Vicki ETTLINGER

1945 - 2017

Vicki ETTLINGER obituary, 1945-2017, Jacksonville, FL

Vicki ETTLINGER

1945 - 2017

BORN

1945

DIED

2017

Vicki ETTLINGER Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 11, 2017.
ETTLINGER Vicki Sugar E. S. Ettlinger Victoria Vicki Elizabeth Stone Ettlinger was born September 6, 1945, during a mandatory lights out along the Jacksonville Beach coast, as World War II, raged, to avoid being spotted by enemy submarines. She spent her first months swaddled in a drawer pulled from her mother's dresser as her father served his country overseas. After an adventurous and full life, she went home to be with her Lord and Savior on Friday, February 3, 2017. Vicki, known as Sugar to all, never met a stranger throughout her entire life. She was brought into this world to make all around her smile, and her mission of spreading joy never waned. After college, Vicki worked for her family business, McMillan Bedding Company, where she served in sales and public relations, appearing frequently in television ads. She went on to develop and patent Mattress Magnets. Vicki's life was peppered with larger than life experiences from riding in a pace car at the opening of the Indy 500, performing on stage at a Broadway show, her life changing trip to Karlovy Vary or swimming with the dolphins at Atlantis. Bowling at Jax Lanes, dancing, dining, sharing stories and making all those around her laugh, especially her Art, was her passion. Vicki loved her family and friends, making all those around her feel accepted, loved and valued. She loved attending her grandchildren's sporting and academic events, as well as, grandparent's day, for over twenty years at The Bolles School. She enjoyed warm laughter, heartfelt hugs, playing card games and taking immaculate care of her beloved puppies: Bridgette, Beignet, Bijan, Barkley Cole and Cocoa. No room will ever be quite as bright and she truly leaves the world better for having been here. She was predeceased by her parents, Vester C. Dedaddy and Bishop Nina Nonnie Stone; her brother, James Naurice Jimmy Stone; her dear friend and first husband, Dr. Clark V. Hoshall Jr.; and her son in law, Charles Haimowitz. She is survived by her loving husband of thirty years, Arthur Ettlinger, devoted father and grandfather; her six children to include her precious daughters, Paige Hakimian (Benjamin S. Hakimian) Ellen Haimowitz, Lynne Blow (Carl Blow) Grace Blackwell (Mark Blackwell) and her two beloved sons, Bill Ettlinger (Rebecca Ettlinger) and Clark V Hoshall III Dax( Beshka Hoshall). She is also survived by her eight grandchildren: Blair, Haley, Blake, Hunter, Brighton, and Hollin Hakimian (Paige and Ben); Bryan Blackwell (Grace and Mark); and Eva (Bill and Rebecca). A memorial service will be held at 3pm on Sunday, February 12 at All Saints Episcopal Church, 4171 Hendricks Ave, 32207. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to: ASPCA c/o Hakimian Holdings 7077 Bonneval Rd Suite 400 Jacksonville, FL 32216 Words of comfort can be left at www.HardageGiddensOaklawnChapel.com. Hardage-Giddens, The Oaklawn Chapel, 4801 San Jose Boulevard, is serving the family.

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March 7, 2017

BOB BRANN posted to the memorial.

February 13, 2017

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February 12, 2017

Lisa Spinner posted to the memorial.

BOB BRANN

March 7, 2017

VICKI, I AM GOING TO MISS YOU TERRIBLY. WE HAD SOME REALLY GOOD TIMES AT LANDON. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN YOUR LOVING PARENTS ARMS AT THIS TIME. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND SO DO I. BOB BRANN

February 13, 2017

Artie and family,
Our thoughts are with you. Such good memories
from years ago.
Sincerely,
The Starr brothers

Lisa Spinner

February 12, 2017

To Art, Paige Dax, and the entire family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this time of loss. I am so grateful for the time that Aunt Vicki and I had over 40 years. The Alaska trip unforgettable. Mom called Vicki Bright Lights because she was a shining star in everyone's life. She was truly a blessing to all of us and sent straight from heaven above. Mom, Jeff, and I loved her very much and will miss her deeply. She has left a void in all of us but we all know that she is in a much better place free of pain and running with her dogs and dancing to her beach bop. We look forward to being re-united with her again someday. My prayers are with you.

Carolyn Bridges

February 12, 2017

So very sad prayers for you sweet Page. Much love Carolyn

Carolyn Wyckoff, Davis, Bridges

February 12, 2017

Page, Joy text me today about your Mothers death. I don't get the paper. So very very sad your Mother an I were very close at on time. When you My Chris an Jennifer were growing up at Baymeadows apts. also that was when Dax was born an another memorie was your Dad piericed my ears in your kitchen Your mother and I went to see Faye Lane in her last days. Also saw her often when Joy was in town and Amat Connies getting hair done. Have been very sad all day page. I know you will truly miss her. You gave her much pleasure with all of her gandchildren. Loved being at your wedding in Arlington. Also I mis Bamba, Bishop and Vic. God bless you and family keep the faith. Much love Carolyn

Sharon Seidel

February 12, 2017

Vicki will be so missed, she always made me laugh. She was fun to be around and to bowl in tournaments years ago at Plaza. My prayers are with all her family at this time.

Glenda Hawkins

February 12, 2017

Finally at peace & no pain! You have family & friends waiting for you & I bet Pat is right there waiting for her buddy. Thank you my friend for so many memories to keep us going forever. Like the great Gershwin song I know you will be watching over all of us. Miss you already!! So grateful you are at peace. Love you, Ginkie

Laura Phillips

February 12, 2017

Paige, you and your family are in my prayers at this very difficult time! May the Lord provide you all peace and comfort!

Favorite pic! Joy!!

Paige Hakimian

February 11, 2017

My favorite picture.

Paige Hakimian

February 11, 2017

Making friends, always.

Paige Hakimian

February 11, 2017

With her love, Art.❤

Paige Hakimian

February 11, 2017

Her love, Art. ❤

February 11, 2017

Making friends, always!

February 11, 2017

Debbie Driggers

February 11, 2017

Paige, I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your mother. Prayers for you and your family at this most difficult time.

Mashid Fatemi

February 11, 2017

Dear Paige and family, we are sadden to hear about the loss of your beloved mother. We pray for your family during these hard times.
May God bless her soul and give you the patience to endure this pain.
The Fatemi family

Paige Hakimian

February 11, 2017

Christmas shenanigans! ❤

February 11, 2017

Fun times

February 11, 2017

Dressed for every occasion! Ole'!

February 11, 2017

Family yoga

February 11, 2017

Best day! ❤

February 11, 2017

Family vacation in Atlantis

February 11, 2017

Beautiful mom modeling at Epping

February 11, 2017

Linda Uible

February 11, 2017

To Vicki's family.
I have fond memories of Vicki from years and years back. School years and memories of her with her parents, Vic and Bishop Stone at San Jose Country Club. I always enjoyed visiting and catching up with her. A fun lady and I know she will be missed.
Sincerely,
Linda Appleby Uible
Jackonville, Florida 32207

Skipp Titus

February 11, 2017

Dear Art and family,
I am saddened to hear about your loss. Keep your memories close to your heart.
Maybe Sugar is riding around the heavens in a '54 Corvette.
Loving prayers,
Skipp Augster Titus

Kim and Mark DANCER

February 11, 2017

Vicki always took the time to say hi and have a chat with us. We always admired her spunk and outgoing nature and respected her. She will be missed dearly and remembered fondly.

Joy Spinner Foster

February 11, 2017

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

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