Robert Reid Pendleton

1967 - 2006

Robert Reid Pendleton

1967 - 2006

BORN

1967

DIED

2006

Robert Pendleton Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 9 to Aug. 12, 2006.

Robert Reid Pendleton died at home Friday, Aug. 4, 2006, at age 38. While he suffered from a variety of health problems, his death was sudden and unexpected and the cause remains unknown.

Robert was born at St. Mary's Hospital in Long Beach, Calif., on Sept. 8, 1967. He lived in Charleston, S.C., and in the Washington, D.C., areas until moving with his family to Ventura in 1974. He had been a resident of Ventura ever since. Robert attended local public schools, including Ventura and Moorpark colleges.

Robert worked as a computer programmer for the County of Ventura for a number of years and was awarded the county's Employee of the Month in April 1995. He subsequently was employed as an information administrator for Pacific Foundries and did computer systems consulting work for several other local entities.

Robert had a lifelong fascination with almost everything scientific, including astronomy, physics, botany and chemistry. He had diverse interests, which included English literature and Western civilization.

Robert lived with his partner, Larry Woodworth, for 14 years until Larry's death in February 2006. Since then, he had resided with his parents.

Robert is survived by his parents, Reid and Leora Pendleton of Ventura; sisters and brothers-in-law, Elizabeth Pendleton Sporleder and Robert Sporleder of Watsonville and Catherine Pendleton Agahian and Shahiar Agahian of San Jose; three nephews; one niece; and two aunts.

A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Friday, Aug. 11, at the Ted Mayr Funeral Home, 3150 Loma Vista Road, Ventura.

Robert will be sorely missed by his family and friends.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Ted Mayr Funeral Home and Crematory, Ventura.

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Debra Bartorelli

August 10, 2006

Mr. and Mrs. Pendleton and family, I am very sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you all.

I am blessed to have had Robert as my friend. He was funny, smart, witty, kind, classy, polite and a joy to be around. I will always have fond memories of the times we shared. I am missing him dearly. Eventhough we didn't see as much of one another as we would have liked to over the years, he was often in my thoughts and in my heart. I am greatful for the time I spent with him resently in person and via several phone calls, I only wish that we had more time.

Also,I am very glad he knew I loved him, as we oftened ended our calls telling each other so(this meant alot to me)for one never knows what tomarrow may bring.

Robert- T.T.F.N. my dear friend may the wind blow you safely home until we meet again, Deb.

Russ Sperling

August 9, 2006

I am sorry to hear of Robert's passing. We were best friends in the late elementary school years and middle school (in Miz Goz's class-- see Margaret Gosfield's entry). Robert and I famously produced haunted houses on Halloween and enjoyed talking about academic topics not normally discussed by kids of our age. I'm sad that we didn't keep in touch and my sympathies go out to his wonderful family.

Margaret Gosfield

August 9, 2006

My heart was saddened to learn of Robert's death. It has been many years since Robert was a student in my GATE history class at Balboa Junior High School, but he will always be remembered for his special qualities. My heartfelt sympathy to Robert's family.

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