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GAY, ANTHONY, breathed his last breath on July 2, 2008 at the University of Kentucky Hospital. He was a victim of a hit and run accident. Anthony celebrated his 30th birthday in April. He had recently moved to Lexington, KY from Louisville to be with his parents, Larry and Gayle Gay. Anthony was known by many and loved by all. Anthony was kind hearted and had a gentle soul. He will be missed by his mother, Gayle; his father, Larry; his sister, Adrienne; his brothers, Nick and Dwain; his grandmother, Christine; a host of other aunts, uncles, and cousins; and his many friends. Anthony's funeral is on Tuesday, July 8 at Broadway Baptist Church in Winchester. The Wake is from 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. and the service will follow thereafter.

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Published by Courier-Journal on Jul. 7, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Gay

148 Entries

Mike Brown

July 2, 2020

As I grow older sometimes I cant remember yesterday but every day we hung out and did nothing i can remember like it was yesterday. Def comedy jam and in living color will never go out of style

Ladie Sullivan-Warfield

March 13, 2009

Im so sorry to hear about Anthony, him and I attended Crosby together. He was a great person to be around and will be truly missed. My condolences and prayers go out to your family.

Carrie (Cook) Bales

March 12, 2009

Anthony was a wonderful guy and was always so nice to everyone. He was constantly making people laugh-he will definitley be missed by a lot of people.

Sheril Rolfe

January 17, 2009

Hello Family,
Today is the day that I finely cried for the loss of Anthony a brother figure to me and to many more I'm sure. Addrienne told me months ago but I didn't want to make it real by looking at his MySpace page. I am sorry for taking so long to send my condolences. You all were the most loving family for me when mine was not around. I have many great memories of all of us kickin it in Westminster. I love you all and can't tell you enough how sorry I am for your loss. You always have been and will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all. All my love,
Sheril Rolfe

Kelly Hodges

December 22, 2008

Thinking of your family during the holidays....hoping you are still able to find some peace and joy this time of year. God Bless

Russ Marks

December 21, 2008

hello I like u

Eric Abercrumbie

November 9, 2008

Larry and family I am so very sad to hear of your very precious loss. i just found out about your tragedy on November 9. May GOD continue to bless all of you.

Eric Abercrumbie

Gayle Gay

September 27, 2008

I don't want to say thank you I want to embrace you all and feel his love through your love for him. I miss him more but you knew him better. That's a good thing he was a man and I was hismother in a different place and time. But He grew to be a person had if I was younger he would be my best friend. Never forget who you hang around people think you are like them and wouldI love for someone think I was a friend of Anthony. I have not been able to do this before but I am getting stronger. Anthony's death almost took me. Sorry it took me so long to get here. Forever in my heart, Gayle Gay

Gayle Gay

September 26, 2008

David you were a good friend, I am only able to do this now. My saddest has prevented me from writing before. I love you Anthony's Mom

Gayle Gay

September 26, 2008

Tracy this is the first time I have been able to do this I miss you like a niece and thank you so much for writing. I miss him so much. I love you too and your family was like my family 'gayle

Gayle Gay

September 26, 2008

you are the first I have answered because you were the first he connected with and fell was the first real friend outside his family. Thank you please call again. Love Mrs. Gay

WaShonda Foote

August 17, 2008

To the Gay Family,

I am so sorry to hear about Anthony. Right off memories of when you guys live in Berkley Hills, and he and Nick and my Newphews Karis and Tre were up and down the street ...back and forth to each others house playing nintendo, basketball and and he-man. Those were the good ole days. Anthony was a good guy. He is with you always. May your memories comfort you in your time of sorrow.

Washonda Foote

Karis & Tre Foote (Thompson)

Tara Patton

August 9, 2008

Anthony will be missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers go our to the entire family.

Angela Bluhm

August 6, 2008

I am so sad to hear of this tragedy. Since my family no longer lives in KY we heard the news from Marcus Marshall.
I want you to know you guys are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I had words of wisdom but all I can say is that we are praying for you. It is hard to understand why Anthony and my brother had to be taken at such young ages. Breaks my heart.
May God be with you.

Bev Bluhm

August 4, 2008

Gayle and family,
Angela came across Marcus Marshall on My Space and he told her about Anthony.
We are so sorry. Know we are sending our love your way!
Our boys were to young,

Jared Nichols

August 4, 2008

I just wanted to say that I am truly sorry for your family’s loss. I did not know Anthony but I knew him through stories told by Nick. Nick and I worked at the Bose Store at FlatIrons mall for several years. Nick and I being the younger brothers in the family would share memories of our older brothers. When Nick spoke of Anthony, it was always with a smile about their funny times together. From the way Nick described him, he must have been a charismatic, warm-hearted individual. I also know that he was a great big brother to Nick from the way he told passionate stories of Anthony. It saddens me to hear that he has past at such an early age. I wish your family the best through this period. I wanted to share my memories with your family. My condolences to your family and friends for such a loss.

Respectively yours,

Jared Nichols

Marcus Marshall

July 31, 2008

I just want to let the family know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Carol & Dennis Carrithers

July 31, 2008

Anthony's mark is life is not found in the love he gave but is truly shown by the love felt for him by all the people he knew. We pray for healing for his family and that justice will be found in this tragedy.

David Tilford

July 30, 2008

Gay Family,
I am deeply saddened to hear about Anthony. I knew him since middle school and he was always a very kind person. He will be missed.

Neal Mcmillen

July 29, 2008

Anthony, you will live on in all of us and that is a wonderful thing.

ARC

July 28, 2008

May God bless and keep you during this time.

Sarah Morris

July 27, 2008

Gay Family,
Your family is in my deepest thoughts and prays.Anthony was full of life and smiles, and I hope that it caries on forever through the rest of his family.

Jody Bailey

July 25, 2008

Larry

I know I havent talked to you in a while, but I wanted you and Gail to know that you are both in our prayers.

Jody Bailey

The Warner's Warner's

July 24, 2008

My god be with you.
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Faye (Pittman) Williams

July 22, 2008

Larry, Gayle & Family
I was saddened to learn of the loss of your son. I pray that God’s comfort, peace, and love will constantly surround you, Adrienne, Nick, Dwain and all of Anthony’s loved ones during this season of sorrow. My deepest sympathy.

Amp

July 18, 2008

Meg and Anthony

July 18, 2008

Anthony, Dad, and Nick

July 18, 2008

Audrey Hudson French

July 18, 2008

Gayle and family, it seems like just a little while ago that Anthony was just a little kid running through the house in Louisville. I haven't spoken to you all in a while, but you have been in my thoughts and now in my prayers. I just happenend upon this news and it simply broke my heart. I know this is the toughest thing you've ever faced, but stay strong and feel free to contact me if you need ANYTHING.

Lee and Mary Ann Gros

July 18, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort and peace in the love of your family, friends, and faith.

Madie Crawford

July 17, 2008

Larry,Gayle & Family,
May the love, strength,and comfort of God's Grace be with you and your family. Please know that my prayers are with you all. God will take care of you.

Stephanie Brown

July 17, 2008

To my Dearest family,and friends, Some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

FROM A AUNT WHO LOST HER NEPHEW AT ONLY 18 YEARS OLD. I DON'T KNOW THE FAMILY OF ANTHONY BUT I DO KNOW YOUR LOST. I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOURS!

Patricia West

July 17, 2008

Larry & Gayle & Family,
You will remain in our prayers. We love you and wish for you to have the strength to allow God to guide you and help you deal with your pain and sorrow and to grow in His word.

Kimberly Fuchs

July 16, 2008

Anthony you will never be forgotten. We all love you and miss you. To the Gay family, you will be in my prayers for ever.Keep your heads up and your heart higher, that it where he is so keep it with him. In Gods name. Amen

Dina Newton

July 16, 2008

Rest In Peace Anthony...

Go Forth in peace
Don't fear the darkness
Your life and ours
Are one in the Lord
Though you don't know this road
He walks before you
And waits ahead with open arms
To welcome you.

So lift your eyes
Set down your burden
Make your step light
And greet this day with joy.

You carried the light
and gave to all who met you
And take the same light home.

You live in our hearts
As you live in the love of the lord
Wherever you go
you'll never be alone.

His is the peace
That passes understanding.

His is the way
that leads beyond the dark.

Though we don't know the road
he walks beside us now
His cloak upon out shoulders
To warm us thorough the night.

So we leave the land we
We've come to love
And fallow his Voice
under the crisp new stars.

When we are weary
and can not face the morning
He carries us safely Within his loving arms.

Where ever we go now
Were only going home.
I love and miss you SO much, I'll never forget you or the memories we've shared. R.I.P

Jacquelyn and Joe Mallozzi

July 16, 2008

Joe and I are so sorry for your loss. Nick spoke of Anthony with great admiration, fondness, and respect. He told me that Anthony was his best friend. When I see pictures of your family at Nick and Megs, I see what joy your bring each other. I know Nick and Anthony shared something very special and that closeness is reflected in his relationship with Meghan. Anthony will always be in their thoughts and hearts. I pray for God to comfort you and your family.

Clarice Jenkins

July 16, 2008

The Gay family is in my thoughts and prayers daily. My deepest condolences to Nick and family during this painful time.

Katie Smith

July 15, 2008

Amp- you and the family are in my thoughts and prayers. Nick and I have recently gotten back in touch and I wish more than anything that I could be reconnecting with you. Too many memories to laugh about. I will think of you always and do nothing but smile!!

Mike Mallozzi

July 15, 2008

So sorry for your loss. I was looking forward to meeting the rest of the Gay family and am very disappointed I won't be able to get to know Anthony.

Ashley Jaggers

July 14, 2008

Anthony was such an old soul, with so much energy and charisma. Gone, but not forgotten. God bless him and God bless you and your family. Much love.

Raj Manwani

July 14, 2008

Im so sorry for your loss,I been knowing the Gay Family since middle school. Anthony was a good guy,I have seen anthony alot since he was back in Louisville. He will be deeply missed. My prayers go out to the Family. Raj Manwani and the Manwani Family

Kristen White

July 14, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts.

Rolland Andrew Steele, Jr.

July 13, 2008

God’s love and comfort for of all of you. Mrs. Gay, Thank You.

Anthony is found within the basis of that which I believe myself to be. It is my understanding, during and as a function of our life experiences, we gather the aspects for the composition of our character through interactions with others. The exchange of personality and insight achieved during a friendship, or rather to a greater extent, a kinship, spans beyond the tiny pieces of Time that individuals share with one another. Anthony will always exist as a part of those individuals, like me, who he interactively helped to shape, and in Time, as a paid forward part of those individuals whom we will cultivate.

Anthony Gay. Character.

Rolland Steele

EOT

Stewart Wakeley

July 13, 2008

Larry, Gayle & family,
So sorry for your tragic loss. We have been out of town and just heard of the news. Please know you all will be in our thoughts and prayers in the days ahead. The Wakeley family, Stew, Darlene, Adam & Tiffany

Stephanie & Clint Wilson

July 13, 2008

Anthony it was an honor to know you. We loved your great spirit and we will always miss your smile and laughter. Clint and I will always hold your close to our hearts. We love you.

Susan Lawson

July 12, 2008

Anthony was always so sweet and always had a smile on his face that would light up a room. He will be missed by many.

Devin Peterson

July 12, 2008

Anthony you will be missed and my heart goes out to the Gay family.

Nick and Anthony

July 12, 2008

Gayle, Anthony, and Larry

July 12, 2008

Anthony, Gayle, and Jonathan

July 12, 2008

Anthony, Adrienne, and Nick

July 12, 2008

Anthony and his parents

July 12, 2008

Back in the day Anthony

July 12, 2008

Anthony Gay

July 12, 2008

Nick and Gay family, I am so sorry for your loss, I will never forget the times that you brought me into your home and were so kind to me. Anthony was such a warm hearted guy. I will keep you in my prayers.
Lindsay Barker

Michael Brown

July 11, 2008

Words don't really express the pain. Anthony was a brother to us all. I love you and I'll keep you in my prayers. When I heard the news I couldn't hold back the tears and I want you to know, Anthony, that I know you're in a better place but I'll see you when I get there too. I was proud and honored to call you my friend. HEY NICK, ADRIENE, GAYLE, LARRY - If you read this, PLEASE CONTACT ME. I love and miss you all. Here's my info:
Michael Brown 801-725-9889
[email protected]
753 South 1200 West
Ogden UT 84404

Jerrod Hayden

July 11, 2008

Sorry for your loss and the loss of a good friend. your family will be in my prayers.

Randy & Beverly Minnich

July 11, 2008

Larry, Gayle and Family--
We are so sorry for your loss! You are in our thoughts and our prayers!! Anthony was one of a kind and will be deeply missed by all....

Mackenzie Hindman Woodward

July 11, 2008

Gay Family,
Anthony was a wonderful and kind person who will be deeply missed. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Amy (Lashley) Pooler

July 10, 2008

Nick - My thoughts are with you and your family. I am very sorry for your loss.

KYRA CHENAULT

July 10, 2008

i love yu fam i was by yur side the whole way nd i sung to yu nd now your gone we gonna find out who did this to yu i promise -kyra-

Deborah Buckley-Simmons

July 10, 2008

I'm sorry for the loss of Anthony my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ashley (Moulin) Ricketts

July 10, 2008

Gay Family,
We are all blessed to have known Anthony. He touched the heart of everyone he met. May peace be with you and may his smile continue to shine.

Julie (Minnich) Lee and Family

July 10, 2008

Gay Family: Anthony was such a kindred spirit and always knew how to brighten someone's day!! I know that he will be greatly missed by all. Our condolenses to the entire family...

Sean Hancock

July 10, 2008

Anthony was such a great person. People sometimes do not have the opportunity to be around such genuine people like the Gay family. What a wonderful time I had during the 5 years we lived across the street from them in Foxgate. People grow up, change, lose contact and move on with their lives in different directions. However, people never forget childhood friends and families that created such great memories. The Gay family was one of those families for me as a child. Anthony will be missed by all. God bless and I am very sorry for your loss.

Suzanne Lowery Briggs

July 9, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Deborah Bolden-McKinney

July 9, 2008

Gayle and Gay, the news of Anthony's passing is absolutely devastating. I think of you always and have kept you all in my heart since you left Athens. I wanted so much to find out how the sweet little ones that I watched as babies were doing and never thought it would be such tragic news when I was finally able to make contact. I am so sorry to hear of Anthony's passing. Please know that we all grieve with you. I pray that God keeps you strong in the days to come. I love you all and miss you more than you'll ever know. Deborah Bolden & Mamie Moon

Lisa Cuadros

July 9, 2008

I am greatly saddened to hear about the great loss at such a short time here. He will be greatly missed.

Laura Sanders

July 9, 2008

It is still such a shock to me. Anthony was and will always be such a great guy. He always had a smile on his face and always made you sure to say hi to me and my son. I always loved that he remembered Mattie's name and would talk to him. God bless you Anthony, you will be missed and I pray for you and your family. Love to you all.

Alice Duff

July 9, 2008

My condolences go out to the entire Gay family. Anthony's loss is felt by us all. As many have already recognized, he always had a smile that would brighten even the worst of days. Nick, I saw Anthony just a few months ago, and I thought that you should know that he went on and on about how proud he was of you. My thoughts a prayers go out to you all.

Kyle McIntosh

July 9, 2008

I can't remeber a time when Anthony didn't have a smile on his face. I have been blessed to know him and his memory will stay in my heat untill we meet on the other side. I love you buddy. My love goes out to Nick and your family.

Travis and Gina Ziegler

July 9, 2008

I knew Anthony as a student at Eastern High School. He was a fun loving and kind hearted person. He will be missed by many. My prayers and thoughts go out to his great family.

Joni (Robinson) LeDoux

July 9, 2008

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Beth Brown

July 8, 2008

Anthony was a kind and caring person. He had a great smile and he always had one on. He will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family.

Dale Brown

July 8, 2008

I am sorry to hear of Anthony's passing. he was always a very warm, kind, and genuine person. He was always fun to be around at Crosby Middle and Eastern High. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this difficult time.

Ted Green

July 8, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with Nick and the rest of the Gay family. I am truly sorry about your loss.

robby wine

July 8, 2008

I am deeply to have learned that Anthony is no longer with us. He was a great person and came from a great family. My condolences to all of Anthony's family and friends

Lauren Salome & TJ Langley

July 8, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Gay family.

Jason Stanford and Tara, Adam, and Gracen Russell

July 8, 2008

Anthony was always a wonderful friend and lived every day to its fullest. He will be greatly missed by all who were blessed to know him.

Eric Bowers

July 8, 2008

Adrienne and family,
I'm sorry for your loss. Like everyone said, that smile that your brother always had is unforgettable. You're in my prayers.
Eric B

Mony Riles

July 8, 2008

I will always remember Anthony's smile. He was always so positive

Angell Troxler

July 8, 2008

Anthony was such a joy to be around. Forever will you be remembered this way. May God look over you and your family and give them the strength to get through this.

Chase Adams

July 8, 2008

Anthony was such a great person and will be missed dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys.

Dacia/Debbie Sherrill

July 8, 2008

TO the Gay Family:
No words can take away the pain you are feeling at this time, we have truly lost an amazing person. Anthony always made you feel good just being around him and his smile was contagious. He will be missed by all who had to honor of knowing him. Our thoughts are with you all during this time!

Tommy, MyEsha & LeBron Calhoun

July 8, 2008

Gay Family-
Anthony will truely be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will always love and miss you Ant! We will never forget that bright smile that you always displayed!

Bethany Jones

July 8, 2008

Anthony was a great man. I always had a lot of fun when I was around him. He could light up the room with his smile. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of his family and friends. He was taken too soon from us. This is a great loss.

David Truong

July 8, 2008

To the Gay Family,
I was so shocked to hear about what had happened. He was my dog and will be missed. I remember all the good times we used to have over at the house on foxgate. i am out of town and very sorry i cant come to the funeral. My condolences

Shawn & Heather(Waddle) Hockersmith

July 8, 2008

We will miss Anthony deeply. Our thoughts are with Nick and the family through this tough time. All of his friends and family now have an amazing guardian angel.

Jamie Osman

July 8, 2008

Anthony will be truly missed! He's the one person that when you were having a bad day all he would have to do is flash that smile and everything would be ok! He touched a lot of us and we will always remember his kindness and his contagious smile! I am so sorry for your loss.

Brigid Sakie

July 8, 2008

How quickly everything happened...it still doesn't seem real.

To Anthony's family, I can only say, I'm so sorry and thank you for letting us share your beautiful son.

And to Anthony, May the heavenly angels watch over your sleeping head all through the night...Love you.

Ellen Woods Ramey

July 8, 2008

Each and every time I saw Anthony it was with a smile on his face and a kind word in his heart. He was a gentleman in every sense of the word. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Gay family and his many friends.

Lace Houston

July 7, 2008

Words can not express the way Anthony was loved in this life. He has touched so many people with his smile, one could not help but to love him. Anthony will be deeply missed. Love you!!!!! Lace

Crystal Spalding

July 7, 2008

I encountered both Nick and Anthony through my middle and high school years. I am so sorry for the loss to your family. You are in my thoughts. May the comfort of His love and the support of family and friends surround you right now.

Tiffany Meaux

July 7, 2008

Anthony will be missed dearly, he was a great neighbor and friend. The entire Gay family is in my prayers and thoughts. May you rest in peace and God Bless...Anthony.

Ivan and Alicia Nunez

July 7, 2008

Im so sorry for your loss and my heart and prayers go out to all the family members and friends of Anthony. He touched many lives. Let God heal and comfort all of our hearts during this time.

Susan Jenks

July 7, 2008

I will forever remember Anthony with a smile on his face, and the respect he would show me whenever I would see him. To you Mr and Mrs Gay..you were great role models for the all the kids Anthony grew up with, and just want your family to know that he touched a lot of hearts. I believe that there is more to life and know that Anthony is learning how to use his new set of wings to keep an eye on all!
Terry, myself, Oliver, Ben, Laura and Taziah

Christina Lippert-Sweeney

July 7, 2008

I am so sorry for your family's loss. Please know that you are in my toughts and prayers at this difficult time. He will definitely be remembered in everyone's hearts and thoughts everyday.

Kelly House

July 7, 2008

I will always have fond memories of Anthony. He was such a happy-go-lucky person and I can't remember a time when he wasn't smiling. He will be missed and never forgotten. God Bless.

James & Jessica (Hinkle) Embry

July 7, 2008

To the Gay Family, we are praying you all during this difficult time and sending our heartfelt sympathy. Anthony was a good guy. We were fellow classmates at Eastern High.

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