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17, of Wexford, unexpectedly on August 27, 2003. Son of Lother and Karen; brother of Nicholas, Rebecca, Weston, and Brandi; grandson of George and Rebecca Adams and Evelyn Freeman. Visitation Saturday 6-9 pm at CALVIN L. SHEFFIELD FUNERAL HOME, INC. 1125 Allegheny Ave, N.S. Service Sunday 3:30 pm at Mt. Ararat Baptist Church, East Liberty. Interment Highwood Cemetery.
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Sandra Kornegay
September 23, 2003
Lother and Karen:
We were very saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved son. May God bless and keep you during this time. You and your family will remain in our prayers.
Sincerely,
The Kornegay Family
David, Sandra and Ryan
Corey Sauer
September 10, 2003
I knew him as a dedicated teammate and an exceptional human being. His commitment to the North Allegheny Speech and Debate team as well as his delightful personality will never be forgotten.
Lauren Appel
September 10, 2003
Tom was a wonderful person---someone who I feel so blessed to say that I knew. I have only good memories of him. Tom and the Henderson family are always in my prayers.
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Matthew Hartwell
September 9, 2003
To the man who got me into acting, you're playing the role of the angels now. My condolences and sympathies to family and friends. God bless you and keep you.
Samantha Schultz
September 9, 2003
Dear Henderson family-
I was just a peer of Tom's. Your son was such a beautiful person. Every year I'd have at least one class with Tom or rode his bus, only this past year did I get to know him better. As a 17 year old I felt he so exceeded expectations for him and kept humble. He will be greatly missed and I'm sorry for your loss.
Matt Glies
September 9, 2003
Hendersons
I've known Tom for quite a few years, but the past year or so is when I really became good friends with him. It didn't take long to realize how great a person he was. He always made me laugh. Whether at the lunch table or out playing football, it was a great time when Tom was around. Once I met the rest of the family I could see why he was such a great person.
Allen Brown
September 8, 2003
Henderson's
I can remember when I first moved in to the North Allegheny School District. I knew no one. About a week beford school started I recieve a message from a student who heard I moved into the area and want to get together to show me aroung the intermediate high school. Of course this student was Tom. Tom showed me how to weave the crowds at North Allegheny and make friends while i'm at it...in 11th grade Tom, Drew, and Myself hung out almost everyday on our longs walks to gym class. Sharing jokes and stories is what we mainly did. TOm and I also spent every single morning in the library..looking up stock quotes...and on CNN.com discussing this world. I am so sadden by Tom's passing and I wish your family comfort and peace. Tom was a great friend and awesome guy. God's Blessings
Allen Brown
alexis kelly
September 8, 2003
may it comfort you and your family to know that when you lose a loved one, who has meant so much and touched so many peoples lives, the grief that you are feeling cannot take away the happiness you all shared, and that sorrow will fade in time, but the love will remain forever
i love you all and i wish i were there...everyone here is praying for you
-Alexis
Grace Bauer
September 5, 2003
Dear Henderson Family,
You don't know me but I went to HOBY with Tom. I will be honest with you, I don't know if Tom would have remembered me, but I definatly remembered him. It was only 3 days but I had the oppertunity to spend a day in his group. He was a great person and we had a lot of fun together. My heart goes out to you and your family. God Bless.
June Blair Wormsley
September 4, 2003
To the Henderson and Adams families,
I was very saddened to hear about Tom. My prayers are with you all. God Bless and keep you.
Mike Hambrick
September 3, 2003
Henderson Family,
Once again, we express our support for you during this time of sadness and joy. The sadness come from the short time that we had with Tom. The happiness comes from the continued illumination that spreads from the bright light that was his life. I continue to smile when I think of the great times that we shared. Know that our family will be there for you and we will get through this to become stronger in our mission on this earth. My family sends it's prayers and support.
The Hambrick's
David McDonald
September 3, 2003
The Hendersons
As a teacher at NASH, I had the pleasure of knowing Tom for two years as we served on the District's Stategic Planning Team. Even though we had to sacrifice a number of weekends, Tom always participated, justified his input, worked cooperatively with his teammates, and problem-solved with the best of us. I am proud to say that, even though I did not have him in class, I know that I would have been lucky had I had him in that situation. You have my sympathies for your loss.
Michael & Rhonda Stewart
September 3, 2003
Karen & Lother,
Our family is deeply sadden by the loss of Tommy. We will forever remember his sweet and quiet nature and his concern for others. Our prayer is that the love of God will help your family through this time of grief. We will keep you in our prayers.
The Stewart family (Houston, Texas)
Karen Straub
September 3, 2003
As a secretary at the NASH Library I had the pleasure of seeing Tom's outstanding smile every day. He was really a special young man that I will never forget.
consuella Milbourne
September 2, 2003
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Milbourne Family
E J Miller
September 2, 2003
To the Henderson Family:
My deepest sympathy to all. Tom was one of the most respectful, responsible, and pleasant students I had the pleasure of getting to know last year. And again, on the first day of school, he smiled, just the same as I remembered, as he sat at the computer here in the library. Tom will be truly miss.
May God bless you and fill you with HIS presents, to help you thru this time.
E J Miller, NASH Library
Jamie Worthy
September 2, 2003
To Karen and Lother,
May God keep and hold you and your children during this very trying time. God chose Tom because He needed someone who was devoted and willing to work. I always will remember him being right there with Lother while Lother was our Minister of Music. Tom was always so very pleasant and I am glad I had the pleasure of knowing him. If there is anything the Triedstone Gospel Choir can do for you now or in future please let us know. God Bless.
Jared Krueger
September 1, 2003
Dear Henderson Family,
You don't know me, but I knew Tom- for a week anyway. He was my roomate in June at the USAFA Summer Seminar. He was a very kind and respectful young man, and my best friend there. I was shocked and saddened to hear about his passing last week. Tom and I shared dreams of attending the Academy, and I promise that if it is God's will for me to go there, Tom will be right beside me- I will never forget him. For now I extend my deepest condolences and prayers.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord. "Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." ~Jer. 29:11 Everything happens for a reason, it's all part of God's incomprehensible and perfect plan. May He comfort and bless your family.
Alonzo Feagan
September 1, 2003
The Henderson Family:
May the glories your loved one now beholds..be a source of comfort and peace for you today, and may God be your strength. Praying For You
Mr. & Mrs. Alonzo Feagan
MABC
Michael Orban
September 1, 2003
We were so happy, and privileged to work with Tom here at Carnegie Science Center's Miniature Railroad & Village. His volunteer efforts brought joy and knowledge to the hearts and minds of thousands of visitors.
On behalf of the staff and volunteers, I would like to extend our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Henderson family.
Tom is in our hearts and minds today, and always...
Debi Fisher
September 1, 2003
I had a friend send this to me , may it help you in the days ahead
with love and sadness........
Letter from Heaven
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you
every morning noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, 'I welcome you'
It's good to have you back again. You were missed while you were
gone.
As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth and all those loving years.
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low;
Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....from that body to be free.
Remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Joanne Luck
August 31, 2003
To the Henderson family,
I want to exend my deepest sympathy on behalf of the Mt. Ararat Baptist Church family. It is never easy losing a loved one. It is unbearable losing a child so young.
God Bless & Keep you during your time of bereavement and always is my prayer.
Joanne Luck
Mt. Ararat Baptist Church
Dana Washington
August 31, 2003
I haven't been able to get Tom out of my mind all week. He and his family have been in my prayers as well. And Tom will always be in my heart.
Erica Jones
August 31, 2003
Dear Henderson family,
I met Tom at the Carnegie Mellon SAMS program and he was one of my closest friends there. He had such a big heart and friendly personality. I still can't believe that he's gone and my prayers go out to you for this loss. May God be with you during your grief.
Dianne Cook
August 31, 2003
Tom~ You had a very positive affect on everyone you came in contact with. I will always cherish the memories I have of you. Our graduating class is not the same without you. May God bless you and your family.
Ernie, Jill, E.J.,Danny & Adam Kusnyer
August 31, 2003
Lother, Karen and Children
We were very sorry to hear the news about Tom (Tommy T.was the nickname we gave Tom). The Henderson family has always had a "Special Place" in our lives. Our prayers go out to you and your family. Tom was a great person and I really enjoyed coaching and watching Tom play basketball. We always kept up with Tom and his involvement in track. We spent part of Saturday pulling out past videos of Tom when he was playing basketball with EJ (remember it all started at Hoop It Up 3 on 3 back in '95') though their younger years. If you would like, I can make copies of those tapes so you can have those memories of Tom. Again, our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We will miss Tom. God Bless .
The Kusnyer's
Sergio Guzman
August 31, 2003
Thomas, as well as his family, shall be in my prayers. While I have met him only for a brief time at my stay at Pittsburgh for the SAMS program, I knew him well enough to know he was a fine person, someone who made one feel comfortable to talk to and be around. The news came as a shock, and as a awakening to the realities of this world.
With my deepest sympathies,
Sergio
Kristen Buxton
August 30, 2003
Dear Henderson Family,
I knew your son from the SAMS program of 2002 at Carnegie-Mellon University. When I heard the news my heart sunk. My prayers and heart go out to you all during this trying time. It always helps to keep in mind that God has a plan and I definitely believe He has a plan for your family.
God Bless
Blake Washington
August 30, 2003
Henderson family-
Thomas attended the Carnegie Mellon SAMS program with me. He was an excellent student as well as a great friend. I don't think I've ever met a nicer person than Thomas. He will be missed by the entire SAMS program. May God bless you all.
Jennifer Tucker
August 30, 2003
My deepest condolences go out to the other friends and family of Tom. At first I didn't want to belive the news, and I still dont. I met Tom at a summer program the first day when he and a small group of us walked to get some ice cream. He was a really sweet person and he will be missed.
Janelle Harrell
August 30, 2003
I am so sorry to hear about Tom's death. I was in shock when my friend (another SAMS 2002 student) told me about it. I feel I was lucky to be able to meet Tom at SAMS in the summer of 2002 and he was a great, respectful gentleman. I hope he rests in peace and my greatest sympathy to the family. One thing you must know is God is with you and so is Thomas. When I lost my father in 1996, a pastor friend of mine used to tell my family and me that, "You don't have to get over it, you just have to get on with it." The pain will never go away, but live your life. God Bless!
Jim & Lorraine Easton
August 30, 2003
Jim and I were so sorry to hear about Thomas. We are praying that God will be with you during this difficult time. We also pray that your friends and family will be a source of comfort to you.
Sincerely,
Jim and Lorraine Easton
brian and cindy patten
August 30, 2003
lother and karen and children,
brian and i are at a loss of what comforting words we could possibly say to you both at a time like this..we mourn with you.. we have prayed for God to provide comfort for you both and for all of the kids..you have been on our hearts and in our thoughts..just know that when you need an ear or a shoulder we are only a phone call away..we care very much about all of your family..tom was a cherished soul..he will be sadly missed by our whole family..please share our condolences with wes as well..God bless you all..
love,
The Patten Family
Sally Hoover (Rau)
August 30, 2003
Karen and Lother - I met your son several times when I came to your home to deliver your Avon orders.
As a mother, my heart breaks to hear of your loss. My children and I offer our prayers and condolences to you all.
KIM CAMPBELL
August 30, 2003
LOTHER AND KAREN AND FAMILY, MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN DURING YOUR TIME OF MOURNING ...........GOD BLESS .......KIM CAMPBELL USAIRWAYS F/A PIT
Jackie Otto
August 30, 2003
My deepest sympathy to the family on your loss. From a long time co-worker of George Adams. May God Bless all of you. Jackie
Debra Fisher
August 30, 2003
While I never personally met your son , my girls did . They said he was the sweetest , nicest boy thaey ever met . My prayers and sympathies go out to you and all your family ........and mya God watch over all of you forever
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