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Chantal Riel
March 22, 2020
Im so sorry to learn if this. I went to church with Shawn at St. Madelines Sophie.
Jeanne O'Neill
March 6, 2008
Shawn...Happy 34th birthday...we had a very peaceful prayer and visit with you today...this is the first visit we have had with you at the site you left us and went to heaven above...but will not be the last...you are so loved...Thank you for looking after your Mom and Dad and holding them in your warm embrace...you were taken from this earth much sooner than anyone wanted you to be...But God had new plans for you...and we know you are doing a Fantastic job just as you always did in everything here on earth...we miss you and look forward to the day you greet us in Heaven...
Much Love to you Carole and Otto...
Jeanne and Dick
Carole Mathi
March 5, 2007
at mass from you. Father Jim said the mass in your memory. Dad said to tell you how much he misses your help in the garage. We both love you. Mom and Dad
Kim Taylor
August 8, 2006
Carole and Otto-
It has been years since I have seen you and talked to you, but I never stopped thinking about how you all were, what you were doing, etc. To finally speak with you again , and to hear of Shawn's passing made me extremely sad. He was a beautiful boy and so good to my daughter Kelsey. I have wonderful memories of holidays spent with the 3 of you and they will always be with me. Thank you for coming back into my life as I prepare to send my daughter off into her adult life. God Bless both of you and know that Shawn will always be watching over you.
Remembering you with love today,
Kim Taylor and Kelsey Abourezk
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Carole Mathi
June 30, 2006
TO: M.Cavanaugh in Fall City, Wa. Both my husband and myself want to express our appreciation for the touching message you left in Shawn's Guest Book.Perhaps we will meet you at the site when we come to bring new flowers and pray with Shawn. May God bless you for your caring and thoughtfulness
m Cavanaugh
June 2, 2006
pass by the accident scene twice or more daily, wondered who was so loved. I say a prayer for Shawn as I pass by, and hope his family find peace
May 16, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Carole Mathi
May 9, 2006
has joined you. We miss you especially at mass. I remember you
serving mass with Mike Little and
then we would go for pizza. All of
your special little memories will
bring happiness to your Dad and I.
God Bless You Shawn. Love Mom
May 8, 2006
Hi Shawn, Sat.5/6/06 Marked one year since you left us and went to
heaven. I feel certain you are so
very happy, especially since Tony
Fox has
Carole Mathi
March 21, 2006
Happy 32nd Birthday Shawn,We have many great memories of celebrating
your birthday. This year I prayed with Cindy and you. I missed hold-
ing your hand, however, I had an
inner peace that you and Cindy are
happy and together. I baked your
favorite banana cake and made van-
illa ice cream with vanilla beans
in it. I see your special smile and
it brings back so many memories. I
love you so much. Love,
Mom
Matt and Heidi North
March 7, 2006
Shawn was in our thoughts yesterday on his birthday. We hope time will be a healer for you and Otto, but we know how painful this first year is. Shawn was a wonderful friend to us and we miss him so much. His smile was contagious, and he had a generous spirit. It was a gift to have him in our lives.
carole Mathi
December 14, 2005
I love you so very much and we will miss you this Holiday Season. We are having a mass in your honor on Sunday, 12/18/05 at 11:00 AM. Chad Heisel, from Daniels called today to talk to you. I told him of your passing and he was speech- less. Oh how empty this Holiday Season is without you. We love you so very much Shawn. Mom and Dad
The Traynor Family
October 24, 2005
Dear Carole and Otto ~ We just heard about Shawn and are in a state of shock. What a wonderful young man Shawn always was. When Carole was taking care of our children, our son Christopher always looked forward to Shawn coming home. He was so wonderful with the children. We will always cherish Shawn's sweet smile. Much love to you both!
Tammi, Jerry, Christopher and Wendi
Jasmine Wong
August 19, 2005
Hi Shawn, miss ya. You would of been very proud of me, made it to National Trainer. It's been a hard road, hope that you have found the peace you've searched for for so long & that from up above you are watching out for me,Otto,Carole,John & his family. Keep us safe till we run into you again. Love ya, jas
Jill McNiesh (Miller)
July 8, 2005
Dear Carole and Otto,
Although its been a long time since I last saw Shawn, I have not forgotten his wonderful sense of humor and friendship. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
Cindy Banes
July 6, 2005
Aunt Carole and Otto --
Although it's been years since we have seen each other, not a Memorial weekend goes by that I don't think about the year Nick, Alex and myself visited with you and Shawn. The kids had such a great time searching for Ninja Turtle and Strawberry Shortcake toys, eating popsicles at the outdoor Festival and going up in the space needle. Shawn had such an inviting spirit and ease with people. I wish I had known him as an adult. While his sudden, way too soon passing is hard to understand, one thing I do know is that you brought him into the world full of love and grace and shared him with the rest of us, and for that...I am grateful.
God Bless you in this difficult time. Rest assured that he is around you each day, just as you were for him. I will keep you in my prayers to find peace, just as he has.
Love you -- Cindy
Mike and Peggy Nelson
June 26, 2005
Carole and Otto
What a beautiful son. I remember your office always displaying the current photo of Shawn. He was always a cutie. Though miles have separated us we have always taken a moment at the end of the year to think of you. Now you are in our hearts and thoughts frequently. Blessings to you both.
Love Mike and Peggy Nelson
Jeanne
June 24, 2005
Carole and Otto...
I have waited to write you here far too long...
I have prayed that I would find some words to help ease a little of your pain and sorrow...I have not heard them...
I know Shawn is with the Lord and he is watching over you both...I pray that you feel some comfort in that...
I want to say... I am forever here...I will walk by your sides, hold your hands and wipe the tears...whenever you need me I am here...whatever I can do I will do for you...
You are in my prayers and thoughts many times each and every day...
With Love and Prayers
Jeanne
Jan Vermillion Ruiz
June 21, 2005
Carole & Otto, I am sadden beyond words at the loss of Shawn's life. I have his picture on my dresser and look at it every day. It has been 29 years since we have seen each other, yet I feel so close to you and Shawn. I feel your loss and share your grief and pain over Shawn's sudden and too early passing. I know Shawn misses you both tremendously, but he is safe and in good hands. I wish we were close enough that I could put my arms around both of you and just hold you. All my love forever, Jan
Grant, Dianne and Brian Thrailkill
June 20, 2005
Dear Otto and Carol, we were so saddened to hear about your loss. What a wonderful young man Shawn was. We remember him fondly from when Brian was a baby, and he was always so good to Brian. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Grant, Dianne and Brian
Paul Carpenter
June 20, 2005
I am sending my most sincere condolences to Carol and Otto on the loss of their beloved son. On the occasions I met him he apeared to be a loving, caring son -- an All-American boy. It is hard to understand when a child goes on the journey before the parents. May the passing of time ease your pain and bring you understanding.
Otto Mathi
June 18, 2005
Dear Son, It's been six weeks tonight since your fatal accident.
Your mom and I keep thinking you
will be arriving home anytime. My
buddy and partner to go with me to
the swap meets and car shows is missed beyond belief. This week I
went out and bought a new 2005 half
ton pickup, black ofcourse, with the same interior as yours had. I'm
going to lower it so mom has an
easier time getting into it. Then
I'm going to put a tonnul cover on
it. Other than that it is loaded.
I can just see you beaming down with a big smile. Oh what I would
give to have you take a ride with
me. Remember the year you went with
me to the "Indy 500". I'm sure glad
we had that special time together.
In a few weeks I'm leaving for the
"Brickyard 400" and you will be in
my thoughts and prayers. One of these years way down the road, mom
and I will join you and be together
again. I love you Shawn and I cherish our memories of past years
from our sailing trip to the Straits of Georgia to the year we
made ice igloos on Mt.Rainier and
slept in them in a big snow storm.
I give thanks for the 31 years I had you with me and I await our re-union. I love you Shawn forever.
Your Dad.
Beth & Sue (Dr. Early's office)
June 16, 2005
Carole & Otto,
You know how sorry we both are to hear about Shawn. He always had a good story and made us laugh. He was so laid back and had such a great sense of humor just like his mom and dad. We will miss him coming in to the office and putting a smile on our faces. You will be able to think of him and smile again....What a gift. We are both thinking about you and know you are in good hands. Love Beth and Sue
Don & Lois Rugraff
June 14, 2005
Carole & Otto,
May you find comfort in knowing that you are in our thoughts and prayers.We pray for you as you struggle to find the strength to carry you though this pain-filled, difficult time. May your memories of Shawn give you peace aand understanding. We are a phone call away. Love, Don & Lois
Becky Reynolds
June 7, 2005
Carole- I was so saddened to hear of Shawn's death. I pray the Lord will give you comfort and strength. You have been such a good friend. With much love,
Earl & Judy Hecke
June 6, 2005
Otto & Carole
What can we say. We have been good friends forever. You guys are like family. Wish we could be there for you. Be assured that you and Shawn will always be in our hearts & prayers. You know we are just a phone call away if you need our support. We love you guys very much.
Krista and Robert Kearney
June 3, 2005
Carole and Otto-
Even though we only knew Shawn for a short time he touched our lives with his warm smile and sensitivity. Our daughter Jordan just loved him, she smiled and lit up every time he came in the room. He will be greatly missed and always remembered. My wish for all who are greiving now is to remember all the good memories and celebrate the wonderful life he lived for 31 years.
Lisa & Greg Guthrie
June 3, 2005
Carole & Otto,
We are so sorry for your loss, unbelievable. I know what a light in your life Shawn was, and hopefully his memories will continue to hold him close to your heart. This is a loss no one should have to bear. He will be missed,
God Bless you,
carole mathi
May 30, 2005
Dear Shawn, Today is Memorial Day and you are in my memories. I miss you so very much, I feel your "SPIRIT" many times each day and this brings comfort to my aching heart. Please give Dad and I some direction in disposing of all your personal effects. I pray that you are happy in your
new life. So very many of your friends miss you so much. I love you forever. Always in Christ, Mom
carole mathi
May 30, 2005
Dear Shawn, Today is Memorial Day and you are in my memories. I miss you so very much, I feel your "SPIRIT" many times each day and this brings comfort to my aching heart. Please give Dad and I some direction in disposing of all your personal effects. I pray that you are happy in your new life .So many of your friends miss
you so much. Always in Christ, Mom
Gail and Larry Maughan
May 29, 2005
Otto and Carole, You are good friends and Shawn was one of nicest young men I knew. Very respectful, outgoing and friendly. I am still in total disbelief! Your sorrow and loss saddens us deeply! We are here for you if there is anything we can do. Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you!
Gail and Larry Maughan
Shuzo & Alice Takeuchi
May 23, 2005
We were out of town and have just learned about Shawn. We were very sorry to have missed the memorial service. There are just no words to convey how deeply sorry we are for your loss.
Bill Pierre Chevrolet (formerly Alley Chevrolet)
May 20, 2005
Our sympathies and thoughts go out to the friends and family of Shawn Mathi. Shawn was always a good spirited and happy individual. You will be missed. From your friends at Alley Chevrolet.
Mike Thomas
May 19, 2005
My deepest thought are out to you Carol and Otto...losing a son before his time must be one of the hardest things to go through. I ran into Shawn about a year ago after not seeing him in almost a decade...we ended up chatting for a couple of hours, really catching up on old times. He seemed so alive and determined, so to hear of his passing is extremely saddening.
Judy Blair
May 17, 2005
Our thoughts are with you at this sad time. Even though we haven't seen Shawn in years, we'll always remember "the boys" at our house skate boarding & having fun.
With deep sympathy,
George & Judy Blair
Cameron and Pam (Hanke) Goodwin
May 17, 2005
Our warmest thoughts go towards you and your family. Shawn will be greatly missed by us all. Bless you, Pam and Cameron
Anabrenda Blethen
May 17, 2005
Carole, Otto and Family- I knew who Shawn was through high school. I feel your heartache and pain. I just recently lost my little brother Salvador A. Corona Jr., age 22 in a sudden automobile accident in Ukiah, California. I am the oldest of 5 and would like to send my condolences to Shawn's other sibblings. As a mother, I cannot fathom losing my daughter. Shawn is safe in heaven; like my brother watching over us. We'll see them again someday. They will always be alive in our hearts.
With Regards, Anabrenda Blethen (Corona)
Kyle & Tanya Cornell
May 16, 2005
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your entire family. Shawn was a great friend to both of us for many years, he will be sadly missed.
Rick Otta
May 15, 2005
Carol and Otto - our family is deeply saddened by Shawn's sudden and tragic accident. He was a fine young man and a pleasure to know and talk to. We will always remember him fondly. Rick, Anne and Lindsey
Sharon McCreadie
May 14, 2005
I just want to take the opportunity to tell you how I am so sorry for your loss. Your daughter and stepdaughter Toni Crawford is a very dear friend of mine. I cannot imagine what you must be going through but want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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