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Vaughn Chester Wilhite
1959 - 2017
Vaughn Chester Wilhite
1959 - 2017
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Vaughn Wilhite Obituary
Born: August 26, 1959
Died: November 8, 2017
Vaughn Chester Wilhite, on August 26, 1959, was born to Chester Ray Wilhite and Donna (Doram) Wilhite in Lancaster, Kentucky. He was the second of four children. Vaughn's education began in Inkster, Michigan at Peterson-Warren Academy first through twelfth grade. During these years, Vaughn was active both in school and in church, in various activities which included serving in Sabbath school, pathfinders and other church youth groups. He was very athletic, gifted in basketball, football and golf. Vaughn received his BSN from Andrews University in Berrien Springs, Michigan.
After graduating from college, Vaughn served his country by joining the Armed forces. He was honorably discharged from the United States Air Force as a Captain and the United States Army as a Major. Vaughn received numerous medals and awards during active duty, as a Mental Health Nurse Specialist, Air Force achievement medal with one OLC, Air Force Longevity Service Award, Air Force Training Ribbon, National Defense Service Medal, and the Air Force Outstanding Unit Award, Army he received Army Commendation medal, Army Superior Unit award, Army Good Conduct Medal, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal. Vaughn was also awarded the Community award for saving someone's life while off duty.
Vaughn is preceded in sleep by his father, Chester Ray Wilhite, Sr.
He leaves to celebrate his memory his mother, Donna Wilhite; loving and devoted wife, Paris; his beloved daughters, Ashley Wilhite, India Wilhite, and Alannah Wilhite; and son, Ezra Brown; three step-children, Sir Joseph Tucker (Erica), Valencia Tucker, Victoria Smith (Reggie); his grandchildren, Olivia, Faith, Reggie; his brother, Col Dwayne Wilhite, Sr. (Diana); his sisters, Leslie Hightower, Freda Thurman (Joseph); numerous nieces/nephews, cousins and great nieces/nephews and a host of many other beloved family members and friends.
Visitation will be held on Monday, November 13, 2017 from 4:00 to 6:00 PM at the funeral home and Tuesday, November 14, 2017 10:00 to 11:00 AM at Seventh-Day Adventist Church, 21514 Division St., Lockport, IL. Service at 11:00 AM, Pastor Adrian Amarandei, officiating. Interment following at Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery, Elwood, IL.
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Roy Sadler
November 19, 2017
My most sincere condolences to the Wilhite family. Vaughn was a kind compassionate man. I remember many evenings at the Johnson Gym at AU watching him play basketball. For being such a gentleman, he was quite the terror on the court, just as his sisters were also. May God's grace and strength be with the family during this difficult time.
Larry Burrs Jr
November 18, 2017
I am so deeply troubled to hear about Vaughn's passing. He was a positive, uplifting presence while living in the DC area. The most humblest condolences to the entire family, words cannot express the sadness for your loss. We look forward to the day when this kind of pain and frustration will be no more. Come quickly LORD Jesus.
November 17, 2017
My deepest sympathy to the Vaugh Wilhite family. The Lord will put his arms around the family until that great reunion. Graton & Linda Burley
Sharen Justice
November 17, 2017
Praying peace for Major Wilhite's family. He was a great mental health nurse at Andrews.
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Corey Allen
November 16, 2017
My heart aches that you are no longer with us..But at least you are no longer in pain..Thank you so much for being the wonderful person you were Uncle Vaughn..I am definitely already missing you..I love you.
Corey Allen
November 16, 2017
No part of me wants to accept that you are really gone Uncle Vaughn...I love you so much..I really hope you knew that.I am hurting so much inside..But I am so grateful for your life that you did lead..Thank you so much for being someone I could look up to and pattern my life after..You have helped me in so many ways.I will always remember your quick whit.Your humor..The stories you told..What people don't know about you is that you were a wonderful artist who could draw anything in detail anything..I will always remember playing basketball with you and against you..The Rook games at the house..Spending time with you and Aunt Annette when Ashley and India were little when you all lived in Highlands in Upstate Newyork.I also remember you and Uncle Tim playing basketball at your house I'm the driveway I'm one of the most intense basketball games I have ever witnessed..I truly love you and losing you honestly hurts..Hopefully we will see each other one day again...May you Rest in peace Uncle Vaughn.
Marie Trail
November 16, 2017
I thank God for your life and knowing your kindness. My prayers to the family who loves you and will miss you, as I will also.
David Jackson
November 16, 2017
I will miss my lil cousin! My condolences to Paris, Aunt Donna and the rest of the family.
Maritza Carvajal
November 14, 2017
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Nicole Duncan
November 14, 2017
I am so sorry for your lose Paris and family. He was a great man .
Gloria (Jones) Brooks
November 14, 2017
May the love and support of your family and friends sustain you during this difficult time. Vaughn was a special young man whom I remember fondly during our youthful days in Detroit. I look forward to rejoicing with Vaughn and all those who are missed on this earth when we all get to heaven on that glorious day!
Chris Hudson
November 13, 2017
Vaughn, it was an honor serving with you at Andrews AFB, MD. You always had a smile and enthusiasm that will be missed! May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Ertha Bramwell
November 13, 2017
Sleep in peace my brother. See you in that great getting up morning. My condolences to the family.
Geraldine Gant
November 13, 2017
You will be missed but never forgotten.
Melanie Maycock
November 13, 2017
Vaughn was a gentleman from a family of christian men and women. Always kind, always smiling and gentle.
It will not be long till we shall see Him in whom our hopes of eternal life are centered. And in His presence, all the trials and sufferings of this life will be as nothingness. . . . For yet a little while, and He that shall come will come, and will not tarry
November 13, 2017
You might not ever soar as high without him...with Jesus, you can go the distance..
November 12, 2017
Dear Vaughn,
My brother my friend, hearing of your transitioning on to be with the Lord is truly heartbreaking. You have always been and will always be my brother. My sincere condolences to your wife and family.
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