Thomas H. Benton Sr.

1941 - 2015

Thomas H. Benton Sr. obituary, 1941-2015, Orleans, MA

Thomas H. Benton Sr.

1941 - 2015

Thomas Benton Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 30, 2015.
ORLEANS – Thomas Hart Benton, Sr. passed away suddenly at his home in East Orleans on March 26, 2015. Tom was born on September 11, 1941, in New York, NY, the youngest of five children born to Philip E. Benton, MD and Orient Nichols Benton, formerly of Southbury, CT and East Orleans.

After his graduation from Tabor Academy, Thomas received his Bachelor of Arts degree from Johns Hopkins University, and his MBA from George Washington University. He spent most of his professional life in Banking in the Chicago area, residing much of that time in Oak Park, Il.

Tom retired, moved from Batavia, Il, and settled in East Orleans, MA, in 2009. He enjoyed his years as a docent at the Brookfield Zoo in Chicago; he had a great love for all animals, especially dogs. He was an avid reader, passionate about genealogy, enjoyed music, watching sports. He had a great sense of humor and a quick wit.

Tom was predeceased by his sister Carroll Benton Cameron, and his brother Christopher W. Benton. He leaves his brother, Philip E. Benton, Jr. and his wife Mary Ann; his sister, Ann Benton, all of South Orleans; his sister-in-law Nancy Cole Benton, and his former brother-in-law, Donald Cameron. Thomas also leaves his three children and their spouses: Thomas Hart Benton, Jr., his wife Alison, of Greenville, SC; William Webster Benton, his wife Michelle of Wheaton, Il; and Amanda Elizabeth Benton, of Greenville, SC. Thomas also leaves seven amazing grandchildren: Colin, Tanner, Will, Tommy, Annie, Tayler and Eleanor – all who adored and loved him deeply. Tom also leaves many friends and relatives – cousins, nieces, and nephews – who will miss him greatly.

Memorial services will be private.

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April 30, 2015

Alis Luciano posted to the memorial.

April 15, 2015

Rocki Benton posted to the memorial.

April 15, 2015

Wendy Ruiz posted to the memorial.

Alis Luciano

April 30, 2015

I thank God for Tom. He was a man of integrity, respect and above all a wonderful caring man. I had the privilege of working with him for many years and he becoming a great family friend.He blessed our family with Zelda and Lucy (his doggies). From the Luciano fam, WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU. God's peace.

Rocki Benton

April 15, 2015

Thanks for letting me come to the Cape and invade your home...glad you got to see ours too - I bet you can see me now! :) I will miss your visits! Love, The Rock (Rocki)

Wendy Ruiz

April 15, 2015

Wish I had gotten to know him...so sorry for your loss, dear Amanda & Tayler! He loved you dearly and will continue to watch over you with love and pride!

amanda benton

April 15, 2015

Always lit for you! I love you and miss you terribly! XOXO

amanda benton

April 15, 2015

Dad you are so loved and so missed! Tayler and I will forever hold you close in our hearts, minds and soul. I hope you are the happiest and peaceful you have ever been! Thank you for being you --- We love you !!! XOXOXO

Janey

April 15, 2015

Uncle Tommy was such a handsome and funny man. I have great memories of our classic softball game (Grams was Umpire!) and how much fun he was. He made a beautiful home on Barley Neck Bluff....you are missed. Love and peace. Janey

Tim Neylon

April 15, 2015

Tom welcomed me to the Benton family in a loving and genuine manner. He was truly a class act; folks like him will live on in our hearts and memories. Slan abhaile, Uncle Tom

Cindy

April 13, 2015

I loved him deeply. His candor and intelligence were beacons for me and I sought him out. His door was ALWAYS open to me (and to my dogs, which made him laugh). I miss him very much.

April 7, 2015

Ann:
Please accept our condolences to you and your family at the loss of your brother.
Irene and Bill Spring

The Staff of Nickerson Funeral Home

March 30, 2015

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

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