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Anaiah Inoa
March 15, 2025
Her death will be reaching her 7 year mark as of June 20th 2025 and I´m still deeply affected by what happened. I understand that I´m saying this many years later after the incident but if she hadn´t have done this, I would´ve still had my best friend and I still miss her to this day. I miss you Skylar and there´s never a day that goes by when I don´t think about you
Theresa Desmarais
September 25, 2024
My baby girl Skylar, Grammy misses you so very much I can't believe you would have been 18 years old this year 10/06/06. We have a big party planned for you and will never forget you
Love always from the moon and back
Grammy
Donnie
July 9, 2024
I´m so sorry I couldn´t be there in the end, I miss you everyday. I won´t ever forget you, you made me feel loved and appreciated even when we were so young. I hope your flying with a big smile.
Leyla Hazel
June 20, 2024
6 years now. I miss you so much.
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Abigail Hollen
August 18, 2023
i miss you gorgeous girl. taken too soon. i love you forever my angel
Lily Byrne
March 22, 2023
It's been so long and I miss you so much. Almost five years. I miss you every day. I wish I could have helped. I wish I could have just five minutes to talk to you. Thank you for being my friend. I love you
griffin turgeon
April 12, 2022
miss u alot skylar. just saw ur youtube channel and im gonna cry again. i wish things were easier for you and i really miss you.
leasia cruz
May 21, 2021
It has been 2 years 11 months and 1 day since you have been gone. I miss you so much. You brightened up everyone's day with your smile. May you R.I.P <33
Taya Ellis
October 23, 2020
I met her at granitecon in 2017, she was the sweetest person I have met. If it wasn't for my friend telling me about her I wouldn't have met her. She had the brightest smile and kind eyes. I wish I knew what was happening. She is the sole reason why I make it a point to help others in need. I miss her and wish her family the best of wishes.
Emma Andrews
March 29, 2020
I had known Skylar since kindergarten and i was absolutley devestated the day that i learned what happened to her and i know that it took me 2 years but I finally found the courage to write somthing about her. Skylar was smart, funny, kind, and always knew how to make someone smile. Skylar was an angel and whenever she laughed or ran her beautiful curly hair would bounce. everyone will miss you Skylar.
Miranda Nelson
July 13, 2018
You will be missed so glad I got to meet you ....gone too done
Bobbi Kruger Morris
July 6, 2018
I pray for your family. I have four daughters, all of which who have been bullied in school, and I could not imagine bearing the weight that you have had to go through. My youngest 3 have asked to be homeschooled, of which they love. Praying for a peace, that only God can give, for your family and those involved.
Crystal Gallo
June 28, 2018
To Skyler's friends and family, my heart truly aches for you. I cannot image the unimaginable pain you're all enduring. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Skylar, may you be at peace now. You will not be forgotten.
B, Desmarais
June 26, 2018
Skylar, I can't imagine what you went through at school. No one deserves to be bullied. I wish you could have seen yourself as beautiful, bold and bright. I wish that you could have realized that no one else's opinion matters, it is how you view yourself. You are beautiful, you are loved, you are smart, you are brilliant, You are different because we are all different and unique. No one is the same and standing out is a compliment. We are all goofy, silly, pretty, we are all loved, and cherished. To your parents, may they find peace and no that this is not their fault. May they be able to let their hearts rest knowing they did everything they could and may they seek justice for Skylar!
Gail Dubois
June 26, 2018
Skylar will be missed by both Remington and I. I will always remember her kind ways, her beautiful smile, her curly hair and the gentle hugs she would give Remington. Rest in peace sweet angel.
Michelle Bories
June 25, 2018
Dear family and friends of this beautiful, young lady..my heart truly aches for you..I cannot fathom the unimaginable pain you're all enduring..My thoughts and prayers go out to each and every one of you.. Skylar, may you be at peace now, sweet angel .. May you fly high .. You will not be forgotten..
calkins family
June 25, 2018
my son Dylan went to school with Skyler.Dylan&skyler were friends!! Im so lost for word...rest easy Skyler you will be missed greatly.
Mark and Deborah Starin
June 25, 2018
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this very difficult time. Losing a child is unimaginable and we can't begin to know how you feel. Please know that people care and feel terrible for this tragedy.
Sharron McCarthy
June 24, 2018
My heart goes out to Skylar's family and true friends. Wishing you peace and hope in the coming days.
Kelly Tetreault
June 24, 2018
She was a bright young little girl I remember when she use to get excited to show me her anime drawings when she drew them. She didnt let much bother her. She has such a beautiful sould inside and out. Miss you skylar thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.
Kelly Perusse
June 24, 2018
Such a sweet girl
Lori Olson
June 24, 2018
I am so sorry for your family's loss.. we have never met, but my heart breaks for you and for your beautiful young daughter. I pray that you find comfort in knowing Skylar is resting peacefully with Angels and no longer the victim of such senseless and cruel behavior Love and hugs to all of you
N.D. DiPirro
June 23, 2018
11 years is way too young to die. It's too bad that people that hurt others- maybe not physically, but mentally- to the point that something like this happens, exist in today's world. I hope Skylar is at peace and I pray for her family to help get them through this horrible time.
N.D. DiPirro,
Victoria Sullivan
June 23, 2018
Skylar was a talented, creative, beautiful girl. I am very glad that I had the opportunity to know her. She is going to be missed by many. I am heartbroken for you all. My family will continue to pray for yours. Fly high beautiful girl.
Melissa Jarest
June 23, 2018
To the family of this beautiful girl, you have my deepest condolences. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are in. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
jennifer Belouin
June 23, 2018
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. May you all find peace. Fly beautiful angel.
Jen Indeglia
June 23, 2018
Skylar will forever be missed and always remembered at Girls Inc. I will miss her hugs, jokes and how she made everyone around her feel. She hated to see anyone sad and could tell in seconds if something was wrong. She had the biggest heart. I can hear her voice and hope I always do.
Donald White
June 23, 2018
So very Sorry for your loss, the idea that others could be so cruel is disgusting. I'm hoping both school and the police follow up with this! Know that your daughter is always with you, stop and talk to her, she hears you! Again, Very Sorry. God Bless You
Jennifer Noel-Bell
June 23, 2018
Aubrey has put away the stuffed animal she let her borrow when sky was having a rough day during the play...its in her special box for safe keeping. Fly high beautiful and know you were loved!
Claire Rousseau
June 23, 2018
So very sorry for your loss. I have grandchildren her age and cannot imagine the pain and hurt you are going through. May our Lord comfort you and give you strength during this difficult time.
Judy Leclerc
June 23, 2018
I did not know Skylar but from all the words spoken about her, she was a wonderful and special person. Those who bullied her will have to live with this the rest of their lives. May the family find comfort in knowing that strangers are paying for the entire family and know that she will be watching over you .
Kim Bucklin
June 23, 2018
Your loss is heartbreaking. May it comfort you to know that all who care for you are surrounding you with love. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Hayley Lane-Theriault
June 23, 2018
I'm so very sorry Skyler!!
Jack Rahilly
June 23, 2018
Rest In Peace little angel.
Barbara Caufield
June 23, 2018
I am deeply moved and so sorry for all of Skylar's family and friends. What a tragic situation so many young children face from heartless bullies. I hope you may find peace knowing Skylar is with her loving God. I am crying with you.
Patty Marotta
June 23, 2018
My deepest condolences for the devastating loss of your little girl. May you find comfort in your family, friends and caring strangers in this difficult time! Prayers to your family! xx
Joyce Jastrem
June 23, 2018
My daughter met Skylar a few months ago and is going to college for 5-12 education degree. I can assure you that Skylar will never be forgotten. My heart aches for all she went through and the tragic loss of this beautiful child.
Cameron Lesperance
June 23, 2018
I had the wonderful privilege of getting to know Skylar at Girls Inc. for a few years when she first started there at only 5 years old. She immediately became part of the Girls Inc. family. She was so kind hearted and such a free spirit. She loved to sing and dance all day long, and her laugh was infectious. She was so innocent and creative. She was never afraid to be herself. I looked forward to seeing her everyday and listening to all of the stories she had to tell. She always reminded me how important it is to live life to the fullest and embrace the good in every day. May Skylar rest in the sweetest peace. She will forever be in my heart. My deepest condolences are with her loved ones. She will be forever loved and missed.
Ana Nogueira
June 23, 2018
I knew Skylar from the mentoring program at Girls Inc. What an amazing girl who was wise beyond her years and just such a sweet, individual and loving soul. We had lots of really great conversations. She had a gift for understanding others. I will miss her smile and her outlook on things many didn't understand. So sorry she was bullied. So sad she felt she couldn't keep going. We will all miss her.
Kris C.
June 23, 2018
God bless Skylar and her family. May the Lord help ease the suffering. ---- What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a butterfly. Richard Bach, (Illusions)
Kim Gerling
June 22, 2018
So sorry for ur loss ... So sad this happened at all I am against bullying ... Ur in my heart and prayers ...
Tracy Duval
June 22, 2018
I am so very sorry for the loss of this beautiful girl. No 11 year old should have to feel the pain of words. I hope that as time goes on that her memories will make your heart smile. I know the pain of losing a child, I will help if you think that I can.
VJ Bayko
June 22, 2018
Fly High Skylar, Fly High
My deepest condolences to the family.
Melodie Auger
June 22, 2018
I didn't know Skylar or her family, but as a mom felt compelled to send prayers for you all. My heart breaks for Skylar and her family and want to thank you for sharing her story with us so we may fight bullying in her name and all the other angels that it took from us all. Skylar would be proud to know that her death may help others. RIP angel girl, you are no longer in pain. ❤
Dennis Carmichael
June 22, 2018
It is with a heavy heart that I convey my deepest sadness to the family during extremely difficult time.
Jeannie Belanger
June 22, 2018
I am so very sorry for her families loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all! Fly high Angel, may you R.I.P
Christine Frink
June 22, 2018
So sorry for your loss prayers and thoughts are with you all during this difficult time fly high little angel
Wilhelmine Medina
June 22, 2018
My Sincere Condolences and Sympathy on ur big Loss Skylarl. Desmarais Prayers are with you all
RIP Angel Skylar
Jan Ranieri
June 22, 2018
My heartfelt prayers go out to the family and friends of Skylar.
Barbara Dexter
June 22, 2018
You will never be forgotten we will do all we can to stop the bullying and to try and prevent this from happening again lord hear our prays for this family and this beautiful young girl we are so sorry for your loss
mary jane baker
June 22, 2018
God bless you and your family. Sending my deepest sympathies. I do not know Skylar or her family, yet felt compelled to write. You have a angel in heaven looking out for you. I like many others will continue to pray for her family. Mary Jane
Dawn Thomas
June 22, 2018
Skylar made a huge impression on me from the age of 5 meeting her when I worked at Girls Inc she has a special presence, an infectious laugh and always a kind word for everyone else. Over the years when stopping by at Girls Inc she always had a big smile and hello. Recently as a mentor I got to enjoy spending time with many of the girls including Skylar who was goofy as usual and have having fun, drawing pictures and taking part in activities. She touched the lives of so many people and made a difference in mine and many, many others! Keep smiling Skylar and sharing the love you have!
Miriam Banash
June 22, 2018
I am so sorry for this terrible loss. Skylar was bright, talented and sweet. I worked in the before school program at Parker Varney in 2016/2017 when Skylar was there. I have a child with similar interests in cosplay and drawing.
Carole Caisse
June 22, 2018
Sweet, bubbly, funny, inquisitive, friendly and innocent...just to name a few of Sky's personality traits. The world could sure use more people like her. Shine on up in heaven you beautiful girl, you'll forever be young and innocent. Rip sweet girl ❤ and for the family, I'm so truly saddened by your loss, I hope that all the happy memories of times you all shared will bring you comfort and some smiles
Dawn Florino
June 22, 2018
Skylar, may you have peace in your heart. Find Memere and Pepere, Uncle Ben...they're with you, my dear.
SHERYL FARO FARO
June 22, 2018
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Erica Chakmakas
June 22, 2018
Skylar attended the school where I work from kindergarten through 4th grade. She was never a student of mine, but made a great impression on me! I'll always remember her sweet little voice! One of the last times I saw her she was wearing a shirt with that cartoon Pusheen cat and when I complimented her, she gave me all sorts of info on it! She was just so fun to chat with. One time I was with a group in the computer lab and I asked Skylar a question. She had me in this whole conversation before I said "Hey! We should both get back to work!"
When the 2017-18 school year started I was transferred to work upstairs with the 5th graders (I normally work in Kindergarten/1st grade) and I was looking forward to reuniting with the kids from this particular class. A few weeks in, I asked "Whatever happened to that Skylar girl?" A couple girls stayed in touch and said she was in a new school. I hope they passed on the "hello" from me. You will be missed!
Pamela Gagnon
June 22, 2018
Skylar sweetie may you find peace now, open your wings and fly high sweet girl. For the family I am so sorry for your loss words can not heal your pain. May you find peace and comfort and all the beautiful memories she leaves with you. she will forever be by your side in your heart and always on your mind. Pamela
sonia ortiz
June 22, 2018
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
lauren milne
June 22, 2018
Rip skylar you were my friend and a kind one.
lauren milne
June 22, 2018
R.I.P SKYLAR you will be missed as my best friend, classmate
imani wilkinson
June 22, 2018
skylar was a friend to all she could almost always cheer you up she would impress others with her arts and crafts and her great mind she was always intrested in art and she will be truly be missed R.I.P skylar
Lindsey Joseph
June 22, 2018
Keeping you all in our prayers -Bullying has to stop -NOW !!!!! May you rest in peace sweet girl..
Katie Howard
June 22, 2018
To the family....I'm so sorry for your loss...it's truly a tragity to loose such a beautiful soul..my daughter Madison has been friends and known her for many years...says she was a great child with a friendly face good bless
Erin Melendy
June 22, 2018
Skylar as your teacher when you were just 3 years old I was blessed to have you in my class you were a joy and I'm thankful to have gotten the chance to meet you and know you. You will forever be in my ❤. You will be missed.
Your teacher miss Erin ❤❤❤❤❤
Diana Arboleda
June 21, 2018
Our family is keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. A good heart has stopped beating, a good soul ascended to heaven.
rachel forgit
June 21, 2018
skylar was my friend from girls inc. i cant believe shes gone
Ellie Laymon
June 21, 2018
I am a nurse who spoke with Skylar a couple of times. My heart just breaks for you, knowing all your family has been through. I am so sorry she had this illness, but her love for her family was real; she talked about it. My very deepest sympathies.
Chad Murphy
June 21, 2018
I am sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace...
imani wilkinson
June 21, 2018
skylar was a great friend to me I will never forget this moment her life will always stay with me and R.I.P Skylar
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