Susan H. Axtell

Susan H. Axtell obituary, Williamsburg, VA

Susan H. Axtell

Susan Axtell Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 22, 2023.
WILLIAMSBURG - Early childhood educator Susan H. Axtell, who enriched the lives of thousands of young families with her compassionate teaching, died Saturday, February 18, 2023 in Sentara Hospital. She was 79. For three decades beginning in 1978, Susan was a director and teacher at the Williamsburg Parent Cooperative Preschool (known familiarly as "Co-op"), located on the grounds of St. Martin's Episcopal Church. Her warmth, hypnotic reading voice and creative preschool plans left an indelible mark, judging from the regularity with which she was approached in shops or Colonial Williamsburg by grown former pupils gushing about the impact she'd had on their 3-year-old selves. She also touched the lives of many outside the Co-op community through her myriad volunteering efforts, whether it was delivering meals to the needy, giving communion to the home-bound as a lay minister, mustering support for Democratic causes or tutoring struggling readers. Susan was born to Howard and Carol Hallas in Evanston, Illinois in 1943, but was raised in the north suburbs of Detroit, Michigan. She attended Bloomfield Hills High School, where she acted in school plays and was president of a social work organization. She graduated from Wellesley College as an English major in 1966. She met her husband, James Axtell, on a blind date set up by her collegiate "big sister." They married in 1963, honeymooning on the Queen Mary as they sailed toward a new, temporary home in Cambridge, England. After returning stateside, Susan taught kindergarten at The Foote School in New Haven, Connecticut before moving with her family to Bronxville, New York, where she worked part-time at a Montessori school while raising her boys. She later taught at The School for Little Children in Evanston, Illinois for two years. Susan is survived by her husband, James; two sons, Nathaniel and Jeremy; her confidant and daughter-in-law, Jennifer Serré Axtell; two beloved grandchildren, Clark and Zoë Axtell; and a niece and nephew, Kelly and Michael Hallas, both of Lansing, Michigan. She was pre-deceased by her cherished brother, Clark Hallas. She was a long-time member of St. Martin's Episcopal Church, where she served on the Vestry, Funeral Reception Committee and Altar Guild, as well as teaching Sunday school, helping with the Crockpot Ministry and acting as a Lay Eucharistic Minister. Her genuine love and concern for others was reflected in the many other community service projects she took on outside St. Martin's. At various times, she volunteered with Literacy for Life, FISH, the League of Women Voters, Child Development Resources and the Williamsburg Regional Library, to name a few. A voracious and adventurous reader, Susan was a member of two books groups. After retiring from Co-op in 2009, she poured her energies into swimming, walking with friends, folk art, recreational baking (one of her friends joked her epitaph should read "She made a mean cookie"), and spending as much time as possible with her grandchildren. Her abiding generosity knew no bounds. Susan went out of her way to patronize many artists, craftspeople, small farmers, independent book sellers and any other deserving soul, especially small local ones. She had a particular soft spot for donations to local children's playgrounds. A memorial service will be held at a future date. In lieu of flowers, the family asks any donations be made to the Susan H. Axtell Scholarship Fund c/o Williamsburg Parent Cooperative Preschool, P.O. Box 422, Williamsburg, VA 23185.

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February 16, 2024

Lynda S Davis posted to the memorial.

April 15, 2023

Jenni posted to the memorial.

March 20, 2023

John Cooper posted to the memorial.

Lynda S Davis

February 16, 2024

Williamsburg Co-op was a magical place for my children because of Susan. Susan always had a smile and a gentleness about her which was infectious.

Jenni

April 15, 2023

For everyone who was unable to attend today, a beautiful tribute and celebration of Susan can be found at https://www.youtube.com/live/U-MaEbeK9-M?feature=share

John Cooper

March 20, 2023

We are shocked and saddened to learn of Susan's passing. She was always a delight to see, and we enjoyed our visits in our respective homes so much. We shall treasure her memory forever.
Judy and John Cooper

Jenni

March 19, 2023

A celebration of life will be held on April 15, 2023 at St Martin´s from 10am to 2pm. Susan touched so many lives. All are welcome.

David and Kimberlee Bode

March 3, 2023

David and Kimberlee Bode

March 3, 2023

David and Kimberlee Bode

March 3, 2023

Susan was such a wonderful person and phenomenal teacher. Our son, Will was in her 3 year old class (1996-1997). She loved every student and made each of them feel very special. Susan will be missed but never forgotten.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

K.M

February 27, 2023

I didn't know you but I hope you know that Gillie is in good hands now. Please know that he will be well loved and cared for.

Lynda Davis

February 26, 2023

Susan was the most beautiful human being.

Jan Brown

February 24, 2023

I am heartbroken my lovely neighbor has left us. She was the dearest, always stopping her car to say hello if I was on the street doing yard chores. Her friendly smile, her incomparable sweetness, were ever present, and I will miss her terribly. When she took over the duty of walking Gilley from Jim, I saw her more frequently and often engaged in longer conversations about family and friends. She was a true treasure. Jamie, our hearts go out to you and your brother. Your mom was the best of us, a pearl among stones, who will ever remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Sid Weeks

February 23, 2023

We are so grateful to Susan and miss her so much. She was a wonderful friend to our family and helped our daughter adjust to living in Williamsburg as a high schooler. When our daughter, Grace, arrived in Williamsburg to live with my parents, including my Mom (Susan's "big sister" at Wellesley), Susan had Grace over to bake some wonderful cookies. Susan and Jim also went to Grace's volleyball matches and cheered her on. Susan had such a gift as a teacher and caregiver, as everyone who met her knows. When we visited Williamsburg for holidays, Susan would bring some amazing, hand-made toys for our kids and the materials to make more. We wish to honor her generosity, dedication, righteousness and love. Susan was an inspiration to us and countless others. We offer our prayers for Jim and the Axtell family.

Jamie Axtell

February 23, 2023

Jamie Axtell

February 23, 2023

Pam Young

February 23, 2023

My deepest sympathy for your loss.
As a Co-op parent of sons Henry and Owen, I reflect on the wonderful presence that was Susan. She was the paragon of warmth and patience, and created the most wonderful art and craft projects. I still have many that my kids brought home. How lucky we were to have had her in our lives.

Kim McVicker Bevan

February 22, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tom Savage

February 22, 2023

Mrs. Axtell was an incredible woman and made such a huge impact on all of us who had her as a teacher. She was a gem and will be missed. This is `83.

Kelly Hallas

February 22, 2023

Susan was my cherished aunt. She was the best listener, supporter, and friend I could ask for.
When I was little, she made me soft dolls with red hair and dainty jewelry. She sent college care packages that included home-made squirrel cookies with chocolate chips for eyes. We couldn´t wait to receive her Christmas packages, wrapped with her signature adornments and beautiful paper.
Her newsy letters used every inch of space, and she loved to talk about family history and quirky relatives, often quoting her dad´s maxim "Be of good cheer."
Susan was the picture of tact, humor, warmth, and generosity. She was a good egg.

Brenda Birney

February 22, 2023

You are loved and truly missed.

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