Stefani Hurt

Stefani Hurt obituary, Fredericksburg, VA

Stefani Hurt

Stefani Hurt Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 7, 2023.

Stefani Lynette Hurt, of Fredericksburg, VA, received her heavenly wings on March 1, 2023. Stefani (Stef) was born December 13, 1990, in Bitburg, Germany to Cherry L. Wilcoxon and Charlie D. Hurt. Stefani came to know the Lord Jesus Christ as her personal savior early in life, and was a long time member of First Mount Zion Church in Dumfries, VA. 


Stefani graduated from Colonial Forge High School in Fredericksburg, VA and completed college courses at NOVA Community College along with several accomplished certifications. She was employed as a Financial Analyst at the Defense Counterintelligence Security Agency, Quantico, VA. Stef was an all-around happy, energetic, and optimistically positive human being who loved life, and enjoyed seeing other people happy! She absolutely lit up a room with her smile and enthusiastic and positive energy! Her children, C.J. and Adriana, were the most important persons in her life, and were at the center of her universe! No matter what troubles were in Stef’s midst, her love for C.J. and Adriana always brightened her day, and returned the smile to her face. 


Stefani had a truly special relationships with her big brother, Juandero (Juan), her mother, Cherry; father, Charlie; stepfather, Kevin; aunt Dallias; and grandmother, Louise. Stef and her brother were like twin spirits. She relied on him for advice, and for words of encouragement when she was troubled. Stefani and her mother, Cherry, were more than mother and daughter – they were best friends. They frequently traveled together, solved problems together, and most of all, they laughed together! Stefani’s love of her father, Charlie, was known by all! One of Stef’s many fond memories with Charlie was their trip to the Million Black Women March in Philadelphia, PA at the age of six. Her father, Charlie and stepfather, Kevin (OPA) instilled in Stefani many important values for living a life filled with good moral values, which enabled Stef to grow as an empowered, principled young lady! And, aunt Dallias was indeed a second mother. Stefani spent many summers with her aunt in Detroit, Michigan, where she acquired a love for art, history and museums. Stefani developed many, many strong, loving, special relationships over the course of her beautiful life, including those with her God Parents, Wayne and Phyllis Andrews of Virginia Beach, VA. Each member of Stefani’s village continues to celebrate her beautiful, inspirational life! 

Our Stef is survived by her loving children, Jaron (C.J.) and Adriana (Nana) Hurt; her devoted mother, Cherry (Kevin Anderson) Wilcoxon of Fredericksburg, VA; her devoted father, Charlie D. Hurt of Athens, AL; loving grandparents, Louise C. Newsome of Brundidge, AL, and Frederick and Catherine Anderson of Woodbridge, VA; her brothers, Juandero (Tyrreia) Hurt of Phoenix, Arizona, Caleb Hurt of Gambrills, MD; and Alec E. Anderson of Triangle, VA; sisters, Cayla Hurt of Gambrills, MD; Nicole Johnson of Stafford, VA, and God sisters, DeAndria and Shante Shipman of Las Vegas, NV; Kelli (Cory) Sanders of Grovetown, GA; God brother Kiel King of Dallas, TX; aunts Dallias E. Wilcoxon (second mother) of Detroit, MI, Judy Thornton of Brundidge, AL, Toni (Reginald) Edge of Manassas, VA; uncles Grady (Laverne) Townsend, Author Hurt of Brundidge, AL, Mark (TaMika) Hurt of Troy, AL, and Troy (Melissa) Anderson of Stafford, VA, and Vincent (Angela) Anderson of Fredericksburg, VA;  Ricky (Arlisa) Johnson of Brundidge, AL and God Parents, Wayne and Phyllis Andrews of Virginia Beach, VA. Stef is also survived by nine nieces and nephews, four great-aunts and a host of cousins and friends, including Monique (John) Smiley, aunt Lora (Maurice) Bailey, and second God Mother, B.J. Roper.  


A funeral service will be held at A. L. Bennett Funeral Home, 200 Butternut Dr. Fredericksburg, VA, on Wednesday, March 8, 2023, at 11:00 AM. The interment will be held at St. Paul Cemetery, 513 Galloway, Brundidge, AL.

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March 1, 2025

Cherry Wilcoxon posted to the memorial.

February 14, 2025

Cherry Wilcoxon posted to the memorial.

March 1, 2024

Kim Thompson-Mitchell posted to the memorial.

Cherry Wilcoxon

March 1, 2025

Baby girl,

Momma’s heart continues to break with each new sunrise knowing I will face another day absent your worldly presence. There are no words that can describe the physical pain I experience longing for you. My world is upside down without you as you were my world. I miss you so much but I know you continue to watch over the kids and I as you are now our guardian angel.

Cherry Wilcoxon

February 14, 2025

Baby Girl, Happy Valentine´s Day Love Momma- I missed you so much I physically hurt. My heart continues to break with each new sunrise knowing I will face another day absent your worldly presence.

Kim Thompson-Mitchell

March 1, 2024

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Dorothy Newby

March 19, 2023

I haven't seen you in a long time Cherry. I heard about your loss from my aunt, Christine Wheeler. I Just want to covey my condolences to and your family. I will keep you in my prayers and pray that God help you through the loss of your daughter.
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Gladys Hall

March 13, 2023

Cherry ,
I am so very sorry to hear of Stefani's passing. My deepest heartfelt sympathy to you and her children.

Kim Mitchell

March 13, 2023

Rest in Peace from KC! We love you forever!

Kay Watson

March 12, 2023

I am so very sorry to hear of Stefani´s passing. We worked together a few years back at Only Choice Home Health Care. Stefani was nice and funny and a helpful co-worker. My condolences go to her children and family. May she rest in peace.

Cheryl Myrick

March 11, 2023

Dr. Wilcoxon, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family! Prayers for strength will be answered! Until the day of your reunion with Stefani, LIVE in all the precious memories! Your DCMA FB family will keep you all lifted in prayer.

The Lovelies sends our condolences to the family.

March 10, 2023

Kathie Kelly

March 8, 2023

My deepest condolences at the death of your daughter Stefani. My baby boy Kevin, at 3 1/2 years old died in 1998. My heart breaks for you. I am also The Compassionate Friends Fredericksburg Chapter Leader which is a self-help support group for all bereaved parents, siblings and grandparents who have lost a child. I am here for you if you need me. Praying for you all.

Cynthia Michelem

March 8, 2023

My condolences to her family. Prayers for her children and mom. May she rest in peace.

Cynthia Michelem

Taliea Thompson

March 8, 2023

Such a beautiful person and so very smart. I’m so grateful for our friendship. Prayers for your beautiful family during this time!

Sonia Williams

March 8, 2023

My deepest condolences. May the Lord ease your suffering over the loss of Stefani. I pray you find peace in her life that continues through your shared memories and with her spirit.

Robert Loviska

March 8, 2023

Stefani will always be with you and a part of you. Celebrate the gift of her being part of your life every day from now on with a simple thought or action. May your find your equilibriums in the memories made and shared. Peace be with you.

Anthony Larry

March 8, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. You will always be in my heart never forgotten.

A Smile to Remember

Derrick Weaver

March 8, 2023

Prayers from Kansas city Family

Amanda Ervin

March 8, 2023

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. Love and Praying for the family .. Charles . Amanda. Scooby. And Amiya Ervin

Kieva Pleas

March 8, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Stefi you will be missed but forever in my heart.

Jeanine Smith

March 8, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. #yourKCfamily

Deb Panebianco

March 8, 2023

I was very excited for Stefani when she left work for take a job at the Defense Department. She was a very hard worker, energetic and ambitious. She was proud of her work and went the extra mile. I pray in these days to come your hearts will be filled with loving memories and may God grant you all peace and grace.

Diane Sarkis

March 8, 2023

My condolences and prayers with your family during this difficult time. Stefani’s attitude and professionalism working at DCSA, in often stressful, short fused time crunches will continue to shine in my memories. Strength to your family and especially her most loved children.

Melissa Williams

March 8, 2023

Stefani will be truly missed. May God keep his loving arms around the family and all that loved Stefani. #yourKCfamily

Joe Boutte

March 8, 2023

Cherry, Kevin, and Family,
God knows the depth of your love, and only He can bring the comfort your heart needs, along with the love of your family, friends, and the wonderful memories that you accumulated over Stef's precious time here on earth. We pray that God will give you peace and strength as you go through this time of grieving. We often remind ourselves of the promise in Romans 8:18, "Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will reveal to us later." Be encouraged that the best is yet to come, and the pain and heartbreak will be a distant memory. In another promise, God says, "I am He who will sustain you...and I will carry you." May God's love encircle you and give you peace and time to heal until you meet with Stef again.

Anthony Larry

March 8, 2023

His forever love Peanut! KC is sending our condolences to her babies and the family. We love you Stefani rest well baby!

Pamela Jemerson

March 7, 2023

Rest well- precious Stefani. In loving memory.
Pamela Jemerson and Sasha Russell

Janella Jennings

March 7, 2023

Cherry, you have mine and Janell's deepest sympathy. We will continue to keep you and your family lifted in prayer.

Kalima Turner

March 7, 2023

You have my deepest sympathy. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow. My heart goes out to you at this difficult time.

John Purdy

March 7, 2023

With deepest sympathy and condolences

Teresa Copeland

March 7, 2023

My condolences to the family

Shurmeika Henry

March 7, 2023

Sending prayers of comfort to the family during this difficult time. May you each lean on the LORD for strength to help get you through as you continue to cherish the great memories of her and the impact she left on others. She will forever be miss and in our hearts.

Brittany Brown

March 7, 2023

Those we love don't go away. They walk beside us everyday unseen, unheard but always near. My heartfelt condolences to you all during this difficult time. Stef, you will be missed!

Gwendolyn Clay

March 7, 2023

Sending my condolences to you and your family! ❤

March 7, 2023

On behalf of A.L. Bennett and Son Funeral Home, we express our deepest condolences during this difficult time. We extend continued prayers of strength and comfort. Our thoughts are with your family.

A.L. Bennett and Son Funeral Home

LaSaundra "Sand" Byrd-Robinson

March 6, 2023

May God keep you all in the palms of his hands.

Faaon Mitchell Sr.

March 6, 2023

We're going to miss you Planters!
#yourKCfamily

Dudley Ligon

March 6, 2023

May God be close to you now, for strength and comfort, and may His peace overflow in the days to come.
With Deepest Sympathy
Dudley and Delphia Ligon

Rest with the Lord Stefani May God keep your babies and your family in perfect peace

Cheryl Grate

March 6, 2023

My thoughts and prayers are with your babies and your family May you sleep in heavenly peace

Michele Bottoms

March 6, 2023

Please accept my deepest condolences. Your family are in my prayers. I pray for the day when you can think of Stefani and smile. God Bless,

You will never be forgotten! We love Peanut!

Kim Mitchell

March 6, 2023

You will never be forgotten Peanut! Your KC Family loves you forever.

JOLISA ANDERSON

March 6, 2023

My deepest condolences to Stefani’s children and family. Prayers for strength for you all during this difficult time! Rest easy Lil Bit!

Jane Rivers

March 6, 2023

Cherry, Kevin and family it's with great condolences and prayers we send to you all of your loss. God bless you and no that we are here for you. Luv Aunt Emma , Jane and family.

LaSaundra Byrd-Robinson

March 6, 2023

Praying for our family

Faaon Mitchell

March 6, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Kim Mitchell

March 6, 2023

My condolences to Stefani’s babies and family. We are going to miss you Peanut here in KC. We are so grateful for the memories we shared with you and your babies. I love you to the moon and back.
Kim Mitchell

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