Richard William Schilling

1947 - 2023

Richard William Schilling obituary, 1947-2023, Kansas City, MO

Richard William Schilling

1947 - 2023

Richard Schilling Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 11, 2023.

Richard William Schilling, 75, of Kansas City, Missouri, entered into the arms of His Glorious Savior Thursday evening, February 9, 2023, at his home, surrounded by his loving wife, children, and grandchildren.


Richard was born May 21, 1947, in St Louis, Missouri, to Ernest and Mary Margret (Higgins) Schilling. He was a high school graduate of Christian Brothers High School in 1965 and a college graduate of Northwest Missouri State University in 1969. Richard honorably served his country by joining the US Army and working as a switchboard operator. During his time in the Army, he spent 19 months deployed to South Korea. He married his sweetheart and the love of his life, Carol Miriam Nichols, on May 28th, 1977. Together they built a beautiful family, and a life sold out to Jesus.


When Richard was converted in 1979, his purpose and focus in life completely changed. The glory of Christ became focal, becoming very passionate about outreach. Richard and Carol were committed to their family/children and desired to see their children come to know the Lord. For 40+ years, Richard consistently lead his family in evening devotions. Oftentimes, strangers or friends joined in these blessed times of worship. Throughout their 45 years of marriage, Richard and Carol opened their home to over 300 individuals who were downtrodden or at the lowest points of their lives. He was active in the Pro-life community for 30 years, sidewalk counseling in front of abortion clinics and outside high schools every week. He was a loving man with upstanding character, conviction, principle, and a wonderful sense of humor that he passed on to many of his children.


Richard worked hard to provide for his family, and even through difficult seasons, he continued to be faithful in his work and service to the Lord. Although he enjoyed working with his hands, after 18 years of service at his most recent employer, working alongside 6 of his children, Richard hung up his tool belt as his health declined. He served in various roles during his time but was most known for his wise biblical counsel and love for those on the team; he was always the guy to talk to if you were struggling.


Richard is survived by his wife, Carol; his children, Michael (Johanna) of Kansas City, KS; Nathan (Karilee) of Colorado Springs, CO; Deborah (Josh) Costello, Las Vegas, NV; Andrew, Sahuarita, AZ; Elizabeth (Justin) Martinez, Las Vegas, NV; Jonathan (Rebecca) Riverside, MO; Hannah, Kansas City, MO; Matthew (Mary-Kate) Parkville, MO; David (Sarah) Riverside, MO; Mary (Luke) Cloyd, Liberty, MO; Rachel, Riverside, MO; his brothers, Jim Schilling, of Colorado Springs, CO and Robert Schilling, of St. Joseph, MO, as well as, many nieces and nephews.


Richard’s 42 grandchildren: (Michael’s) Isabelle, Samantha, Michael Jr., Catherine, Nicholas, Sophia, Christopher, Suzanna, Joshua, Gabriel, Anna, Alessandra, Matthew, Liliana; (Nathan’s) William, Wesley, Jackson, Austin, Natalie; (Deborah’s) Emily, Seth, Ethan, Jonathan; (Andrew’s) Kiersten, Julia, Justin, Aiden; (Elizabeth’s) Mya; (Jonathan’s) Asher, Katelyn, Emma, Olivia, Brynlee, Grant; (Matthew’s) Maximus, Alexandria, Jordyn; (David’s) Ainsley, Myra, Gideon, Emmitt; (Mary’s) Baby Cloyd due July 2023.


He was preceded in death by his parents, Ernest and Mary Margaret Schilling.


Through his long battle with cancer, he continued to point people to Christ. His prayers were rich with the truth of God’s word; his salvation was in Christ alone. He fought the good fight, he finished the race, he kept the faith. Henceforth there was laid up for him a crown of righteousness which the Lord, the righteous judge, awarded to him on February 9th, 2023. Richard’s hope was in heaven, where he is now at rest.


Funeral Services will be held at Faith Community Church on Tuesday, February 14, beginning at 9:30 a.m. Burial with Military Honors will follow at 1:30 p.m. at Leavenworth National Cemetery.


In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to support the orphans of Kenya, Uganda and Haiti (James 1:27)


GiveSendGo - A Cause Near and Dear to Richard's Heart: The #1 Free Christian Fundraising Site.


Condolences may be offered at www.passantinobros.com

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February 21, 2023

Diane Reynolds posted to the memorial.

February 14, 2023

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February 14, 2023

Julie Medley planted trees.

Diane Reynolds

February 21, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I am so sorry to hear about his passing today, I will always remember his kind personality. He has and will be missed.

Alex Chetelat

February 14, 2023

Unfortunately, I did not have the honor of meeting Mr. Schilling but from how caring, merciful and selfless his children are, it's evident that he is a man of God who loves his Savior. Please accept my family and I's deepest condolences and prayers for the entire family.

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Nathan Stewart

February 13, 2023

Richard was a great role model and father figure to me during the years we worked together. I could always count on convicting truth from him when dealing with difficult decisions and he helped change many perspectives to better align with the Bible. He made a lasting impact in my life and I am grateful to have known him and hope I can finish strong like he did.

Don Belinger

February 13, 2023

I remember the Schilling brothers dominating the tennis courts while we were at Northwest Mo State. All of us lived in Cooper Hall and became friends while at Maryville. Richard, rest in peace - a life well lived. You did some amazing work and something your family will be proud of.

Charlene Tolley

February 13, 2023

Sending my sincere condolences to you, Carol and your family. May the love of God, your Comforter, and the love of family carry you through your sadness. Richard's daily example of being an imitator of Christ to the glory of God is a daily reminder for us all.

Keith Hastings

February 13, 2023

Our deepest condolences for the loss of your husband, father, grandfather and a man who has built a great legacy. Yet we rejoice in the newness of his body and the union with Christ our Lord. We pray for peace and comfort upon all members of your family as you walk through this season of mourning and hope that it will soon turn to dancing.

Chris Record

February 12, 2023

My family and I extend our deepest condolences. We are sending all of our love and good mojo y’all’s way.

linda Peterson

February 12, 2023

"TO HONOR A VETERAN"
I want to tell you Richard thank you for serving our country. Because of your service you have given each and everyone of us our freedom to enjoy our lives.
God bless you for taking care of our country and for all the sacrifices you have made for our country for me and for all of us.
LINDA PETERSON
WIFE OF A (DECEASED) UNITED STATES ARMY VETERAN

Don and Cheryl Dawson

February 11, 2023

Our heart go out to all if Richard's family, he was such an amazing man . Don really enjoyed the visits they had at Jon's. Just know u r in out thoughts and prayers.

Lisa Nixon

February 11, 2023

Deepest sympathies to all the Schillings. Richard will live on through the hearts and memories of family and friends. Praying your faith and the love and support of those who share your loss will bring you some comfort. May you feel the Lord's presence in this loss of a special man.

GOD bless you

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February 11, 2023

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February 11, 2023

Cactus & Wynonna Moser

February 11, 2023

Praying peace for your beautiful family. GOD bless you.

Wynonna Judd

February 11, 2023

Praying for your beautiful family

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Reverend Bill Minson

February 10, 2023

Dear Carol, Schilling and extended Family, My prayers support you as Richard began his new life with JESUS. Richard and I finally met one week ago and we had a party about the love of GOD. Richard, I asked, what’s your formula for having such an incredible family, “a good Woman”, he responded. I told Hannah earlier, last night I saw Richard flying, soaring, like a meteor with a movie star smile. Richard and I met on our way to JESUS. I’m not mad, you left me with the struggles of this world Richard cause I know your advocacy for JESUS grows. This family of love you leave to share your legacy for CHRIST I’m blessed and highly favored to know. Well done Brother, we’ll meet At JESUS Feet. I love you. My prayers and condolences are ceaseless for Richard’s loving family. Carol, I’m thankful GOD is attending to your comfort. Good Woman

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