Add a Memory
Send Flowers
Make a Donation
Obituary
Guest Book
Nascar, reading, camping, boating and golfing were some of Vincent's favorite activities. Above all, spending time with family and friends was most important to him. He was gifted with his hands and truly enjoyed helping anyone with various projects.
Surviving Vincent are his parents, Joe (Beth) Pugliese and Marlene (Maynard) Abbott; sisters, Julie (Donald) Wichern and Renee (Jason) Klingelsmith; nieces and nephews, Tyler and Megan Klingelsmith, Hannah Wichern, Andy (Danielle) Wichern and Jeffery (Amy) Wichern; great-nephew, Reef Wichern; and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
Vincent was preceded in death by his paternal and maternal grandparents; uncle, Andy; and aunts, Catherine and Jenny.
Visitation for Vincent will take place on Tuesday, July 21, 2009, from 5 to 8 p.m., at The Reynolds-Jonkhoff Funeral Home. A memorial service will be held Wednesday, July 22, at 6 p.m., with visitation from 4 to 6 p.m., also at the funeral home.
Memorial contributions may be directed to Vincent's family for a charity of their choice.
Please share memories with the family on Vincent's online guest book at www.reynolds-jonkhoff.com.
The family is being served by the Reynolds-Jonkhoff Funeral Home, Traverse City.
This obituary was originally published in the Record-Eagle.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Kimmy Stamp
July 30, 2009
I will always love and miss Vince very much. When he was taken it left a huge empty space in my heart. Here is the poem that I read at the funeral.
They keep saying" Sorry for your loss"
but I wish they'd just keep still.
each time I hear those words, it brings back pain I'm trying not to feel
I know you've earned your just reward
and you have seen your makers face
and I know that you're more than better off in that blessed place
and I know that you walk streets of gold with angels by your side
but I wonder if those angels know
just how much we've cried?
So please forgive our selfish tears
and the pain that's in our hearts
for while you walk with angels
we have all lost ours.
I wish that I had found Vince sooner. But it wasn't meant to be.. We need more good people like him.
love you all and share your loss
love Kimmy
.
Karen Merrill
July 26, 2009
Vince, I didnt know you long, but I loved you like a son. You are a very special guy and will be missed!
Cheryl Nunn-Taylor
July 25, 2009
I went to school with Vince and he was the nicest person! I can't believe he is gone. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. I am so sorry for your loss.
Pat &Joe Mastropieri
July 24, 2009
Dear Marlene, Joe,Renee ,and Julie.I was so sorry to hear via Bev Goetz that Vincent had passed.No words can describe the pain and sorrow you must be feeling.
I send to you all my deepest sympathy.He will live on in your memories and you will see him again some day in heaven where there will be no more sorrow or pain.
Donate in Memory
Make a donation in memory of your loved one.
Add photos
Share their life with photo memories.
Plant trees
Honor them by planting trees in their memory.
Follow this page
Get email updates whenever changes are made.
Send flowers
Consider sending flowers.
Share this page
Invite other friends and family to visit the page.
Todd Higgins
July 23, 2009
I can not say how sorry I am to Renee Julie Marlene Joe. It seems like yesterday we were all kids haveing a good time.I know its been about 24 years since I had seen all of you but I remember the good times I spent with Vince. He was good person I am sure he will missed very much. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.Love ya all Todd Higgins
Kathy (Higgins) Hosto
July 23, 2009
Joe, Marlene, Julie and Renee
I just learned of the passing of Vince and am so sorry. Vince was one of the 1st people I met when we moved to Traverse City many years ago. He was very special and I have alot of great memories of that time. In looking at his pictures he still looks like the Vince I remember. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.
eileen heck
July 22, 2009
Your family is in my prayers. So sorry for your loss.
July 22, 2009
WE will miss the happy and postive way
Vincent made us feel when we were around him. I never heard him say one bad thing about anyone. We will miss talking and joking with him. He was truly a good guy
Ken & Mary Murray
Tom Cizek
July 22, 2009
Joe, Marlene, Julie, Renee and extended family. Expressing my condolences doesn't seem enough for the loss you must feel. Since I read about Vince's passing I have reflected on our time together growing up on Oakridge Drive. Vince was a great friend who sincerely wanted to help and be a part of others lives. You should know that many times Vince's name is brought up in conversation as I reflect on high school, snowmobiles, football, water skiing, golf and the many good times we had together. Vince was an original and I sincerely regret losing touch with him as we both grew up. He will always be a part of who I am and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Pink
July 22, 2009
My sympathy to the Pugliese family. A vivacious character is how I'd describe Vincent. So full of energy and good times, he is totally going to be missed. Know that Almighty God cares and knows what you're going through. He invites you to throw your anxiety(burdens,problems,pain)upon Him.-1Peter5:7 He cares for you and so does your many friends and family too.
Sherry McIntyre
July 22, 2009
We only had a little over a week, but with that YOU STOLE my heart forever!!!
Sure wish I wouldof had a pocket size version of you to carry with me all the time!
Soft and Gentle and so caring and sweet! I couldn't of asked for anything better!
I sure was looking forward to November!! Just a few short months away and we could of had the Brady Bunch WELL ok kind of!!! ;-)
Sure am going to miss you!!
With a sad heart I will say someday we can finish our plan!!!
I love you Vince
Grant Fitz
July 22, 2009
It is very sad to hear of Vince's sudden passing. My condolences go to the entire family. I had not seen Vince since high school, where we played football together. He was always such a nice person with a great sense of humour.
carey carlson
July 21, 2009
A heart like Vinnies collects people at every turn. It was a short period of time filled with some great memories and fun times. His smile is a trait many have commented on and one we all will miss. My heart goes out to all his family and friends.
Peace,
Carey Carlson
I wish I could find that photo from the Keith Urban concert...
jano plantrich
July 21, 2009
Dear Vince's Family and Friends,
I want to share with you some of my thoughts during this time of sadness on the passing of our beloved Vince. Words cannot express the loss I feel, but I wanted to tell you how often Vince expressed his feelings for his family and how he loved you all so very much.
Marlene, you are the living example of everything a Mother should be to her children and Vince thought the world of you. I will always remember him laughing out loud when he found out you got a tattoo on your trip out in AZ. You obviously had a very powerful influence on his life and in many ways the wonderful man that he was is a reflection of the love that you gave to him.
I know how much that Vince loved his sisters Julie and Renee. He was so proud to say you were his sisters, and he thought that you both were beautiful women. Vince idolized your husband's for what they stood for in their family beliefs and absolutely adored your children Tyler, Megan and Hanna.
Vince was so capable in everything he did and was always willing to give of himself to help his family and friends. I believe that so much of Vince's abilities were passed down from his father Joe, who he loved.
If you were to somehow try to express the idea of a best friend in a single word, for Vince it would have been "Scotty". You were such a huge part of his world and friendship is the greatest gift that anyone can share with those that we care for.
I love this quote, and hope you find comfort in it, as I have.
"As long as we can love each other, and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on--in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here...
I have been blessed to have known Vince in my life and in turn, to have had the opportunity to share part of my life with all of you...he loved you all so much.
Vince, you will always be with us, your memory is in all our hearts.
jano
Betty Myers-McGlynn
July 21, 2009
I was deeply saddened to hear of Vince's sudden passing. Although I had not seen Vince in many years, I will always remember him fondly. My condolences to his family.
Sheila (Antol) Mosley
July 21, 2009
Vince was the nicest guy around. He had a smile that usually brought out the best in everyone! His kindness and generosity to so many people will certainly be missed. I remember Oh so many days growing up in the 'hood' with Vince, Julie and Renee. And, throughout the years at Cherry Festival running into Vince along the way. He always was such a friendly guy. My heart goes out to all of you. Julie and Renee, I'm so sad for the loss of your brother. You were all so close. What a great family! What a great loss. Joe and Marlene, I can't even imagine the hole you have in your heart right now--losing this precious gift that God had given you 48 years ago. God took him back! He's not supposed to do that! He must have needed this 'special charm' up in Heaven. You certainly raised a wonderful son. May the kind words and support you receive from your friends and family guide you through these difficult days. My heart aches for all of you who were fortunate to know Vince. May you find peace in knowing God's Plan is not always our plan and that one day we will all be together again in paradise.
July 21, 2009
Julie,Marlene,Renee and Joe,
I am so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of Vince, May you find peace amidst your family and friends during this tremendously difficult time.
God Bless,
Marny (Costa) Mellinger
Stacy Roney-Benson
July 21, 2009
So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to your family.
Karen P Brad H
July 21, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. We went to school with Vince, he was such a kind & very funny guy, many laughs with vince, your all in our prayers.
July 21, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with all the family. He will be greatly missed by all the staff at the Sail Inn. I will never forget his wonderful smile that would light up a room. Mindy
KAREN & BRAD
July 21, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
July 21, 2009
Pugsley,
I hadn't seen you in ages, but will never forget high school and after being friends.
My heart goes out to your family in a time like this.May God bless them.
Vicki
Linda Snow
July 21, 2009
Vinnie was so unique. A person that can't be replaced for so many reasons in my family's life. He was Scott's right hand and the man that watched over me and the kid's when Scott was away. You were family to us. There's a hole in our hearts full of disbelief and pain. We love you so much Vinnie and I will miss hearing you say "Hello Linny, how're you doin' darlin'" when you walked into our home. You will be forever missed "darlin".
July 21, 2009
Vince, we will miss you! You have been an amazing friend to our family. The kids will miss dancing and wrestling with their "Uncle Vinny." To your family, you are in our prayers.
The Stoerkel's
Jerry, Tammy, Brady and Olivia
Michelle and Jeff Krumm
July 21, 2009
Vinnie, it’s still so hard to believe. We keep waiting for your truck to pull up the drive. We certainly had our share of fun; our crew won’t be the same without you. You will be greatly missed but that fun-mischievous laugh of yours will forever be in our hearts. We love you.
To the Pugliese family our deepest condolences-
Kelli (Penrod) Johnson
July 21, 2009
My sincerest condolences to the Pugliese family. Vince was a very kind and gentle man... would never harm a flea. So sad to know he has passed.
July 21, 2009
Vince,I really enjoyed knowing you and being apart of your life. You always had that cute inocent smile. Your dad and I will miss you so much. You are his son and there will always be a spot in his heart that no one cane fill but you. I love you Vince, You should feel so proud to know all the ways you have touched everyone's life.
Stepmom Beth
Jamie Schichtel
July 20, 2009
I am so sorry to hear about the sudden loss of Vince. I first met him when I was employed at Saxton/McCumby Builders and I learned many siding tricks from him during that time. My condolences to the family. He will be missed.
July 20, 2009
Uncle Joe, Aunt Marlene, Julie & Renee
I am so sorry to hear about Vince. I'll always have fond memories of visiting you all in T.C. when I was young. From what I'm reading here it sounds like he grew into a man much like the teenager I remember, happy, generous and a joy to be around. We all go too soon, rejoice in the time we have together. From my family to yours, love and sympathy.
Greg & Kathy Lavigne (Gregory, Marissa, Danielle, Brendon)
July 20, 2009
Hey Vinnie (bobarino), I miss you so much, I can't believe I won't be able to see your smile or hear your voice. I hope you know how much I love you and was always so proud to have you as my big brother. I know that you will always be looking down upon me and I hope that I will always make you proud. You have been an awesome brother, uncle, son and friend too many. May you rest in peace and find comfort in the arms of god. I will always love you and miss you, your little sis, Renee
July 20, 2009
Though I knew you only a short while, you will stay in my heart forever. Your smile and sparklings eyes will be greatly missed by all your friends and family.
You'll always be my favorite Silver Lake Pirate
July 20, 2009
Patty Steadman
July 20, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Heather Ann Alpin
July 20, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dyann Pugliese
July 20, 2009
We were stunned to hear of Cousin Vince's death. I can still see him dancing with the cousins at Scott and Kim's wedding several years ago. We all had such a good time. No matter how much time had passed in seeing him, he always made us feel that he was so very happy to see us again.
To Aunt Marlene, Uncle Joe & Beth, Julie & Renee - there are no words that can express our sorrow. Please know that we are all feeling your despair and disbelief.
Love,
Dyann and Allen Pugliese
July 20, 2009
Vince, what a great guy. I have enjoyed the short time with you. You are the guy who can always make everyone smile. Look out for the positive. You will be greatly missed and forever be in the hearts of many. Thank you for all you have given us.
Malissa
Cheryl Barnes
July 20, 2009
Joe, Marlene, Julie, and Renee,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May the memories bring you comfort.
Vinny and Brenda, Ugly Christmas Sweater Party 2008
Staci S Alpers
July 19, 2009
Words can not descibe the loss that many of us are feeling. Vince was one of the nicest guys you'd ever meet. Willing to do anything for anyone! Always a ray of sunshine. The loss of our dear Vinny will be felt for a very long time. May you rest in Peace Vinny, until we meet again. My deepest sympathy to the Pugliese Family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for sharing such a wonderful guy!
JP
July 19, 2009
Vinnie, my heart aches and I feel so empty, I love you, and I will miss you forever,You have made my life so special, we had alot of fun, friends and memories together, and as the years passed,and we built our lives, it was just like yesterday when we got together. I'm so happy for all the wonderful friends you had, I know some, heard you talk highly of all and would like to always share memories and happiness that you brought into our lives. I wish you could have stayed with us longer, there was so many times of our lives we didn't cover. I know you are in a better place watching us all, never to say a bad word about anyone and always a super smile on your face. I love you and will miss you forever. ROCK ON!! AND DANCE LIKE YOUR IN THE 80'S, it's ok we can air guitar too!!
July 19, 2009
Dear Marlene and Family,
Ken called us about your loss, we are so sorry! His daughter Kristie read it in the paper there. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincere Sympathies, Karen & Vern Perry
Sheryl Early
July 19, 2009
Vince, I will miss your wonderful smile and hugs. I can't begin to count how many bad days were made better just because you asked how my day went. Thank you for all the times you helped me on projects around my house. You will be missed.
To the Publiese family, my deepest condolences.
D S
July 19, 2009
My sincere sympathy. As a classmate of Vince's at T.C. Senior High, I remember Vince as a gentle soul. I wish you all peace during this difficult time. Rest well Vince.
REBECCA ROBINSON
July 19, 2009
I Rebecca Robinson will miss you so much you always were so kind to me I WON't FORGET U REBECCA
July 19, 2009
Thinking of Vinny's family. You are a great guy Vinny.
-Mollie and Becky
lori riebschleger
July 19, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Vince's passing. His big smile will be missed by many!
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all,
Lori Somero-Riebschleger
barbara boehmer
July 19, 2009
i was so shocked when i read vince's obit. he and i were good friends in high school and for awhile after, where we sort of lost touch. It doesn't make it any easier to take just because you haven't seen someone in quite awhile. I'm so sad, God Bless the Pugliese family, my prayers are with you...Barbara Boehmer (Lamia)
Angela Pugliese
July 19, 2009
Uncle Joe and family,
I am so sorry to hear of Vincent's passing. It has been many years since I have seen the famiy, but there has always been a place in my heart for my dad's brothers and sisters and my fond memories of my cousins. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
July 19, 2009
Joe, Beth and family-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Take this time to come together and comfort each other. Remember the good times to get through these hard ones.
My prayers and sympathy-
Jen Sienkiewicz
e s
July 19, 2009
I thought I saw your face today,
in the sparkle of the morning sun.
And then I heard the angel say,
"Their work on earth is done."
I thought I heard your voice today,
then laugh your hearty laugh.
And then I heard the angel say,
"There's peace dear one at last."
I thought I felt your touch today,
in the breeze that rustled by.
And then I heard the angel say,
"The spirit never dies."
I thought I saw my broken heart,
in the crescent of the moon.
And then I heard the angel say,
"The Lord is coming soon."
I thought that you had left me,
for the stars so far above.
And then I heard the angel say,
"They left you with their love."
I thought that I would miss you so,
and never find my way.
And then I heard the angel say,
"They're with you every day."
"The sun, the wind, the moon, the stars,
will forever be around,
reminding you of the love you shared,
and the peace they've finally found.
July 19, 2009
The entire Valade Family wishes to express our heart felt condolences to the family of Vince. Our family shared many great times with Vince. When ever we needed a hand with a project Vince was the first there to help and the last one to leave. (He didn't want us to screw things up) Vince touched many lives and we are blessed that he made the time to touch ours.
We love you Vinny.
July 19, 2009
Joe, Marlene, Julie & Renee,
There aren't enough words to express the sorrow I feel for all of you with Vincents' passing. He will be missed by many. Take comfort that he now stands in the Grace of God, how awesome for him!
I will always remember Vinnie's big smile, it would brighten up everyones day.
God Bless you.
Robin
Ron and Marilyn Barber
July 19, 2009
Joe and Beth,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your son. May your great memories comfort you in this tough time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Showing 1 - 52 of 52 results
305 Sixth Street, Traverse City, MI 49684
The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.
Read moreWhat kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read moreWe'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read moreIf you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read moreLegacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreThey're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.
Read moreYou may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read moreThese free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read moreSome basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read moreSponsored