Tabitha L. Ray-Barton

Tabitha L. Ray-Barton obituary, Duncan, OK

Tabitha L. Ray-Barton

Tabitha Ray-Barton Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 17 to Oct. 18, 2009.
Tabitha L. Ray-BartonApril 22, 1981 — Oct. 15, 2009EDMOND — Tabitha L. Ray-Barton, 28, of Edmond, died on Thursday, Oct. 15, 2009, in Mercy Memorial Health Center in Ardmore.Services will be 1:30 p.m. Monday in Chisholm Trail Church of Christ in Duncan, with Ben Bailey and Leonard Keele officiating. Burial will follow at Sunset Memorial Gardens in Lawton, under direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home.Family will receive friends from 1:30 to 4 p.m. today in the funeral home.Tabitha was born on April 22, 1981, in Shawnee, to Rick A. and Mary L. Cathey Ray. She was residing in Edmond, with her husband, Sean E. Barton, and was employed as a nutrition counselor for LA Weight Loss for the past 3 years in Oklahoma City.She and Sean were married May 10, 2008, in Edmond. She was a member of the Memorial Road Church of Christ in Edmond. Tabitha was a member of the Oklahoma Dental Assocoation and her priorities in life were "her Lord," "her family," and "her friends," with all else following these.She was an avid Oklahoma State University football fan and a New York Yankee baseball fan.Tabitha is survived by her husband, Sean, of the home; her parents: Rick and Mary Ray of Ardmore; a brother, Aaron, and his wife, Melissa Ray, of Duncan; her maternal grandmother, Elizabeth Cathey, of The Colony, Texas; a nephew, Rylan Ray, of Duncan; her father and mother-in-law, Larry and Shirlee Barton of Enid; and numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. Bearers will be Aaron Ray, Marshall Baucom, Chris Caldwell, Derek Jones, Larry Salee Jr., and Jerry Salee. Memorial contributions can be made in Tabitha's name to the American Cancer Society, (Sarcoma Research) at 6525 N. Meridian, Suite 110, Oklahoma City, OK 73116.Online condolences may be made to the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com.

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Kay & Jim Doolin

October 19, 2009

What an impact she made in such a short time. Tabitha didn't have to say anything...her smile said it all. Please know that we love your family and will do anything we can to help during this time.

Christina Hays

October 19, 2009

What more could I say that has not already been said about Tab. She was such a wonderful person, so optimistic, so lovely. She was taken too soon, but she is not in pain anymore. She will be greatly missed, but she will NEVER be forgotten. I will continue to keep the family in my prayers.

Jerri & Artie Payne

October 18, 2009

Tabitha was a beautiful person who will be missed by many. I saw her a few years ago at Penn Square Mall and she recognized me before I recognized her but it was good to see her. She was the same ole Tabitha, laughing and talking about the good old days. I know she fought hard but I also know that she is healed now and will not suffer anymore. She was a great girl you should be proud of. I wish I could give you a hug. We wanted to let you know we were thinking of you, remembering good times and sharing your sorrow.

Artie & Jerri Payne

Jotta Christy

October 18, 2009

Rick and Mary: I just learned of Tabitha's death. I am so sorry for your loss. Tabitha was a wonderful young woman who we got to share our home with when she dated our son Brandon. We loved her and her zest for life and living life to the fullest. You are in David and my prayers. David and Jotta Christy, Shawnee

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