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Tyler Adair Obituary
He was born Sept. 16, 1977, to Linda and Donald Adair, and welcomed home with great joy by his sisters, Danielle and Heather (Fay), and his brother, Justin. His father at heart, Pete Kertz-man, was always there for him, Cub Scouts, camping, planning special events for all of his birth-days, and celebrating the holidays.
He was loved by so many family and friends. He's survived by his parents, Pete and Linda Kertzman, of Morris; his siblings, Danielle, of Morris, his sister and brother-in-law, Heather and Tom Fay, of Hartwick, and his brother, Justin Adair, of Burlington, Vt., his stepbrother, Peter Kertzman, and his stepsister, Amy Valliere, of North Carolina. He will be so missed by his niece, Alex Edwards; and nephew, Ian Edwards of Gilbertsville, who were much more like his brother and sister, and by his wonderful niece and nephews, McKayla, T.J. and Connor Fay, of Hartwick. He is also survived by his uncles, Brian, Tom and Jeff Shampnois, of Connecticut, Vermont and Watkins Glen, respectively; and by his aunt, Peggy Tabor, of Connecticut; and his cousins, Sarah Shampnois, Lisa Lupa and Matthew Shampnois, of Connecticut; as well as his cousins, Faith and David Rice, of Maryland.
Tyler was in Vermont at the end of July with his brother and two sisters, to visit his grandpar-ents, Everett and Marianna Shampnois. It was the first time in years that all of the siblings had a chance to room together, swim and talk together. What a blessing!
His life will be honored with a gathering at the Morris Park at 1 p.m. Saturday, Aug. 12, 2006. This gathering will be for sharing all the moments of fun, pictures, stories and time that we were blessed with in these short 28 years with Tyler.
Tyler graduated from Morris Central School and spent his boyhood laughing, playing with all of his friends and skateboarding on the sidewalk in front of his house. He was a free spirit filled with energy and life and didn't worry too much about tomorrow! Carpe Diem!
Tyler worked at landscaping with Gifford's for most of the last 10 years. He loved the outdoors and the freedom of being out in the sun. And he loved snowboarding in the winter! Each season was a new adventure for him! He traveled with friends whenever he could! We love you Tyler, stay in the sun, don't grow old, be our Peter Pan forever.
This obituary was originally published in The Daily Star.
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hillary laduke
August 5, 2009
My ty-ty, it's 3 yrs later and i still miss you as though you left us yesterday. i still see your smile and hear your laugh when i close my eyes. this world is not the same without you and i love you.
love, hillary
Alex Edwards
May 3, 2009
Dear Tyler,
Though its been years, I dont want you to think that I dont still think of you everyday. If only you could see all of these entries. It amazes me that in almost every one of them, they mention your smile. I knew i wasnt the only one who noticed it, and i know exactly what they are trying to describe about it yet no one can put into words what it was like. Even shortly after you left us, I found it hard to put into words or describe YOU haha. I know i will never meet another person like you. And now that its been years, knowing you feels like a mere dream. Maybe because thats the only way ive seen u in soo long or maybe because time spent with you was amazing. I love you and i miss u soo much. All i can do is laugh though, because i know you woulda been soo happy to see how many people wrote to you on here! Love your neice Lex
Jesse O'Donnell
September 16, 2007
My thoughts are of you, an amazing person and great friend, on this day. Happy Birthday, Tyler Tyler!
Meredith Rowe
September 13, 2006
I'm So Sorry for your loss. My thoughts And prayers are with you. I've thought about all of you so much over the years. Got to go get the kids off to school. Please feel free to e-mail me when you recieve this. Again I'm Sorry for what happened Tyker was agreat person with many special talents
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Justin Adair
September 6, 2006
Hey Ty,
Whatup bro? You came to see me in a couple of my dreams recently and we did what we always did, sit around, talking, but most importantly, laughing. It's what I'll miss the most. I don't know how many hours we spent on the phone while you were away, but every moment was cherished. I need to tell you that this is a difficult thing for me to deal with. I crave a phone call, dude. Trying to get back into life has seemed like so much insanity. Don't leave my side, okay? You lived a successful life, sure it wasn't always easy, and I was there for most of it, but you touched me the same way that you touched everyone else. Sometimes it's hard to laugh because we have the same one, and I can hear you through it, but I wouldn't be without that reminder. I love the way you squeeze sunshine out of your eyes.
To all the people who have supported my family and our friends: Thank you. I'm not sure how to repay such a debt of gratitude as I have now. All I can say is that I will carry your spirit of support and love into all situations. You have deepened my compassion. Thank You
Stephanie Valk-Bresee
August 31, 2006
What a wonderful soul, with an amazing gift to bring a smile to your face....just by the twinkle in his eyes. I will never forget the summer we all spent together and my son could not say Tyler, so ever since he was known as Tiny, by my son Jude who loved playing with Tyler. I hadn't seen Tyler in awhile, until about 3 months ago our paths crossed...and he was that same sparkling spirit....To Tylers family I am so sorry for your loss...he is an irreplacible charming soul, always a boy at heart....and he will always be that boy in all of our hearts. I will miss your charm, my dear friend. Love and Blessings Steph
Bill Mason
August 20, 2006
Dear Family:
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. I hope that knowing our thoughts and prayers are with you at this terrible time can ease your pain somehow. Love,
Bill
amanda west
August 15, 2006
first of all, my deepest sympathy goes out to tyler's family and friends. it was very sad to hear about tyler's death. he was a wonderful and bright person. i knew tyler for 10 or 12 yrs. we weren't best friends and we didn't really keep in touch. but back in the day, we had some good times together!!! he was soooo funny. we both had the same kind of a sense of humor. it was always amusing if tyler was around. his smile and his spirit were amazing and he will live on in all of us that knew him. i am glad that i got a chance to see and chat with tyler last halloween. he got to meet my daughter, hanna, that was cute. i hadn't seen him in a couple yrs. before that... just like most people have written, that it didn't matter how long it was since you'd seen tyler, he'd always give you that big smile and a huge hug. joke around, make you smile. he was one of a kind, and will be missed. i am sorry for the loss. my thoughts and prayers are with everyone who knew Tyler Mathew Adair.love, amanda
Heather Purdy
August 14, 2006
My heart goes out to Tyler's family and friends. I recently saw Tyler back in Cooperstown about two months ago. I hadn't seen him in years and he gave me a big smile and asked how I was. He had such an infectious smile and will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Maria Spinelli
August 13, 2006
I loved Tyler deeply. Anyone who came in contact with him had to love him. (It was real easy to do after just one chuckle) He had the kindest heart and was an amazing man. I'm so thankful I had the chance to know him. I will miss him so much. My thoughts are with your family always, and thank you for sharing Tyler with all of us.
Lottie Hotaling
August 13, 2006
So many things were a part of Tyler's life; now he'll be a part of them. Look around you, Tyler is everywhere! We won't think of "only" 28 years, but of "Wow! 28 years".
Love from Lottie & Ray & the boys
Jesse Jacobsen
August 12, 2006
Tyler it's been a long time,you were like a brother to me.I'll always remember the times we had and the crazy things we did your forever in my heart and i miss you.Im sorry i never got a chance to see you and say goodbye,I love you bro....
Stephen and Rebekah Janitz
August 11, 2006
Heather and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. We can only imagine what deep sorrow is upon your hearts, have faith and keep his memory close to your hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Don and Cynda
August 11, 2006
Pete and Linda,
So sorry for your loss. We remember Tyler as a great young kid. It was nice to have your family as neighbors.
Winn Wolfe
August 11, 2006
I haven't seen Tyler in years but still remember the good times and the way he always got others to smile. My thoughts are with you.
Joey Wilms
August 11, 2006
You think you have all the time in the world to catch up with a person, I remember so many nights skating and having such a good time with Tyler. We had our fights through the years but I will always remember the Tyler with the shaggy hair and a skateboard under his arm! Until we meet again! You will be missed!
Deana Tracy
August 10, 2006
My deepest sympathy for all of Tyler's loved ones. I always found Tyler's smile to be contagious. It will be missed, but not forgotten. Everytime I ran into Tyler I could count on reminiscing about our third grade square dance extravaganza. It always made us chuckle. May all of us take great gladness in our memories and times shared with Tyler.
Keona Crawford
August 10, 2006
No matter where you would see him and how long it would have been. Tyler always opened his arms and would give you a big hug with that smile on his face that said a thousand words. Sorry for you Loss.
Lynn "Ivy" Cook
August 10, 2006
Tyler-It's been a very long time. I don't know what to say...you were my first love. We had our good times, great times, and bad times. You put up a lot from me and I can't thank you enough for being there. You were the only one I leaned on for a long time, I know it was difficult at times but you always made it seem so simple. You have always been in my heart and you will remain there. We shared many memeories that I could never forget. I remember your great laugh and loving touch. I know you are going to be missed by all who knew you. My heart goes out to your family and close friends. I will give Remi-Martin (as you named him) a big hug and kiss for you. I hate to say good-bye, it seems so final, so until next time...
Kevin Matson
August 10, 2006
To the family and friends of Tyler my deepest sympathy and love goes out to all of you. Tyler, you are missed so much already my friend. I keep going back to all the times we went fishing together growing up over the years, and the night we camped out behind my parents house and swore we saw a UFO. We went running back to the house sreaming because we were certain we were going to be beamed up. Endless hours skateboarding, and countless nights just hanging out with everyone. You have touched so many lives in such a short time. I pray for you and everybody in this tragic time.
Lacey DeMorier White
August 10, 2006
Some of my favorite memories of Morris include Tyler. There is no doubt that he will be truly missed. My sympathy for all of us who loved him.
chris & eve worden
August 10, 2006
Even though so very far apart our prays and blessings are always with you. We are so sorry for your loss. Tyler will be missed by all who were blessed to have known him. God-Bless.
Cindy (Bardin/Rock)Webber
August 10, 2006
To All of You, I'm very sorry to hear about Tyler. It's been years since I've seen him. I'll always think of him as a little boy. I know how hard this time is going to be as I am also going through the same thing. When you are not ready for this kind of thing, it hits harder I think. My love and prayers go out to each and every one of you.God Bless You All
marie goodier
August 9, 2006
I am so sorry for the families loss. I went to school with Danielle and remember Tyler as this cute little boy. Its been many years, Danielle but I am here anytime you want to talk.
Jessica Joy
August 9, 2006
Tyler had a smile I will never forget. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. There's a special bond that comes with being a part of a small community like Morris, and we feel the loss together even when we do not see each other often. God bless you Tyler.
Teresa DeLaurentiis
August 9, 2006
To the Adair Family, I saw Tyler not more than a month ago. I hadn't seen him in some time, but right away memories from all the way back to Mrs. Torrey's first grade class came back to me. It was just so nice to see him - and I remember thinking after we visited that day that he was such a neat person - always a fun kid to be around when we were growing up. I'm always thinking of Tyler and Justin when I walk by or drive by your home here in Morris. I'm glad I had the opportunity to see him that day, even if it was brief, and I now offer my most sincere condolences to you. I look back and know that I am blessed to have had Tyler as a childhood friend who brought me so many smiles.
Jacob Lopilato
August 9, 2006
I just met Tyler this summer, but he made a huge impression on me from the moment i met him. quick to smile, laugh, and make others feel welcome and comfortable. his wit and sarcastic jokes were in line with my own and maybe that's why we hit it off so well. i had just been with him the day before, the call the next day was a shock that is still setting in. we all miss you more than words can ever express. i regret that we didn't get to spend more time together, as i'm sure we would have become closer friends. my condolences to his family and friends.
Nicole Mizener
August 9, 2006
Tyler, you've made such an impact on my life in such a short amount of time. I can't explain what a great person and friend you were to so many people. I know how much you loved my truck; and still I never would let you drive it. I guess I was afraid you would be able to burn rubber better than me.. ofcourse you would have! I love the fact that you let only me borrow your FAVORITE movies. I'll never forget our BIG breakfast and all the food we stuffed our selfs with. I'll miss our BBQ's they'll never be the same without you! Your loved and will be missed very very much. All my love and strength to his parents and the love of his life, lacy.
Kim Whitehead
August 9, 2006
Although I wasn't a close friend of Tyler's, I was a classmate and remember him as being pleasant and always having a smile. It's hard to remember a day growing up when you didn't see Tyler skateboarding somewhere in Morris. He was always seemed to be having fun and enjoying life. I'm sorry for the loss. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Grace Sinstack
August 9, 2006
I feel so much sorrow for Tyler's family and friends. Tyler was such a happy, carefree person! His laughter and smile will be missed. Look into the night sky and find the brightest star and think of Tyler. He will be there.
Andy Guerriero
August 9, 2006
My condolences to the entire Adair Family at this time of loss. I am warmed by the many fond memories of fun times spent with Tyler. He will be missed.
Mark Pecor
August 9, 2006
Danielle, My thoughts go out to you,Alex and Ian. I will always remember the talks, laughs and crys we had. If you ever need to talk, please give me a call.Tyler was one of a kind, and good listener. He sure did stick by you in all you and him went through in Virginia. He always made sure you were okay and made sure Alex and Ian were doing the right thing. I know God is watching him and asking him to be one of the ones who helps to take care of everyone else up there because he was so very thoughtfull.
Pat Dugan
August 9, 2006
Linda and Pete, my heart goes out to you both, along with your entire family. I haven't seen Tyler in quite some time, so the pictures in my head are of a boy with a huge, beautiful smile, dancing eyes and ready for anything.
casady gifford
August 8, 2006
tyler adair you are my brother
09/16/1977-08/05/2006
yue are in my heart
Jesse phillips
August 8, 2006
I was very saddened to hear of Tyler's passing. He was such a good person. We seemed to understand each other's humor. Especially when it came to picking on Casady. I'll always miss those moments. Tyler was such a polite man and I always enjoyed running into him. I just saw him on the Blues Train 3 weeks ago watching Moon Boot Lover. What a good time. It had been months since we had seen each other, but Tyler never cared how long it had been. He was always happy to see you. That's what I'll miss. I enjoyed the times I spent with him, from car shows to concerts, to sitting on many porches laughing about life. Tyler had a very positive energy and was truly one of a kind. Thank you for the moments we shared. You'll always be in our hearts. Dillon Bott, Geoff Turner. and Tyler Adair, Take care of each other. Bye for now...
Erika Galemore (Turner)
August 8, 2006
My deepest sympthathies to Tyler's family and friends. I did not know Tyler very well but when I did cross his path he was always very kind. I recently lost my brother, Geoff Turner, and I know the pain you are feeling. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jesse O'Donnell
August 8, 2006
My deepest sympathy goes out to Tyler's family and friends.
Tyler was a great friend and awesome person.
I'll miss you, Tyler.
Tyler in the Summer of 1996.
August 8, 2006
Sarah Fraser
August 8, 2006
Tyler, I haven't seen you for a long time, but I miss you, and I'm so sorry. Love and much sympathy to your family. I miss you, my friend!!!! I'll never forget you, you will be in my heart forever!! Love always,Sarah
Brittany Burr
August 8, 2006
I hadn't seen Tyler in a while, but he was a great guy. It is very sad to know that we will not see that smile one more time. He will be missed so much. My sympathy goes out to all of his family and friends.
jennifer menard
August 8, 2006
There was a group of us that hung out at Tylers house. It was Mathia myself Justin and a hole lot of others. We all kinda grew up on that front porch it was a great spot. He was a great friend and always knew how to make me laugh. I will never forget ty and what fun we all had growing up togather. I send my love to his family.
Jim & Karen Cahill
August 8, 2006
Linda, Pete and Family, Our hearts, love and sympathy are with you. And yes, I can see him being your Peter Pan with that wonderful smile and way about him that we will all always remember! In our thoughts and prayers, Karen & Jim Cahill
Rusty Way
August 8, 2006
Linda and Pete my thoughts and prayers are with you both. Cann't make it on the 12th have to be in Kingston, will see Pete at work.
Rebecca Barringer(Joy)
August 8, 2006
Although it had been quite some time since I had seen Tyler, I can still remember his smile and sense of humor. He could always make a joke to make you laugh. My thoughts and sympathy go out to his family.
Becky
Jennifer Wilms
August 8, 2006
I had the pleasure of meeting Tyler on one of my first dates with a friend of his Joe Wilms, he made a huge fuss over the fact that my ear ring was crooked and asked if he could fix it because it was driving him nuts, he cracked me up that night! I encountered him many more times through the years hanging out with Teri and Fran and other mutual aquaintances. I was shocked to hear the news as you never think about this happening to someone you know, To Tyler's family I am deeply sorry for the loss of a great guy, son, brother, uncle etc...He will live on through you and in the hearts of his friends forever!
Sincerely,
Jennifer Wilms
Judy Dougherty
August 8, 2006
Tyler was a great person. He always had a smile and kind words for everyone who knew him. I was lucky enough to get to know him. I hope you know that I will hold your family in my thoughts and prayers at this time of loss.
Kristen Rowe
August 8, 2006
Although I haven't seen Tyler in quite some time, I can't help but remember that he had this charisma that I have never seen in anyone else. MY sympathy & love goes out to the friends & family of Tyler.
Tyler, you will forever be in my heart.
Frances Wiedeman
August 8, 2006
I've known Tyler for 10 years. I also had the pleasure of living with him. His bright eyes and beautiful smile were always the highlight of my mornings. Tyler treated me with respect, and always expressed care and love for his friends. He had an amazing sense of humor, and a very kind heart. He was a great friend, and will be deeply missed.
Angelina Vergari
August 8, 2006
you will be missed and loved...
Teri-ann Baker
August 8, 2006
Tyler,
Words can't even describe what you mean to me! You will always be part of me. So much of who I am today is because of you. You made me become a stronger person than I ever thought I could be. I had to be to put up with your crap all the time! We've been through sooo much together. I just wish I had one more time to see you, I miss you terribly already. I 'm sitting here looking at a picture of you with those Hulk gloves we had. Remember when I tried to tackle you with them, & fell right over you & put a huge whole in the wall with my head! Gosh that hurt the next morning! You are the big brother I never had. You will always be my Will, & I'll always be your Grace.
And a quote from our favorite song! Ha, I drove you crazy with this song, " I'm a lonely painter, I live in a box of paint!
Your in my blood like holy wine, you taste so bitter, bitter but so sweet, Oh I could drink a case of you, my darlin. And still I'd be on my feet, Oh I would still be on my feet."
Sort of ironic now that I read it, It seems to fit perfectly!
I'm sure we'll find each other some day again, we always wound up together!
My family's thought & prayer's are with you & your family.
I love you Tyler!!!
Good bye for now
Love always & forever,
Teri,Rob,Briegha, Daisy(Muffers)&?
Christine Baker
August 8, 2006
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal" His free spirit and warm smile will be missed by everyone.
I will love and miss you forever.
Jamie Maerz
August 8, 2006
To the Adair family, my deepest sympathy for your loss. I don’t think that any of us will ever understand why Tyler was taken from us so soon, but I will always remember his smile and the good times that we shared. It has been about a year since the last time that I got to see him; I guess that is what happens when life takes people down different roads. But no matter how much time passed, Ty always welcomed me back to Upstate New York with a big hug. He had one of the biggest hearts and tried every day to have a life that was a culmination of exquisite moments. We should remember that always and learn from him.
Mike Johnson
August 8, 2006
Linda and family, I am so sorry for your loss.Growing up with Tyler, I have many great memories that will last forever. All of the times we rode bikes, skateboards, went for a swim or just had a good laugh, I will never forget. Keep smiling Tyler.
Victoria Hurlburt-Reiss
August 8, 2006
Tyler will be missed by everyone who ever had the honour and pleasure to have known him. He will not be forgotten. My condolences to the Friends and Family of Tyler.
Joel Denza
August 8, 2006
This is a terrible loss, my heart goes out to your family. Tyler will be missed.
Paula Smith
August 8, 2006
To my dear friend Linda & her family:
Words cannot ease the pain you must feel. Please know that I am here for you and you are all in my prayers.
Love & Hugs to you all.
Paula Smith
Brion & Wanda Wilson
August 8, 2006
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of a dear one. We only met Tyler a little while ago here in Virginia and he brought joy and many laughs to our house. We will remember him in our hearts.
Cat
August 8, 2006
We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of grief. Tyler will be missed. May your memories bring you comfort.
Lorraine & Steve McGahan
August 8, 2006
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time of pain. Know that Tyler is at peace, and is forever yours. Keep the memories going....With Love....
Teri-Ann Baker
August 8, 2006
Tyler,
Words can't even begin to describe what you mean to me. You will always be part of me. So much of who I am today is because of you. You made me become a stronger person than I ever thought I could be. I had to be to put up with your crap all the time! We've been through sooo much together. I just wish I had one more time to see you, I miss you terribly already. I 'm sitting here looking at a picture of you with those Hulk gloves we had. Remember when I tried to tackle you with them, & fell right over you & put a huge whole in the wall with my head! Gosh that hurt the next morning! You are the big brother I never had. You will always be my Will, & I'll always be your Grace.
And a quote from our favorite song! Ha, I drove you crazy with this song, " I'm a lonely painter, I live in a box of paint!
Your in my blood like holy wine, you taste so bitter, bitter but so sweet, Oh I could drink a case of you, my darlin. And still I'd be on my feet, Oh I would still be on my feet."
Sort of ironic now that I read it, It seems to fit perfectly!
I wanna wake up tomorrow & hope this is all a dream but I know its not gonna be.
I'm sure we'll find each other some day again, we always wound up together!
I love you Tyler!!!
Good bye for now.
You will always be with us,
Teri,Rob,Briegha,Daisy(Muffers), &?
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