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Robert, or Bob as his friends called him, lived a full and magnificent life. He was born in Brooklyn, New York in 1956 and grew up in New City, New York. He received both his Bachelor's Degree and Law Degree from Fordham University in the Bronx. He practiced law for several years and became a distinguished trial attorney before transitioning into healthcare and real estate with the creation of medical facilities throughout the Bronx.
He was a successful, dynamic and inspiring entrepreneur who could not go a month without a new idea, passion or partnership. Mostly, his ventures were aimed toward helping people in need. He believed that only through giving -- be it in his professional or private life -- would he receive.
Throughout all of his endeavors, he established lifelong friendships. His generosity, honesty and humor drew some of the best quality people into his life. He adored his friends and would do anything for them, and was frequently touched by how much they were willing to do for him.
He was a faithful Catholic. He believed to his core and spoke often of his faith. He was in awe that God would sacrifice his only son. He died holding a rosary.
He was a golf fanatic. He loved sports and literature, classic films and horse races, walking along the ocean and telling stories to his grandkids. He knew something about everything.
By far his greatest obsession was his family. He loved and was constantly proud of his sons. And he often shared with them that he had married the greatest woman on the face of the earth. Bob and Eileen's love story was one of selflessness, truth and undying loyalty.
Robert is survived by his wife and two sons, his five grandchildren (and a sixth soon to be born); his two daughters-in-law, Julia and Jamie; his sister Tara Handsman, her husband Alan and their daughters, Jade and Skylar; his nephew Bryan Slingsby and his wife Annie and their children Adrienne, Caroline and Luke; and a host of in-laws, cousins and community of wonderful friends.
There will be services celebrating Robert's life on Monday and Tuesday, October 28th and 29th in New York.
October 28th: Wake Services 2-4pm; 6-8pm
Michael J. Higgins Funeral Home
321 S Main St New City, NY 10956
October 29th: Funeral Mass & Burial 10am
St. Catharine of Alexandria Parish
523 Western Highway S Blauvelt, NY 10913
Burial to Follow at: Gate of Heaven Cemetery
10 W Stevens Ave Hawthorne, NY 10532
*Lunch immediately after the burial in Westchester
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Michael Dorfman
November 22, 2024
I will always remember the man he was! You rarely come across people in life like "Bob". He was a man sent by GOD to help touch so many people on his time on earth. He helped me and taught me so much about life. He was the father I never had! He was an angel on earth and now he will claim his place as an angel in Heaven. You will be missed beyond words can express. Love you with all my heart "Dad" . Eileen, Zack and Ryan I'm so sorry for your loss!!!!!!!
Love Eternal, Mike Dorfman
Olivia Coppola
October 28, 2024
Even from a young age I knew what it was like to have an uncle who cared about me, my uncle Bob no matter how tired he was or how hard he worked that day would never say no to doing something with me whether it was playing with barbies on the floor, or taking me to play mini golf with him. He would always go out of his way to make me feel loved. I used to always tell my parents i wanted to go see uncle bob and auntie eileen. Going to their house is a memory ill never forget, how excited i would be for the next holiday to come up, not for presents or for food, but to see my two favorite people. I give my prayers to eileen, and his two children zack and ryan who now have to try and continue life without their favorite person, the person who made them smile every morning and filled their life with laughter. Bob is in a better place now where he will watch over his family friends and loved ones helping them get through everyday, its comforting to know he is always by our sides, and may he rest in peace.
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Akwugyuabe Francis Atyathoabe
October 28, 2024
Thank you for contributing to my life. You will greatly be missed. You felt like someone that will always exist and you will in the hearts and memories of everyone who knew you. Rest In Peace Bob, and again thank you very much. AKWUGYUABE Francis Atyathoabe.
Mindy Coppola
October 26, 2024
I was fortunate enough to marry into this beautiful family and to be a part of Bobs life for so many years. His intellect, wisdom, and charm kept the attention of not only his family, but everyone in the room. He had the incredible ability to be strong, fierce, and decisive when needed, but also the capability to be the gentle soul who lay in the living room floor playing dollhouse with the little ones (voices and all).
The love he had for his family was by far his greatest quality. The memories that we have made, the advice you have given all of us, and the never-ending love and kindness that you filled our lives with will never be forgotten.
My heart and prayers are with Eileen, Zack, Ryan, and the rest of our beautiful family. We have gained another angel in heaven to watch over and protect us all.
Chris Coppola
October 26, 2024
My Deepest Condolences to my Aunt Eileen, Zack, and Ryan!! My Uncle Bob, he was a great genuine man, who was funny, witty, and right to the point!! He took me to my first ever movie in a Theater, actually my first 2. Something I'll never forget, because I was young and in awe of it all. He also, threw me the keys to his big Lincoln Town Car and had me drive from Blauvelt to the Bronx, and I never drove on a highway before. I was nervous, but he never looked up which calmed me down, just occasionally said "Slow Down a little". Of course I have a lot more memories, but those stick out to me the most and being so awesome with my daughter when she was little. Your Grandkids loved you deeply everytime I saw you all together. He was the most generous man, helping everyone through hard times. A Great Man who will truly be missed!! I Love and Miss you Uncle Bob! I still cannot believe you are gone, but I know you are happy and protecting the family from up there!! You raised two great boys, who are amazing men! Zack now has 5 kids, and Ryan is having a little girl. You did a great job!! I will always be there for my Amazing Aunt Eileen, and the boys if they ever need me, we all will!! Rest In Peace Bob!! I am really going to miss you!! May God Bless you!!
Hans & Gisela O'Connell and family
October 26, 2024
What a wonderful gracious and generous man! It was a priviledge to have crossed paths with such an inspiring force for the good.
Sincere condolences to Eileen and her family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all..
Yvette Brissett-Andre
October 25, 2024
My condolences to the family of Bob Slingsby.
John Calandro
October 25, 2024
Our immense grief of the loss of our dearest friend is only matched by the profound impact he had on our lives. The Joy, Happiness, laughter, knowledge and kindness was unmatched. Our lives will go on with a huge void. We know he´s in Gods loving arms. Until we see him again, we will cry and grieve, but we will celebrate all the years of great times that we were blessed to share with our brother.
We will never forget you Bobby !
John, Frank, Dennis, Brian,TJ
Idania Mercado
October 23, 2024
I want to send my condolences to Eileen, Zack, and Ryan.
Bob Slingsby was indeed a one-of-a-kind mentor and friend. His relentless drive, compassion, and generosity left a lasting impact on everyone who knew him. I'll always cherish Bob´s passion for helping others and his ability to inspire those around him.
His unwavering belief in giving without expecting in return is a lesson that will continue to guide and inspire me. Bob didn´t just build businesses; he built lifelong friendships and communities. Through his honesty, warmth, and humor, he brought together people of exceptional character. He was a rare soul who believed sincerely in the value of every connection he made.
I am grateful to have had the privilege of knowing and learning from him. His legacy of kindness and dedication will always be a source of inspiration. Bob was a special person. RIP, Bob! sending healing prayers to the family.
With heartfelt condolences,
Idania Mercado - All Med Family
Roger DeBonis
October 23, 2024
The many great days as Coaches at Palisades-Sparkill Baseball League, playing and learning golf from the best, and sharing a special friendship with Bob makes me so grateful for the time we spent together!
May the Lord Jesus welcome Bob to Heaven and watch over Eileen, Ryan, Zach n Julia and their children ALWAYS!
Bishop Dr Timothy Birkett
October 23, 2024
He was my special friend always and he loved people and when i was in trouble he came and rescued me, and the ministry God has a special place for him in heaven Bishop Dr Timothy Birkett and we are praying for the family
Bob Schmidt
October 23, 2024
Rip Bob from the Schmidt family, Rich will see you in heaven!
Vincent Gramuglia
October 23, 2024
I want to I send my deep condolences to Eileen Zack and Ryan. I met Bob 40 years ago on Jerome Avenue in the Bronx. Since then, our Relationship went from business associates to true friends. Whether it was playing golf, having dinner, telling jokes or discussing our philosophy.on life my time with him was always special. Our friendship. Has made me realize one thing. If you want to be good at golf play like Jack Nicholas but if you want to be good at life then live like Bob Slingsby.
Frank McLaughlin
October 22, 2024
BOB was a LOYAL FORDHAM MAN ! BOB WAS VERY SPECIAL ! BOB and HIS FAMILY are in our thoughts and prayers. GOD BLESS ! RIP
Barbara Gomez
October 22, 2024
His warmth, kindness and love for others !!!! Bob is an angel, everyone he touched was blessed! You will be missed Bob!
Sheri Cimitile
October 22, 2024
My condolences to you. Sending healing prayers and hugs. We are so sorry for your loss. I remember Eileen and Robert being the ultimate Duo, always doing everything together and having the time of their lives.
My favorite memory.. was Robert doing the funky chicken dance.
I will miss you dearly.
Your cousin,
Sheri (Cimitile) , James, Anthony, Danté and Christopher
Donna Cimitile
October 22, 2024
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Sorry for your loss.
Warm Wishes Donna and Sandra Cimitile
Donna Cimitile
October 22, 2024
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Sorry for your loss.
Warm Wishes Cousin Donna, Sheri, Anthony, Dante, and Chris Cimitile.
Tara Slingsby Handsman
October 22, 2024
I love you for eternity big brother. I will forever cherish the memories of our childhood. I loved you reading me stories, playing chess, cards even though you use to cheat. We know you went straight up. Mom, Dad and Keith will greet you. I know you will be his beautiful Angel looking out for your family. The great protector! Prayers everyday for you and your family....Eileen, Zack,Julia, Ryan, Jamie and all those beautiful Grandchildren who you adored.
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