressed on his 75th just the month before, in person or on the phone. How fortunate for us all to have lived in the midst of his legacy of "Life is Good" so that we too can carry forward with his love of family and friends. We will miss you Brother!

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