Stephen Orr

1944 - 2019

Stephen Orr obituary, 1944-2019, Anchorage, AK

Stephen Orr

1944 - 2019

BORN

1944

DIED

2019

Stephen Orr Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 10, 2019.
Captain Stephen Cornell Orr died Oct. 18, 2019 at Providence Alaska Medical Center in Anchorage due to a heart attack & many years of medical complications. He will be remembered warmly as a "Gentle Giant" who will leave in his wake a huge hole in the heart of his family, community & the world.
Born March 16, 1944 & raised on Whidbey Island, Wash., Steve was a star athlete at Langley High School in track, basketball & particularly football. A graduate of the class of 1962, he remains the only athlete from South Whidbey to receive a full ride football scholarship to the University of Washington. Following graduation, Steve was drafted into the NFL where he continued his football career to play professionally under Tom Landry for the Dallas Cowboys & later for the Seattle Rangers while serving in the Army
Reserves.
Following his storied athletic career, Steve was hired as a tugboat deckhand by Crowley Maritime where he worked for 42 years, growing through the ranks, traveling the world & advancing to Captain in the Alaska tug fleet & of the beautiful yacht, the MV Olympus. He became a legend within the company for his work ethic & loyalty. An expert on Alaska waterways, Capt. Orr retired in 2013 as Marine Superintendent.
Admired for his physical feats, Steve was beloved for his character strengths. He was a role model to his daughters, nieces & nephews, countless employees, friends, teammates & co-workers. He was everyone's friend and champion until the end.
In 2004, at the age of 60, Steve met his greatest physical challenge when he suffered a MRSA infection in his spinal column which left the 6 foot 6 inch former defensive lineman a paraplegic. With the support of countless medical staff, coaches & friends he painstakingly trained for over a year to regain the use of his arms and legs & returned to work full-time, a feat that was thought unimaginable by most of his doctors. Steve and his beloved dog Poppit walked the trail around Taku Lake in Anchorage daily until the time of his retirement. A memorial bench will be installed on the lake trail next summer.
Our wonderful "Papa" is survived by his wife, Donna; daughters, Susanna Orr & Sharon Stubbs, son-in-law Josh Stubbs; grandchildren, Kiana, Madison, Everett, Jackson & bonus grandchildren Sullivan and Elizabeth. He also leaves behind siblings, a lifetime of extended family, friends & his constant companion of nearly 20 years, his cat Bella. He is preceded in death by his parents, Helen & Martin Orr; son-in-law, Jason Moore; wonderful dog, Poppit; & was welcomed with open arms by his beloved Coach Jim Leierer who made him believe that anything was possible.
Services will be held on Whidbey Island, which was homesteaded by his great-grandfather, on July 19, 2020 & followed by a burial of his ashes in his family's plot: additional details to follow. In lieu of flowers, contributions towards "Papa's" memorial bench celebrating his lifelong strength & stubborn Norwegian determination would be appreciated. These can be made online by visiting gofundme.com and searching for "Captain Steve Orr".

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July 13, 2020

Jane Anne Henderson Herrin posted to the memorial.

December 18, 2019

Paul Howard posted to the memorial.

December 2, 2019

Jan Witsoe posted to the memorial.

Jane Anne Henderson Herrin

July 13, 2020

Donna Orr and Family,
Thinking of you today.
Love,
Jane Anne Henderson Herrin

When someone you love becomes a memory,
the memory becomes a treasure.

Paul Howard

December 18, 2019

Steve and I met in Langley Elementary School. We were like Mutt and Jeff; he was the tallest kid and I was the shortest.
On weekends during HS I would ride my bike to the farm and help him with his chores. I loved the farm and most of the time I would spend the summers with him. We dreamed of sharing a ranch in Eastern Washington raising Santa Gertrudis cattle. I remember our playing Football and he was the defensive end and I was a wing-back and I would be running a play at him and he would pick me up and set me down gently. I would get so mad at him. It was just his nature.
After his run with the Cowboys he came back to Seattle and moved in with me while he played with the Continental Football League. Boy did we eat good! Then we both grew up and took on life's challenges. I wish we could have seen more of each other, but he was in Alaska and I was in California. Our friendship has lasted a life time and beyond.
I will see you at the ranch on the other side, Steve.

Jan Witsoe

December 2, 2019

Donna and family, my heart goes out to you in your loss of this kind and gentle giant.

Claire Brady

November 24, 2019

Your bright shining light will never be extinguished from my heart. Your words of kindness and encouragement will be forever with me and I shall deeply miss you.

November 10, 2019

Steve had a big heart and an evan bigger smile. He was an incredible person whom I had the pleasure of meeting and became good friends. I always helped him with his GM vehicle at Alaska Sales and Service. we lost a good man! Mike Marchant

Jeffrey Porter

November 8, 2019

Sorry that another great patriot is gone to soon. We at Langley, WA remember him well. My older bothers played football with him, and spoke of him.

Jan Burger

November 8, 2019

Our condolences, Donna. Steve was an inspiration to many. May you find peace in the midst of your sorrow.

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