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Scott FREIMAN
1963 - 2019
Scott FREIMAN
1963 - 2019
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BORN
1963
DIED
2019
Scott FREIMAN Obituary
Scott was the loving Son of John and Elaine Scop, the cherished soul mate of Tamara Waterman,
father to Ryan Freiman, step-father to Amanda Smoak. He is also survived by his half brothers Jason, Michael and Stephen Freiman, many loving aunts, uncles and cousins and his fur-family, dog Molly and cat Dreamer.
The family will have a celebration of Scott's life in the coming months. Those who wish may donate in Scott's name to The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention at https://afsp.org/our-work/ or to Scott's personally favorite charity Guide Dogs for the Blind at https://www.guidedogs.com.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Stephen, Jr. Freiman
March 8, 2021
It’s been 2 years. Looking at the photos I see love of family, work, recreation, pets and so much more.
Scott is a shining light. Love ❤ God and love ❤ people and cherish God’s creations.
Maria F
September 17, 2020
Occasionally, I think of people from the past and tonight I thought of Scott. I went to college with Scott many years ago. He was always such a great friend who always gave me his shoulder to lean on, lend a hand, and give of himself as always. I know this about him..... He loved his family and his friends; always had this happy way about him, always smiled and always put his heart into what he was doing. That smile always warmed this freinds heart.
To the family, I am at a loss for words and only am able to offer my sincere condolences for this big loss. I am so sorry.
Carolyn Arriaga F-reiman
November 26, 2019
There are no words. I will ALWAYS LOVE YOU ❤
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Jason Freiman
August 15, 2019
Though 8 months and a week have passed since my Dear Brother has passed, please don't discount my intense love, admiration and fierce desire to convey my sincere feelings for him, our collective families and/or all respective friends during these days. Though months have slipped by, it's truly taken me this long to contemplate, process and reflect upon his nature, general tendencies toward integrity, respectfulness, generosity, independence and reluctance to share his innermost feelings or give "keys" to those whom he chose to share them with.
Regarding his immense capacities, Scott shone in my eyes. He "blinded me with science." He instilled in me a "streetwise" manner which wouldn't have been possible otherwise. I enjoy family time, music, poetry, artwork, play and work as most and he did. I stood by wide-eyed and in utter amazement as he "tinkered" and discovered how things worked as children. During holiday visits especially, I have fond memories of "air hockey charades," intense games of Operation, and similar sarcasm, spiced with face-making and comic imitating satire.
As younger adults we shared "milk-spewed" jokes and gut-busting parodies the likes of which "Weird Al" would be envious of. We shared both intellectual conversations and long silences. No matter how hard I may have tried to test his patience or seek his approval in some form or fashion through our limited times together spanning over great distances and even lengthy periods, he was my greatest example (next to Father) of how to be a good-hearted person, man, son, brother, employee and/or entrepreneur, provider, or dare I even say, a reliable friend. He didn't earn the nickname "Tony the Moovah" (coined by our father) by chance, for example. You needed something, anything within his usually busy schedule, he'd be there as I recollect. His poetic, romantic spirituality shall be etched in the annals and spoken of for decades, at least. Finally on that note, he instilled in me a methodical, melodic, and jovial spirit toward one's ride and how it was a symbol of pride, safety and even "escape."
Literally, metaphorically, or even metaphysically, Scott's soul will forever breathe within my own heart that honestly echoes, even moreso now, with desire to call out to him to continue to breathe into me his wisdom, courage, melodies and mostly humour. The salt of my tears have crystallized yet I will mourn no more. I choose and have focused on the positivity, generosity, intellect and creativity of my brother. The synchronized dance on this rock we all share spins slightly slower. Time itself flickered a moment, yet still travels at proper pace. Scott's undoubtedly enjoying "wormholes" and is peaceably soaring everywhere, playing his own drum(s) as it were, resting in solitude and surrounded with love as he must have been called home where he belongs amongst his hallowed, solemn kindred souls.
I pray we all may remember his very best, look beyond earthly matters, and focus accordingly for we've all had the honor and privilege of being part of his magnificent brilliance. As I light this candle and sign this guestbook, I'm reminded to give special thanks for every kind word both here and floating, drifting as one of those feathers fallen from Scott's wings.
Lastly, as our beloved rests off the coast where he's meant to be, I especially wish peace to ALL loved ones and friends. Though lengthy, please receive these words well. My heartfelt and sincerest sympathies and condolences to all who shared time with Scott. Blessings.
LINDA MANGINI
April 26, 2019
When you say that someone is a good person....you are speaking about Scott... a kind man with a generous nature. A person who worked hard, striving to do his best.
With a keen, dry sense of humor Scott would have you laughing and in a conversation that would have you thinking. A devoted son to Elaine and John, father to Ryan, and a friend to Jim and I... we will miss him deeply. We think of Scott often and we pray for his soul.
Rest in peace our friend...Linda
HAPPINESS IS TALKING ABOUT ICA
Mom
April 20, 2019
At ICAHealth
April 20, 2019
At ICA Health
Mom
April 20, 2019
Elizabeth Cassese
April 19, 2019
Scott was a business associate. I met with him several times and just found out yesterday. It seems surreal. I never knew he was hurting so much - I hope he has found peace.
Caricature of Scott and Tamara
MOM
April 2, 2019
Just A Friend
April 2, 2019
Scott was a GREAT man all around. Although I only got to know him for a short period of time he truly did touch every soul he came in touch with. I am sending many many prayers to his parents and Tamara. May you fly high with the best of them my sweet friend!
XO
March 29, 2019
I'll always remember Scott as a very happy and upbeat kid. So sorry to hear of his passing.
Randy
Elaine John
March 23, 2019
We have set a date for Scott's Scattering of Ashes Cruise.
We will meet Saturday, May 18th, at 5:00p.m.
The address for the Clearwater Beach Marina is 25 Causeway Blvd. Clearwater Beach Florida.
https://goo.gl/maps/MhM4QqbQqAm
John and I will be staying at the Holiday Inn Hotel & Suites Clearwater Beach, South Gulfview Boulevard.
https://goo.gl/maps/pExDikZ9paQ2
For those flying in Tampa Airport is a 35 minute drive to the pier.
Please email us at [email protected] or call us at home so I can give the Captain of the boat a total of who will be attending.
For those of you that choose to partake, we will also have a Cigar Celebration Friday night May 17th at Fusion Cigar Lounge. It is almost walking distance from the hotels.
https://goo.gl/maps/gbvvUFWsnSx.
Scott would have loved it.
Love,
John and Elaine
Auntie Max
March 22, 2019
Auntie Max
March 22, 2019
Auntie Max
March 22, 2019
Auntie Max
March 22, 2019
Auntie Max
March 22, 2019
Auntie Max
March 21, 2019
Although I never met you, my nephew, until you were 20 - - I always thought it was cool that we were only 7 years apart. We hit it off immediately as we had so much in common with gadgets, techie stuff and most of all music, music and more music. I have great memories of riding around Jersey with you blasting your favorite those days The Beastie Boys, being a bridesmaid in your wedding, and the two of us as DJs Lorraine and Eddies wedding. Although we didnt spend much time together when you moved to Arizona, every time I came out to visit, youd always make sure you came over so we could just hang out. There are no words to describe what an incredible loss this has been to everyone you touched so dearly, with those squinty eyes, great authentic laugh and a heart that was 100% sensitivity. I love you Scott. I will miss you always!
Amanda Smoak
March 21, 2019
I never thought you would end up having such a big impact on my life as you did. You rushed to me and my moms side during some of the hardest years of our lives and I cannot thank you enough for that. I wish you would've seen yourself as others see you as the amazing person you were.
Today I was at Costco and something told me to get pinwheels and right next to the pinwheels were the shrimp that you'd always get every time I came to visit so you could make me my favorite, your amazing shrimp quesadillas. I just had to get them and I will be making your shrimp quesadillas for Frankie tonight in honor of you.
I will miss your constant thoughtfulness. You never needed to treat me as your own, but being the thoughtful and kind hearted person you are, you did just that. I wish you were here so I could tell you how much you meant/mean to me. I love you and you'll always be in my thoughts.
March 20, 2019
We treasure our memory of Scott and Ryan joining us for Thanksgiving a few years ago. Scott's sense of humor and loving spirit came through that day, and he added such fun to our holiday gathering. We are thankful that we had the privilege of meeting him then. Our thoughts and hugs to Elaine and John and Ryan and all of his friends and extended family.
Janet and Max Ramble
SENSE OF HUMOR BEYOND BELIEF
ELAINE SCOP
March 19, 2019
ELAINE SCOP
March 19, 2019
ELAINE SCOP
March 19, 2019
CHRISTMAS
ELAINE SCOP
March 19, 2019
HELPING RYAN CHRISTMAS
ELAINE SCOP
March 19, 2019
AT HIS GRANDMOTHER'S TIGER
ELAINE SCOP
March 19, 2019
ALWAYS TEACHING HIS SON RYAN
ELAINE SCOP
March 19, 2019
OUR ONE AND ONLY
Elaine Scop
March 19, 2019
Elaine Scop
March 19, 2019
Elaine Scop
March 19, 2019
SCOTT WITH SON RYAN
Elaine Scop
March 19, 2019
SCOTT WITH SON RYAN
Elaine Scop
March 19, 2019
SCOTT AND TAMARA
Elaine Scop
March 19, 2019
Sharing the love of Cigars and conversation.<br />Scott, John and Mom<br />
March 18, 2019
March 18, 2019
I'll always remember and admire Scott's keen strength of humor, wit and creativity. I always looked forward to our visits in our younger years...intrigued by his shortwave radio, CB radio and audio playback and recording equipment way back then in the 70s.
In the Mid-80s we lived together with our Dad and stepmom Mabel. Scott helped me through a tough transition as a teenager in high school. Not only that, he let our Dad and Mabel know that I was talking about suicide. Thank God Scott alerted Dad and Mabel. I'm alive today because of his intervention and I'll never forget that. We also survived burning Nanny's stew during Christmas! Oy vey!
I always enjoyed times together with Scott later in the 80s and 90s. He helped me pick the best car sound system and home stereo equipment I could afford - to buy or re-build. He was a music and car aficionado to say the least. I always suspected that George Carlin wished he was as funny as Scott. I'm pretty certain that Howard Stern borrowed some of Scott's material along the way, too.
I guess the distance of miles and years and the busy distractions of life kept us apart. However, we have the bond of being brothers and friends during our lifetime. We both went through some changes and moves (both to Florida) and we both wanted to see each other again. I wish I knew he needed help...I would have rushed to his aid.
Scott and Ryan
March 18, 2019
That's the smile we all loved!
March 18, 2019
Scott and Ryan
March 18, 2019
Scott helping John with his cell phone.<br />He was our go to IT guy.
March 18, 2019
SCOTT & SON RYAN
March 18, 2019
Scott & John on Border Wall
March 18, 2019
Scott and John on Border Wall
Scott, Mom & Mocha
March 18, 2019
Scott, Mom and Mocha
SCOTT & JOHN
Elaine Scop
March 18, 2019
SCOTT & JOHN EARLY YEARS
ELAINE SCOP
March 18, 2019
The photo that we used for Scott's Obituary is a self portrait of Scott. He took this of himself. To us it says, I am Mr. Cool on the outside, but hidden behind my glasses is the real me that no one will ever know.
It was our choice to use this watercolor of the photo.
Elaine Scop
March 18, 2019
Thoughts from Tamara, Amanda and Ryan.
Scott was brilliant and inquisitive from a young age. Taking things apart to see how they worked was a favorite past time. He could teach himself almost anything he set his mind to. He was the go to guy for almost every company he worked at. If you could dream it, Scott could figure out how to make it happen.
In work, he found his passion. He was committed, laser-focused and incredibly resourceful. The work he was most proud of was at ICA Health in Tucson with Dr. Wilson and Ryan Brown.
His sense of humor was legendary. His comedic wit would blindside you and send you rolling in laughter. He loved hard and completely. He always believed in those around him and sought out to encourage people to reach for more. He had so many ambitions and plans and he loved to hear others talk about theirs. He truly wanted to celebrate life with you.
To say it is a shock to have lost him is beyond inadequate. We grapple for answers and there are little. Scott was a victim of Bi-Polar disorder. He spent his life fighting it quietly behind the scenes, sheltering us all from the toll it was taking on him. It has been written that bipolar disorder is to the spirit what cancer is to the body. It certainly must have been, because Scott would never have chosen to leave us if he did not truly believe he had no other option. Of course he had many other options, but he was blinded by the disease.
a day at the beach
Tamara Waterman
March 18, 2019
Tamara Waterman
March 18, 2019
I will love you forever Scott. I count myself as blessed to have had you, to have lived in our love even for a moment. I treasure every second spent with you.
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