Ruth Marie Eckert

1956 - 2020

Ruth Marie Eckert obituary, 1956-2020, Red Lion, PA

Ruth Marie Eckert

1956 - 2020

BORN

1956

DIED

2020

Ruth Eckert Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Apr. 18 to Apr. 19, 2020.
Ruth Marie Eckert

Red Lion - Ruth Marie Eckert, née Boyer, passed away on April 13, 2020, in Red Lion, PA, after a long battle with breast and ovarian cancer. Ruth was born and raised in Chambersburg, PA. After high school graduation, she received her Registered Nurse degree from York Hospital School of Nursing and joined the United States Air Force in 1978. While in the military, she received a Bachelor of Science in Nursing from The Catholic University of America and received a Master of Science in Cardiovascular Nursing from the University of California, San Francisco. She later specialized in oncologic nursing, had advanced training in flight medicine and pediatrics, and oversaw healthcare quality assurance, eventually becoming the head of this department at McConnell Air Force Base in Kansas. Ruth rose to the rank of Lieutenant Colonel, retired after 21 years of active duty, then went on to teach nursing at Wichita State University, where she was a favorite of many students and received several teaching awards. She returned to McConnell AFB as Chief of Performance Improvement before moving back to Pennsylvania to be closer to family. After returning to Pennsylvania, she helped found the Wellspan Surgery and Rehabilitation Hospital in York and was employed as their Director of Quality and Regulatory Compliance and Patient Safety Officer until her retirement in February 2020. On her retirement, the Wellspan Board of Directors established the annual Ruth M. Eckert Patient Safety Award in her honor.

Ruth married Douglas Eckert in 1979, and they had their daughter, Dawn, in 1982. She proved to be an outstanding mother. She and Douglas explored any area where they were stationed with Dawn, took many family trips, and looked for learning opportunities wherever possible. Ruth taught her daughter to read while standing in line at a car wash, and she snuck in fractions while teaching her to bake. She was always available to help with math and science homework, and she was the perfect assistant/sounding board for an endless procession of dioramas and special projects. Ruth was a born problem solver. Her daughter was known to say, "Give it to Mom, she can fix anything," and it was usually true. In addition to her professional accomplishments, Ruth was a gifted alto and participated in multiple church choirs and as part of a group that performed the national anthem for events at McConnell AFB. She was an avid seamstress and loved to sew and make a wide variety of crafts. She was also a talented cook and baker. She frequently attended concerts and theater events with her husband and daughter.

Ruth is preceded in death by her father, Robert Boyer, Sr. She is survived by her husband, Douglas Eckert; her daughter, Dawn Eckert; her mother, Carolyn Boyer; her brothers Paul (wife Linda) Boyer and Robert (wife Angela) Boyer, Jr, and their children; her sister-in-law Kathy (husband John) Stolarek. She is also survived by many friends and former students who loved and admired her. She has touched many lives and will continue to do so through her legacy of service and education. Her family loves her very much and is extremely proud of her. We will miss, among so much else, her intelligence, her humor, and her excellent advice.

At Ruth's instruction, a small private service will be held at the cemetery, with a larger gathering when possible in a few months' time. She has requested donations be made her memory to the American Cancer Society. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.cremationofpennsylvania.com.

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October 3, 2020

Krista Jackson posted to the memorial.

October 2, 2020

Krista Jackson posted to the memorial.

May 9, 2020

Cynthia Semones posted to the memorial.

Krista Jackson

October 3, 2020

I just learned today about Ruth's death. I enjoyed our association at Mcconnell of many years along with Doug too. Condolences.

Krista Jackson

October 2, 2020

I just today learned of your loss of Ruth. I always enjoyed seen bits and pieces from the both of you on Facebook after we've all retired and especially from your new part of the country. I am so sorry for your loss, looks like she fought the good fight.

Cynthia Semones

May 9, 2020

Doug and Dawn, I was stationed with Ruth at Scott AFB which was my first assignment. What a wonderful career and such an impact she had to those she was stationed with. May God's peace surround you and His promises sustain you. Cynthia Semones (Wilmington, NC)

Joan Gonzalez

May 1, 2020

Doug and Dawn,
Ruth was an amazing nurse and colleague who had a positive impact on everyone around her. I had the pleasure of serving with her while at David Grant Medical Center. She was inspirational and will always be remembered with great fondness. My thoughts and prayers go with you.

April 24, 2020

I fondly remember Ruth at Wichita State University as a colleague in my early teaching days. My condolences to her family.
Alicia Huckstadt

Betty Smith-Campbell

April 24, 2020

Ruth was a great colleague at Wichita State University - bright, creative and caring. An AWESOME NURSE! Her legacy will live on in the students she taught. Betty Smith Campbell, PhD, RN; Professor Wichita State University

Kristine Cooley

April 21, 2020

Dr. Eckert was my teacher when I was receiving my bachelors in nursing in 2000-2001. It was her first year teaching. She was always one of my favorites! My husband was active duty Air Force at the time and I was a newlywed, she helped guide me and gave me advice often. When she moved over to McConnell I would see her occasionally if I was there for an appointment and we would always wave.
Fast forward almost 20 years and I have thought of Ruth often. I now have my masters in nursing, 2 kids, and my husband now retired from the Air Force. I know she played a big part of my young nursing career and lasting till now.
Her care for others and knowledge was felt by all who meet her.
Love and prayers
Kristine, Jason, Jacob, and Cooper Cooley

Michael Lissauer

April 20, 2020

To Ruth's family,
My wife Monica was a co-worker with your beloved Ruth. Monica (Mo) always spoke so highly and lovingly of Ruth. Mo passed on but I want you to know Ruth's memory lives in our home also. May her memory be a blessing to you.
The Lissauer/ Munoz family

Charles Shaheen

April 20, 2020

Dawn, our thoughts are with you in this time of sadness and your loss. We are so very sorry for your loss. Tasa and Charles Shaheen

Bob and Shirley Black

April 19, 2020

Doug and Dawn,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Ruth was an incredible woman, with whom I am proud to have worked at McConnell AFB. We enjoyed having Dawn at our home to shadow Bob as she considered her career in veterinary medicine. I am pleased that Ruth and I were able to communicate about her health condition recently. She sounded upbeat even close to the end of her life. Peace be with you.

April 19, 2020

On behalf of the Society of Air Force Nurses, please know that we are also mourning the death of our friend and colleague, Lieutenant Colonel Ruth Eckert. I had the privilege of being assigned with Ruth during my military career. She was a remarkable woman and nurse who made a difference in the lives of so many in her journey through life. As a long-time member of the Society, a donation will be made in her memory as suggested. Ruth will most definitely be missed, and she will certainly not be forgotten by the community of Air Force nurses.
Linda J. Stierle, Brigadier General, USAF (Retired)

Inga MacDoanld

April 19, 2020

Ruth was truly an amazing person. She always found the positives and humor in problems, as she worked to solve them. I am blessed to have known her. May she Rest in Peace. My sympathy to her family, especially Doug and Dawn.

Dorothy Negash

April 19, 2020

Doug and Dawn,
My deepest condolences and a prayer for God's comfort to overwhelm you.

Deb Johnson

April 18, 2020

It was an honor to work with you at McConnell. Rest In Peace

Linda Snyder

April 18, 2020

Ruth, what a magnificent journey your life was! This was avery full life that brought so very much goodness into the world. Dawn brought me into her family by sharing her mom with me to help me through my own breast cancer . Carolyn her grand mom, blessed me with a quilt that I dearly love and treasure. What a wonderful family that Ruth was a great part of! Carolyn, Douglas and Dawn, know that this woman has graced all of you, each in different ways with who she was. I know that you will miss her greatly. Peace be with each of you. <3

Robert and Angela Boyer

April 17, 2020

We miss you.

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