William E. Pelham

William E. Pelham obituary, Wilmington, DE

William E. Pelham

William Pelham Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 16, 2024.
William E. Pelham, age 89, of Wilmington, DE, passed away peacefully on November 5, 2024, surrounded by his family and friends.

William led a long and fulfilling life, enriched by the love of his family and friends, and marked by a distinguished professional career. He was predeceased by his mother, Sinah M. (Spicer) Pelham of Seaford, DE, and his father, Edward A. Pelham of Austin, PA.

He is survived by his daughters, Amanda Pelham of Brooklyn Heights, NY, and Susanne Pelham Ward of Wilmington, DE, as well as his cherished grandchildren, Elliot and Shelby Ward.

After graduating from Conrad High School and attending the College of Wooster in Ohio, William earned his degree in Architecture from the University of Pennsylvania. He worked with several architectural firms in Philadelphia, including the office of Louis Kahn and the Philadelphia City Planning Commission, before establishing his own firm, William E. Pelham, AIA, Architect, in Wilmington in 1966. His firm specialized in both residential and institutional projects.

William was the President and Founder of the Community Design Center Inc. of Wilmington, a non-profit organization established in 1970, focusing on low-income neighborhood centers, accessibility for the disabled, and residential projects. His dedication to his profession continued until his recent illness.

He was actively involved in numerous community boards and committees, including the American Institute of Architects, Penn Alumni Club of Delaware, Access Wilmington, Easter Seals, Yes U Can USA Corp., and several advisory councils for the state of Delaware.

A "Celebration of Life" will be held at Calvary Presbyterian Church, 701 Maryland Ave., Wilmington, DE, on December 14, at 11 a.m.

The Pelham and Ward families extend their heartfelt appreciation for the support and care given to William during his final days.

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November 28, 2024

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November 16, 2024

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Anne Eidschun

November 28, 2024

Bill was a compassionate and caring man who loved the city of Wilmington and did everything he could to help those less fortunate. Throughout his career he wanted to help with handicap accessibility and was honored by the city for his efforts many years ago. He always wanted to help people get along. If there were arguments - he was the peace maker who would try and bring the people involved together. He loved being an architect and was so proud to be a graduate of Penn. He was also a loyal football fan and attended many home games throughout his life. He prided himself on his cooking especially his Bolognese sauce! He was kind, thoughtful, and loving and he will be missed by all who knew him. His Himalayan cat Ellie was his forever buddy and I know that she will also miss him. They were inseparable. God Bless you, Bill!

John Holton

November 16, 2024

Where to begin? Which ones to include (and, yes, to exclude). Many, many years ago, there was an annual Penn/Cornell softball game held on the farm of another Penn alumnus. Being as meticulous as he was (after all, none of his buildings ever fell down), Bill ensured that there was always an independent umpire on the field. Good food, good games and just a few contested calls. Bill was all the friend a guy could want. Penn football games, sailing on the Chesepeake, golfing from the Adirondacks to the Carolinas were the fun part. Weekly lunches in all of Wilmington's famed eateries. We were also there for all the other parts of life. I had another great life friend who left way to early. Never thought I'd find another. Thanks, Bill.

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