Steven Dudley Musselwhite

Steven Dudley Musselwhite

Steven Musselwhite Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 29 to Feb. 28, 2009.
Steven Dudley Musselwhite died on January 22, 2009. He was 54 years old.

Born in Louisville, KY to Rora Tanner, Jr., and the former Beulah Bailey Griswold on April 19, 1954, Mr. Musselwhite was preceded in death by his parents.

Steve spent his early childhood years up in Elmhurst, IL. At age 8, his family moved to Cleveland, TN, where he graduated from Cleveland Day School in 1972, going on to earn a degree in electrical engineering from the Georgia Institute of Technology in 1976.

In 1978, Steve moved to Denver, CO, to take a job with defense contractor Martin Marietta, working on several military programs, including the development of software for automated test and launch of the Titan launch vehicles.

Steve then joined XEL Communications, Inc, a telecom start-up company which designed and manufactured products for the telephone industry. He served in several management positions including manufacturing engineering manager and production manager. The company was named one of Americas Top 10 Plants by Industry Week magazine in 1992 and was sold in 1995.

Steve then founded, and served as president of, Maxtel Communications, Inc., which provided technical hardware and software services to several large clients, including Echostar Communications Corp. He went on from there to develop software that was in the patent process at the time of his death.

Most recently, Steve headed up Technology Design and Implementation for Scenario d, a Denver-based technology oriented sales and marketing company.

He is survived by his three brothers John, David, and Jim; their wives Donna, Mary Gardner, and Renee; nephews Kevin, Jimmy, and Bailey; niece Stephanie; and great nephew Ryan.

Donations can be made to the charity of your choice in Steves name.

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January 1, 2021

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February 3, 2009

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February 2, 2009

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Chris Tidwell

January 1, 2021

Steve was a great friend of mine.
Chris Tidwell

John Musselwhite

February 3, 2009

Steve's love of the Denver area kept him distance-wise a long way from the rest of the family, but never far from our hearts and thoughts. He was my youngest brother and I will miss him dearly.
It was great to meet his friends and I especially want to thank Vance and Ed for being his best friends.

Jim Musselwhite

February 2, 2009

Steve and I were the closest of brothers, inseparable from childhood through adolescense. My life's memories are largely defined and shaped by warm memories of my little brother Steve. His passing has left a huge hole in my life!

A gathering of family and friends was held last Saturday in Denver at the home of Vance Franks, one of Steve's dearest friends. As sad as I am, I cannot express how wonderfully comforting it is to my brothers and me to know that Steve had such warm and loving friends in Denver over these many years.

Vance, I cannot thank you enough for your gracious hospitality and your genuine friendship with Steve over the last 24 years.

Ed, what a heartfelt gesture to agree to keep Steve's dog "Bear". Just what Steve would have wanted, I'm sure.

And thank you ALL for having shared in Steve's happiness.

Ed Apodaca

January 30, 2009

Steve was one of my friends that not only supported me professionally but personally. I have known Steve since 1986 and has been my friend ever since. Friends like him don't come around often and he will be missed and always in my thoughts. I still can't believe he is gone and he has my promise that I will take good care of his friend Bear. I love you my friend.

Renee Musselwhite

January 30, 2009

I can't believe that Steve is gone.There was so much I wanted to talk to him about and laugh about. I loved Steve's sense of humor and I loved Steve. I will always regret our time apart and I will always miss him.

Vance Franks

January 29, 2009

I will miss Steve for the rest of my life. He was my friend for 24 years. One can not ask for a greater gift than that. I will always remember his smile and his laughter. My heartfelt condolences to Steve's loved ones and friends.

Donna Musselwhite

January 29, 2009

Steven will be missed by those who knew and loved him, he left this earth too young...

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