Stephen Kupka

Stephen Kupka

Stephen Kupka Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 17, 2014.
FRANKFORD - Stephen Kupka, 81, of Frankford Township, died Wednesday, Feb. 12, 2014, at home.

Born in Perth Amboy, Stephen grew up in Elizabeth and Cliffwood Beach. He received his Bachelor of Arts in piano and a certificate in composition from the Peabody Conservatory of Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore. He was a member of Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia. A United States Army veteran, Stephen served during the Korean conflict.

He later taught piano at Peabody Preparatory in Towson, Md., and was a high school music teacher and choral director in Calvert County, Md., and Wayne Hills High School in Wayne. He also taught music at Hardyston Elementary school in Franklin. He was a professional music copyist in Los Angeles, Calif., as well as a composer of musicals performed in various high schools throughout the United States, including Mad Anthony, Gift of the Maji and many others. He lived in Ridgewood and Hamburg before moving to Augusta.

Stephen was a church organist and choral director for more than 50 years, most recently at the Andover Presbyterian Church in Andover, and was a private piano teacher.

The son of the late Stephen Kupka Jr. and Rose (Petrovey) Kupka, Stephen is survived by his wife, Harriet Helms-Kupka; his sister, Vivian Keeler and husband, Fred, of Wichutunk; his brother, Lewis Kupka, of Rockville, Md.; his sister, Rosalie and husband, Patrick McCarthy, of Keansburg; and many nieces and nephews.

A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Sunday, Feb. 23, at Andover Presbyterian Church.

Memorial donations may be made to Father John's Animal Shelter, 50 Father John's Lane, Lafayette, NJ 07848; or Andover Pesbyterian Church, 15 Lenape Road, Andover, NJ 07821; or Doctors Without Borders, P.O. Box 5030, Hagerstown, MD 21741; or Alley Cats, 7920 Norfolk Ave #600, Bethesda, MD 20814.

Arrangements are under the direction of Smith-McCracken Funeral Home, 63 High St., Newton. Online condolences may be offered at www.smithmccrackenfuneralhome.com.

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Pete Bremy

September 2, 2024

Mr. Stephen Kupka was my Music Major teacher at Wayne Hills High School. He was the best teacher I ever had in high school, I learned so much from him. I have had a successful career in music, many thanks to him. I only wish I could have thanked him in person. Godspeed Mr. Kupka! Thank you so much!

Anita Hutton

March 5, 2024

Mr. Kupka was my high school music teacher, 1970-74. I took piano from him in HS, and he gave me the opportunity to lead my own girls chorus. I played for his choirs and many of the musicals. I´ve thought of him often over the years and I owe much of my musical life to his teaching and encouragement.

Nina Zanetti

June 3, 2014

Mr Kupka was an important and much appreciated influence in my musical life. I sang in his choirs at Wayne Hills and took piano lessons with him for a while. He also kindly loaned me his violin when I wanted to learn to play that instrument as well. All these musical endeavors enriched my high school days and lead to a continuing love of music. My deepest sympathy on his passing..

Allison Honeycutt Cole

April 12, 2014

Mr Kupka, My accompanist for many solos, my teacher, at Wayne Hills, Always thankful for our production of Handels Messiah! Organist at St Michaels Episcopal where he led the choir with magnificent music. An exceptionally talented man with a sweet heart. Remembered with thankfulness, grateful for his instruction and guidance

Jennifer Thompson

February 21, 2014

Harriet, my heartfelt sympathies go out to you and your family. As time goes by the heartfelt pain will turn into fond memories. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary A Kinney

February 19, 2014

Harrett - As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. -my thoughts and prayer to you and Stephen family!
XOXO - Mary A Kinney

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